Japanese model confesses that she is a MAN! - Page 11

On September 03 2010 01:45 fusionsdf wrote:


ok.

1) During fetal development, your brain is either imprinted with testosterone (male) or not (female)
2) Men and women have physically. observably different brains: different neuron levels in certain areas, different sizes of certain areas, differences in brain function (perception, etc)
3) This is a crucial window. After this point, no hormones, psychotherapy, torture, electroshock, etc will change this wiring. It is permanently set. A person could hit their head, have total amnesia, and the would still have their sense of gender preserved.
4)Now the terms:
      Transgendered: Umbrella term. Generally used to refer to people whose gender differs from their physical sex.
      Gender involves the brain and self. Sex is basically the status of the genitals at birth.
      Transsexual: A transgendered person who has done some surgery or hormones to change their body to match their gender. Some go from a male body to a female body; they are referred to as women, or if clarification is needed, trans women. Others go from female to male. They are male, or trans male.
      Crossdresser: Someone who dresses as the opposite sex (for political, sexual, or other reasons)
      Transvestite: Someone who crossdresses for sexual pleasure. There is virtually no overlap between transvestite and transsexual.

Now that that is out of the way. Since the gender is inherently wired into the brain, and can not be changed/altered (doctors have given up trying), and gender is central to a person's identity, the reasons for a person desiring to transition (change their physical bodies to match their gender) can be understood.

As long as the physical body does not match the gender identity, there will be an identity crisis ("I'm a woman, but my body is not, and no one treats me as such"). This is on a mostly subconscious level, and can not be changed with therapy, visualization, self-affirmation, etc. The identity crisis is not fun, but short of changing the body, there is absolutely no way to end it in the case of transsexuals. Symptoms of this identity crisis can include: eating disorders, insomnia, anxiety/panic attacks, severe depression.

Pronouns are very important. 'It' is dehumanizing. Calling a trans woman 'he' or a trans man 'she' is not just an attack, it's a violation of their identity. In general, if someone looks like a woman, say 'she'. If someone looks like a man, say 'he'. If you are unsure what pronoun to use, ask (in private if possible) which pronoun to use.

On September 03 2010 04:54 Lysdexia wrote:


WTF? Why does it matter if a woman you find attractive used to be a man? How is it in any way "deception" to be honest about who you are? What if someone told you that from now on, you have to live as and behave like a woman because you might offend the sensitivities of some bigoted asshole?

On September 03 2010 05:02 blitzkrieger wrote:
That should be illegal or stated beforehand. I remember this Chinese kid from highschool who loved Japan everything said he was looking at some naked hot Japanese girls and when he got to the bottom of the page it showed they were guys hahaha... so gross.

Here is the reaction that people had when they found out:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6MoCg1to2GY

On September 03 2010 05:09 FindingPride wrote:

Well for starters hes a man. and never was a woman. Im not speaking about his case personally but It is very deceptive to dress like a woman as a man especially in these extreme cases. It has nothing to do with bigotry... and your comparison is trash. because its an example that could never come to fruition. It's not what society labels what is man and woman its what nature indited you with. I can't begin to understand why these people feel they are woman and I dont believe anyone could without being in there shoes however. It is deception. Much like a woman telling you they cant have children till after your married. Point is they will never be a woman. But if you want to sit here and act like a Man who dresses up with a woman would be a suitable mate for you? perhaps society has warped you. It's not about morals at all. I will NEVER in any way want to have relations with a transgender. and if it came through deception tbh I don't know what id do. but for starters I might suffer from shock.

On September 03 2010 05:19 Kpyolysis32 wrote:


What do you recommend that somebody does, then, if they feel a need to crossdress? Simply never act on it? Ever?
I don't even understand how you believe that this is deception if they tell people openly that they are male, but a crossdresser. There's no deception involved there, they simply dress how they choose to, and tell you that they're not the sex you would likely expect based on how they dress.
And that's completely legitmate not to ever want to have relations with a trap or a transgendered person, just like I would likely never want to have relations with someone who looked and acted male. It doesn't mean that you should dislike them for it.

On September 03 2010 05:27 ithree wrote:
Japan the worlds largets exporter of WTF.


What do you mean you don't like tentacle porn ?

On September 03 2010 04:43 TanGeng wrote:

You can change society.