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On April 16 2009 12:05 thunk wrote:Show nested quote +On April 16 2009 11:15 nemY wrote:On April 16 2009 11:05 iSCOUT4u wrote:
Well how well do u know her? is she a friend already...or did u just meet her?
something simple never hurts though....just start some casual conversation...start talking about the topic...then slip in the ? "Hey i was just wondering if u might want to go see a movie this weekend? observe and report looks hella funny..."
btw the movie was ok...i give it a 7/10
edit: leave out the "hella" if outside of cali Outside of norcal you mean One of my first post on TL I said hella and all everyone outside of California quoted me were were like, "wtf" and everyone inside of California was either like "NorCal holler!" or "Norcal Trash". NorCal4Ever. Socal sucks.
You are "hella" joking.
NorCAL sucks. Sorry. Socal ftw.
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On April 16 2009 10:58 nimysa wrote:
Of asking a girl out to any event whether its asking her out to a specific location or an event or to just hanging out and walking with her?
I guess what I'm asking is, what is generally the right thing to say and when should I ask a girl out and how?
"Hey wanna go get some coffee and hang out?"
I'm not quite sure what you mean...
If you're asking her to a concert or something just substitute "get some coffee and hang out" to "to a concert with me?"
or "Hey, want to go to *local diner* and get some lunch?"
I don't think the way you ask means anything, it's how you ask and your demeanor. You need confidence when you do this.
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by feeling the need to not make this thread
AKA
do the opposite of what your mind tells you to do
you should be fine
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On April 16 2009 14:17 HeavOnEarth wrote:
by feeling the need to not make this thread
AKA
do the opposite of what your mind tells you to do
you should be fine
exactly. don't overthink
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United States3824 Posts
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It depends on a lot of things. Give us your specific situation.
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lol I think the proper way is to talk alot about how good you are at sc. Tell her about all your iccup wins. She'll then want to go to any event or just chill.
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^ if you never want to date again, lool.
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On April 16 2009 13:12 Raithed wrote:
smack her butt.
yea! or just be like, "hey, wanna get a corndog?" or whatever food you know she likes.
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Korea (South)11575 Posts
ask her if she wants to surf TL with you
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On April 16 2009 14:21 cgrinker wrote:
Practice on your mom
that made me lol
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Valhalla18444 Posts
deliver a devastating flying kick
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Ok so I know the girl through my English class, we have only talked small talk and worked together on some things. She is usually very friendly to me and says hi to me when I see her elsewhere or somewhere in the halls. However she recently stopped being that way and I think she's starting to think i'm weird and creepy for some unknown reason (I don't know why). I admit I'm sort of weird and but I don't know why she would suddenly feel uninterested or creeped out, if I did something I don't know what it is.
I have talked with several people that know her and they say I have a 49% chance of getting her and she will most likely say "no" but she might say "yes" if I think do or say something really creative or impress somehow. I don't know how to approach her and where I should approach her and when, and I'm asking her tomorrow so I really need some ideas fast.
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Valhalla18444 Posts
most girls will just be like O_O if you do something grandoise if they already think you're kinda, you know, "out there"
just ask her out. have a specific place to go and a specific time, like dinner at whatever at x:xx, or something to do
grand gestures are meaningless at this point, you are not trying to trick this girl into dating you
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On April 17 2009 07:01 nimysa wrote:
Ok so I know the girl through my English class, we have only talked small talk and worked together on some things. She is usually very friendly to me and says hi to me when I see her elsewhere or somewhere in the halls. However she recently stopped being that way and I think she's starting to think i'm weird and creepy for some unknown reason (I don't know why). I admit I'm sort of weird and but I don't know why she would suddenly feel uninterested or creeped out, if I did something I don't know what it is.
I have talked with several people that know her and they say I have a 49% chance of getting her and she will most likely say "no" but she might say "yes" if I think do or say something really creative or impress somehow. I don't know how to approach her and where I should approach her and when, and I'm asking her tomorrow so I really need some ideas fast.
I can almost say for certain she does not think you are creepy, you are probably over-analyzing little things WAY too much. Try to remember that 99% of the time, everybody else around you is not thinking the same thing you are, so just ask, if she says no, brush it off and act like you aren't effected, even if you are. Getting rejected a few times is actually invaluable experience. You'll stay in her mind and most likely she'll go back to the way she was and you'll get another opportunity, if not, well, fuck her and find someone else, approach/hang out with 10 other girls and you'll get over your one-itis.
edit - cen cal for life(I live in shithole fresno, only 2nd to merced for the worst city in california).
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Ok as an update it didn't go so well. I had to give a presentation to my class along with a group of people and the person with the flash drive ended up messing it up and the file with our presentation was all jumbled it up and I was caught off guard. I had to improvise and I ended up giving the worst speech ever in my life, and I continuously mumbled and boring, half of the people in my class were sleeping and showing me the body language that I was really boring and pathetic. My dream girl was watching and needless to say it gave off a very bad impression. The worst thing is, instead of waiting to ask on another day, I asked her right after.
Here's the dialogue:
Me: Hi ***** are you by anyway chance free this afternoon
Girl: errrrr noooo
Me: It's pefectly fine, I was thinking about hanging out somewhere , do you want hang out sometime later?
Girl: I can't come in this friday and I can't come this weekend maybe someday later
*Girl walks away without saying anything*
Me: *Red with embarrasement*
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