Clubbing in Korea? - Page 8

New Zealand6138 Posts

August 10 2010 05:54 GMT

#141

On August 10 2010 14:45 koreasilver wrote:
So what's the relationship between the advice given by an average TL member and the actual experiences of said member that is actually relevant to the OP?

inverse

CursOr

United States6335 Posts

August 10 2010 06:07 GMT

#142

I'll go with the argument that the best way to get girls is not to pay any attention.

Going up with "lines" and "game" just wreaks of desperation. If you seem cool and funny... especially, you're much more likely to seem interesting.

This is only "outside" of clubs though. I've made it a special point to never ever go to one because I know its a spawning pool for the types of people I despise. The ONLY time I went to one was for my best friends bachelor party night and it was just as bad as I had feared.

Just FYI, my wife's job is working at a place where they "mediate" custody battles between parents that are splitting and can't agree on what to do with the children. You'd be surprised at the frequency that these "relationships" start at these places. GL with your "game" everyone :/

donut

United States3 Posts

August 10 2010 06:13 GMT

#143

pour a few drinks down their throat thatll clear up any issues.

SoleSteeler

Canada5449 Posts

August 10 2010 06:19 GMT

#144

Don't think too much about all this stuff... I can't see that helping. You don't need to read a book or watch a video to find a girl that will dance with you, or more. :/

Just go out there and have some fun... If you are trying to be manipulative or trying to do something slightly unnatural (while probably trying to make it seem natural...) it could be obvious, despite the lack of lights and all the alcohol.

Sadly (or maybe not), my most successful nights are when I just go out and don't care and try to have fun with my friends. Dancing and drinking with my own group. People watch people in the club... if they see I am just goofing off and having fun, not trying to grind or hit on every girl I see, I find that the next time I go up to the bar to order a drink alone, someone will come to talk to me. And if you are the one being approached, you have so much leverage so it feels a lot easier and less stressful to do anything from there.

Conversely, If I am determined to pick a girl up, girls can sense that and it never really works out from there. Unless you are some very good looking guy, of course... or can make trying hard to pick up a girl seem as confident and natural as possible. (Of course.) But for the average guy I think, just go out and have fun with your friends, and you should get some luck. Of course, make sure the location is decent... as in, a good amount of people, enough girls, not too many guys, music you actually enjoy and can dance to and have fun with, etc. And of course, not every night will work out for you, most likely...

I just wish every night I go out could be a night where I just want to fuck around with my friends and have fun.

I do want to try one of these nightclubs (booking club?) though...

Butigroove

Seychelles2061 Posts

August 10 2010 06:22 GMT

#145

Repeat after me (in Korean): "You're very cute, would you like to dance with me?"