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squattincassanova
United States650 Posts
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Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
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Xiphos
Canada7507 Posts
On February 17 2012 10:57 squattincassanova wrote: Not sure what this morphed into. Based on your pictures, you seem like you are pretty social and well rounded guy. If you want some healthy competition (with some sort of scoring system) I'm down. If you wanna just hang out, I'm down too. This comment caught me off guard with an aura of creepiness... + Show Spoiler + up until the realization that myself isn't the subject. | ||
Mjolnir
912 Posts
On February 17 2012 04:13 JudicatorHammurabi wrote: One doesn't have to advocate it to know that fact. If you know anything about meeting people, when you meet a random stranger irl, how the heck are you supposed to know they are emotionally needy or anything about them besides their physical attributes? You don't. :S I'll tell you what, I bet that I can walk into a room full of people, and after a few minutes of observing how they interact, have a reasonable indication of what their personalities are like. I used to bartend in university at a really popular local bar - I saw all kinds of people and I would wager that more often than not, I could tell you when someone was insecure to the point that a douchebag would want to hit on them for an easy score. The early days of the PUA scene focused on this shit. Now they just try to make pretty girls feel insecure to get the same advantage. EDIT: Typo. | ||
DerekJCEX
United States64 Posts
On February 17 2012 10:57 squattincassanova wrote: Not sure what this morphed into. Based on your pictures, you seem like you are pretty social and well rounded guy. If you want some healthy competition (with some sort of scoring system) I'm down. If you wanna just hang out, I'm down too. Subtle dodge IMO | ||
sunprince
United States2258 Posts
On February 17 2012 11:21 Mjolnir wrote:I'll tell you what, I bet that I can walk into a room full of people, and after a few minutes of observing how they interact, have a reasonable indication of what their personalities are like. I used to bartend in university at a really popular local bar - I saw all kinds of people and I would wager that more often than not, I could tell you when someone was insecure to the point that a douchebag would want to hit on them for an easy score. The early days of the PUA scene focused on this shit. Now they just try to make pretty girls feel insecure to get the same advantage. You keep insisting that pick-up is somehow centered on picking up insecure girls or making girls feel insecure. Do you have any evidence whatsoever to back this up? | ||
Proct
United States69 Posts
On February 17 2012 10:57 squattincassanova wrote: Not sure what this morphed into. Based on your pictures, you seem like you are pretty social and well rounded guy. If you want some healthy competition (with some sort of scoring system) I'm down. If you wanna just hang out, I'm down too. So you are throwing in the towel before we even enter the club? I understand completely... The truth of the matter is. "GAME" is the most retarded, bullshit, ever. No one who really gets laid uses "GAME" they just have it. I don't walk up to girls thinking "guys lets approach this set over here" I mean WTF???!!! I've lost count on how many "LAYS" ive had but its around 120 and I didn't get there by using some bullshit game. Leave these nerds alone, if anything help them. Stop bragging its pathetic ![]() | ||
sunprince
United States2258 Posts
On February 17 2012 11:36 Proct wrote:No one who really gets laid uses "GAME" they just have it. I don't walk up to girls thinking "guys lets approach this set over here" I mean WTF???!!! I've lost count on how many "LAYS" ive had but its around 120 and I didn't get there by using some bullshit game. "Game" is just a subset of social skills. Some people are naturally more social than others, but that doesn't mean that others can't learn those same skills. I get that you're a natural with social skills, but that doesn't mean you haven't improved over time or that others can't improve either. Are you seriously arguing that social skills can't be learned? Would you say the same about poker skills, that you're either born good at poker or not? On February 17 2012 11:36 Proct wrote:Leave these nerds alone, if anything help them. If you really want to help nerds, the last thing you should be telling them is that they they don't have game and can't possibly do anything about it. | ||
Pejelagarto
Mexico27 Posts
I'd like a report of how everything goes when it's over, if you don't mind. What I want to ask rather than question wheter or not this works, (because even I have seen how a no brainer stupid phrase like "because you deserve it" said with confidence works wonders) ,it's if anyone of you started to hate women or hated them even more because of this. I have read the op, a few pages of the first ones and saw the video posted in the last page, I also read a "THE GAME" book, I think the one written by "Love Doc". I'm not sure if I remember, anyway that doesn't matter. What I'm getting at is that I have been getting my doses of "real world" these last few years, funny thing is that when I was in primary school, I thought everything was roses and chocolates, I "planned" to marry and have 5 kids, silly, silly me. The "having 5 kids" was shot down beautifully by common sense, marrying is rapidly falling down before crashing in the ground and finally even having kids at all it's being questioned by my brain, with this dating at all is falling apart too. The reason for my doubts is that you get to know things by talking and interacting with people and when you finally realize that "he has a second family, one of her children is not from the husband and he thinks it is, she is dating another man while married" is not longer soap opera material and it happens so commonly and so close that you start to question if real world really works like that. I'm not stupid to think that horrible things don't happen and even my 10 years old self understood it, but to think that even in good things like marriage, friends, schools and even work that is supposed to be the place were you are aiming at to take a stand against the world, and this just taking me my personal world that is so close to me, is also painted by betrayal, rape, cheating and cuckoldry, lies and appearances is kind of disheartening. My bubble fantasy world was popped brutally and suddenly by my own bubble fantasy world. You are probably thinking this dude must be depressed as fuck, or thinking of telling me that there's also wonderful things in life and that my close world is probably just rotten and that somewhere out there exists real friends, real marriage, real everything out there (by real I mean without the horrible things) and bla bla bla, I know. That's why I escape reality by reading books, playing games, listening to music, etc, but not everything is escaping, I also try and make reality my bitch but I try to not get too crazy. I get to enjoy good things also but if for example a book I'm reading suddenly pisses me off and I don't consider it worth reading I drop it, that's why I'm asking: Does picking up girls like this, talking to them, laughing with them, having fun and possibly having sex with them outweights the possibility of me beating and plundering what's left of my bubble fantasy world? Will I get to reconsider having a family and kids? Or is this going to push me into putting the last nail in the coffin in which once were my goals and aspirations in life? TL;DR: Do you get to know women so well that you start hating them or hating them even more? If you do or you don't, Do you also get to know women so well that you start loving them or loving them even more, so much that they make you want to have a family? | ||
sunprince
United States2258 Posts
On February 17 2012 11:48 Pejelagarto wrote:Do you get to know women so well that you start hating them or hating them even more? If you do or you don't, Do you also get to know women so well that you start loving them or loving them even more, so much that they make you want to have a family? People in general suck, and that includes both men and women. Most people lie, steal, and cheat. The only difference between men and women is that most of us grow up being taught that women are innocent and pure... but in reality, they're mostly just like men: some are good, some are bad, and most are somewhere in between. The simple solution is to find the good ones. The best part about developing seduction skills is that your options will expand, given you more choices and letting you dump a girl without any hesitation when she betrays you. It's too bad that not all people are worth loving, but that's reality. Don't let that make you bitter or hate women, at least not anymore than you would hate men for doing the same bullshit. Love the women who deserve it and next the ones who don't. | ||
Ryder.
1117 Posts
On February 17 2012 08:11 Proct wrote: squattincassanova, does it make you feel better about yourself to brag to nerds about the 12 ugly girls you have hooked up with in 365 days? On February 17 2012 09:09 Proct wrote: He just knows he's SO insecure that he has to come and brag to all you nerds about how he barely gets laid... People who really get laid don't need to post on a forum about how much ass they pull. This guy is pathetic. Yes, I could get a dozen women into bed in a month if I tried. FWIW the pick up game is pathetic... BE YOUR OWN MAN. Maybe, if you spent your time on actually getting girls instead of bragging about how pathetic you on this forum. u might get laid some On February 17 2012 10:38 Proct wrote: G sus... You must be going for the bottom of the barrel up there on the rooftop.... I don't think you realize who you are up against On February 17 2012 11:36 Proct wrote: So you are throwing in the towel before we even enter the club? I understand completely... The truth of the matter is. "GAME" is the most retarded, bullshit, ever. No one who really gets laid uses "GAME" they just have it. I don't walk up to girls thinking "guys lets approach this set over here" I mean WTF???!!! I've lost count on how many "LAYS" ive had but its around 120 and I didn't get there by using some bullshit game. Leave these nerds alone, if anything help them. Stop bragging its pathetic ![]() Something doesn't add up here | ||
Jesushooves
Canada553 Posts
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Xiphos
Canada7507 Posts
On February 17 2012 12:08 Jesushooves wrote: This thread just became exponentially more interesting. Very psyched with our current standoff between the "alphas" | ||
Pejelagarto
Mexico27 Posts
On February 17 2012 11:52 sunprince wrote: People in general suck, and that includes both men and women. Most people lie, steal, and cheat. The only difference between men and women is that most of us grow up being taught that women are innocent and pure... but in reality, they're mostly just like men: some are good, some are bad, and most are somewhere in between. The simple solution is to find the good ones. The best part about developing seduction skills is that your options will expand, given you more choices and letting you dump a girl without any hesitation when she betrays you. It's too bad that not all people are worth loving, but that's reality. Don't let that make you bitter or hate women, at least not anymore than you would hate men for doing the same bullshit. Love the women who deserve it and next the ones who don't. Well, that was simple and pretty logical too. I guess it won't hurt too much to give it a try. If this was a rpg game discussion it would be like: level up more, recruit more people into your party and try them to know which ones suck and which not, some might attempt to betray you but if that happens you can just kick them out and when you get to know enough people and gain enough levels, choose the ones you like and and when you feel ready go fight the final boss. Thanks. | ||
7mk
Germany10157 Posts
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Proct
United States69 Posts
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squattincassanova
United States650 Posts
On February 17 2012 11:36 Proct wrote: So you are throwing in the towel before we even enter the club? I understand completely... The truth of the matter is. "GAME" is the most retarded, bullshit, ever. No one who really gets laid uses "GAME" they just have it. I don't walk up to girls thinking "guys lets approach this set over here" I mean WTF???!!! I've lost count on how many "LAYS" ive had but its around 120 and I didn't get there by using some bullshit game. Leave these nerds alone, if anything help them. Stop bragging its pathetic ![]() Merits of Game First of all, I'm not dodging at all. In fact you will be the one that won't show up. 100% guaranteed. I will talk about this in the next paragraph. Whether or not you win, does not in any way reflect the merits of Game. You could have gone out for the last 10 years of your life, and I have gone out 1 year of my life. Everyone has different starting levels. There are plenty of naturals who are better than me that has never learned Game through textbooks just like there are plenty of Black guys buffer than me who never go to the gym specifically for bodybuilding. That doesn't mean that lifting weights does not increase muscle. Your logic is flawed because you are a rich decent looking guy who has had a lot of social practice. You don't represent the average guy getting into the game. Also, the mere fact of going out every weekend makes you social in general. You been going out a lot longer than me, which means if you lose, then obviously your rate of learning is slower than someone who specifically learns PU. Rules of This Weekend I know you have a lot of money and are social proofed. So here is the deal to make external factors constant. 1. No bringing chicks or famous people for social proof except Rekrul or witnesses 2. No getting tables or buying chicks drinks (apparently based on your Facebook wall, you love buying chicks drinks). 3. Rekrul or a neutral person will pick the group/set we are going to approach so you don't get to chose chicks already into you. 4. To keep it constant, we will only be approaching all 2 set, or all 3 sets, or all mixed sets. YOUR PICK. 5. I have an extra set of audio recorder and we both get recorded for the whole night. See you at Club Stingaree 10pm sharp. Lets see you back up your talk ![]() | ||
Proct
United States69 Posts
On February 17 2012 12:21 squattincassanova wrote: Merits of Game First of all, I'm not dodging at all. In fact you will be the one that won't show up. 100% guaranteed. I will talk about this in the next paragraph. Whether or not you win, does not in any way reflect the merits of Game. You could have gone out for the last 10 years of your life, and I have gone out 1 year of my life. Everyone has different starting levels. There are plenty of naturals who are better than me that has never learned Game through textbooks just like there are plenty of Black guys buffer than me who never go to the gym specifically for bodybuilding. That doesn't mean that lifting weights does not increase muscle. Your logic is flawed because you are a rich decent looking guy who has had a lot of social practice. You don't represent the average guy getting into the game. Also, the mere fact of going out every weekend makes you social in general. You been going out a lot longer than me, which means if you lose, then obviously your rate of learning is slower than someone who specifically learns PU. Rules of This Weekend I know you have a lot of money and are social proofed. So here is the deal to make external factors constant. 1. No bringing chicks or famous people for social proof except Rekrul or witnesses 2. No getting tables or buying chicks drinks (apparently based on your Facebook wall, you love buying chicks drinks). 3. Rekrul or a neutral person will pick the group/set we are going to approach so you don't get to chose chicks already into you. 4. To keep it constant, we will only be approaching all 2 set, or all 3 sets, or mixed sets. YOUR PICK. 5. I have an extra set of audio recorder and we both get recorded for the whole night. See you at Club Stingaree 10pm sharp. Lets see you back up your talk ![]() Mic proves nothing. You could be talking to a girl that looks like my butthole and succeed.. It's going to be hard to wear the audio recorder while having sex... | ||
Proct
United States69 Posts
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Proct
United States69 Posts
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