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On July 13 2005 18:18 lightman wrote:
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I don't feel like bad because, my perception of life is that people get what they deserve, and I'm not saying she deserved it, but she was definetly caught off-guard, and well I think when you are a beautiful woman like she is, you always have to be on-guard, simple things: lock the door, never go through dark alleys, etc, you know what I mean. Of course I don't feel good at all.
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I don't get you man, how the fuck can you say such thing. She deserves to be raped because she's beautiful and doesn't lock her door ? Only one who deserve something here is that fucker who did this. And we all know what is that.
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MURICA15980 Posts
There have been some really good posts, and some very very bad ones. I can't believe you guys can just joke about it like that. You probably really meant no harm with the jokes, but I still won't accept them as okay. They aren't in this situation.
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Thanks for all responses guys, even the inappropiate ones make me realize more and more that the way I am behaving is the right way.
I spoke to her awhile ago on the phone, and she felt better. Well I supposse that like the saying goes "things pass by", I will do my best so that each day she feels better and better and sees life again. I told her I want her to go to the doctor to get the rest of her tests (she initially didn't want to), go to a psycologist, and to consider taking a vacation, I told her that if things work out maybe I can take him to a cruise or something. She isn't pretty wealthy, she's 25 but her job doesn't pay very good and her family is middle-low class, so I guess a change of environment at least for a few days would make good.
It's very hard not to think in the cops issue, or revenge and stuff, right now I just want her to be healthy again. When she gets back to normal I may either forget the whole thing or I don't know. I do agree the guy can do that to another girls. Right now I just want her to be healthy again.
Once again thanks.
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Mani made very good post.It has never happened to me and I hope it wont in the future,however I think I could imagine how would I feel after sth like that...It is really hard situation,I do not know you nor I know her.The only one thing I hope is valuable to add from side is that, that if you go to the cops and they catch him it will prevent other girls from getting raped by him.He deserves to go to prison,but if it is impossible to find out who did it(she did not see him etc),the best thing you can do is to give up this guy and help your girlfriend.Propably she needs you now more than anytime before.
People please do not tell jokes in this thread.If you were in his situation you would not want to here unfunny jokes about it.
Best of luck,
Regards
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On July 14 2005 01:39 BlaCha wrote:Show nested quote +On July 13 2005 18:18 lightman wrote:
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I don't feel like bad because, my perception of life is that people get what they deserve, and I'm not saying she deserved it, but she was definetly caught off-guard, and well I think when you are a beautiful woman like she is, you always have to be on-guard, simple things: lock the door, never go through dark alleys, etc, you know what I mean. Of course I don't feel good at all.
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I don't get you man, how the fuck can you say such thing. She deserves to be raped because she's beautiful and doesn't lock her door ? Only one who deserve something here is that fucker who did this. And we all know what is that.
I know what you mean. I know it's hard to read, I'm not saying she deserved it like you may interpret, I may have missused the word. What I meant was that she made herself an easy target.
Well it doesn't matter now.
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On July 13 2005 18:20 gg_hertzz wrote:
My only question is...
What map was it on?
You're a fucking idiot.
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Damn, I respect your calm reaction really. I surely would hunt and beat the shit out of that motherfucker.
Good luck to you and your GF, take her to a psychologist asap so she can get past the trauma
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You really should at least mortally injure or castrate the fucking scum that did that to your girlfriend, what a hard experience it must be for all of you.
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On July 14 2005 00:57 Manifesto7 wrote:
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There's multiple ways of dealing with a story such as rape. One is taking it serious and dieing of an heart attack and the other is joking about it a bit and laughing yourself to death. I find neither truely disrespectfull and note that noone really is making jokes about lightman himself or his girlfriend.
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My fiance told me that when she commuted the same man would grope her every morning and she couldn't say anything about it. This went on for years.
OMG! I thought that was just a joke in GTO. You mean this kind of shit really happens? Getting groped every day for years?!!
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On July 14 2005 09:43 Hippopotamus wrote:Show nested quote +My fiance told me that when she commuted the same man would grope her every morning and she couldn't say anything about it. This went on for years. OMG! I thought that was just a joke in GTO. You mean this kind of shit really happens? Getting groped every day for years?!!
Yeah it happens a lot in Japan. Some of the women have low self esteem and too embarass to report to the police and such
Some people these days just deserve to die =/
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no joke my g/f's grandma currently 78 years of age was just recently raped by a black man 
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Braavos36379 Posts
all this talk of revenge and violence reminds me of that movie Irreversible with monica belluci... with the crazy graphic beatdown and the crazy graphic rape scene
also trance, that's crazy if it's true
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If Drone knows 3 people who have gotten raped in his country, I don't even want to think about how often it happens here in America.
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On July 14 2005 10:02 tranCe[RaGe] wrote:no joke my g/f's grandma currently 78 years of age was just recently raped by a black man
why do u have to mention "black"? i don't get it, isn't it just a man who raped her? :s
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On July 14 2005 08:52 TrainingMacro wrote:There's multiple ways of dealing with a story such as rape. One is taking it serious and dieing of an heart attack and the other is joking about it a bit and laughing yourself to death. I find neither truely disrespectfull and note that noone really is making jokes about lightman himself or his girlfriend.
i hope your mother gets hit by a bus.
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Braavos36379 Posts
On July 14 2005 10:12 fanta[Rn] wrote:Show nested quote +On July 14 2005 10:02 tranCe[RaGe] wrote:no joke my g/f's grandma currently 78 years of age was just recently raped by a black man why do u have to mention "black"? i don't get it, isn't it just a man who raped her? :s
i suppose it shouldn't be debated here, but there are two stereotypical leaps the adjective "black" implies here...
a) that black men are more often criminals
or
b) black men stereotypically have larger genetalia
the a) is quite racist and if that was his intention the word "black" probably shouldn't have been included in his post, but if b) was his intention, it's still slightly bigoted but "black man" won't get you banned but "no joke, grandma raped buy man with large penis" will, and his intent was to show just how severe the event was
that's my take on his reasoning for it
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On July 14 2005 10:12 fanta[Rn] wrote:Show nested quote +On July 14 2005 10:02 tranCe[RaGe] wrote:no joke my g/f's grandma currently 78 years of age was just recently raped by a black man why do u have to mention "black"? i don't get it, isn't it just a man who raped her? :s
Look at miniority crime ratio to white... and we will talk again... its a fact miniorities in this country cause more crime sorry im not racist just a fact. thanks
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Russian Federation4447 Posts
Well whites do cause more crimes combined then all the minorities put together because they have a larger population.
However, the ratio of crimes of minorities is higher i believe.
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On July 13 2005 18:20 gg_hertzz wrote:
My only question is...
What map was it on?
as mean as it is that reply is gold
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