The PUA community - Page 38

On October 14 2011 04:37 Rubix Cube wrote:
Jesus Christ you guys are nerds - the kind who would probably plan school shootings because of your scary, obsessive behaviour. Think about it. If you met a girl and showed her the shit you're posting here, how do you think she'd react? That's right, she'd think you're a fucking creep. Why the hell would I post pics of me and my girlfriend for you to 'analyse' with your 'pick-up' theories. As I said - most of us don't need to see women as objects to get laid, believe it or not, but given your level of negativity and defensiveness you've made it abundantly clear your mind is made up about the subject (probably from the shitty experiences you've had in the past with women).

On October 14 2011 05:28 Rubix Cube wrote:
I see you're doing your try-hard attempt at being 'cocky and funny'. And for the record, I'd be interested to see if SC can post a picture of him with a good looking white girl, because banging some low-grade Thai/Columbian ex-prostitute/slappers is nothing to be bragging about, anyone can do that.

On October 14 2011 05:28 Rubix Cube wrote:
Girls are not a different species. The more you think that getting a girl is some sort of formula or test, the less likely you're going to succeed. It's like getting a bank loan. You get one when you show that you don't need one

On October 13 2011 21:59 squattincassanova wrote:


Kukaracha, if pickup didn't work, then why did I get laid with more women in the last 4 months, than you have in the rest of your entire life? Before I started, I had been with 2 women.

After doing pickup, why do I have a better physique, better smile, better street smarts, better conversation skills, better humor, better fashion than you? From a girls perspective, she can't tell the difference between me or some good looking Abercrombie guy whos always been good with women. I not only dress like one, but I also have the body of one, act like one and talk like one. The only difference is I have a conscious understanding of game where as the Abercrombie guy just goes with the flow. He gets the girl when the girl already likes him and the settings are favorable. I get the girls that don't even like me, and all the other odds are against me. Proof is in the picture. I bet if you met me in the club, you would have no idea that I am a pickup artist, and then poof, I am walking out with your female friend hahaha. Its true that pickup is more than a few lines. Its getting better at ALL areas. Its taking comedy classes, its taking fashion classes, its making friends with cool hobbies, its traveling to interesting places, its working out, its getting a great life style. Its a LOT of fucking work. Its essentially being the best you can be, but bottom line is you still have to talk to girls . Can't avoid that.








Just because pick up is real and can be learned, doesn't mean everyone will succeed just like the protein and workout books exist but not everyone will have a great body. Pick up is there so that the 5% who are dedicated and have potential will succeed. I am one of that 5%, quite frankly, the other 95% will fail just like they fail at everything else in life. You would be lucky to find 1 guy who reads pickup material actually going out to the clubs and approach at least 10 girls a night. 1 out of 20 is a huge over estimation. I'll be honest, I am fortunate to have a friend who is one of the best pick up gurus on the planet. Without him, I wouldn't be here.

On October 14 2011 05:36 Iranon wrote:


Ha! Speaking for the apparently "whipped softies" of TL, every time I see this thread pop up on the sidebar I feel like I need to take a shower.

I don't know how you guys managed to convince yourselves that this any is different than those creepy seduction communities, but I'm duly impressed. I mean, to each his own, I don't really have a problem with the general mindset of this thread's proponents, but it's a little silly to delude yourself as to what you're actually doing. Look at squattincassanova's post a few entries up. It literally just says "I've learned how to pretend to have a personality so a large number of girls will want to sleep with me and therefore I'm better than you". I'm glad he's happy with new self, but let's be real, this whole thing is ludicrously superficial. There's a lot more to life than getting random ass, especially if you have to forcibly remake yourself into an arrogant hypermasculine Ken doll to do so.

Judging from what I've read in this thread, if I said "so basically you're just trying to share tips on how to convince all the bitches to come home with you?", you'd say "oh no, it's not like that at all, we're trying to share tips on how to come across as fucking awesome -- because then all the bitches want to come home with us."... Oh, I see, that's so much better. o.O

Obviously being outgoing, confident, and at least somewhat interesting is something people find attractive. That's not a secret. But why not just be those things, instead of coming up with complicated regimens and mental gymnastics to train yourself to appear those things? I just think there's a real danger in taking this too far.

On October 14 2011 06:15 decafchicken wrote:
God this PUA shit seems like a ton of work lol.

On October 15 2011 10:10 Colbert wrote:


In some ways it can be, but in a lot of ways it isn't. You are living the same life you are now, just spending your time on different areas. Everything you want in life can be "a lot of work", but if you have a blast doing it it's no big deal. Make the "PUA" journey fun instead of a chore and it won't seem like work at all, just you living a badass life.

On October 14 2011 05:36 Iranon wrote:


Ha! Speaking for the apparently "whipped softies" of TL, every time I see this thread pop up on the sidebar I feel like I need to take a shower.

I don't know how you guys managed to convince yourselves that this any is different than those creepy seduction communities, but I'm duly impressed. I mean, to each his own, I don't really have a problem with the general mindset of this thread's proponents, but it's a little silly to delude yourself as to what you're actually doing. Look at squattincassanova's post a few entries up. It literally just says "I've learned how to pretend to have a personality so a large number of girls will want to sleep with me and therefore I'm better than you". I'm glad he's happy with new self, but let's be real, this whole thing is ludicrously superficial. There's a lot more to life than getting random ass, especially if you have to forcibly remake yourself into an arrogant hypermasculine Ken doll to do so.

Judging from what I've read in this thread, if I said "so basically you're just trying to share tips on how to convince all the bitches to come home with you?", you'd say "oh no, it's not like that at all, we're trying to share tips on how to come across as fucking awesome -- because then all the bitches want to come home with us."... Oh, I see, that's so much better. o.O

Obviously being outgoing, confident, and at least somewhat interesting is something people find attractive. That's not a secret. But why not just be those things, instead of coming up with complicated regimens and mental gymnastics to train yourself to appear those things? I just think there's a real danger in taking this too far.

On October 13 2011 11:45 Colbert wrote:
Yo squattin. what do you think of nick hoss?

On October 15 2011 16:54 Pillage wrote:


Ugghh I wish he elaborated a little more on his qualifications. This is the part of my game that needs improving. I do fine with disqualifications / feigning disinterest / dealing with shit-tests, but trying to slip in a positive remark without making it a compliment is a tricky proposition. I personally don't like handing out (overt) compliments, they pedestal too much for my liking.

On October 15 2011 16:54 Pillage wrote:


Ugghh I wish he elaborated a little more on his qualifications. This is the part of my game that needs improving. I do fine with disqualifications / feigning disinterest / dealing with shit-tests, but trying to slip in a positive remark without making it a compliment is a tricky proposition. I personally don't like handing out (overt) compliments, they pedestal too much for my liking.

On October 19 2011 20:27 squattincassanova wrote:
Mindset is part of it. Action is the other part. You can think you are the pimp but if you are home playing WoW all day, you wont fundamentally change. Mindset is encouragement to go out, it helps you long term, but you still have to make the same mistakes and you will still have to learn the same thing from a technical perspective. What distinguishes success is mainly based on what you are doing that everyone else is not doing. I have gone out every single week, every friday and every saturday for the past 10 months except when I had day 2s lined up.

On October 19 2011 23:34 scaban84 wrote:

The right mindset is hard to attain. When I lived in Miami I hung out with some motivated wingmen. Then it was easy to go out every Friday and Saturday night and approach every 7 and up. I moved to New York a year ago and have since been struggling to get in the right mindset. I'm only 27 and I don't have the motivation to go out by myself like I used to.
A few days ago I joined a few PUA groups on meetup.com to find a wingman, hopefully someone like you heeds the call.

On October 20 2011 01:01 Xiphos wrote:


Day game is your friend. When you are on the bus, you see a 8 just sitting there couple of seats down, go up to her and strick up a conversation. Its not the same as night game/club game but it could be easier to pull if you are good at creating rapport. Honestly you can really "game" whenever you want. The opportunities are everywhere.