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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
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Grobyc
Canada18410 Posts
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SixStrings
Germany2046 Posts
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SixStrings
Germany2046 Posts
On January 04 2015 06:52 JoeCool wrote: Plot twist: All these "girls" are actually secondary accounts. On a serious note; As an european it's actually very easy to get girls in the USA. I've been to the states twice in my life, in 2007 I've attended a high-school in Westfield - NJ and in 2013 we did a round trip at the west coast (LA, LV, SF etc.). During both visits, lots of woman actually hit on me & my friends. In 2007 it took me like two weeks and I had about ten new female "friends" plus two dates with different women. I didn't even approach them. Suddenly there were just... there. Two of my friends even got laid in the first week. In 2013 it was similar, one evening we were sitting in a whirlpool having couple of beers when a girl joined us out of nowhere. She started talking and after one hour my friend took her to his room... and got laid. This lady didn't even ask for our names, it's like you just have to mention that you're from germany and that's it. Really looking forward to my year in the US. | ||
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Amnesty
United States2054 Posts
On January 04 2015 06:30 lastpuritan wrote: okcupid works for casual sex but dont expect something real. we created 2 accounts one is real and the other is charming prince. real one is a good guy, a white american who is keeping up his fathers affairs in a domestic trade company, aged 27, has a car and a flat in NYC, and he is handsome, hitting gym, wears classy, enjoying cocktails in local pubs with friends etc. what we text to girls were almost making me wet, what a good guy, what a husband to be, what a caring father. and the fake one, an italian dude in nyc who appeared to travel the city for a while and looking for local hot girls to attract him, seduce him during this visit to make his time "worthy" only. he enjoys wine and drugs, total jerk with the utter philosophy of carpe diem almost yoloswagpeacesexromance! motto. man, first guy gets lots of profile visits and messages from mandarin or black girls in nyc but NOT A SINGLE FUCK from matching / status equal girls while the FUCKING GREASY HAIR JACKASS gets tons of em every week and most of the messages are pickup lines that girls say EWWWWWW WE HATE . "hey hottie wanna ride?" "hey i wanna try u" "sup babe u up for good" "u italians really good in bed they say prove!" man. everything. sometimes wall of texts that how are they ready to come to the italy to start a new life. and THEY ARE REALLY BEAUTIFUL and probably you wont name all of them as sluts, while some really are sluts lel. actually one girl is sending us messages everyday and states that our non replying attitude is turning her on badly day by day, and we sent a message to this girl from good guy, no answers... we r thinking over going public on imgur but this may cause problems so we are not eager to.. fuck life. fuck standarts. fuck woman logic. What are those profile links? I assume you guys used the same images only the content has changed. It'd be interesting to compare and contrast lol | ||
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lastpuritan
United States540 Posts
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IgnE
United States7681 Posts
On January 04 2015 06:30 lastpuritan wrote: okcupid works for casual sex but dont expect something real. we created 2 accounts one is real and the other is charming prince. real one is a good guy, a white american who is keeping up his fathers affairs in a domestic trade company, aged 27, has a car and a flat in NYC, and he is handsome, hitting gym, wears classy, enjoying cocktails in local pubs with friends etc. what we text to girls were almost making me wet, what a good guy, what a husband to be, what a caring father. and the fake one, an italian dude in nyc who appeared to travel the city for a while and looking for local hot girls to attract him, seduce him during this visit to make his time "worthy" only. he enjoys wine and drugs, total jerk with the utter philosophy of carpe diem almost yoloswagpeacesexromance! motto. man, first guy gets lots of profile visits and messages from mandarin or black girls in nyc but NOT A SINGLE FUCK from matching / status equal girls while the FUCKING GREASY HAIR JACKASS gets tons of em every week and most of the messages are pickup lines that girls say EWWWWWW WE HATE . "hey hottie wanna ride?" "hey i wanna try u" "sup babe u up for good" "u italians really good in bed they say prove!" man. everything. sometimes wall of texts that how are they ready to come to the italy to start a new life. and THEY ARE REALLY BEAUTIFUL and probably you wont name all of them as sluts, while some really are sluts lel. actually one girl is sending us messages everyday and states that our non replying attitude is turning her on badly day by day, and we sent a message to this girl from good guy, no answers... we r thinking over going public on imgur but this may cause problems so we are not eager to.. fuck life. fuck standarts. fuck woman logic. What the fuck? You say you are from US but English doesn't seem to be your first language? | ||
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SixStrings
Germany2046 Posts
And of course there are girls on OKC who are just looking for a good time, why is that supposed to be so deplorable? Are you really that mad just because not every girl lusts after some lame, white collar tool who can provide for them? Seriously, the profile you've described sounds awful, like a dime-a-dozen office drone who will bore you with expense-reports and whose biggest struggle in life is when the copier doesn't work properly. Of course he's the wet dream of every girl looking for a baby-daddy, he can provide for them while he is still plenty busy so they can continue fucking profile-2-type guys. Lastly, if you haven't figured it out yet, blacks and Asians are messaging him because making it an interracial relationship would at least make it slightly exciting. | ||
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SoSexy
Italy3725 Posts
Summer, went out with a girl who had a boyfriend, we made out but then she felt guilty and stayed with him until november. They split up and she contacted me, we went out a couple times and had sex. She had a delay and she thought she was pregnant (ridicolous since condom didn't break and she is not a regular type). The other night we chatted a bit and I said 'we should meet some day': she didn't reply. Yesterday she wrote me 'my period has come' with lot of happy emoticons, to which I replied 'good'. Don't really know what to think! Any ideas? When we went out she used to say that she is very shy and afraid of feeling inadequate since she is younger. Should I pursue her or just wait? | ||
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Shotcoder
United States2316 Posts
On January 07 2015 07:04 SoSexy wrote: It's been a while but I want some opinions on this. Note that I am not looking for a serious relationship, just dating. Summer, went out with a girl who had a boyfriend, we made out but then she felt guilty and stayed with him until november. They split up and she contacted me, we went out a couple times and had sex. She had a delay and she thought she was pregnant (ridicolous since condom didn't break and she is not a regular type). The other night we chatted a bit and I said 'we should meet some day': she didn't reply. Yesterday she wrote me 'my period has come' with lot of happy emoticons, to which I replied 'good'. Don't really know what to think! Any ideas? When we went out she used to say that she is very shy and afraid of feeling inadequate since she is younger. Should I pursue her or just wait? What else was said after she told you? Nothing? I mean asking her to see you when she's kinda freaked out about possibly being pregnant even if you think she isn't really isn't a good move. The way you made it sound is that you wanted to hook up again and not actually go hang out on a date. If you like her I don't see why you wouldn't wait it out. But if you also aren't looking for a serious relationship why wait it out? Idk I'm not looking at it from your perspective since I'm opposite in looking for a serious relationship and not just casual dating or hook ups. | ||
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JoeCool
Germany2517 Posts
Edit: Doesn't matter anymore, she cancelled the date. | ||
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lastpuritan
United States540 Posts
On January 06 2015 17:42 IgnE wrote: What the fuck? You say you are from US but English doesn't seem to be your first language? parce qu'elle ne est pas ma langue maternelle. On January 06 2015 20:39 SixStrings wrote: Obviously he's exaggerating / lying. And of course there are girls on OKC who are just looking for a good time, why is that supposed to be so deplorable? Are you really that mad just because not every girl lusts after some lame, white collar tool who can provide for them? Seriously, the profile you've described sounds awful, like a dime-a-dozen office drone who will bore you with expense-reports and whose biggest struggle in life is when the copier doesn't work properly. Of course he's the wet dream of every girl looking for a baby-daddy, he can provide for them while he is still plenty busy so they can continue fucking profile-2-type guys. Lastly, if you haven't figured it out yet, blacks and Asians are messaging him because making it an interracial relationship would at least make it slightly exciting. its not deplorable haha who said it is. i dont even know why i wrote that thing here in the first place. im not forcing any of you to believe something or whatever. | ||
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Ghostcom
Denmark4781 Posts
On January 07 2015 19:54 JoeCool wrote: Feels like things are going downhill again. :-/ Edit: Doesn't matter anymore, she cancelled the date. I read it before you edited it out. Your invitation to that date could easily be paraphrased as "Hey, come to my place so we can have sex" - considering her previous actions it was hardly surprising you got a negative response. | ||
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States43788 Posts
On January 07 2015 07:04 SoSexy wrote: It's been a while but I want some opinions on this. Note that I am not looking for a serious relationship, just dating. Summer, went out with a girl who had a boyfriend, we made out but then she felt guilty and stayed with him until november. They split up and she contacted me, we went out a couple times and had sex. She had a delay and she thought she was pregnant (ridicolous since condom didn't break and she is not a regular type). The other night we chatted a bit and I said 'we should meet some day': she didn't reply. Yesterday she wrote me 'my period has come' with lot of happy emoticons, to which I replied 'good'. Don't really know what to think! Any ideas? When we went out she used to say that she is very shy and afraid of feeling inadequate since she is younger. Should I pursue her or just wait? What I think is that she should stop cheating on boyfriends and you should take a class in sex education. Or just watch Friends: Anyways, apparently she's comfortable enough with you to have sex, so if that's all you're looking for and you two have a mutual attraction to each other sexually, I don't see what the problem is. It sounds like you two already started hooking up, so I'm not sure what you mean by "waiting" as an alternative? | ||
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JoeCool
Germany2517 Posts
On January 07 2015 22:38 Ghostcom wrote: I read it before you edited it out. Your invitation to that date could easily be paraphrased as "Hey, come to my place so we can have sex" - considering her previous actions it was hardly surprising you got a negative response. Yeah maybe... Kinda funny because two women stopped dating me because we did not have sex after the first/second date... and this time I'm too fast/want too much. | ||
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farvacola
United States18818 Posts
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Ghostcom
Denmark4781 Posts
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bookwyrm
United States722 Posts
On January 07 2015 23:18 farvacola wrote: Got a date on Friday off okcupid, gonna be interesting to say the least. have fun with that :D | ||
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xDaunt
United States17988 Posts
On January 07 2015 23:18 farvacola wrote: Got a date on Friday off okcupid, gonna be interesting to say the least. You definitely have the right idea fishing in a pond other than the law school. | ||
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bookwyrm
United States722 Posts
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xDaunt
United States17988 Posts
On January 08 2015 04:09 bookwyrm wrote: LOL no love for the lady lawyers? PM me if you want the details. I got banned last time I elaborated, even though the other lawyers/law students with whom I was discussing the issue agreed with me 100%. It's just an unfortunate result of the nature of the field. If nothing else, it's just a bad idea to date in an environment where everyone knows each other. Just know that if things go badly, you're stuck being around that person until you're out of law school. | ||
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