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On April 23 2013 01:05 Wombat_NI wrote:Show nested quote +On April 22 2013 17:21 McBengt wrote:
Wombat you sigged me! I feel confused, ebullient, and mildly sexually aroused. Good that worked, I thought my PM to you might have had that effect but you were impervious to it for some reason :p
Haha didn't see it, I usually check PMs every three months or so. That looks positively succulent, the supple limbs, the ripe skin, the onset of early baldness.
I hope this child-unit will produce recurring feelings of emotional contentment in you and your reproduction-contract liaison.
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On April 22 2013 09:43 Zooper31 wrote:
Well fuck chicks. After 3rd date she tells me she's not interested in a relationship and she said she was sorry for any confusion. Politely told her to fuck off. She contacts me through a dating website, spends time with me alone several times and compliments me. I can deal with you telling me it just didn't work out and I'm not your type, that's fine, I can handle rejection. Don't fucking play it off like it was never your intention to get into a relationship, that's just gonna piss me off. Ty for wasting my time and not having the balls to admit it. Welcome to irl /ignore.
I am no longer going to pay for anything for a girl ever until it's the 3rd+ date. I like being chivalrous and all but I'm tired of a girl not having the guts to tell me the truth and just wasting my time and money. I ain't making bank or anything ffs.
why are you going all nutso bc she wasnt interested in having a serious relationship with you??
if you went on 3 dates, she found you interesting enough to consider it. shit doesn't work out sometimes. that doesnt mean you get to freak out on a person like a fucking lunatic because they decided there wasn't much chemistry after a couple dates.
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On April 23 2013 02:52 McBengt wrote:Show nested quote +On April 23 2013 01:05 Wombat_NI wrote:On April 22 2013 17:21 McBengt wrote:
Wombat you sigged me! I feel confused, ebullient, and mildly sexually aroused. Good that worked, I thought my PM to you might have had that effect but you were impervious to it for some reason :p Haha didn't see it, I usually check PMs every three months or so. That looks positively succulent, the supple limbs, the ripe skin, the onset of early baldness. I hope this child-unit will produce recurring feelings of emotional contentment in you and your reproduction-contract liaison.
Rofl, burst out laughing, my partner found it less amusing sadly 
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On April 23 2013 05:00 Wombat_NI wrote:Show nested quote +On April 23 2013 02:52 McBengt wrote:On April 23 2013 01:05 Wombat_NI wrote:On April 22 2013 17:21 McBengt wrote:
Wombat you sigged me! I feel confused, ebullient, and mildly sexually aroused. Good that worked, I thought my PM to you might have had that effect but you were impervious to it for some reason :p Haha didn't see it, I usually check PMs every three months or so. That looks positively succulent, the supple limbs, the ripe skin, the onset of early baldness. I hope this child-unit will produce recurring feelings of emotional contentment in you and your reproduction-contract liaison. Rofl, burst out laughing, my partner found it less amusing sadly
Out of curiosity, was she more upset with me wanting to eat the child, me hitting on you, or me calling her a reproductive liaison?
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Me finding all three hilarious I think
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Then kindly inform her that I will win her heart as surely as I have won yours. I have a way with women you see, my rugged good looks and dark charms never fail to impress.
Indeed, I am, to my knowledge, the only person to have ever managed to get a woman to headbutt him in the nose, fracturing the nosebone as it were, within five minutes of making her acquaintance.
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On April 23 2013 05:24 McBengt wrote:
Then kindly inform her that I will win her heart as surely as I have won yours. I have a way with women you see, my rugged good looks and dark charms never fail to impress.
Indeed, I am, to my knowledge, the only person to have ever managed to get a woman to headbutt him in the nose, fracturing the nosebone as it were, within five minutes of making her acquaintance.
Was it because you told her you wanted to eat her child?
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On April 23 2013 05:57 Grumbels wrote:Show nested quote +On April 23 2013 05:24 McBengt wrote:
Then kindly inform her that I will win her heart as surely as I have won yours. I have a way with women you see, my rugged good looks and dark charms never fail to impress.
Indeed, I am, to my knowledge, the only person to have ever managed to get a woman to headbutt him in the nose, fracturing the nosebone as it were, within five minutes of making her acquaintance. Was it because you told her you wanted to eat her child?
Actually we were arguing about hockey. She was drunk, and finnish, though I suppose the latter statement makes the first superfluous.
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Finnish can handle their drink though, there must have been more to it than that!
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On April 23 2013 06:43 Wombat_NI wrote:
Finnish can handle their drink though, there must have been more to it than that!
Oh, I have no doubts on that account, she had drunk enough to hospitalize an ogre.
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Argh, double post, a thousand apologies.
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On April 23 2013 04:41 QuanticHawk wrote:Show nested quote +On April 22 2013 09:43 Zooper31 wrote:
Well fuck chicks. After 3rd date she tells me she's not interested in a relationship and she said she was sorry for any confusion. Politely told her to fuck off. She contacts me through a dating website, spends time with me alone several times and compliments me. I can deal with you telling me it just didn't work out and I'm not your type, that's fine, I can handle rejection. Don't fucking play it off like it was never your intention to get into a relationship, that's just gonna piss me off. Ty for wasting my time and not having the balls to admit it. Welcome to irl /ignore.
I am no longer going to pay for anything for a girl ever until it's the 3rd+ date. I like being chivalrous and all but I'm tired of a girl not having the guts to tell me the truth and just wasting my time and money. I ain't making bank or anything ffs. why are you going all nutso bc she wasnt interested in having a serious relationship with you?? if you went on 3 dates, she found you interesting enough to consider it. shit doesn't work out sometimes. that doesnt mean you get to freak out on a person like a fucking lunatic because they decided there wasn't much chemistry after a couple dates.
You have no clue the experience I've had with women so don't judge my reaction to a single case. This is the 4th chick in a row that this has happened to me with now. As I mentioned before, it's called ranting.
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On April 23 2013 06:52 Zooper31 wrote:Show nested quote +On April 23 2013 04:41 QuanticHawk wrote:On April 22 2013 09:43 Zooper31 wrote:
Well fuck chicks. After 3rd date she tells me she's not interested in a relationship and she said she was sorry for any confusion. Politely told her to fuck off. She contacts me through a dating website, spends time with me alone several times and compliments me. I can deal with you telling me it just didn't work out and I'm not your type, that's fine, I can handle rejection. Don't fucking play it off like it was never your intention to get into a relationship, that's just gonna piss me off. Ty for wasting my time and not having the balls to admit it. Welcome to irl /ignore.
I am no longer going to pay for anything for a girl ever until it's the 3rd+ date. I like being chivalrous and all but I'm tired of a girl not having the guts to tell me the truth and just wasting my time and money. I ain't making bank or anything ffs. why are you going all nutso bc she wasnt interested in having a serious relationship with you?? if you went on 3 dates, she found you interesting enough to consider it. shit doesn't work out sometimes. that doesnt mean you get to freak out on a person like a fucking lunatic because they decided there wasn't much chemistry after a couple dates. You have no clue the experience I've had with women so don't judge my reaction to a single case. This is the 4th chick in a row that this has happened to me with now. As I mentioned before, it's called ranting.
You gotta go through the ones you don't need to be with before you find the one you're supposed to be with man.
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On April 23 2013 06:52 Zooper31 wrote:Show nested quote +On April 23 2013 04:41 QuanticHawk wrote:On April 22 2013 09:43 Zooper31 wrote:
Well fuck chicks. After 3rd date she tells me she's not interested in a relationship and she said she was sorry for any confusion. Politely told her to fuck off. She contacts me through a dating website, spends time with me alone several times and compliments me. I can deal with you telling me it just didn't work out and I'm not your type, that's fine, I can handle rejection. Don't fucking play it off like it was never your intention to get into a relationship, that's just gonna piss me off. Ty for wasting my time and not having the balls to admit it. Welcome to irl /ignore.
I am no longer going to pay for anything for a girl ever until it's the 3rd+ date. I like being chivalrous and all but I'm tired of a girl not having the guts to tell me the truth and just wasting my time and money. I ain't making bank or anything ffs. why are you going all nutso bc she wasnt interested in having a serious relationship with you?? if you went on 3 dates, she found you interesting enough to consider it. shit doesn't work out sometimes. that doesnt mean you get to freak out on a person like a fucking lunatic because they decided there wasn't much chemistry after a couple dates. You have no clue the experience I've had with women so don't judge my reaction to a single case. This is the 4th chick in a row that this has happened to me with now. As I mentioned before, it's called ranting.
Four women in a row meet you and instantly decide they don't want to have anything to do with men anymore? :p
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On April 23 2013 07:04 Grumbels wrote:Show nested quote +On April 23 2013 06:52 Zooper31 wrote:On April 23 2013 04:41 QuanticHawk wrote:On April 22 2013 09:43 Zooper31 wrote:
Well fuck chicks. After 3rd date she tells me she's not interested in a relationship and she said she was sorry for any confusion. Politely told her to fuck off. She contacts me through a dating website, spends time with me alone several times and compliments me. I can deal with you telling me it just didn't work out and I'm not your type, that's fine, I can handle rejection. Don't fucking play it off like it was never your intention to get into a relationship, that's just gonna piss me off. Ty for wasting my time and not having the balls to admit it. Welcome to irl /ignore.
I am no longer going to pay for anything for a girl ever until it's the 3rd+ date. I like being chivalrous and all but I'm tired of a girl not having the guts to tell me the truth and just wasting my time and money. I ain't making bank or anything ffs. why are you going all nutso bc she wasnt interested in having a serious relationship with you?? if you went on 3 dates, she found you interesting enough to consider it. shit doesn't work out sometimes. that doesnt mean you get to freak out on a person like a fucking lunatic because they decided there wasn't much chemistry after a couple dates. You have no clue the experience I've had with women so don't judge my reaction to a single case. This is the 4th chick in a row that this has happened to me with now. As I mentioned before, it's called ranting. Four women in a row meet you and instantly decide they don't want to have anything to do with men anymore? :p
Nah, 2 in relationships alrdy with other guys, other 2 idk. Don't talk to them anymore. It just gets frustrating being alone all the time really is all.
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Closing in on two years since my last relationship, only found 1 person remotely interesting since then but she was seeing somebody. Oh, and my ex is seeing an ex-friend of mine that I told "if you want to date her, it's fine, but tell me first" and then didn't. Yeah...
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Women are fiery beasts of anger when cold.
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On April 23 2013 07:18 Zooper31 wrote:Show nested quote +On April 23 2013 07:04 Grumbels wrote:On April 23 2013 06:52 Zooper31 wrote:On April 23 2013 04:41 QuanticHawk wrote:On April 22 2013 09:43 Zooper31 wrote:
Well fuck chicks. After 3rd date she tells me she's not interested in a relationship and she said she was sorry for any confusion. Politely told her to fuck off. She contacts me through a dating website, spends time with me alone several times and compliments me. I can deal with you telling me it just didn't work out and I'm not your type, that's fine, I can handle rejection. Don't fucking play it off like it was never your intention to get into a relationship, that's just gonna piss me off. Ty for wasting my time and not having the balls to admit it. Welcome to irl /ignore.
I am no longer going to pay for anything for a girl ever until it's the 3rd+ date. I like being chivalrous and all but I'm tired of a girl not having the guts to tell me the truth and just wasting my time and money. I ain't making bank or anything ffs. why are you going all nutso bc she wasnt interested in having a serious relationship with you?? if you went on 3 dates, she found you interesting enough to consider it. shit doesn't work out sometimes. that doesnt mean you get to freak out on a person like a fucking lunatic because they decided there wasn't much chemistry after a couple dates. You have no clue the experience I've had with women so don't judge my reaction to a single case. This is the 4th chick in a row that this has happened to me with now. As I mentioned before, it's called ranting. Four women in a row meet you and instantly decide they don't want to have anything to do with men anymore? :p Nah, 2 in relationships alrdy with other guys, other 2 idk. Don't talk to them anymore. It just gets frustrating being alone all the time really is all.
Your first mistake is meeting girls through dating websites. The only reason most people are found on dating websites is because they are unable to meet dates otherwise, which is an obvious potential red flag. While it's possible that this is due to simply being too busy, shy, or have unusual kinks, it's more likely that they simply have low sexual marketplace value (single moms, unemployed dudes, fatties, crazies, etc.)
Your best bet is to stay away from dating websites entirely, and failing that, you should at least screen very heavily. Screening is especially important if a girl initiates with you. The majority of the time, girls will not initiate with you unless you are seemingly out of her league, simply because she probably doesn't need to initiate to have guys within her league hitting on her already.
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On April 23 2013 06:58 arb wrote:Show nested quote +On April 23 2013 06:52 Zooper31 wrote:On April 23 2013 04:41 QuanticHawk wrote:On April 22 2013 09:43 Zooper31 wrote:
Well fuck chicks. After 3rd date she tells me she's not interested in a relationship and she said she was sorry for any confusion. Politely told her to fuck off. She contacts me through a dating website, spends time with me alone several times and compliments me. I can deal with you telling me it just didn't work out and I'm not your type, that's fine, I can handle rejection. Don't fucking play it off like it was never your intention to get into a relationship, that's just gonna piss me off. Ty for wasting my time and not having the balls to admit it. Welcome to irl /ignore.
I am no longer going to pay for anything for a girl ever until it's the 3rd+ date. I like being chivalrous and all but I'm tired of a girl not having the guts to tell me the truth and just wasting my time and money. I ain't making bank or anything ffs. why are you going all nutso bc she wasnt interested in having a serious relationship with you?? if you went on 3 dates, she found you interesting enough to consider it. shit doesn't work out sometimes. that doesnt mean you get to freak out on a person like a fucking lunatic because they decided there wasn't much chemistry after a couple dates. You have no clue the experience I've had with women so don't judge my reaction to a single case. This is the 4th chick in a row that this has happened to me with now. As I mentioned before, it's called ranting. You gotta go through the ones you don't need to be with before you find the one you're supposed to be with man.
This presupposes that there is "one that you're supposed to be with". Someone's been drinking too much of the Disney and romcom Kool-Aid.
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On April 23 2013 08:52 sunprince wrote:Show nested quote +On April 23 2013 07:18 Zooper31 wrote:On April 23 2013 07:04 Grumbels wrote:On April 23 2013 06:52 Zooper31 wrote:On April 23 2013 04:41 QuanticHawk wrote:On April 22 2013 09:43 Zooper31 wrote:
Well fuck chicks. After 3rd date she tells me she's not interested in a relationship and she said she was sorry for any confusion. Politely told her to fuck off. She contacts me through a dating website, spends time with me alone several times and compliments me. I can deal with you telling me it just didn't work out and I'm not your type, that's fine, I can handle rejection. Don't fucking play it off like it was never your intention to get into a relationship, that's just gonna piss me off. Ty for wasting my time and not having the balls to admit it. Welcome to irl /ignore.
I am no longer going to pay for anything for a girl ever until it's the 3rd+ date. I like being chivalrous and all but I'm tired of a girl not having the guts to tell me the truth and just wasting my time and money. I ain't making bank or anything ffs. why are you going all nutso bc she wasnt interested in having a serious relationship with you?? if you went on 3 dates, she found you interesting enough to consider it. shit doesn't work out sometimes. that doesnt mean you get to freak out on a person like a fucking lunatic because they decided there wasn't much chemistry after a couple dates. You have no clue the experience I've had with women so don't judge my reaction to a single case. This is the 4th chick in a row that this has happened to me with now. As I mentioned before, it's called ranting. Four women in a row meet you and instantly decide they don't want to have anything to do with men anymore? :p Nah, 2 in relationships alrdy with other guys, other 2 idk. Don't talk to them anymore. It just gets frustrating being alone all the time really is all. Your first mistake is meeting girls through dating websites. The only reason most people are found on dating websites is because they are unable to meet dates otherwise, which is an obvious potential red flag. While it's possible that this is due to simply being too busy, shy, or have unusual kinks, it's more likely that they simply have low sexual marketplace value (single moms, unemployed dudes, fatties, crazies, etc.) Your best bet is to stay away from dating websites entirely, and failing that, you should at least screen very heavily. Screening is especially important if a girl initiates with you. The majority of the time, girls will not initiate with you unless you are seemingly out of her league, simply because she probably doesn't need to initiate to have guys within her league hitting on her already. Show nested quote +On April 23 2013 07:34 Gahlo wrote:
Closing in on two years since my last relationship, only found 1 person remotely interesting since then but she was seeing somebody. Oh, and my ex is seeing an ex-friend of mine that I told "if you want to date her, it's fine, but tell me first" and then didn't. Yeah... What could possibly have made you think that she would listen to you?
1/4 were met online. That's not the problem per say lol. Most through work or friends. Went online for the exact reasons you said. I'm working full time (so I'm busy) and I'm a shy.
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