EPTI'm quite shocked to read some people seem to take this list as completely serious. Or does my reading comprehension fail this much?
Dutch girl commits suicide over ''Banga-List" - Page 3
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Blaming a 13 year old girl for her own suicide on the basis that she's a "slut" is NOT acceptable. | ||
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Mafe
Germany5966 Posts
I'm quite shocked to read some people seem to take this list as completely serious. Or does my reading comprehension fail this much? | ||
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aebriol
Norway2066 Posts
On March 29 2012 19:43 tehneXus wrote: People who suicide just can't handle the truth. no disrespect to people, still i dont think this was the cause, and as people have said, you can't exactly hide being a slut I think you are a complete and utter moron. If you object, you just can't handle the truth. When someone commits suicide, there can be a lot of different reasons, but one of them can easily be a group of kids just deciding that it was fun to pick on that person because he or she was somewhat different, and well - they wanted a victim. Gay teenagers are more likely to commit suicide for precisely that reason. And that's not because they 'can't handle the truth' - it's because fucking morons think it's fun to ruin someones life for shit and giggles. | ||
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aebriol
Norway2066 Posts
On March 29 2012 19:47 Mafe wrote: I assumed this list was obviously just a random teenage "fun" stuff to mock girls and not meant to be based on real experiences. I mean, at the age of ~13, come on. I'm quite shocked to read some people seem to take this list as completely serious. Or does my reading comprehension fail this much? It doesn't. There are quite a few idiots in this thread. | ||
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MichaelDonovan
United States1453 Posts
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Tommylew
Wales2717 Posts
So sad though!¬cant see this being the only reason, must be more to it then just a list, perhpas taunts every day and also social networking abuse.. anyway hope they find out and punish anyone invovled!! | ||
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Yggdrasil Leaf
221 Posts
On March 29 2012 19:48 MichaelDonovan wrote: If you're mind is weak enough to commit suicide because of something that silly, then I don't feel bad for you. And still another comment like this. Sad and hilarious. | ||
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Dali.
New Zealand689 Posts
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khaydarin9
Australia423 Posts
This is eerily reminiscent of the book Thirteen Reasons Why, by Jay Asher, who did an extraordinary job of capturing the depressive thought processes of a teenage girl, and the complex cruelty of the high school social environment. | ||
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nymfaw
Norway430 Posts
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Antyee
Hungary1011 Posts
On March 29 2012 19:47 Mafe wrote: I assumed this list was obviously just a random teenage "fun" stuff to mock girls and not meant to be based on real experiences. I mean, at the age of ~13, come on. I'm quite shocked to read some people seem to take this list as completely serious. Or does my reading comprehension fail this much? I've seen way too many half-dead drunk 12-15 years old kids to be sure that this list is in fact just "fun stuff". One can see a lot of things if he lives in a small city with sometimes 4X more tourists than original inhabitants. | ||
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Misanthrope
United States924 Posts
On March 29 2012 19:28 KonohaFlash wrote: I completely agree with you. People don't seem to understand that kids these days are learning about sex at much earlier ages, and are deciding to experiment. I'm not saying that they should be doing this, but it's reality. I'm pretty sure she didn't know this was going to happen(banga list) and she overreacted about how much of an impact this would have on her life and killed herself. I agree. It's very hard to have the kind of perspective necessary to weather the effects of hardcore slut-shaming, or the effects of any set of circumstances that result in your community feeling like they have an open license to hound you. We don't know to what extent slut-shaming really had an impact on her life, but it's not uncommon for women to commit suicide when their community turns against them. Often women or girls in this kind of a situation are treated as fair game for many kinds of abuse after their sex lives become exposed. Violence and emotional abuse are very common. The bottom line is that harassment for any consensual sexual practice is always wrong. | ||
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Grumbels
Netherlands7028 Posts
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Paperplane
Netherlands1823 Posts
On March 29 2012 19:59 Grumbels wrote: "banga" is not a Dutch word. o.o I guess I'm out of touch. I'm guessing it's a word from Suriname or the Dutch Antilles | ||
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Roflhaxx
Korea (South)1244 Posts
On March 29 2012 19:55 Antyee wrote: I've seen way too many half-dead drunk 12-15 years old kids to be sure that this list is in fact just "fun stuff". One can see a lot of things if he lives in a small city with sometimes 4X more tourists than original inhabitants. half-dead drunk 12 year olds!? O.o I speak from experience from when I was around that age, 12 year olds were NOT drinking and fucking around. 14 year olds, yea sure but 12!? Must be a cultural difference I guess. | ||
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ShadeR
Australia7535 Posts
Edit:+ Show Spoiler + I hope she has since been taken off the list or else we have another problem =P User was temp banned for this post. | ||
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Ahelvin
France1866 Posts
This kind of replies are utter disgusting. I don't want to read this thread, I'm going to get angry. Get some dignity here. | ||
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Zyte
Netherlands564 Posts
On March 29 2012 19:59 Grumbels wrote: Keep up with the slang man.."banga" is not a Dutch word. o.o I guess I'm out of touch. Anyways i wasnt aware of the word nor those list. Crazy teenagers. Seems from her twitter she was pretty unstable so yeah i guess a lot more was probably going on then just that BANGALIST -.- Sad ofc. | ||
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teamamerica
United States958 Posts
All the same, judging bad parenting and 'worth depriving your life over'? How can I judge how her parents were when the article doesn't even talk about them. Do you say it's always at least to some degree the parents fault when their child commits suicide? Maybe, but I don't. As to judge whether being on this list is worth committing suicide over, is anything really worth killing yourself over? On the surface, I can't think of anything 'worth' committing suicide over, and I think it's a combination of a ton of different things that put someone in that state. That's like saying, and not to trivialize suicide, was it worth building carriers in that game. On the surface it might seem confusing (who builds carriers?/sc2 whine) but maybe it was a PvT and the T went mass tank/hellion with a low viking count and few thors, then carriers are good. How do you look at one factor and judge a whole situation? edit: also at everyone saying she 'deserved this' or her parents 'deserved it' - have you ever had immediate family die? Tell me how people deserve to lose family then. Esp a 13 year old girl thinking her only option was to end her life. Holy shit. | ||
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Bippzy
United States1466 Posts
Shit. When i was a kid.....haha just kidding still a kid. Whenever you think the world is really good, it just goes and sucks. | ||
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Masq
Canada1792 Posts
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