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Read this: http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?topic_id=97247
Anyways felt like making a blog because of the random shit he says to me.
Lately I have been waking up at 6-7 AM because of the fact that I don't want to waste my day. I try making my life a bit more productive through exercising to maintain my weight (I have a weight loss well which I am following fairly well). I also have been reading a lot of books. Why am I doing this?
Because summer school is over and I have nothing better to do (asides from hanging out with my friends). Rather than playing SC and wasting time, I feel like doing something a little more productive than nothing.
Anyways today my dad messages me on MSN and tells me to sleep less. WHAT THE FUCK??? I don't even bother talking back because I don't want to cause another shitstorm, but seriously?? I have been waking up the earliest in the family. He also tells me why I waste time. I tell him that I read and exercise, but he tells me to do that more? Good one...lol
I can't believe my dad at times and I so can't wait to move out of the house. Basically he is so annoying + controlling my life. He treats me like I'm a kid, and I can barely make decisions on my own because of him interrupting me with whatever I do. JUST LET.ME.BE. FFS.
I will keep quiet and count down the days...
 
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Wow I get the exact same shit from my Dad. It's so incredibly vexing because I'm making a huge effort to be real about working out, studying, and helping out the family (something he's big on). And he still just barges in and yells at me for an hour about wasting time. Excuse me?
Well you're not alone regardless. We just gotta man it. Though I'm thinking of writing him a long-ass letter about how unnecessary his tirades were after I leave the house, which will be soon.
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EchOne let me ask you, are you Asian?? :p
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look him in the eye and assert yourself respectfully. if you've already done that and thats what caused the shitstorm, do exactly what you're doing and wait till you can get the hell out of there. your dad sounds psychotic
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challenge him to a 1v1, show him whos boss 
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On July 31 2009 07:13 EchOne wrote:
Wow I get the exact same shit from my Dad. It's so incredibly vexing because I'm making a huge effort to be real about working out, studying, and helping out the family (something he's big on). And he still just barges in and yells at me for an hour about wasting time. Excuse me?
Well you're not alone regardless. We just gotta man it. Though I'm thinking of writing him a long-ass letter about how unnecessary his tirades were after I leave the house, which will be soon.
By the way, aside from studying...(well I am reading books, does that count?? lol) I've been actually working on my house alone. That means mowing my huuuuuuge lawn every week, replacing my driveway with new concrete/asphalt, and sanding/painting the fence.
And what do I get? "YOU'RE WASTING TIME!!"
Well what I would love to say is "FUCK YOU GEEZER!"
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You live together -> he messages you on MSN -> Wat?
Hell my family life was anything but healthy, that on the other hand is just sad.
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well fucking talk back to him, seriously.
If he hits you, hit back. You will feel great relief, trust me on this
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When you're replacing the drive way use something that doesn't set for a long time and get your dad to drive his car onto it when he thinks it would be dry, it won't and his car would get stuck.
You could also mow the lawn in the shape of a dick or someting offensive like that.
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On July 31 2009 07:21 Naib wrote:
You live together -> he messages you on MSN -> Wat?
Hell my family life was anything but healthy, that on the other hand is just sad.
He's at work. That's why. Off-topic though Naib, I was the Terran that faced you on Longinus today and asked you whether or not you were from TL.
On July 31 2009 07:28 Foucault wrote:
well fucking talk back to him, seriously.
If he hits you, hit back. You will feel great relief, trust me on this
ROFL, I could talk back to him and prove him wrong in every aspect.
I can also hit him back and probably beat the shit out of him now (he's pretty old).
But I'm pretty scared what would happen next :O
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On July 31 2009 07:17 KurtistheTurtle wrote:
look him in the eye and assert yourself respectfully. if you've already done that and thats what caused the shitstorm, do exactly what you're doing and wait till you can get the hell out of there. your dad sounds psychotic
I wouldn't say psychotic, but more like obsessive? He cares too much about what I do. I'm 19, for fuck's sake. I want to live my life the way I want it to be. I don't want some old man dictating what I should do.
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On July 31 2009 07:30 clazziquai wrote:Show nested quote +On July 31 2009 07:21 Naib wrote:
You live together -> he messages you on MSN -> Wat?
Hell my family life was anything but healthy, that on the other hand is just sad. He's at work. That's why. Off-topic though Naib, I was the Terran that faced you on Longinus today and asked you whether or not you were from TL. Show nested quote +On July 31 2009 07:28 Foucault wrote:
well fucking talk back to him, seriously.
If he hits you, hit back. You will feel great relief, trust me on this ROFL, I could talk back to him and prove him wrong in every aspect. I can also hit him back and probably beat the shit out of him now (he's pretty old). But I'm pretty scared what would happen next :O
Oh, I get it. That wasn't really clear. I'm pretty inexperienced with asian parents though, all I know is the stereotypes you hear...not much insight I could provide.I would just present facts. If it doesn't work, well, you tried at least.
Offtopic:
Uh anyway about that game, sorry 'bout the damn lag spikes. I still didn't figure out fully wtf is up =\
Hereby shoutouts to everyone I played and who put up with my laggy B- self beating them (I feel especially bad because it usually lagged when it benefit me the most, if I were in you guys' shoes I'd have thought it was intentional =[ )
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..what would happen next?
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On July 31 2009 07:35 KurtistheTurtle wrote:
..what would happen next?
lol I have no clue. ;p
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On July 31 2009 07:07 clazziquai wrote:
Anyways today my dad messages me on MSN and tells me to sleep less. WHAT THE FUCK??? I don't even bother talking back because I don't want to cause another shitstorm, but seriously?? I have been waking up the earliest in the family. He also tells me why I waste time. I tell him that I read and exercise, but he tells me to do that more? Good one...lol
I can't believe my dad at times and I so can't wait to move out of the house. Basically he is so annoying + controlling my life. He treats me like I'm a kid, and I can barely make decisions on my own because of him interrupting me with whatever I do. JUST LET.ME.BE. FFS.
I will keep quiet and count down the days...
block him?
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go get a job and live in a dorm..
I'm asian too, and i'm just WAITING to move out i have 1 more year left and i'll be in college living at a dorm (YES YES). So as of now i'm pretty content, and just take everything my dad throws at me as the last few things he can do and if i got through it i can be strong when i move out.
I'm applying for a college thats 26miles away from my house, but they usually only accept kids in their dorm 50miles away, so if i have room i'll be in it... 
but god i swear im not fucken living with my parents for another year, they dont even let me get a job cuz they think i'll drop my grades.... But seriously if i dont get accepted in the school's dorm, im going to rent a 1 room apartment.
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so let me get this straight. you think he's being unreasonable? does he know this? i highly doubt it. why not tell him? it's pretty simple, doesn't have to be confrontational, nobody's going to hit anyone, i dont know what the fuck that was all about. for instance on the issue of sleep, should he bring it up again, it could go something like this:
>>yo you lazy bum, stop fucking wasting your day sleeping
<<Ok. Every day this week, I woke up at 7am so I could have time to do X Y and Z. I go to sleep at midnight, so I think it's a little unreasonable for me to sleep less.
>>oh ok, see i leave for work at 630, I didn't realize you wake up basically right after that. still stop wasting time, all i see you do all day is play that dumb computer game!
bam. misunderstanding cleared.
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@Pengu1n: Nah, sometimes he bitches at me online which I think is easier for me to handle. All I need to do is say "네" (neh, which means yes//ok//understood) in Korean while doing other stuff, such as browsing TL or listening to music. Whereas in real life I sort of try to look like I'm "interested" in our conversations -_-.
Yangpan, I'm jobless :'( But I'm still looking. I'm definitely working in the fall. All the college and high school kids will go back to school! Hopefully higher chances of a job??? *sigh*
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On July 31 2009 07:46 clazziquai wrote:
Yangpan, I'm jobless :'( But I'm still looking. I'm definitely working in the fall. All the college and high school kids will go back to school! Hopefully higher chances of a job??? *sigh*
Your job doesn't have to be something fancy, just a restaurant job or something, im' sure you can get that easily.
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This basically sums up my life as a teenager in my high school career
-study (If i take my schedule and add all the horus they think im studying it'd be about 10 Hours a DAY in the summer)
-run (only on weekends)
-eat
I can't play SC, i can't go out, i can't view teamliquid, I'm all doing these under the table.
During the summer I STILL can't play SC or go on TL, i can go out AT MOST like 2 times a MONTH, and when i do tell them i have a friend coming over they first ask if i got my college essay prepared, i did enough ACT practice, my AP summer homework is done...etc... It's fucken ridicolous. PLUS i was SO looking forwards to next year's season of cross country, but they fucken canceled it AFTER i got my physical.... I felt pretty helpless for a good week or two...
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