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Slomo
Germany7198 Posts
It might sound selfish but your own health is still the most important thing. Take the timeout you need and decide what you want to do after. Depression is no slouch and pulling trough as a couple requires both parties to work on it. I'm sure everything will turn out fine for you.  | ||
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PoulsenB
Poland7733 Posts
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Artisreal
Germany9235 Posts
I have to say that I've never dealt actively with a depressive Person. I have some Friends that are rather melancholic or have a negative Outlook on life (due to different reasons) but that arent depressed. So I aint not expert. So I can only say that it's incredibly hard to be supportive 100% of the time. So hard that it's almost impossible. Try not to feel bad about not being able to cope with that pressure. It is alright to have limits. And respect them. You worded it rather fittingly: when you can't take care of yourself, how can you do the same for others. Only by sacrificing your self. (not yourself, your self.). What helped me in the end was to not be the sole outlet/support for my wife when she had bad times. We oftentimes are most honest with the People closest to us - Family and Partners - by which we can burden them over their capacity. Insofar help, be it by a professional or just some other individuals that can support you in shouldering some of the burden, it might help you be less strained by your partner's Depression. much love, stay strong and rely on help when needed! | ||
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Faruko
Chile34173 Posts
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Unleashing
Denmark14978 Posts
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goody153
44238 Posts
As for you my man. Find some things that would take off your mind over the things that are stressing you out atm,. | ||
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Nevuk
United States16280 Posts
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Fleetfeet
Canada2652 Posts
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tehh4ck3r
Magrathea7066 Posts
On June 29 2019 05:30 Nevuk wrote: So what games are worth getting on the switch aside from xenoblade, botw, and hollow knight and I guess the obvious ones like Mario and smash? picross | ||
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Comeh
United States18919 Posts
On June 28 2019 22:46 Faruko wrote: i know this is not the place tbh, but i feel like shit, i'm on the verge of breaking with the girl i love, she has depression and its starting to affect me, and i can't be her support if i can't even help myself we had a pretty terrible (crying all over the place) yesterday talk and we decide we should split out for a bit... and think stuff, even my mom is flying in this minute to be with me i really dont know what to do. I'm sorry  but i really consider you guys as part of my life tbh, even if its all meme and random stuff<3 <3 <3 <3 I'm sorry mate, thats really hard . As someone with depression, its something the person afflicted has to be proactive about self care - you cant rely on others to help you through it. Encourage her to find the help she needs, be it medication or therapy or both. (currently doing both atm with good results). But you also have to look out for yourself, and there's only so much you can do as a partner. Its good you are recognizing whats important for you, regardless of anything. I'm sorry man, I hope it works out for you both but you'll get through this either way. *hugs* | ||
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Faruko
Chile34173 Posts
 u guysThank for this kind words, it's been a terrible time and I've decided that I'll see a therapist too, i need to work on myself, I really don't want to end this relationship but i also need to take care of myself. I'll tell her about this because i know that if we continue like this we will hit a wall anyway and it'll be way worse. I'm more optimistic today I've been talking with friends, family, reading your comments and I've been feeling much better and more peaceful, it's not gonna be easy but at least I'm start to see, albeit really small, light at the end of this long tunnel | ||
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Yurie
12049 Posts
On June 29 2019 05:30 Nevuk wrote: So what games are worth getting on the switch aside from xenoblade, botw, and hollow knight and I guess the obvious ones like Mario and smash? Diablo and bomber man. | ||
TheEmulator
28099 Posts
You might enjoy Octopath as well. The new Pokemon is obviously good if you're already into Pokemon. Since you mentioned Hollow Knight I would like to also point out that Celeste was released on the Switch as well and is probably the best platformer I've ever played. | ||
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Faruko
Chile34173 Posts
Touch controls, buttons, can play in bed, etc... | ||
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Erasme
Bahamas15899 Posts
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Faruko
Chile34173 Posts
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Fleetfeet
Canada2652 Posts
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TheEmulator
28099 Posts
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rabidch
United States20289 Posts
On June 30 2019 09:54 Erasme wrote: why do people hate on cod but not on pokemon ? literally the same game over and over and over one is cute the other one isnt | ||
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SKC
Brazil18828 Posts
But people are starting to get annoyed with some of GameFreaks bullshit now too. | ||
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