EPTOn May 18 2016 14:33 IgnE wrote:
social media is gross just delete your facebook
social media is gross just delete your facebook
Facebook maybe but LinkedIn can be pretty useful amd important.
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RvB
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Facebook maybe but LinkedIn can be pretty useful amd important. | ||
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bloodwhore~
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She is coming to my place this friday most likely. I'm hype! I seem to have gotten a date for tonight with another girl as well. She is working until 19:00 so she would get in touch afterwards. I'll update later, we'll see what happens. | ||
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B.I.G.
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LemOn
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And in Sweden legal=15years old, I think under 18 just gets annoying a bit in terms of going to places etc. Also you should take responsibility for creating interesting conversations, I'd bet you suck at it  Also the second girl I wouldn't put hopes into much, she knew what time she could meet you beforehand, shows signs of low interest when she says she'll be in touch | ||
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B.I.G.
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bloodwhore~
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If she's legal... if you're two consenting adults... then don't worry about the age. Maybe you'll have less in common with her if she's much younger than you, but you can always just try and have fun/ see where the night takes you. Enjoy! This makes me feel better  your age divided by 2 + 7 bloodwhore. She is just a few months away from that. Eh, it's fine.  On May 18 2016 21:28 LemOn wrote: My girlfriend is 8 years younger, I wouldn't commit to someone much older than that personally. And in Sweden legal=15years old, I think under 18 just gets annoying a bit in terms of going to places etc. Also you should take responsibility for creating interesting conversations, I'd bet you suck at it Also the second girl I wouldn't put hopes into much, she knew what time she could meet you beforehand, shows signs of low interest when she says she'll be in touch I'm not really interested in going drinking with her, I don't think she is either. I wouldn't say either of us is at fault. While I'm not great at small talk I wouldn't say I suck. Just hard to find subjects she finds interesting as well. As the date went on it conversation got more interesting. She will finish high school as I finish my masters hehe. Well I wouldn't really be bothered if she doesn't want to do it today, it wasn't "planned". I just asked her if she wanted to do something 2 hours ago, and 15 minutes after that I thought "maybe she is free tonight". She definitely seems interested. Edit: Well you were correct that I shouldn't get my hopes up She had to work overtime, but she still wants to see me, so we'll probably see each other in the weekend instead. | ||
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
On May 18 2016 21:35 B.I.G. wrote: may i ask how old you are lemon? 29, gf 21 | ||
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DarkPlasmaBall
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On May 19 2016 08:53 LemOn wrote: Also subjects are really simple - emotionally charged topics that reveal her traits. Like first day at school, what's her biggest fear, first memory, last cool thing she's done she can remember, her passions ... ...her favorite brand of apple juice, the last time she wet her bed, which monster is hiding in her closet, the last temper tantrum she threw at her mommy, etc. | ||
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Cam Connor
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LemOn
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On May 19 2016 09:04 DarkPlasmaBall wrote: ...her favorite brand of apple juice, the last time she wet her bed, which monster is hiding in her closet, the last temper tantrum she threw at her mommy, etc. This is really random and misses the point, but since it's been a while since your first date kinda understandable. The questions I mentioned are actually pulled from multiple pua and dating coach sources, and tried and tested on multiple 1st dates by yours truly. | ||
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States46686 Posts
On May 19 2016 19:14 LemOn wrote: This is really random and misses the point, but since it's it's been a while since your first date kinda understandable It was a simple joke at dating someone who's really, really young | ||
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
then clearly just jealous of bloodwhore's youngling ;D | ||
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TheDougler
Canada8324 Posts
. Still on cloud nine, still "behind pace" in the eyes of some I'm sure. Details to come after our next date tonight. Also this was hilarious: On May 19 2016 09:04 DarkPlasmaBall wrote: ...her favorite brand of apple juice, the last time she wet her bed, which monster is hiding in her closet, the last temper tantrum she threw at her mommy, etc. | ||
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Acrofales
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LemOn
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DPB just trolled the troll  | ||
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Laurens
Belgium4558 Posts
On May 19 2016 08:53 LemOn wrote: Also subjects are really simple - emotionally charged topics that reveal her traits. Like first day at school, what's her biggest fear, first memory, last cool thing she's done she can remember, her passions ... I think this has to be a culture thing as well. If I were to ask someone in Belgium how her first day of school was, on a first date, she'd think I'm fucking weird. The other way around it would feel really weird too, like she prepared some interview questions and is firing them off at me. First memory and passions are the only ones out of those questions I would like to answer, and also have an interesting answer to. I personally keep it simple and focus on the present. What hobbies, what do you study, what do you want to do when you finish studying, where do you live, siblings, how did you meet mutual friend X, blabla. I realise this can also come across as an interview but these questions feel more "natural", you know? The only answer I have to "what is your biggest fear?" is "what the fuck?" xD | ||
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