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Terranlisk
Profile Blog Joined February 2007
Singapore1404 Posts
July 25 2009 17:14 GMT
#41
Now I don't know whether to be happy or sad that I have never been in a relationship before.
aka myheronoob
Batibot
Profile Blog Joined August 2008
Philippines348 Posts
July 25 2009 17:15 GMT
#42
hey kona, translations>girl. jk jk
Jaedong has to be a Bonjwa. Tired of of rooting for July.
kaleidoscope
Profile Blog Joined December 2008
Singapore2887 Posts
July 25 2009 17:17 GMT
#43
On July 26 2009 02:14 MyHeroNoob wrote:
Now I don't know whether to be happy or sad that I have never been in a relationship before.


No definitely not.. You missed out on the fun of social interactions, and also normally the first relationship will be a learning experience since it will fail most of the time..
대지따라 돌린게 시간이다.. 흘러가고 돌아오지도 않고..
ilovezil
Profile Blog Joined August 2006
United States4143 Posts
July 25 2009 17:27 GMT
#44
On July 26 2009 01:26 konadora wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 26 2009 01:21 ilovezil wrote:
Kona, you're a really swell guy. You and I are very similar and I like you, I really do, not being sarcastic here.

The but here is that you're putting yourself above the whore, when from where I see it, at least the whore was honest with herself and expressed herself properly. You made a mistake, fine. That's acceptable. I just got irritated when you said you were disgusted, and you meant that in a way that put yourself over her.

Whatever though man, you'll look back on this one day and have sad/happy memories, but it'll be better soon.

Not really. I found out later on that she was seeing two other guys behind my back.


That's why next time, be more honest and don't sell yourself out to someone you KNOW won't be the right one for you. Come on, if you knew she was a whore you definitely took a wrong turn a step too soon.

I mean don't you watch those slice-of-life animes? You should know what I'm talking about here :o
konadora *
Profile Blog Joined February 2009
Singapore66364 Posts
July 25 2009 17:29 GMT
#45
On July 26 2009 02:27 ilovezil wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 26 2009 01:26 konadora wrote:
On July 26 2009 01:21 ilovezil wrote:
Kona, you're a really swell guy. You and I are very similar and I like you, I really do, not being sarcastic here.

The but here is that you're putting yourself above the whore, when from where I see it, at least the whore was honest with herself and expressed herself properly. You made a mistake, fine. That's acceptable. I just got irritated when you said you were disgusted, and you meant that in a way that put yourself over her.

Whatever though man, you'll look back on this one day and have sad/happy memories, but it'll be better soon.

Not really. I found out later on that she was seeing two other guys behind my back.


That's why next time, be more honest and don't sell yourself out to someone you KNOW won't be the right one for you. Come on, if you knew she was a whore you definitely took a wrong turn a step too soon.

I mean don't you watch those slice-of-life animes? You should know what I'm talking about here :o

As I said, I was too blinded and thought anyone would be okay. Didn't really know of her background until I got into a relationship with her and news started flowing in about her history.

Yeah I get what you mean. But too bad I watched all those AFTER what happened. T___T
POGGERS
ilovezil
Profile Blog Joined August 2006
United States4143 Posts
July 25 2009 17:31 GMT
#46
On July 26 2009 02:29 konadora wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 26 2009 02:27 ilovezil wrote:
On July 26 2009 01:26 konadora wrote:
On July 26 2009 01:21 ilovezil wrote:
Kona, you're a really swell guy. You and I are very similar and I like you, I really do, not being sarcastic here.

The but here is that you're putting yourself above the whore, when from where I see it, at least the whore was honest with herself and expressed herself properly. You made a mistake, fine. That's acceptable. I just got irritated when you said you were disgusted, and you meant that in a way that put yourself over her.

Whatever though man, you'll look back on this one day and have sad/happy memories, but it'll be better soon.

Not really. I found out later on that she was seeing two other guys behind my back.


That's why next time, be more honest and don't sell yourself out to someone you KNOW won't be the right one for you. Come on, if you knew she was a whore you definitely took a wrong turn a step too soon.

I mean don't you watch those slice-of-life animes? You should know what I'm talking about here :o

As I said, I was too blinded and thought anyone would be okay. Didn't really know of her background until I got into a relationship with her and news started flowing in about her history.

Yeah I get what you mean. But too bad I watched all those AFTER what happened. T___T


You're so kawaii~
QuickStriker
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
United States3694 Posts
July 25 2009 17:39 GMT
#47
Aw, wow, this is like my first time I've read a blog so closely and so deeply that it was a good yet sad story I've read. But yea, cheer up kona-kun, it's not over yet, why it's only the beginning. Here's my "QuickStriker's relationship quickie advice Part 1" to ya:

1. There are plently of fishes out there in the sea if you know what I mean. So don't give up hope, I'm sure (especially in college and onwards), you'll find a girl more to your liking and interest out of nowhere one day like most of us than back in highschool/middle school. So don't give up!!

2. Now, after the whole drama and confession that girl decided to step up first, I think you do have the right of option to go chase after that girl and try to restart/fix the broken relationship you once had. Just like a romance story movie you see except it's always possible to happen. Remember, never say never!! (sighs... American Tales quote just came up in my mind... T_T)

Well, let's end there... normally I had 5 things to say but idk.... my foot needs some icing which is why it's only part 1....

ANYWAYZ, that story of yours on the blog further increases my desire and wanting to start up a blog of my own on TL (and also my very first blog, never done one) but.... let's see how far my laziness takes after my foot massage.... X_X
www.twitch.tv/KoreanUsher
Chef
Profile Blog Joined August 2005
10810 Posts
July 25 2009 17:39 GMT
#48
Those Malaysian girls will steal your heart

+ Show Spoiler [Dull unnecessary advice] +
Still, what a dog that you have girls making the first move Shy ones at that. She's right, that takes a lot of courage and if you don't respond at least eventually in some equally courageous way, it will make her feel very self-conscious (regarding the letter about complacency from your first). You probably know it, but the lessons here are to value the people you do have, and to show a little more bravado.


Good luck, and thanks for sharing your story Sorry for the dull unnecessary advice, I couldn't help myself.
LEGEND!! LEGEND!!
konadora *
Profile Blog Joined February 2009
Singapore66364 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-07-25 17:42:49
July 25 2009 17:42 GMT
#49
On July 26 2009 02:39 Chef wrote:
Those Malaysian girls will steal your heart

+ Show Spoiler [Dull unnecessary advice] +
Still, what a dog that you have girls making the first move Shy ones at that. She's right, that takes a lot of courage and if you don't respond at least eventually in some equally courageous way, it will make her feel very self-conscious (regarding the letter about complacency from your first). You probably know it, but the lessons here are to value the people you do have, and to show a little more bravado.


Good luck, and thanks for sharing your story Sorry for the dull unnecessary advice, I couldn't help myself.

Thanks for the advice, it wasn't dull or unnecessary at all

And thanks QuickStriker too, hope your feet recovers soon!
POGGERS
konadora *
Profile Blog Joined February 2009
Singapore66364 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-07-25 17:48:59
July 25 2009 17:43 GMT
#50
Oh and just for clarification, she lives in Malaysia but she's Chinese

And my parents won't let me marry anyone else other than Korean.

You know what?

SCREW THEM LOL
POGGERS
Chef
Profile Blog Joined August 2005
10810 Posts
July 25 2009 17:47 GMT
#51
Oh, I felt a special bond regarding Malaysian blood girls, but you've ruined it!
LEGEND!! LEGEND!!
QuickStriker
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
United States3694 Posts
July 25 2009 17:48 GMT
#52
On July 26 2009 02:43 konadora wrote:
Oh and just for clarification, she lives in Malaysia but she's Chinese

And my parents won't let me marry anyone else other than Korean.

You know what?

SCREW YOU LOL


ROFLLLLLLLLLL, that's how my parents are too as well..... however on a lighter brighter note, really now, you're not marrying anyone rite now, you're like what, 18? You still have like 10 more years ahead of ya buddy and within the mist of those years, I'm sure you can date 100 other girls just fine and then just pick one to marry! :D
www.twitch.tv/KoreanUsher
D00dles
Profile Joined June 2008
Cambodia217 Posts
July 25 2009 17:57 GMT
#53
Kona man, that's a sad story man.. But hey, everyone does stupid shit like that.. I've done it and fucked up any possible chance EVER of getting back with the girl i love, plus she's been going out with some guy for 2 years. Rage.

But seriously man, stop watching those types of animes.. They'll make you feel like shit because you've shared a similar experience.

Are you feeling better? The other day you were pretty emo when we all were watching that REC anime or something.
"This. How people cant see it is beyond me... how making a copy of something is stealing is also beyond me. Is it stealing to make a photo copy of a book?" - HuskyTheHusky
KrAzYfoOL
Profile Blog Joined September 2005
Australia3037 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-07-25 18:06:43
July 25 2009 18:06 GMT
#54
I didn't think you liked girls
It's better to burn out than to fade away
QuickStriker
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
United States3694 Posts
July 25 2009 18:09 GMT
#55
On July 26 2009 03:06 KrAzYfoOL wrote:
I didn't think you liked girls


Watching animes that only have girls, no boys theme whatsoever, girls-only band anime, etc = me no like girls??

I beg to differ.
www.twitch.tv/KoreanUsher
valaki
Profile Joined June 2009
Hungary2476 Posts
July 25 2009 18:15 GMT
#56
Sad story indeed but good experience, thanks for sharing!
ggaemo fan
Railxp
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
Hong Kong1313 Posts
July 25 2009 18:23 GMT
#57
SHE DREW YOU A HARUHI PICTURE?!?!?

DAMN shame she slipped through your net. Oh well, fishies in the ocean.
~\(。◕‿‿◕。)/~,,,,,,,,>
Fontong
Profile Blog Joined December 2007
United States6454 Posts
July 25 2009 18:26 GMT
#58
Don't worry, everyone was a noob at some point. You will become a pro soon, I'm sure.

I had the same experience as you when I was back in middle school. Me and the girl mutually like each other but I was so shy and could never do anything. I kinda still regret that to this day like 7 years later or smth.
[SECRET FONT] "Dragoon bunker"
GHOSTCLAW
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
United States17042 Posts
July 25 2009 18:29 GMT
#59
we all make mistakes.

Life...goes on.
PhotographerLiquipedia. Drop me a pm if you've got questions/need help.
ilovezil
Profile Blog Joined August 2006
United States4143 Posts
July 25 2009 18:37 GMT
#60
On July 26 2009 03:09 QuickStriker wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 26 2009 03:06 KrAzYfoOL wrote:
I didn't think you liked girls


Watching animes that only have girls, no boys theme whatsoever, girls-only band anime, etc = me no like girls??

I beg to differ.


It proves that kona isn't gay, but that doesn't really help him overall :p
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