On February 16 2012 05:36 Mumei wrote: I've been skimming through this thread, and it all seems like this is basically The Secret for straight men.
It's about as retarded. Yep.
Nothing but a bunch of ego-stroking and BS. My favourite parts are where people advise hitting on the "emotionally needy" women - 'cause you know, it's not like they're a challenge or anything.
Not gonna lie, though. It is pretty entertaining. Nothing like a good laugh in the morning before work.
EDIT: inb4 someone calls me jealous and/or unable to meet chicks.
On February 16 2012 18:25 Crakalaka wrote: does it count if I'm PUA if I've been with a lot of women, don't really brag about it unless someone brings it up, and I am super conceited due to what all the women have told me and now, with the knowledge, I abuse it hardcore like
you're hot you could be in porn your dick is huge you fuck like a pro you made me cum 3 times in a row
non-PUA/PUA? I weigh 160, 6'2 emo looking, dyed black hair. 21 edit: also do a lot of hard drugs with bitches like, EverClear lol, heroin, crack, ecstasy, PCP/ketamine, etc edit2: Oh wtf, pua = pick-up artist, aka The Game, ... pseudo confidence... only thing I can say is I already got this down, I'm super PUA, I get bitches errday, I don't need the help of a book or w/e, excuse my ignorance in this thread
//walks out
The video, followed by a troll post, followed by this quoted post, is why this thread is so entertaining xD.
On February 17 2012 03:49 squattincassanova wrote: Emotionally needy women?
Cuz when you approach randomly, you magically know ahead of time right?
Don't ask me, I'm not the tool advocating it.
One doesn't have to advocate it to know that fact. If you know anything about meeting people, when you meet a random stranger irl, how the heck are you supposed to know they are emotionally needy or anything about them besides their physical attributes? You don't. :S
... No wonder people give PUA such a hard time. I tried watching that video and stopped at 3 minutes, started again and stopped at 10 minutes. Dude seems like a cool guy, but a lot of this stuff is either obvious if you're a half decent, intelligent, and real person or just such bull that it's hard to watch.
First and probably last PUA video I'll watch.
As for emotionally needy women. Agreed with Mjolnir. It's pretty easy to tell the emotionally needy women within a few days, if not some solid hours. When first meeting them? Nah.
On February 17 2012 07:10 Snotling wrote: and people pay for this stuff.......
Whats wrong with paying in order to accelerate the learning of something? How is it different than paying to go to college? To take sports lessons? To take music lessons? To take public speaking lessons?
The foundation to happiness is to always be learning new things.
On February 14 2012 13:42 HardlyNever wrote: That comparison doesn't work for me. That is like saying a pond and an ocean are both "just bodies of water." If a girl read Cosmo once or twice, and happened to remember a few things she read and did them on a date that is one thing. If a girl read every issue of Cosmo since she was twelve, went out once a week (at least) with the expressed purpose of using all the things she read in Cosmo to get guys to sleep with her (and did some of the things in Cosmo WHILE doing the "sleeping" lol), then told me about that, that would definitely not be the long term girl for me (that is a personal opinion).
Everyone is constantly absorbing messages relating to love and dating their entire lives; it's called socialization. Obviously you've picked up one too many messages from romantic comedies and your church.
On February 14 2012 13:42 HardlyNever wrote:"You can't turn a whore into a house-wife" as my friend says. (As a side note, it is interesting to notice the double standard, but that is whole different topic).
Thanks for confirming that you're judgmental, sexist, conservative asshole. I think you'll find that we don't give a shit about your Madonna-Whore complex.
On February 14 2012 13:42 HardlyNever wrote:A more apt comparison and honest answer would be appreciated. If long-term isn't for you, that is fine, but playing off what you are doing as something normal and that most guys do, or is comparable to what most girls do, is not true.
I call bullshit. I didn't bother to state this before because I was giving you the benefit of the doubt, but it's obvious that you dind't come in here to ask an "honest question". The only reason you're here is to criticize other people for "not being long-term" or some shit like that, and you're sticking to that plan even though I directly stated that I'm in multiple long-term relationships and eventually plan to marry one or two of them.
What's the matter, are you so insecure about your "superior" lifestyle that you need to judge others?
On February 17 2012 02:22 Mjolnir wrote:Nothing but a bunch of ego-stroking and BS. My favourite parts are where people advise hitting on the "emotionally needy" women - 'cause you know, it's not like they're a challenge or anything.
Citation? I can't find what you're referring to in this thread.
This part is pretty interesting what Tyler says about picking up girls. He agrees.... picking up girls IS the second creepiest thing out there. BUT he explains whats even creeper.
On February 17 2012 08:11 Proct wrote: squattincassanova, does it make you feel better about yourself to brag to nerds about the 12 ugly girls you have hooked up with in 365 days?
On February 17 2012 08:11 Proct wrote: squattincassanova, does it make you feel better about yourself to brag to nerds about the 12 ugly girls you have hooked up with in 365 days?
Is that hard to accept that Squattin is just passionate about something thats significantly improved his social life and emotional well being? Seems like that is the general goal of pick up if I'm not mistaken.
I just don't understand why everyone is hating on him so hard. Like yes it obviously feels good knowing you managed to seduce 13 women in a year, especially if 12 is 6x your previous lifetime #. Are you trying to just insinuate that you can easily get a dozen women into bed? Like that's marvelous if its true, but that's obviously objectively not the case for most men.
Seems like Pick Up is just about furthering yourself as a person, and one of the benefits of having really good social skills is getting laid, that's not exactly new to anybody. Being really at guitar and in a band helps you get laid too (^^).
I just really don't understand the constant flaming this guy gets.
Given you do have quite the alpha macho man caricature personality thing going on squattin... idn, seems like people are just shitting for the sake of shitting.
I for one thought there was a good amount of interesting info in this thread, but my last few visits have been disappointing
On February 17 2012 08:11 Proct wrote: squattincassanova, does it make you feel better about yourself to brag to nerds about the 12 ugly girls you have hooked up with in 365 days?
On February 17 2012 08:11 Proct wrote: squattincassanova, does it make you feel better about yourself to brag to nerds about the 12 ugly girls you have hooked up with in 365 days?
Is that hard to accept that Squattin is just passionate about something thats significantly improved his social life and emotional well being? Seems like that is the general goal of pick up if I'm not mistaken.
I just don't understand why everyone is hating on him so hard. Like yes it obviously feels good knowing you managed to seduce 13 women in a year, especially if 12 is 6x your previous lifetime #. Are you trying to just insinuate that you can easily get a dozen women into bed? Like that's marvelous if its true, but that's obviously objectively not the case for most men.
Seems like Pick Up is just about furthering yourself as a person, and one of the benefits of having really good social skills is getting laid, that's not exactly new to anybody. Being really at guitar and in a band helps you get laid too (^^).
I just really don't understand the constant flaming this guy gets.
Given you do have quite the alpha macho man caricature personality thing going on squattin... idn, seems like people are just shitting for the sake of shitting.
I for one thought there was a good amount of interesting info in this thread, but my last few visits have been disappointing
He just knows he's SO insecure that he has to come and brag to all you nerds about how he barely gets laid... People who really get laid don't need to post on a forum about how much ass they pull. This guy is pathetic. Yes, I could get a dozen women into bed in a month if I tried. FWIW the pick up game is pathetic... BE YOUR OWN MAN. Maybe, if you spent your time on actually getting girls instead of bragging about how pathetic you on this forum. u might get laid some
On February 17 2012 08:11 Proct wrote: squattincassanova, does it make you feel better about yourself to brag to nerds about the 12 ugly girls you have hooked up with in 365 days?
Is that hard to accept that Squattin is just passionate about something thats significantly improved his social life and emotional well being? Seems like that is the general goal of pick up if I'm not mistaken.
I just don't understand why everyone is hating on him so hard. Like yes it obviously feels good knowing you managed to seduce 13 women in a year, especially if 12 is 6x your previous lifetime #. Are you trying to just insinuate that you can easily get a dozen women into bed? Like that's marvelous if its true, but that's obviously objectively not the case for most men.
Seems like Pick Up is just about furthering yourself as a person, and one of the benefits of having really good social skills is getting laid, that's not exactly new to anybody. Being really at guitar and in a band helps you get laid too (^^).
I just really don't understand the constant flaming this guy gets.
Given you do have quite the alpha macho man caricature personality thing going on squattin... idn, seems like people are just shitting for the sake of shitting.
I for one thought there was a good amount of interesting info in this thread, but my last few visits have been disappointing
People typically fall into two categories. The fan category or the hater category. The fan idolizes another person and sees them as flawless. A hater sees the other person and hates them for what the hater doesn't have.
Only a small subset of people who ride in the middle can evaluate and appreciate another person without being a fan or a hater. They are the ones who see beneath the surface and can understand what it is that made that person the way they are and how to imitate those behaviors to achieve the same results. I used to be a hardcore hater because growing up, my parents always compared me to other kids. Now I embrace hanging out with people funnier, cooler, richer, stronger, and smarter than me because it pulls me up. It it opens my limiting believes and their ways of thinking rubs off on me.
On February 17 2012 08:11 Proct wrote: squattincassanova, does it make you feel better about yourself to brag to nerds about the 12 ugly girls you have hooked up with in 365 days?
Is that hard to accept that Squattin is just passionate about something thats significantly improved his social life and emotional well being? Seems like that is the general goal of pick up if I'm not mistaken.
I just don't understand why everyone is hating on him so hard. Like yes it obviously feels good knowing you managed to seduce 13 women in a year, especially if 12 is 6x your previous lifetime #. Are you trying to just insinuate that you can easily get a dozen women into bed? Like that's marvelous if its true, but that's obviously objectively not the case for most men.
Seems like Pick Up is just about furthering yourself as a person, and one of the benefits of having really good social skills is getting laid, that's not exactly new to anybody. Being really at guitar and in a band helps you get laid too (^^).
I just really don't understand the constant flaming this guy gets.
Given you do have quite the alpha macho man caricature personality thing going on squattin... idn, seems like people are just shitting for the sake of shitting.
I for one thought there was a good amount of interesting info in this thread, but my last few visits have been disappointing
He just knows he's SO insecure that he has to come and brag to all you nerds about how he barely gets laid... People who really get laid don't need to post on a forum about how much ass they pull. This guy is pathetic. Yes, I could get a dozen women into bed in a month if I tried. FWIW the pick up game is pathetic... BE YOUR OWN MAN.
He admitted he was a total nerd, so he was insecure, and probably still is on some level. That's why it's so huge that he's accomplishing what he thought was impossible before.
I commend you casanova for pursuing what you want, and for bragging here so that frustrated people can project their shit outwards and vent it all on you.
Also, Proct, if you see a delighted kid that brags how he learned to ride a bike, do you put him down saying "I could drive the bike for a month straight if I wanted", or are you happy for him?
If you're really able to sleep with as many women as you want, but you choose not to, then why are you trying to put casanova down if that's what making him happy?
On February 17 2012 08:11 Proct wrote: squattincassanova, does it make you feel better about yourself to brag to nerds about the 12 ugly girls you have hooked up with in 365 days?
Is that hard to accept that Squattin is just passionate about something thats significantly improved his social life and emotional well being? Seems like that is the general goal of pick up if I'm not mistaken.
I just don't understand why everyone is hating on him so hard. Like yes it obviously feels good knowing you managed to seduce 13 women in a year, especially if 12 is 6x your previous lifetime #. Are you trying to just insinuate that you can easily get a dozen women into bed? Like that's marvelous if its true, but that's obviously objectively not the case for most men.
Seems like Pick Up is just about furthering yourself as a person, and one of the benefits of having really good social skills is getting laid, that's not exactly new to anybody. Being really at guitar and in a band helps you get laid too (^^).
I just really don't understand the constant flaming this guy gets.
Given you do have quite the alpha macho man caricature personality thing going on squattin... idn, seems like people are just shitting for the sake of shitting.
I for one thought there was a good amount of interesting info in this thread, but my last few visits have been disappointing
He just knows he's SO insecure that he has to come and brag to all you nerds about how he barely gets laid... People who really get laid don't need to post on a forum about how much ass they pull. This guy is pathetic. Yes, I could get a dozen women into bed in a month if I tried. FWIW the pick up game is pathetic... BE YOUR OWN MAN. Maybe, if you spent your time on actually getting girls instead of bragging about how pathetic you on this forum. u might get laid some
Idn, I don't really think he comes across as insecure. If anything Squattin is a good bit egotistical. But I don't really see insecurity. That being said, if someone secretly harbors an emotion that they distaste, it is common that they will project that emotion on another so they can more easily take it down.
Not saying you're doing that but its either that or you really just have a hatred for whatever reason at the "pick up game." Do you not know any people who just can't talk to others in a social environment, like guys who are just legit "shy guys."
I certainly do, and I think for that sort of person, this whole pick up scene provides exactly the support system needed to improve. In my opinion it seems very similar to the original weight watchers program where most of the effect came from not wanting to be the only one who didn't lose weight.
If you go out with 4 other guys and you all force/support each other while you approach X many people (honestly when you're just starting to develop social skills talking to people of your same sex is difficult as well) a night, you're much more likely to succeed than if you went out by yourself. I think that is a pretty reasonable assumption to make.
And your last point about squattin bragging instead of getting girls, I think he's made it abundantly obvious that he does put his work in (i mean yea he could be lying but w/e I don't think he is) every weekend.
I just don't see why you can't let the man be, I'm absolutely positive he has information that plenty of people on TL (and everywhere) would find useful.
EDIT: I severely doubt your social skill of seduction could get you 13 different women in a month. Even half that would mean you literally had a greater than 50% success rate in getting laid if you went out every weekend night. Frankly if you can accomplish that I can see why you find Pick up so below you. But for a second you need to put yourself in the shoes of someone much less capable than you seem to be
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