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On December 19 2009 07:13 NeverGG wrote:
If it was with Kwanro.
No, seriously. TBH I am about as interested in sex as I am in chocolate fire guards. I have much more fulfilling and creative things to do with my time. Also where is the female scenario in this post? We do exist on TL!
sex is very fulfilling for a girl lolol
imo sex em both as long as no hiv or ugly as shit with loose skin and flab hanging all over everything
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Skypig your saying i shouldn't date short term because it will end up hurting someone. Also you are saying that every short term relationship is just "using someone". You have some serious misconceptions, not everyone wants to get married with every person they date, many people like to make a connection, have an extreme amount of fun and joy and love in their lives for a time, it does not guarantee marriage. The search for a your woman should be fun, it doesn't mean you have to dislike all others before her. Even if you realllly hit it off with a great woman you cant guarantee marriage, who knows what can happen? Maybe your just not ready t settle down just like that at the time, maybe there's one flaw you simply can't abide to live with for the rest of your life.
You shouldn't take the "practice" quote so literally, it implies that you shouldn't feel guilty about having fun and finding people, as it ultimately culminates as your maturity as a person, your discovery of "the one" and a happy life.
I don't mean to objectify women but, saying you should be celibate, or even super inexperienced/"pure" before getting with your perfect woman is like saying you shouldn't drive until you can afford a 200K Porshe.
I dont think i even need to argue my point here.
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The only time I pass on sex is when I know the girl is too clingy and will want to have my babies if we screw once. But most of the time I still do it ne ways..... lol
I'm a man whore and damn proud of it, even more so after I found out about mocospace, what a fucking baller site! The chicks on that site like seek you out and make all the first moves, it's like a alternate universe.
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*googles mocosite* ahh just a bunch of asian letters. I ran away in fear.
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I went to it, and some bullshit pop-up thing tried to get me to install one of those antivirus progrmas that aren't really antivirus programs but are impossibly hard to remove from the computer, and completely fuck the whole thing up. It also has this ridiculously annoying H1N1 advertisement. Also, all but maybe five of the girls in my state were ugly (I looked through all 17 pages because I have nothing better to do). One of them was apparently an Asian dominatrix.... which I found really strange, yet somewhat arousing.
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When eating is the current priority.
In before "you could eat her!"
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NeverGG
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On December 19 2009 16:44 Alethios wrote:
These are pretty odd "typical circumstances".
I disagree with NeverGG in so far as I feel sex is an important part of relationships. Relationships are an important part of my life, ergo sex is important.
That being said, completely casual sex such as the situations you've proposed (if they were more general neutral) ceased to interest me a fair while ago.
I'm sure it is for some people - I wasn't talking about them however. I was talking solely about myself so there's not really anything to disagree with ^^;
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On December 19 2009 08:02 StorkHwaiting wrote:Show nested quote +On December 19 2009 07:14 StarN wrote:
In order to answer these questions you might have to elaborate a bit more on the girls personalities
-Their religion, and respective piety
-Their family and family history
-Their socio-economic class
-Their artistic and literary talents
-Their sensitivity, romanticism and sentimentalism
-Their patriotism, provincialism, and rootedness in their native culture
-Their cooking, cleaning and other domestic abilities
-Their mental and emotional stability
-Their historical attitude and preferences regarding bourgeois family life
-Their racial origins (if not already clear)
-Their feminine virtues (virginity, modesty, etc)
Depending on what she answers for these I might say yes. Oh Jesus Christ, are you buying a computer or are you looking for a partner? Your list is just plain scary. There are certain joys found in being open-minded and accepting of differences you know...
Looks like a MoltkeWarding reference to me 
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On December 19 2009 07:14 StarN wrote:
In order to answer these questions you might have to elaborate a bit more on the girls personalities
-Their religion, and respective piety
-Their family and family history
-Their socio-economic class
-Their artistic and literary talents
-Their sensitivity, romanticism and sentimentalism
-Their patriotism, provincialism, and rootedness in their native culture
-Their cooking, cleaning and other domestic abilities
-Their mental and emotional stability
-Their historical attitude and preferences regarding bourgeois family life
-Their racial origins (if not already clear)
-Their feminine virtues (virginity, modesty, etc)
Depending on what she answers for these I might say yes. wasn't this a hot_bid or sonuvbob post before?
edit: ok it was moltke.
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Who cares, someday when you are old and looking back on your life you will be disappointed that you didn't take the opportunities that you could have.
Sex 'em all, just wrap it
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On December 19 2009 17:36 NeverGG wrote:Show nested quote +On December 19 2009 16:44 Alethios wrote:
These are pretty odd "typical circumstances".
I disagree with NeverGG in so far as I feel sex is an important part of relationships. Relationships are an important part of my life, ergo sex is important.
That being said, completely casual sex such as the situations you've proposed (if they were more general neutral) ceased to interest me a fair while ago. I'm sure it is for some people - I wasn't talking about them however. I was talking solely about myself so there's not really anything to disagree with ^^;
Indeed! My apologies. Perhaps my point could be better made by saying:
NeverGG feels that, speaking for herself, there are more fulfilling and creative things that she could be doing. For the most part, I feel the same way.
At the same time, I feel that having sex is an important part of the upkeep of all romantic relationships. When I am in a relationship with somebody I care about however, sex becomes much more important to me. It becomes much more fulfilling and somehow just feels far better. Then there is the addition of the 'glow' for a number of hours afterwards, which I never get unless I care deeply for my partner and is always a pleasure.
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There are only two reasons why I would turn down a perfectly good opportunity to have sex with a girl.
1) I'm not physically attracted to her
2) I'm in a serious relationship with another girl
edit: okay there's a third:
3) She's not legal
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How are the two situations different?
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when my gf is on her period and it's hella bloody.
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Ugliness, fat, age and disease and shallowness
Ironically I am a very shallow person... maybe this is why I never get a chance to refuse sex.
On December 19 2009 19:26 pronoob5 wrote:
when my gf is on her period and it's hella bloody.
Your girlfriend offers you sex when its that time of the month?
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And lol @ the people who didn't catch the Moltke reference
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On December 19 2009 20:38 lone_hydra wrote:Ugliness, fat, age and disease and shallowness Ironically I am a very shallow person... maybe this is why I never get a chance to refuse sex. Show nested quote +On December 19 2009 19:26 pronoob5 wrote:
when my gf is on her period and it's hella bloody. Your girlfriend offers you sex when its that time of the month?
Actually, if she's smart she should do that, it helps with the cramps.
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When I'm hungry or too full.
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Hahahaha. Love how my post started whole discussion about nature of relationships. In fact, I am too much of the pessimist to believe that I will ever find a girl that will be compatible with me. Marriage-lessness for the win!
Of course, it will be awesome if I met such wonderful girl though 
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