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Danish girl look for this child´s father on youtub
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pR0gR4m3R
Spain1446 Posts
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MarCoon
Germany493 Posts
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Orome
Switzerland11984 Posts
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KwarK
United States42689 Posts
That said, youtube thread. We have it for a reason. But still, it made me smile. Good luck strange woman. | ||
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jello_biafra
United Kingdom6635 Posts
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KwarK
United States42689 Posts
On September 12 2009 21:57 MarCoon wrote: wow what an retarded bitch T_T I thought it was kind of sweet. Obviously she knows it's a long shot but lacking any bulletin system for the world youtube is as close as it gets. | ||
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pR0gR4m3R
Spain1446 Posts
On September 12 2009 21:58 Orome wrote: why priceless? She doesnt remember where that man was from, his name, ect.. | ||
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Spenguin
Australia3316 Posts
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MarCoon
Germany493 Posts
On September 12 2009 22:00 Kwark wrote: I thought it was kind of sweet. Obviously she knows it's a long shot but lacking any bulletin system for the world youtube is as close as it gets. I am not saying this because of the actual vid or her trying to find the dad, but because she got into this situation :o | ||
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myfriendPlank
United States550 Posts
On September 12 2009 22:01 Spenguin wrote: I'm more interested in the 35 yr old who gave up her son for adoption 10 years ago then found said son on the internet and had sex with him. wtf? | ||
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KwarK
United States42689 Posts
On September 12 2009 22:00 pR0gR4m3R wrote: She doesnt remember where that man was from, his name, ect.. At the time she probably didn't care about his name etc. Was just a one night stand, it happens. She still doesn't care who he is, it's about the kid. Someone out there is a father and doesn't know it, he should. | ||
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indecision
Germany818 Posts
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MasterReY
Germany2708 Posts
would make her much more pleasant,friendly if she would look in the camera. It looks like she only wants a dad for her child and doesnt care about anything else. just the child | ||
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Orome
Switzerland11984 Posts
On September 12 2009 22:00 pR0gR4m3R wrote: She doesnt remember where that man was from, his name, ect.. You don't usually trade life stories when you have a one night stand. :p | ||
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Dametri
United States726 Posts
On September 12 2009 22:01 MarCoon wrote: I am not saying this because of the actual vid or her trying to find the dad, but because she got into this situation :o There are millions of women who do similar things. The fact that this one is actually making an effort to find the father of her child despite knowing that she'd be criticized for making this video puts her a step above the rest of them. And putting herself into a public forum with this certainly doesn't make her any worse than women who hide it. | ||
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ZpuX
Sweden1230 Posts
On September 12 2009 22:01 MarCoon wrote: I am not saying this because of the actual vid or her trying to find the dad, but because she got into this situation :o you dont like one night stands? or you dont like sex at all? I thought it was pretty accepted in the non religious world nowadays... Sure the baby was not planned but really, sexual emotions are so much stronger than one can believe, forgetting a condom or just decide not to use it is easier than ppl might think... | ||
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MarCoon
Germany493 Posts
On September 12 2009 22:07 ZpuX wrote: you dont like one night stands? or you dont like sex at all? I thought it was pretty accepted in the non religious world nowadays... Sure the baby was not planned but really, sexual emotions are so much stronger than one can believe, forgetting a condom or just decide not to use it is easier than ppl might think... Having a one night stand is not the problem at all, but people nowadays know HOW to protect themself from getting into situations like that. Even forgetting a condom isn't a problem because, correct me if I am wrong here, you can take the "afterpill" or how it's called even 1-2 days after having sex and still not being worried to get a baby. | ||
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KwarK
United States42689 Posts
On September 12 2009 22:12 MarCoon wrote: Having a one night stand is not the problem at all, but people nowadays know HOW to protect themself from getting into situations like that. Even forgetting a condom isn't a problem because, correct me if I am wrong here, you can take the "afterpill" or how it's called even 1-2 days after having sex and still not being worried to get a baby. Still, it happens. Video kind of made me want to go to Denmark, have a one night stand and sabotage any protection we used and then wait on youtube. I'd have like a dozen one night stands though, just to increase the odds of success. | ||
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Iplaythings
Denmark9110 Posts
On September 12 2009 22:16 Kwark wrote: Still, it happens. Video kind of made me want to go to Denmark, have a one night stand and sabotage any protection we used and then wait on youtube. I'd have like a dozen one night stands though, just to increase the odds of success. You stay away from our women ! Should I come to great britain and stream all your tea into the themes? I don't think you'd like it (I feel sorry for her) | ||
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Sean.G
Spain889 Posts
And also this | ||
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Mr.Pyro
Denmark959 Posts
- Why are danish girls so lame? So incredibly lame.. | ||
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Toxiferous
United States388 Posts
On September 12 2009 21:57 MarCoon wrote: wow what an retarded bitch T_T irony is my favorite! | ||
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Arnic
81 Posts
Do you know guys that go out, get drunk and sleep with random girls? I certainly do. Lucky for them they don't have to worry about getting pregnant. I found this incredibly sad, she's obviously aware that she was foolish and that she made a mistake but considering the other choices she might have made when she found out she was pregnant, she chose to do something really monumental. I won't condone her earlier actions but I will admire her for not choosing an easy way out and, from what she says, for trying not to make any other mistakes and also for having the strength to admit what she did publicly. Her friends, her family, everyone she knows... will see this. It's the kind of video that's going to appeal to the media, will probably spread like wildfire and spark angry debates about sexual promiscuity, contraception, the evils of alcohol, morals, parental responsibility and a load more topics people feel strongly about one way or the other. She's put herself out there to be judged by everyone who watches for an extremely slim chance that the guy who slept with her will see the video and that he might actually be a decent enough person to care that he has a son. Read some of the comments on both the youtube video and the guestbook on her website. Nice to see the support, sadly expected to see the 4chan mentality and the accusations of her being a total whore and worse. The internet never fails to deliver. She doesn't come across as being generally stupid in the literal sense, you can hear the sadness and regret clearly in her voice when she speaks about the guy she slept with but when she looks at the baby, there's absolute and total love for him in her voice, her smile and her body language. It takes two people to make a baby, no one can change how it happened but she's going to spend the rest of her life raising, caring for, worrying about and hopefully continuing to love the child. I'm aware that I'm taking her side in this and that there might be a whole load more to the story than she's said but considering what she stands to gain or lose from doing this, I don't see anything particularly terrible as a motivation for doing this. She seems quite sincere but yes, it could be possible that she's come up with a method of telling a story that'll make headlines, give her brief but potentially profitable celebrity status and we'll have to see what happens next then forum rant accordingly. I hope this video does get a lot of publicity, not only for her as I'd like to believe she's genuine, she finds the father and he's a decent guy but also as something to make people stop and think before they get drunk and have casual unprotected sex with a stranger. An unexpected baby might not be such a bad thing when you consider what else you might end up with. | ||
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Blyf
Denmark408 Posts
On September 12 2009 22:35 MaD.pYrO wrote: Karen fortjener virkelig en ordentlig /facepalm . - Why are danish girls so lame? So incredibly lame.. Hold da op, det kunne ske for selv den bedste! Wow, she's really cute. Hope she finds the father and they all live happily ever after. | ||
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PunkSkeleton
Poland226 Posts
On September 12 2009 22:03 indecision wrote: kinda moving. I'm wondering why she didn't opt for an abortion though... Because she probably understands what abortion is and she is not so selfish to kill her own baby. | ||
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Arnic
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On September 12 2009 22:04 MasterReY wrote: .... i hate it how she looks down to her child like 70% of the video. would make her much more pleasant,friendly if she would look in the camera. It looks like she only wants a dad for her child and doesnt care about anything else. just the child I hope you're being sarcastic. It says a lot about her that she's looking at the baby the way she does. That's how a mother should look at her child and oddly enough, it's how a father looks at his child as well. If she looked up at the camera and she didn't look at the baby, you'd have people saying "What a bitch, she obviously doesn't care for the child she won't even look at it! I bet she's cold, callous and selfish. Some poor guy had a lucky escape." Given her situation, it's not surprising that she'd care more about the child than anything else. The guy hasn't exactly given her a chance to care about him has he? It's kind of ironic when you think about how attitudes towards casual sex have changed, it's all fine and mostly acceptable until someone accidentally achieves the ultimate goal of the act itself. And who knows, maybe they did use protection? Unlikely but still possible, nearly all methods of birth control have failure rates and the thing that strikes me is that she says she doesn't remember what happened after she had drinks with the guy. Wouldn't it be fucking ironic if she was so hopefully seeking the father of her child and the actuality of what happened was something hideous. I seriously pray that's not the case but this world and the people in it can be messed up to the point of disbelief sometimes and that's unfortunately something not beyond the realms of possiblity. Not that long ago and still in a lot of places today, there is an expectation or even an obligation for a guy to stand by a girl if he gets her pregnant. As I said before, I agree that she's been foolish and that she made a mistake but the guy concerned could be equally guilty of doing exactly the same. A lesser woman might have chosen abortion and never said a word to anyone about what she'd done, no one would ever have known or able to judge her for it. A lot of people make mistakes and today, a lot of people have casual sex without considering the possible consequences. Some men might be glad not to know about this type of outcome to a one nighter, others wouldn't feel like that at all and would want to share in the responsibility and I'm sure there are a few who wouldn't know what the hell to do but would definitely prefer to be told what had happened. She doesn't know the guy but she thinks he has the right to know so he can make his own decisions about what he wants to do and she's trying to give him that chance. All things considered, she's trying her best to do what's right and I hope it turns out well for her. | ||
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Foucault
Sweden2826 Posts
On September 12 2009 21:57 MarCoon wrote: wow what an retarded bitch T_T Shut the hell up please | ||
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ShAsTa
Belgium2841 Posts
On September 12 2009 22:55 PunkSkeleton wrote: Because she probably understands what abortion is and she is not so selfish to kill her own baby. What baby? There is no baby. | ||
Xeofreestyler
Belgium6771 Posts
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MarCoon
Germany493 Posts
All you haters, stop reading 1 post and quote it all the time. It's annoying -.- | ||
riptide
5673 Posts
On September 12 2009 23:18 MarCoon wrote: All you haters, stop reading 1 post and quote it all the time. It's annoying -.- Maybe next time you get to make post 1, say something that is worth reading. | ||
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Kazius
Israel1456 Posts
On September 12 2009 22:35 MaD.pYrO wrote: Karen fortjener virkelig en ordentlig /facepalm . - Why are danish girls so lame? So incredibly lame.. Hey, pretty blond girls that will get drunk and sleep with you without a rubber are lame? ... what planet are you from? | ||
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Jayson X
Switzerland2431 Posts
right now my results are either 95% right or 95% wrong but since this is for a good cause we must take any chance we can get. here's the picture: + Show Spoiler + ![[image loading]](http://i25.tinypic.com/2rz5abt.jpg) Yes, i'm shocked as well how easy danish women are. | ||
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Sinedd
Poland7052 Posts
but extremely stupid ... so | ||
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GogoKodo
Canada1785 Posts
On September 12 2009 23:28 Sinedd wrote: she's kinda hot but extremely stupid ... so I don't understand where people like you are coming from in this thread. What makes her so stupid? If anything she has some ingenuity to post on youtube since that's probably the place where she will get the most international exposure. | ||
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Fen
Australia1848 Posts
On September 12 2009 21:57 MarCoon wrote: wow what an retarded bitch T_T On September 12 2009 22:12 MarCoon wrote: Having a one night stand is not the problem at all, but people nowadays know HOW to protect themself from getting into situations like that. Even forgetting a condom isn't a problem because, correct me if I am wrong here, you can take the "afterpill" or how it's called even 1-2 days after having sex and still not being worried to get a baby. Marcoon, you seem to be very uneducated about the topic. The 'morning after pill' actually isnt as effective as you would think. It is in no way a viable substitute for using a condom or birth control pills. Also calling her a retarded bitch? I applaud her for being so brave and putting herself up in the public spotlight to try and find this baby's father. Shes doing everything in her power to give her child a good upbringing even at the expense of her own dignity. I hope she finds the father. | ||
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jello_biafra
United Kingdom6635 Posts
On September 12 2009 22:26 Iplaythings wrote: You stay away from our women ! Should I come to great britain and stream all your tea into the themes? I don't think you'd like it (I feel sorry for her) You're quite welcome to, I don't drink tea and I have no intentions of swimming in the Thames. | ||
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BBS
Germany204 Posts
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Kong John
Denmark1020 Posts
This video made me really sad  | ||
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Aznleeman
United States208 Posts
I applaud her for having the courage to put herself up on Youtube, even though it's the equivalent of jumping into a pit of infested terrans. Although it's for a good cause, she's still gonna get a shitstorm of comments though. Or it's a fake and we should go stone her. | ||
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ShoCkeyy
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Draconizard
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On September 13 2009 00:08 ShoCkeyy wrote: Lol, what if the guy she slept with has no internet? Or doesn't even use youtube, but meh, like some one said it's a long shot chance. Not only that, I bet it's a 1:100000000 chance that she will find the real father. I also bet that there's like 1000 random guys sending her messages saying, "I'm that father," just because she's a beautiful girl and want to hook up with her, lol... dirty bastards She just needs to demand a DNA test to screen out such people. | ||
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Lovin
Denmark812 Posts
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wok
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Altair
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Raidy
Japan87 Posts
On September 13 2009 00:33 Draconizard wrote: She just needs to demand a DNA test to screen out such people. Or a functional memory? I'm sure she would recognize the guy if she saw him. It's sad that a woman trying to do the right thing is being so heavily judged. Have any of you ever bought a hooker? Have you slept with a chick you met at some bar? Have any of you ever had sex with a woman outside of a relationship? Would you if you had the chance? Now, my final question: if your response to any of the above questions is "yes," what exactly makes her different from you? The only difference I see is that she was successful in getting laid while I guarantee that all of the people talking shit fail majorly. Cut the shit with how she's some sort of skank. She met a guy under certain circumstances and ended up having sex with him; there's no reason for her to excuse herself. | ||
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Frits
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KwarK
United States42689 Posts
On September 13 2009 01:13 Frits wrote: lol at the white knighting The people hating on her are being idiots. It's not white knighting to oppose idiocy, simply because of the context. By saying that you're as much a part of the internet "WOW GIRL!" problem as the people who do actually white knight or the people who go "tits or gtfo". Gender isn't an issue here, beyond the rejecting intrinsic bias against girls who have one night stands. | ||
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hyst.eric.al
United States2332 Posts
goodluck! | ||
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Liquid`Nazgul
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she seems nice enough making a serious effort to seeing if she can find the father of her child so that the kid doesn't have to do this himself when he's 30 years old wondering why he looks like a gipsy I literally see 0 reason to call her a stupid bitch. if anything she seems brave (for putting her face on the internet risking being called stupid bitch by ignorant morons) sincere and nice. whoever thinks she is a stupid bitch you should probably take a close look at yourself and realize how simple you are. p.s. I think the chance of this working is actually quite ok. you're not just speaking to 1 person there's a good chance people/friends know a person who went to denmark and had a 1 night stand. | ||
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Raidy
Japan87 Posts
On September 13 2009 01:13 Frits wrote: lol at the white knighting This isn't 4chan. Try to keep your mental defecation off of other forums, thanks! | ||
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EGLzGaMeR
United States1867 Posts
On September 13 2009 01:34 Liquid`Nazgul wrote: wow such hate she seems nice enough making a serious effort to seeing if she can find the father of her child so that the kid doesn't have to do this himself when he's 30 years old wondering why he looks like a gipsy I literally see 0 reason to call her a stupid bitch. if anything she seems brave (for putting her face on the internet risking being called stupid bitch by ignorant morons) sincere and nice. whoever thinks she is a stupid bitch you should probably take a close look at yourself and realize how simple you are. p.s. I think the chance of this working is actually quite ok. you're not just speaking to 1 person there's a good chance people/friends know a person who went to denmark and had a 1 night stand. This is just what i was thinking.. shame on all the haters | ||
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Frits
11782 Posts
On September 13 2009 01:27 Kwark wrote: The people hating on her are being idiots. It's not white knighting to oppose idiocy, simply because of the context. By saying that you're as much a part of the internet "WOW GIRL!" problem as the people who do actually white knight or the people who go "tits or gtfo". Gender isn't an issue here, beyond the rejecting intrinsic bias against girls who have one night stands. i dont know what your post is saying but since when the hell are single moms not dumb sluts they sure as hell are over here On September 13 2009 01:34 Liquid`Nazgul wrote: wow such hate she seems nice enough making a serious effort to seeing if she can find the father of her child so that the kid doesn't have to do this himself when he's 30 years old wondering why he looks like a gipsy I literally see 0 reason to call her a stupid bitch. if anything she seems brave (for putting her face on the internet risking being called stupid bitch by ignorant morons) sincere and nice. whoever thinks she is a stupid bitch you should probably take a close look at yourself and realize how simple you are. p.s. I think the chance of this working is actually quite ok. you're not just speaking to 1 person there's a good chance people/friends know a person who went to denmark and had a 1 night stand. Risking being called a stupid bitch? What exactly is the risk here? We're talking about someone who sleeps with people without knowing name/nationality/age/anything and not using protection. Unless you're living in an underdeveloped shitty country there's really no excuse for this. I'll tell you who's being simple, if the girl would've been ugly/fat everyone here would be calling her a slut and laughing at her just the same except without the white knighting. | ||
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BanZu
United States3329 Posts
On September 13 2009 01:13 Frits wrote: lol at the white knighting If there weren't so many dipshits making stupid comments there wouldn't need to be any "white knighting". And it only seems like "white knighting" because the posters calling the mother a bitch are even bigger bitches. So what do you expect? For us to just ignore the thread and its idiots? What the hell is the point of posting then? Certainly it's not for you to spew troll comments. EDIT: I guess you could do that too but that makes you look like a huge douche GG | ||
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Jibba
United States22883 Posts
On September 12 2009 22:00 Kwark wrote: I thought it was kind of sweet. Obviously she knows it's a long shot but lacking any bulletin system for the world youtube is as close as it gets. Agreed. Takes a lot of courage to do that too. | ||
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Jibba
United States22883 Posts
On September 13 2009 01:47 Frits wrote: Risking being called a stupid bitch? Yes, that's a pretty big risk. Especially when your face is attached to it. Can you imagine what posts at TL would be like if we had to have our pictures instead of unit icons? Might actually be a good thing... You're probably somewhat right about the ugly/fat part, but I think a lot of it is the production of the video. Bright video, soft voice, etc. It's calming in a way. | ||
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meegrean
Thailand7699 Posts
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mcJ
Denmark322 Posts
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Motiva
United States1774 Posts
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DamageControL
United States4222 Posts
On September 13 2009 01:49 BanZu wrote: If there weren't so many dipshits making stupid comments there wouldn't need to be any "white knighting". And it only seems like "white knighting" because the posters calling the mother a bitch are even bigger bitches. So what do you expect? For us to just ignore the thread and its idiots? What the hell is the point of posting then? Certainly it's not for you to spew troll comments. EDIT: I guess you could do that too but that makes you look like a huge douche GG But it still helps that she's a pretty girl. Yeah, the douches would get hate but there's so much more jumping on them...it's like they're Aegrean or something | ||
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InToTheWannaB
United States4770 Posts
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anch
United States5457 Posts
On September 12 2009 22:00 jello_biafra wrote: Holy shit! I'm a father! Quagmire, everybody loves Quagmire. | ||
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Piy
Scotland3152 Posts
On September 13 2009 01:47 Frits wrote: i dont know what your post is saying but since when the hell are single moms not dumb sluts they sure as hell are over here Risking being called a stupid bitch? What exactly is the risk here? We're talking about someone who sleeps with people without knowing name/nationality/age/anything and not using protection. Unless you're living in an underdeveloped shitty country there's really no excuse for this. I'll tell you who's being simple, if the girl would've been ugly/fat everyone here would be calling her a slut and laughing at her just the same except without the white knighting. I think you vastly underestimate the effects of alcohol on peoples judgement...I mean geez, has this actually never happened to you? Never done anything you regret later...? Pretty awesome thing to do given her situation imo. | ||
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Mr.Pyro
Denmark959 Posts
On September 13 2009 02:19 mcJ wrote: I feel ashamed... Danes are the stupidest people online :< Actually danes are just the dumbest people in general... | ||
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LuDwig-
Italy1143 Posts
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sith
United States2474 Posts
On September 13 2009 01:47 Frits wrote: i dont know what your post is saying but since when the hell are single moms not dumb sluts they sure as hell are over here Risking being called a stupid bitch? What exactly is the risk here? We're talking about someone who sleeps with people without knowing name/nationality/age/anything and not using protection. Unless you're living in an underdeveloped shitty country there's really no excuse for this. I'll tell you who's being simple, if the girl would've been ugly/fat everyone here would be calling her a slut and laughing at her just the same except without the white knighting. Are you fucking joking? She admits it was a stupid thing to do and everyone agrees it was a major fuckup, but at least she's attempting to make things right. How is that being a "dumb slut". And of course it's not the guys fault at all, just hers. I don't know why you fucking idiots are giving people shit for taking her side, "LOL AT WHITE KNIGHINTG WOW I AM COOL SHE IS A BITCH". What the hell are people supposed to do, just not voice their opinions? You're honestly giving people shit for supporting a single mother in her efforts to find her son's father? I just find it incomprehensible that you cannot feel any sympathy or understand the situation at all except from a basic "SHE ONE NIGHT STAND. SHE HAD BABY. SHE DUMB." point of view. I think you need to take a long hard look at the world around you and realize that things are more complicated than that. | ||
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EvilTeletubby
Baltimore, USA22254 Posts
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synapse
China13814 Posts
Wow this woman has quite a bit of dedication | ||
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SK.Testie
Canada11084 Posts
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ghostWriter
United States3302 Posts
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Eatme
Switzerland3919 Posts
On September 13 2009 00:08 ShoCkeyy wrote: Lol, what if the guy she slept with has no internet? Or doesn't even use youtube, but meh, like some one said it's a long shot chance. Not only that, I bet it's a 1:100000000 chance that she will find the real father. I also bet that there's like 1000 random guys sending her messages saying, "I'm that father," just because she's a beautiful girl and want to hook up with her, lol... dirty bastards I've seen this in many different media outlets ect so I guess it is a somewhat decent chance that a possible father will notice this. And maybe he was a bit more sober than her and remember her name and how she looked ect. But even if he does see it he might not answer if he has a girlfriend or is married. | ||
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Zapdos_Smithh
Canada2620 Posts
And wtf at some of these comments seriously. How is this "awww" or "priceless"? That kid probably won't have a father and that woman will be more than likely committing her entire life to that kid just because of a fun night out. | ||
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ilj.psa
Peru3081 Posts
hope she can resolve all of this soon. | ||
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UGC4
Peru532 Posts
its not all that bad though. having a kid is awesome. she's beautiful and im sure she'll find a man, and if not, its not like denmark is a poor country, she'll do alright for sure. good luck to her is all i can say. on another, completely random note, i just injected my own ass with anabolic steroids for the first time. yay me im like a stimmed firebat.."oh yeah".."thats the stuff"..lol | ||
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Chrispy
Canada5878 Posts
On September 12 2009 22:04 MasterReY wrote: .... i hate it how she looks down to her child like 70% of the video. would make her much more pleasant,friendly if she would look in the camera. It looks like she only wants a dad for her child and doesnt care about anything else. just the child ARE YOU SERIOUS? What is wrong with you? Honestly. Have you no humanity left? Do you honestly find something wrong about a mother wanting her child to at least know who his father is? You're angry at her for having her baby as her #1 priority! I stopped reading the comments at this one, but I hope that some people above the age of sixteen and have at least some experience at life have injected some common sense into this thread. There's nothing priceless about this video at all. Perhaps if she thought there was a high probability of it working, but she doesn't; she says so herself that she knows its a long shot but what else can she do? | ||
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StarBrift
Sweden1761 Posts
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deathgod6
United States5064 Posts
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XsebT
Denmark2980 Posts
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Vharox
United States1037 Posts
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Zapdos_Smithh
Canada2620 Posts
On September 13 2009 05:58 Chrispy wrote: ARE YOU SERIOUS? What is wrong with you? Honestly. Have you no humanity left? Do you honestly find something wrong about a mother wanting her child to at least know who his father is? You're angry at her for having her baby as her #1 priority! I stopped reading the comments at this one, but I hope that some people above the age of sixteen and have at least some experience at life have injected some common sense into this thread. There's nothing priceless about this video at all. Perhaps if she thought there was a high probability of it working, but she doesn't; she says so herself that she knows its a long shot but what else can she do? Agreeeddddd. Threads like this make me see what posters live normal lives and which ones have sat in a dark room staring at a screen for the past 8 years. | ||
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dka
United States132 Posts
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arb
Noobville17921 Posts
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GreEny K
Germany7312 Posts
On September 12 2009 22:01 Spenguin wrote: I'm more interested in the 35 yr old who gave up her son for adoption 10 years ago then found said son on the internet and had sex with him. Thats crazy... But this video is kinda interesting, she knows she probably wont find him but at least she is giving it a shot and she doesnt seem crazy... | ||
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SanguineToss
Canada815 Posts
On September 13 2009 09:08 dka wrote: Its a very sincere video, I don't know why everyone is hating. She obviously loves her kid, and this is more about her child than the father. All we need now is Aegrean, where art thou? I know wtf. | ||
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Gogleion
United States534 Posts
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thopol
Japan4560 Posts
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MountainDewJunkie
United States10341 Posts
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nttea
Sweden4353 Posts
On September 13 2009 04:04 EvilTeletubby wrote: Despite the 4chan attitude, Frits actually brought up something that I think is interesting from a social experimentation point of view, and despite the fact many people will disagree with it, I believe to be 100% true. People would care much less if she was fat/ugly... we have a predisposition to be more helpful and more trusting of people deemed physically beautiful, this has actually been proven. While there are plenty who would care the same either way, it would be extra effort for many, and some not at all. not really, there's a bunch of people here calling her a retarded bitch. Also some nicer people that says she's brave and so on. Most likely if she was fat/ugly there still would be both crowds, Maybe the difference being the haters would act more confident and loud. Good luck to her, hope everything turns out great. | ||
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daz
Canada643 Posts
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Arnic
81 Posts
On September 13 2009 10:37 daz wrote: why the hell didn't she just have an abortion? Oops, a mistake was made. Let's get rid of the evidence so no one has to know. Can you even begin to imagine what it would be like for a woman to make that kind of decision? Not only would she spend the rest of her life regretting a one night stand but she'd be carrying the cost of a baby she decided to get rid of with her as well. I'm not against abortion but I don't think it should be used as a convenient method of late birth control. If it's used like that, it makes it so damn easy for stupid people to fuck around without having to face any consequences for it. As a lot of people in this thread have pointed out, she made a mistake and she knows it. She could have taken what some might consider to be an easy way out but she didn't. Accidental pregnancies happen, both within and outside of relationships and sometimes, abortion could be the right course of action, depending on the circumstances. Maybe it would be better than having a child in a horribly unsuitable situation that would tear people apart, where the child would suffer greatly for having those particular people as parents. People do stupid things. Fact. They don't mean to, there's no malicious intention or willful idiocy. Insert a large quantity of alcohol into any human being and it's guaranteed to affect judgement and rational thinking. I'm pretty sure that a large number of guys, including some here, would sleep with a woman they considered to be hot if they were drunk enough and given the chance. Not everyone but definitely a fair few. So let's say something like that happened. Drunken one night stand and the girl gets pregnant. Which would you prefer? a) That she never tells you, she has an abortion and you'll never know about it. You can carry on with your life as you would have, doing all the things you wanted to do. Never worrying that the next time you get drunk, the same thing could happen again. She's kept your conscience clear and paved the way for you to be free, without any taking any responsbility for the possible results of having a quick sexual encounter. Congratulations buddy, you're absolved. She took responsibility so you wouldn't have to. Is that fair? b) You had the one night stand thinking you'd never see her again, it was fun for both of you and you've no regrets but one day you run into her again and she's obviously pregnant. She tells you that the baby is yours and all the dates would fit. Do you immediately think she's a lying slut trying to get you to be the father of someone else's baby. She slept with you when she was drunk so she must obviously sleep with other people in exactly the same way. Oh, how disgusting, aren't you so glad you're nothing like that. Or do you think, well we can certainly prove if the baby is mine and oh fuck, oh fuck, I didn't want this, I'm not ready for this, what will I tell my parents? What are people going to think of me? How the fuck do I deal with this, how can I be a father when I haven't even finished growing up. But I did this, we did this and I don't know how but there'll be a way to sort it out, we can talk about it and find out what's best for both of us. We can both decide. c) You see her again and she tells you that she got pregnant and had an abortion. How would you feel? Would it be a wake up call that you're not free to do whatever the fuck you like and consequence be damned? Would you stand there looking at her while your mind filled with thoughts of tiny fingers clasped around yours, first words, the way a baby can laugh with total freedom at nothing more than a silly face or funny noise. Would you imagine hesitant first steps towards you, all that hope, pride and the fear the child might fall as they try so hard to place one foot in front of the other, just like you do? How that child could have grown up, into a smaller version of you. Someone to love and cherish, to guide and to protect. How would you feel about the girl you slept with? Would you give her a big smile and say "Thanks!" then walk away or would you consider her lying in a hospital bed, waiting to be anaesthetised after making a choice by herself that you should have been there for? As she's wheeled into the operating theatre, is she thinking about crayons and baby food, how it would feel to stand by a cot illuminated by the soft glow of a nightlight, watching her baby dream and knowing that when she wakes up after the procedure, they'll have sucked it out of her womb and she'll be seeing the blood from where it was for the next two weeks or is she thinking "I'm glad this is so easy, I can't wait to go out, get drunk and sleep with someone else as soon as I've stopped leaking."? Considering that you don't know anything about this girl but that didn't stop you from sleeping with her, what type of person would you like her to be? Would it make you feel better if she was a cheap skank or would you hope that even in a drunken state, you'd still be able to recognise decency in someone? Choices can seem obvious when you're not the one having to make them. I think she did the right thing. She gave the baby a chance and she gave the father a chance as well. Even if he does see that video or he finds out about the baby, he doesn't have to come forwards and admit it. Nobody can make him. Thousands of people have one night stands, even if he told his friends he slept with a hot danish girl called Karen and they're like "Dude, is that her??" He could just say "No" and carry on being a normal guy, in another country, living his life without the worry of a kid in it. She didn't have an abortion because she hopes that the guy is like her. An every day, nice and normal person who made a mistake and although they might regret it, they will try to make things right. She felt that she could give the baby the chance of having a good life and a loving mother. Even if she never finds the father, I think it's better for a child to have one guaranteed good parent in the form of a single mother than two parents who hate the fuck out of each other, argue all the time and resent the child for existing as a reminder of what they once felt for each other. Or the other possibilites like abortion or adoption. | ||
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Deleted User 3420
24492 Posts
On September 12 2009 22:01 Spenguin wrote: I'm more interested in the 35 yr old who gave up her son for adoption 10 years ago then found said son on the internet and had sex with him. that's the claim just because someone says something doesn't make it true. | ||
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KwarK
United States42689 Posts
Obv abortion isn't ideal, birth control is. But you shouldn't be punished for sex, if you don't want a child, don't have one. | ||
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Draconizard
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Arnic
81 Posts
On September 13 2009 13:43 Kwark wrote: Arnic, sex should be fun and shouldn't have lasting consequences for the rest of your life. It's a recreational activity, there's nothing intrinsically about it that makes it different. Stupid people should be able to fuck around without having consequences, they're not hurting anyone else, it's consensual fun. If you're going to get all "what could have been..." about a fetus then you might as well about sperm and periods. Conception is an arbitrary cut off point, just as birth is. Obv abortion isn't ideal, birth control is. But you shouldn't be punished for sex, if you don't want a child, don't have one. I completely agree with you that sex should be fun and it is. There are hundreds of thousands of people having sex right now and that's great, they're probably all enjoying it and that's great too. There's nothing wrong with consensual and mutual pleasure if it's not hurting anyone else. I have no problem whatsoever with people wanting to enjoy themselves and choosing sex as a means to do that. As long as they're careful, use contraception and take precautions. Stupid people should be able to fuck around without having consequences, they're not hurting anyone else Ah but they are. I wouldn't use the Danish girl as an example of this but consider the men and women who are genuinely stupid or completely unconcerned about consequences. People who would sleep around without using contraception or making sure their partner is clean. Or the people who see sex as a game with a scoring system. These people may be in the minority but their actions will hurt others. Directly and indirectly. If an irresponsible woman gets pregnant by an irresponsible man and she decides to keep the child, the child will suffer. If the irresponsible man keeps getting women pregnant and they keep the kids, he'll be liable for child support. He'll literally pay for his mistakes and I don't imagine he'd be too happy about doing so. Those children grow up and what do they learn from their parents? Do all those children grow up with loving families, good parents and happy lives? Or do they learn from the actions of those around them that it's OK to fuck around because there are ways and means of completely avoiding responsibility for it and there's always welfare. More kids = more money so, hey, procreation is a bit like having a job. Watching a film with someone is consensual fun and it's likely to be free of serious consequence, therefore I'd encourage anyone to watch a film. Indulging in casual sex can have serious consequences so I'd say that it's an act which requires considerable thought before you engage in it. "What if's" and "what might happen" are a necessary evaluation process if you're going to make a choice about something. You don't just fall over and land in a vagina, it takes two people to make sex happen so both people need to consider what could happen on an individual level aside from thinking "let's have sex because it's fun". Sex can have a wonderful outcome but it can also have undesired results. It's not as easy as saying "if you don't want kids, don't have them." Any contraceptive method has a chance of failure, even if it's amazingly low, the chance is still there. The only way to 100% guarantee you don't have kids is to be gay, lesbian or not have sex entirely and even then there are still risks. As I said, I'm not against abortion. I'm certainly not going to shed a tear for the sperm that end up in tissues or periods. Only takes one to jerk off and women are meant to have periods, one isn't mutual most of the time and the other is entirely natural. Neither of those things have serious consequences. And the main point of all my "what iffing" and "how would you feel" is to hopefully make people think a little more, especially if they're asking why didn't the danish girl have an abortion? Sometimes it's not that easy or simple. I don't think people should be punished for having sex, ever. It is fun and it's wonderful but it's not like going to the cinema or going out for a meal. There is always the chance that having sex could leave with you something more than you expected so that needs to be considered before you have it and you should do everything you can to prevent and lessen the risks. But, if someone is too stupid to see the potential risks, they shouldn't be having sex. | ||
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nttea
Sweden4353 Posts
http://ekstrabladet.dk/nyheder/samfund/article1221145.ece according to them she is just an actor, and they claim it is no longer a question IF this is fake, but who is behind the stunt. | ||
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d_so
Korea (South)3262 Posts
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BlackJack
United States10501 Posts
On September 13 2009 10:37 daz wrote: why the hell didn't she just have an abortion? What are you talking about? Where in the video does she say she regreats having the kid at all? She obviously loves the kid and is happy about having it. She is just trying to find out who the father is. | ||
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Krikkitone
United States1451 Posts
On September 13 2009 13:43 Kwark wrote: . Conception is an arbitrary cut off point, just as birth is.. Which is why we should be able to dispose of any human tissue that hasn't reached full sentience and reasoning capacity... (happens at about the age of 25.) | ||
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KwarK
United States42689 Posts
On September 13 2009 15:23 Krikkitone wrote: Which is why we should be able to dispose of any human tissue that hasn't reached full sentience and reasoning capacity... (happens at about the age of 25.) Normally I'd say that's ridiculous but in your case I think you might be right. | ||
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pubbanana
United States3063 Posts
My adventure begins now. | ||
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RaptorX
Germany646 Posts
On September 13 2009 14:34 nttea wrote: Hey guys! if you can read danish: http://ekstrabladet.dk/nyheder/samfund/article1221145.ece according to them she is just an actor, and they claim it is no longer a question IF this is fake, but who is behind the stunt. I dont get it, why do they make that claim? just because they couldnt contact her? they did not provide ANY proof of her being an actress, and then they question whether that was an advertising or if a company is behind it... but I dont know my OWN logic tells me that there is no fucking advertising in that vid... I mean about what?? Also who in their sane mind would create such an "incriminating" video to make a commercial... (I dont say that there inst the stupid fucktard that would do that for money) but how she speaks, her eyes and what she is saying says the opposite. To the 4chaners sneaking here, fuck off, if you think she is stupid, bitch or any other denigrating thing try before posting telling to yourself "I am the stupid fuck that dont know how difficult life is, beyond playing all day long" ... | ||
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Sky
Jordan812 Posts
On September 13 2009 15:36 pubbanana wrote: I think I might be the baby's father. I know I've never been to Denmark and I've also had sex with zero people in my life, but I just have a crazy hunch. My adventure begins now. Follow that shit, follow it into the wind...!!! + Show Spoiler + I don't know much about my family apart from my grandparents (partial even then)... and sometimes I regret not having this information of my family history. **This and that I suppose.** | ||
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KurtistheTurtle
United States1966 Posts
On September 12 2009 22:16 Kwark wrote: Video kind of made me want to go to Denmark, have a one night stand and sabotage any protection we used and then wait on youtube. I'd have like a dozen one night stands though, just to increase the odds of success. in the states we call this franchising | ||
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ActualSteve
United States627 Posts
On September 13 2009 15:54 KurtistheTurtle wrote: in the states we call this franchising yes indeed | ||
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karelen
Sweden2407 Posts
i'm guessing it was a way to raise interest for a movie | ||
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Railxp
Hong Kong1313 Posts
--- edit: curses this is what i get for only reading the first post and not reading the rest of the thread -.-''. Still captured my interest and lol at the 15092831 people defending her motherly love. | ||
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sword_siege
United States624 Posts
http://virkeligheden.dk/?p=1040 | ||
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Ao_Jun
Denmark396 Posts
" Looking for the father of my child! Hello, my name is ASDAFD and i am looking for the swedish man i had sex with last year bla bla bla. meet me at The bridge thursday at noon." or something (This was 'art' made by an artist called HuskMitNavn) A bunch of swedish men showed up tho  | ||
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Alur
Denmark3900 Posts
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floor exercise
Canada5847 Posts
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Draconizard
628 Posts
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Johnranger-123
United Kingdom341 Posts
Maybe to lol at peoples responces... | ||
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Elroi
Sweden5595 Posts
On September 13 2009 15:01 BlackJack wrote: What are you talking about? Where in the video does she say she regreats having the kid at all? She obviously loves the kid and is happy about having it. She is just trying to find out who the father is. And people wonder why we think she is a morron? ohh god don't know if I should cry or laugh when I see this... Seriously though, I am the father | ||
Twisted
Netherlands13554 Posts
No reason to bash on her for trying to find the father of the kid via an unconvential (but probably most effective) way. I doubt the father is ever going to contact her though. It was probably just a one-night-stand and he wouldn't know what the fuck to do with a baby :/ | ||
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Blyf
Denmark408 Posts
On September 13 2009 22:20 Alur wrote: Denmark be trollin' For sho' | ||
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Ota Solgryn
Denmark2011 Posts
All danish media's have confirmed that it is fake. She is a girl studying acting and made this as a project. This happens often in Denmark, where up and coming actors make similar "stunts". Guess this one was very clever and effective. Source from a renowned news paper. | ||
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Wire
United States494 Posts
at least now we know that real women who have one night stands are less than likely to go on youtube now i was gonna applaud her effort before reading ^ | ||
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Johnranger-123
United Kingdom341 Posts
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Iplaythings
Denmark9110 Posts
On September 14 2009 01:00 Elroi wrote: And people wonder why we think she is a morron? ohh god don't know if I should cry or laugh when I see this... Seriously though, I am the father Waaaaauw! I rly hope your are either joking or heading to Denmark atm cus stuff like that is srsly srs bizniz! On September 13 2009 15:46 RaptorX wrote: I dont get it, why do they make that claim? just because they couldnt contact her? they did not provide ANY proof of her being an actress, and then they question whether that was an advertising or if a company is behind it... but I dont know my OWN logic tells me that there is no fucking advertising in that vid... I mean about what?? Also who in their sane mind would create such an "incriminating" video to make a commercial... (I dont say that there inst the stupid fucktard that would do that for money) but how she speaks, her eyes and what she is saying says the opposite. To the 4chaners sneaking here, fuck off, if you think she is stupid, bitch or any other denigrating thing try before posting telling to yourself "I am the stupid fuck that dont know how difficult life is, beyond playing all day long" ... You've no idea, "ekstra bladet" is known for finding out everything about everything (and some of it actually turns out to be true!) | ||
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Mobius
Canada1268 Posts
On September 12 2009 22:30 Sean.G wrote: That's pretty interesting. Technology, huh. And also this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EU5XT-64Tbs&feature=response_watch LOL | ||
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Xeofreestyler
Belgium6771 Posts
On September 13 2009 13:59 Draconizard wrote: Sex is more about reproduction than fun. Ideally, it should only happen when procreation is the desired outcome. you are so pre-1960 | ||
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thopol
Japan4560 Posts
fix'd EDIT: Not to imply that your isn't more clever... | ||
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Liquid`Nazgul
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Blyf
Denmark408 Posts
It has been confirmed that the federal turist organisation "VisitDenmark" is behind this video. They made it in order to show the so called "free spirit" that Denmark is known for. Problem is that they meant to showcase the girl as an independent young woman, living happily in Denmark even though she is a single mother who doesn't know who the father is. Yeah right. All the danish media are rightfully going nuts about how this conveys danish girls as being easy and slutty, and that's exactly what they were trying to do. Like saying that you should all travel to Denmark, and you'll easily get with some hot blonde waiting to fuck you all night long without a condom. Some muslim media already picked up on this, making public statements about the low moral of the danish people. Not that I care too much about some muslim's view about danes, but we certainly don't need more shit after that muhammed crisis... | ||
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nttea
Sweden4353 Posts
On September 14 2009 18:05 Blyf wrote: :UPDATE: It has been confirmed that the federal turist organisation "VisitDenmark" is behind this video. They made it in order to show the so called "free spirit" that Denmark is known for. Problem is that they meant to showcase the girl as an independent young woman, living happily in Denmark even though she is a single mother who doesn't know who the father is. Yeah right. All the danish media are rightfully going nuts about how this conveys danish girls as being easy and slutty, and that's exactly what they were trying to do. Like saying that you should all travel to Denmark, and you'll easily get with some hot blonde waiting to fuck you all night long without a condom. Some muslim media already picked up on this, making public statements about the low moral of the danish people. Not that I care too much about some muslim's view about danes, but we certainly don't need more shit after that muhammed crisis... rofl^^ that's awesome. and totally insane :p | ||
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KwarK
United States42689 Posts
And nobody really cares, there are easy girls in every country. Your media are taking this too seriously if they think this gives them bad press, that's like saying Paris Hilton gives the US as a whole bad press. | ||
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Liquid`Nazgul
22427 Posts
On September 14 2009 18:05 Blyf wrote: :UPDATE: It has been confirmed that the federal turist organisation "VisitDenmark" is behind this video. They made it in order to show the so called "free spirit" that Denmark is known for. Problem is that they meant to showcase the girl as an independent young woman, living happily in Denmark even though she is a single mother who doesn't know who the father is. Yeah right. All the danish media are rightfully going nuts about how this conveys danish girls as being easy and slutty, and that's exactly what they were trying to do. Like saying that you should all travel to Denmark, and you'll easily get with some hot blonde waiting to fuck you all night long without a condom. Some muslim media already picked up on this, making public statements about the low moral of the danish people. Not that I care too much about some muslim's view about danes, but we certainly don't need more shit after that muhammed crisis... How is that rightful at all, anyone in their right mind doesn't go by samples of one to judge a whole country. Maybe if it was the president. | ||
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Orome
Switzerland11984 Posts
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Mutaahh
Netherlands859 Posts
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Blyf
Denmark408 Posts
On September 14 2009 21:10 Liquid`Nazgul wrote: How is that rightful at all, anyone in their right mind doesn't go by samples of one to judge a whole country. Maybe if it was the president. In case you missed it, VisitDenmark is a federal organisation. Tax-payers payed for this film. I'm not saying I disapprove of the film, but I can certainly understand why some people think it is a bit controversial that the government would pay for such a - should we say... "unusual"? - commercial for Denmark. | ||
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SatouxKisei
233 Posts
On September 12 2009 22:26 Iplaythings wrote: You stay away from our women ! Should I come to great britain and stream all your tea into the themes? I don't think you'd like it (I feel sorry for her) :3 | ||
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KingofHearts
Japan562 Posts
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pR0gR4m3R
Spain1446 Posts
http://www.elpais.com/articulo/gente/Nos/conocimos/estuviste/vacaciones/Dinamarca/elpepugen/20090916elpepuage_4/Tes | ||
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Iplaythings
Denmark9110 Posts
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JonsaBoy
Denmark457 Posts
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EvilTeletubby
Baltimore, USA22254 Posts
On September 19 2009 05:16 JonsaBoy wrote: I still don't get how this is supposed to be an ad for Denmark. HOT GIRLS HAVE UNPROTECTED ONE NIGHT STANDS WITH YOU, VISIT DENMARK NOWWWW!! | ||
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LuckyOne
266 Posts
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KwarK
United States42689 Posts
On September 19 2009 05:16 JonsaBoy wrote: I still don't get how this is supposed to be an ad for Denmark. On September 12 2009 22:16 Kwark wrote: Video kind of made me want to go to Denmark, have a one night stand and sabotage any protection we used and then wait on youtube. I'd have like a dozen one night stands though, just to increase the odds of success. | ||
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MasterReY
Germany2708 Posts
On September 13 2009 07:05 resonance wrote: Agreeeddddd. Threads like this make me see what posters live normal lives and which ones have sat in a dark room staring at a screen for the past 8 years. @ Chrispy: i understand that she wants to know who the father is and that her baby is important to her. Its totally fine, BUT my point is that she makes a video where she speaks to the viewers, so its just polite to watch in the camera and not speaking with her head down. Thats just manners. @resonance: Sure you know everything about me because of my post. I think ur description even fits more to you because obviously you have the time to critize other posters without saying anything about the topic. If you do that in all forums im sure you spend alot of time on it There are many idiots in forums. I dont even need to say more about it because it doesnt matter to me what you think I have a good life and im happy  | ||
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Rebuke[SkyNet]
18 Posts
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TwilightStar
United States649 Posts
On September 12 2009 22:03 Kwark wrote: At the time she probably didn't care about his name etc. Was just a one night stand, it happens. She still doesn't care who he is, it's about the kid. Someone out there is a father and doesn't know it, he should. Even if the guy did see this video, He might not even want to bother with the child (he doesn't even know the woman, why get into a situation like that). I bet she's getting trolled in her messages right now =( | ||
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sob3k
United States7572 Posts
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SchOOl_VicTIm
Greece2394 Posts
On September 25 2009 07:41 sob3k wrote: This video isn't real, it was actually created by the danish tourism bureau as part of some sort of ad campaign. You can look it up, it was pretty controversial. If that's true, it's genious!! | ||
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Etherone
United States1898 Posts
On September 19 2009 05:28 EvilTeletubby wrote: HOT GIRLS HAVE UNPROTECTED ONE NIGHT STANDS WITH YOU, VISIT DENMARK NOWWWW!! you forgot to add the part where in the she gets pregnant she will be able to comfortably provide for the child and will leave a door wide open for whenever you are ready for fatherhood.. | ||
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