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Reading another topic here on TL got me thinking about attitudes towards sex. I've written out two situations bellow of typical circumstances when saying no to sex would be an option. I would love to hear if anyone would turn down sex in either one of them, and for what reasons.
Situation 1
Say you were looking for a relationship and could date a different girl every day of the week. After a few dates, you and the girl would get to know each other better and become intimate. Since you are dating several girls at once and aren't really committed to any one of them, you have a lot of sex with different girls. Would you at some point decide that you've had too many partners and start saying no to sex?
Situation 2
Once a week for a year, a hot girl would come into your life and start flirting with you. You didn't sign up for this, but she's ready to go. There are no strings attached and a new one would take her place the next week. Would you turn it down and continue going about your day, or would you sleep with her?
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I don't know, man. I would only turn it down if they had AIDS. I'll deal with STDs.
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I would say no for both, since I am Korean and have very conservative traditional view about sex.
Despite, I am too nerd to care about such trivial matters 
Edit: StorkHwaiting below me qft.
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These are both really odd situations. Why not have a relationship with a person? It's creepy to stick my dick into friends. It's not something I'm habituated to do.
I'd rather find a girl who supports me and my life goals and that I find attractive and morally compatible. I'm lucky enough to have found a girl like that and am dating her now. I've gone on many dates with other girls and had a few real shitty relationships and I can say without a doubt that a bad relationship for me = bad sex. I feel hollow and kind of disgusted with myself afterwards. Only a very egotistical selfish person goes around hi-fiving himself just coz he got with a good looking girl. Then again, there are quite a few egotistical selfish people out there who think "scoring" a hot lay is an accomplishment.
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I dunno, mostly i just don´t feel like having sex. Maybe I´m not that sexual person. There´s so much more rewarding stuff you can do. Of course sometimes sex can be fun. I´m startled by the fact people think about sex so much, like it´s not even natural anymore.
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I think this topic is different for everyone. Your two scenarios are from a single man's point of view, whereas some of us are in long term committed relationships.
I personally would never say no to sex (yes I had to underline that for emphasis). But its with the same girl every time, so it's a little different from the playboy lifestyles you're presenting.
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NeverGG
United Kingdom5399 Posts
If it was with Kwanro.
No, seriously. TBH I am about as interested in sex as I am in chocolate fire guards. I have much more fulfilling and creative things to do with my time. Also where is the female scenario in this post? We do exist on TL!
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On December 19 2009 07:07 HwangjaeTerran wrote:
I dunno, mostly i just don´t feel like having sex. Maybe I´m not that sexual person. There´s so much more rewarding stuff you can do. Of course sometimes sex can be fun. I´m startled by the fact people think about sex so much, like it´s not even natural anymore.
you need to get out more =O
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Both situations suck, asexuality FTW.
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In order to answer these questions you might have to elaborate a bit more on the girls personalities
-Their religion, and respective piety
-Their family and family history
-Their socio-economic class
-Their artistic and literary talents
-Their sensitivity, romanticism and sentimentalism
-Their patriotism, provincialism, and rootedness in their native culture
-Their cooking, cleaning and other domestic abilities
-Their mental and emotional stability
-Their historical attitude and preferences regarding bourgeois family life
-Their racial origins (if not already clear)
-Their feminine virtues (virginity, modesty, etc)
Depending on what she answers for these I might say yes.
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On December 19 2009 07:14 StarN wrote:
In order to answer these questions you might have to elaborate a bit more on the girls personalities
-Their religion, and respective piety
-Their family and family history
-Their socio-economic class
-Their artistic and literary talents
-Their sensitivity, romanticism and sentimentalism
-Their patriotism, provincialism, and rootedness in their native culture
-Their cooking, cleaning and other domestic abilities
-Their mental and emotional stability
-Their historical attitude and preferences regarding bourgeois family life
-Their racial origins (if not already clear)
-Their feminine virtues (virginity, modesty, etc)
Depending on what she answers for these I might say yes.
Let it die man, let it die...
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If Flash vs. Jaedong is happening
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On December 19 2009 07:18 rockon1215 wrote:
If Flash vs. Jaedong is happening
This.
+ Show Spoiler +Or tbh, Flash vs just about anyone is enough for me o.0
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If I wasn't in the mood, had something else to do, or the person was physically unattractive. As much as sex is enjoyable, it isn't the number one priority activity. I don't really enjoy normal/quickie sex so it's something I prefer to prepare for anyway.
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Valhalla18444 Posts
i have passed on sex to watch Sea[Shield] play
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On December 19 2009 07:17 ilovezil wrote:Show nested quote +On December 19 2009 07:14 StarN wrote:
In order to answer these questions you might have to elaborate a bit more on the girls personalities
-Their religion, and respective piety
-Their family and family history
-Their socio-economic class
-Their artistic and literary talents
-Their sensitivity, romanticism and sentimentalism
-Their patriotism, provincialism, and rootedness in their native culture
-Their cooking, cleaning and other domestic abilities
-Their mental and emotional stability
-Their historical attitude and preferences regarding bourgeois family life
-Their racial origins (if not already clear)
-Their feminine virtues (virginity, modesty, etc)
Depending on what she answers for these I might say yes. Let it die man, let it die...
never!
when things look bad.
u gotta skate!
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when i was 17-19 i used to turn down lots of girls that were 15-17(or if they were 2 years younger than me). God wtf was i thinking.
If the person is ugly?
This would be my answer atm but even then I sometimes end up with some chick i met at some club with nearly no light and im drunk as fuck and have a one night stand with her. I try and leave the area before day light hits. Seeing the actual product might lower my esteem along with my standards on a wife.
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On December 19 2009 07:00 pubbanana wrote:
I don't know, man. I would only turn it down if they had AIDS. I'll deal with STDs.
you sure man.... Genital warts and and that other one that starts with s, sound pomal poch
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On December 19 2009 07:29 StarN wrote:Show nested quote +On December 19 2009 07:17 ilovezil wrote:On December 19 2009 07:14 StarN wrote:
In order to answer these questions you might have to elaborate a bit more on the girls personalities
-Their religion, and respective piety
-Their family and family history
-Their socio-economic class
-Their artistic and literary talents
-Their sensitivity, romanticism and sentimentalism
-Their patriotism, provincialism, and rootedness in their native culture
-Their cooking, cleaning and other domestic abilities
-Their mental and emotional stability
-Their historical attitude and preferences regarding bourgeois family life
-Their racial origins (if not already clear)
-Their feminine virtues (virginity, modesty, etc)
Depending on what she answers for these I might say yes. Let it die man, let it die... never! when things look bad. u gotta skate!
You must be from Romania.
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