EPTI was an idiot - Page 3
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Terranlisk
Singapore1404 Posts
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Batibot
Philippines348 Posts
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kaleidoscope
Singapore2887 Posts
On July 26 2009 02:14 MyHeroNoob wrote: Now I don't know whether to be happy or sad that I have never been in a relationship before. No definitely not.. You missed out on the fun of social interactions, and also normally the first relationship will be a learning experience since it will fail most of the time.. | ||
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ilovezil
United States4143 Posts
On July 26 2009 01:26 konadora wrote: Not really. I found out later on that she was seeing two other guys behind my back. That's why next time, be more honest and don't sell yourself out to someone you KNOW won't be the right one for you. Come on, if you knew she was a whore you definitely took a wrong turn a step too soon. I mean don't you watch those slice-of-life animes? You should know what I'm talking about here :o | ||
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konadora
Singapore66366 Posts
On July 26 2009 02:27 ilovezil wrote: That's why next time, be more honest and don't sell yourself out to someone you KNOW won't be the right one for you. Come on, if you knew she was a whore you definitely took a wrong turn a step too soon. I mean don't you watch those slice-of-life animes? You should know what I'm talking about here :o As I said, I was too blinded and thought anyone would be okay. Didn't really know of her background until I got into a relationship with her and news started flowing in about her history. Yeah I get what you mean. But too bad I watched all those AFTER what happened. T___T | ||
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ilovezil
United States4143 Posts
On July 26 2009 02:29 konadora wrote: As I said, I was too blinded and thought anyone would be okay. Didn't really know of her background until I got into a relationship with her and news started flowing in about her history. Yeah I get what you mean. But too bad I watched all those AFTER what happened. T___T You're so kawaii~ | ||
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QuickStriker
United States3694 Posts
1. There are plently of fishes out there in the sea if you know what I mean. So don't give up hope, I'm sure (especially in college and onwards), you'll find a girl more to your liking and interest out of nowhere one day like most of us than back in highschool/middle school. So don't give up!! 2. Now, after the whole drama and confession that girl decided to step up first, I think you do have the right of option to go chase after that girl and try to restart/fix the broken relationship you once had. Just like a romance story movie you see except it's always possible to happen. Remember, never say never!! (sighs... American Tales quote just came up in my mind... T_T) Well, let's end there... normally I had 5 things to say but idk.... my foot needs some icing which is why it's only part 1.... ANYWAYZ, that story of yours on the blog further increases my desire and wanting to start up a blog of my own on TL (and also my very first blog, never done one) but.... let's see how far my laziness takes after my foot massage.... X_X | ||
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Chef
10810 Posts
 + Show Spoiler [Dull unnecessary advice] + Still, what a dog that you have girls making the first move  Shy ones at that. She's right, that takes a lot of courage and if you don't respond at least eventually in some equally courageous way, it will make her feel very self-conscious (regarding the letter about complacency from your first). You probably know it, but the lessons here are to value the people you do have, and to show a little more bravado.Good luck, and thanks for sharing your story  Sorry for the dull unnecessary advice, I couldn't help myself. | ||
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konadora
Singapore66366 Posts
On July 26 2009 02:39 Chef wrote: Those Malaysian girls will steal your heart + Show Spoiler [Dull unnecessary advice] + Still, what a dog that you have girls making the first move Shy ones at that. She's right, that takes a lot of courage and if you don't respond at least eventually in some equally courageous way, it will make her feel very self-conscious (regarding the letter about complacency from your first). You probably know it, but the lessons here are to value the people you do have, and to show a little more bravado.Good luck, and thanks for sharing your story Sorry for the dull unnecessary advice, I couldn't help myself.Thanks for the advice, it wasn't dull or unnecessary at all And thanks QuickStriker too, hope your feet recovers soon! | ||
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konadora
Singapore66366 Posts
And my parents won't let me marry anyone else other than Korean. You know what? SCREW THEM LOL | ||
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Chef
10810 Posts
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QuickStriker
United States3694 Posts
On July 26 2009 02:43 konadora wrote: Oh and just for clarification, she lives in Malaysia but she's Chinese And my parents won't let me marry anyone else other than Korean. You know what? SCREW YOU LOL ROFLLLLLLLLLL, that's how my parents are too as well..... however on a lighter brighter note, really now, you're not marrying anyone rite now, you're like what, 18? You still have like 10 more years ahead of ya buddy and within the mist of those years, I'm sure you can date 100 other girls just fine and then just pick one to marry! :D | ||
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D00dles
Cambodia217 Posts
But seriously man, stop watching those types of animes.. They'll make you feel like shit because you've shared a similar experience. Are you feeling better? The other day you were pretty emo when we all were watching that REC anime or something. | ||
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KrAzYfoOL
Australia3037 Posts
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QuickStriker
United States3694 Posts
On July 26 2009 03:06 KrAzYfoOL wrote: I didn't think you liked girls Watching animes that only have girls, no boys theme whatsoever, girls-only band anime, etc = me no like girls?? I beg to differ. | ||
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valaki
Hungary2476 Posts
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Railxp
Hong Kong1313 Posts
DAMN shame she slipped through your net. Oh well, fishies in the ocean. | ||
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Fontong
United States6454 Posts
I had the same experience as you when I was back in middle school. Me and the girl mutually like each other but I was so shy and could never do anything. I kinda still regret that to this day like 7 years later or smth. | ||
GHOSTCLAW
United States17042 Posts
Life...goes on. | ||
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ilovezil
United States4143 Posts
On July 26 2009 03:09 QuickStriker wrote: Watching animes that only have girls, no boys theme whatsoever, girls-only band anime, etc = me no like girls?? I beg to differ. It proves that kona isn't gay, but that doesn't really help him overall :p | ||
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