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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
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wherebugsgo
Japan10647 Posts
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IgnE
United States7681 Posts
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GreenHorizons
United States23238 Posts
On June 13 2015 13:38 IgnE wrote: It's just funny to me to hear a dude talk about finding a "fuck buddy" when he's a 20 something virgin. ikr. I'm not going to dog the guy or anything but I'm looking forward to hearing how this turns out. Maybe things are different since the last time I found a fb. Admittedly it was before tinder was a thing. | ||
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
On June 13 2015 13:38 IgnE wrote: It's just funny to me to hear a dude talk about finding a "fuck buddy" when he's a 20 something virgin. Haha why? I'm 22. | ||
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shouldbeworking
946 Posts
Babysteps buddy. I think you mean you just want to find a casual encounter. Fuck buddies would generally be a mutual relationship where you both fuck well enough for each other. Then just meet up to fuck regularly. If you're a virgin the assumption is you're more of a nub and not really experience enough to maintain that sort of relationship. Who knows though, you could be a stallion out of the gate. Have you been hitting the gym and practicing your kegels? If not there's always coke and Viagra. | ||
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Ange777
Germany1164 Posts
On June 12 2015 17:14 bloodwhore~ wrote: Being a virgin isn't something that has bothered me at all, if I wanted just to lose it I would have done it a long time ago. However now I don't really give a shit anymore. I'm more worried that it will scare her away. Do you think I should tell her before or after. During is probably a very bad idea. Please please please tell her before! | ||
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
On June 13 2015 16:32 shouldbeworking wrote: Babysteps buddy. I think you mean you just want to find a casual encounter. Fuck buddies would generally be a mutual relationship where you both fuck well enough for each other. Then just meet up to fuck regularly. I def don't just want to fuck a random girl just to have it over with, couldn't care less about the "virgin" thing. With the amount of sex I plan of having my intention is not to be bad for very long either. Well we'll see how this turns out, I'll probably tell her once we have a set date planned. Honestly don't know everyone are getting their panties in a twist. It's amusing. | ||
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States44351 Posts
On June 13 2015 17:04 bloodwhore~ wrote: I def don't just want to fuck a random girl just to have it over with, couldn't care less about the "virgin" thing. With the amount of sex I plan of having my intention is not to be bad for very long either. Well we'll see how this turns out, I'll probably tell her once we have a set date planned. Honestly don't know everyone are getting their panties in a twist. It's amusing. Yeah I think it's just the way you worded it that seemed a bit over-the-top, considering your lack of experience in the field. I think shouldbeworking explained what you really mean anyway, and I think we can all figure out what you're talking about, but semantically your original statement sounded a little funny. I think "casual encounter" is a more appropriate term to use than "fuck buddy" if you're not looking for a serious relationship, not looking to only booty call/ fuck like rabbits, but keeping the idea open for sex if it gets there. | ||
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killa_robot
Canada1884 Posts
On June 12 2015 17:14 bloodwhore~ wrote: Okay so the first girl in my last post has not answered. I guess she is not interested. I did however take contact with yet another girl who started talking to me before. Told her that I wanted a fuck buddy and she seemed interested, we're going to meet up one day when we are both free. UHHHH busted. Not for much longer though hopefully  There is no stopping this yolo train. Being a virgin isn't something that has bothered me at all, if I wanted just to lose it I would have done it a long time ago. However now I don't really give a shit anymore. I'm more worried that it will scare her away. Do you think I should tell her before or after. During is probably a very bad idea. The correct answer is no, don't tell her. There's no reason to. If you do and she knows you're just looking for sex, she's going to get very suspicious that it's just so you can lose your virginity. Google how to have sex if you really think you're inept, but it's not exactly rocket science. | ||
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Laurens
Belgium4544 Posts
You can claim it's not rocket science but let's be honest, you're not gonna make a great impression on your first go  Someone looking for fuckbuddies on Tinder probably has certain expectations. If you don't tell her beforehand, chances are she'll figure it out herself, or just think you're terrible in bed. Pretty awkward for everyone involved. That said, I don't think it's trivial to just find a fuckbuddy on Tinder lol, not in Belgium at least. Let us know how it goes xD | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32058 Posts
On June 13 2015 17:04 bloodwhore~ wrote: With the amount of sex I plan of having my intention is not to be bad for very long either. THINK LIKE A CHAMPION may your cock's aim be true | ||
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Fi0na
0 Posts
On June 17 2015 00:29 QuanticHawk wrote: THINK LIKE A CHAMPION may your cock's aim be true "A man's reach must exceed his grasp, or what's a penis for?" I loved that show. | ||
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
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Acrofales
Spain17993 Posts
I mean, you might be Podrick Payne, but more likely you're like the vast majority of people the first time: fumbling around awkwardly at first, and then not being able to control yourself and orgasm after 20 seconds. | ||
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GreenHorizons
United States23238 Posts
On June 17 2015 05:23 Acrofales wrote: That is not very surprising. She thinks you're some hot stuff, wanting to be fuckbuddies, and then you say "well, before we have sex, you should know that I'm a virgin". That's like the opposite of what you were broadcasting (consciously or not) before. I mean, you might be Podrick Payne, but more likely you're like the vast majority of people the first time: fumbling around awkwardly at first, and then not being able to control yourself and orgasm after 20 seconds. I feel like I would be expecting her to ask for a d*ck pic? Maybe that's just my schema for these types of situations but I'd frankly be surprised if she met up on Saturday without an impressive one lol. Of course blood's also done the opposite of what I would expect so I could be way off. | ||
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zdarr
France375 Posts
On June 13 2015 11:43 GoTuNk! wrote: I think you should tell her ONLY if she seems really experienced and the kind of girl who would like to take control in the situation. Sex is both exiting and very scary for woman, even not virgin ones, and saying something like that will def put most of them off; you can tell her afterwards. why only ? I was kinda stressed about it but i told the girl and she was fine with it. It amused her it stressed me. I told my story to a lot of different girl since then and they all agreed to say they couldn't care less. Girls care less about that then men (meeting a virgin girl) in my experience | ||
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
I mean, you might be Podrick Payne, but more likely you're like the vast majority of people the first time: fumbling around awkwardly at first, and then not being able to control yourself and orgasm after 20 seconds. Yeah, I told her this in the text I sent her. I feel like I would be expecting her to ask for a d*ck pic? Maybe that's just my schema for these types of situations but I'd frankly be surprised if she met up on Saturday without an impressive one lol. Of course blood's also done the opposite of what I would expect so I could be way off. Yeah... I'm not going to send a d*ck pic, even if she were to ask for one. It's not like there is a 100% we're going to have sex either, would be somewhat weird to decide that over text when we have never seen eachother even though I have said that it exactly what I want. I'm not 100% if I want to fuck her since I haven't seen her in real. Real life differs from pictures. | ||
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JoeCool
Germany2520 Posts
Now the first problem is her relationship status, she wants to break up with her "boyfriend" - or already broke up with him - but according to him they are still a couple. So it's basically like this: she says she is single and he says she's not. Second problem, the guy is a monster. He is like 6.7 ft (2 metres) high and 286 lbs (130kgs) heavy, indepted, a bouncer and has already been to jail multiple times. On one hand and after all the things I've heard from my friend I'm convinced that they are not a real couple anymore, it's basically just him beeing an agressive prick and she's scared. Which is why I believe that their might be a chance. On the other hand ... I'm not so sure about her. And I kinda love my life so I do not want to end it soonish. | ||
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
On June 17 2015 03:23 bloodwhore~ wrote: So I told her today. Told I never had sex, but explained why etc. Noooo! Don't explain why, etc. Just state it as a fact, be proud of it, like it's normal. Only if she starts asking, showing interest tell her. With next chick tell her only after you see her in person too imo. | ||
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