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Finally I have something to 1-up this with...I have a crazy female stalker... No I'm not kidding, not exagerating at all... Its gettin to the point where I am 100% considering a restraining order... Let me start from the begining and give you the whole 411...
(Just so you all know me and the girl I was writing about in my other blog are still happily together anyway here we go)
Ok, So I am a bit of a partier, I enjoy to drink.. So last week I had a decent sized party at my house, large enough where there was about 10 people who I didn't even know at all. This girl we will refer to as "Her" showed up to this party, this is how we met...
The party went well my girlfriend was there, people were drinking, no fights broke out, no drama ensued. I met "her" there. She was kind of flirting with me the whole party but I didn't really pay attention to it because truly I only have eyes for my girlfriend and I would never cheat on her. I am a loyal boyfriend. Anyway My girlfriend is not worried about me cheating on her either so she didn't really pay attention to the flirting but she did hang around me a bit more to try and get this girl to get the point a bit (only because I asked her to because 3 hours into the party she wouldn't stop talking to me).
Now because the party was at my house I felt pretty good about leaving my phone around I knew most people there and trusted most of them. Anyway I found out TODAY that she first got my phone number by calling her phone from mine was it was sittin on my dresser. Ok so the party ended fine... "Her" went to her respective home and I didn't hear from her again til a few days later...
She called me asking what I was doing and If I was down to drink. I can't lie I was, I wanted to drink a bit but not to get with her at all... Just as friends. I even called my girlfriend and asked her if it was alright, she said it was and I said to her, "if you dont like this at all just tell me and I wont, I'm not trying to talk to this girl I just want to go drink." She said "no its ok go have fun, I trust you call me when she leaves"
GOD I WISH SHE HAD STOPPED ME!
The girl ends up bringing some people over to my house and we have some jack daniels which I did not partake in but I had a pack of beer to myself. "Her" started asking me a lot of question about my girlfriend, if she was happy, If I was happy. How long we had been together, if I ever cheated on her (which I have not just so that's out there, [I know you all who read my previous blog think Im some douche boyfriend but its not that like that]) anyway shes asking all these questions trying to see where I stand and such and I shut her down in pretty much every repsectable way I could.
Now we finished drinking and I noticed everyone had left and she was still here, Turns out she didn't drive and her friend who had given "her" a ride here has left... I asked "her" if she could call her to get a ride home because I was tired and wanted to go to bed. "Her" said sure no problem thanks for having me over... "Her" friends phone was off... shit are you kidding me? I am way too drunk to drive and she lives like 20 minutes away.. She called a couple other people (I thought) and yup , you guessed it... no ride available...
I have a futon in my room so I was thinking she would just stay on that and it would be the end of it, I would call my girlfriend to get her to come over so she didn't think anything was going on and it would be end of story... I thought wrong.
Much to my dismay I called my girlfriend and she couldn't stay over at my house because she was staying with her mom over at a family members house that also had a small little party... CRAP I told my girlfriend what was going on and she asked to talk to the girl, I happily handed over the phone... They talked for a minute and then my girlfriend told me ok its cool give her the futon drive her home in the morning. I said ok I love you call u tomorrow.
I set her up with some blankets and stuff and I get into bed with the TV on... I cant sleep before I watch some TV. So I'm trying to watch and relax and she keeps talkin to me about random shit, light conversation and such... blah blah blah.. I finally pass out, like drunk pass out not fall asleep pass out.
I wake up the next morning... heres where the wierd shit starts happenening... She is IN MY BED!!! I had no idea wtf was goin on, I didn't black out, I remember settin her up, she got in the futon I got in my bed, wtf is she doing in my bed?!?!
I wake up and look over and immediatly Im like wtf is going on?! "Her" said it was really cold so she didn't think if it would be too big of a deal if she brought her blankets over to my bed and shared with me... WTF NO ITS NOT OK! IT IS A BIG DEAL!
On top of that when I jump out of bed to get dressed the blankets pull back and I notice she is naked... like 100% naked no underwear.. Im wearing underwear still thank god and I got a beater on... I immediatly told her to get dressed your going home, I got dressed, she got dressed we left... We get to her house a couple towns over and we get to her house and I told her I dont think we should hangout anymore, this is too wierd I have a girlfriend these kind of things are not ok.
She replies with something along the lines of, I agree we should keep this just between us and leans in to kiss me, I thought she was trying to hug me but "her" quickly planted one right on my lips, I push "her" away and tell her to get out of my car and not to contact me.
I told my GF what happened, she got mad but now understands it wasn't my fault...
Then the texts start coming
"hey baby, just seeing what you were doing today, is she still out of town? Lets grab some lunch?"
Things along the lines of this... I always replied with a rude no, stop texting me and such...
This has been goin on for about a week now.
Last night I replied
"If you dont stop fuckin calling/texting me I'm going to change my number... Leave me the fuck alone, I am happy with my girlfriend, you have no chance. Get over it!"
"HER" replied with
"Baby, please listen. I'm sorry I wont give up on you, I know in my heart were a perfect match, WHY WONT YOU GIVE ME A CHANCE?! I know were meant to be. Trust me."
WTFBBQSAUCE... r u kidding me?
Today I got 15 missed calls from her, AND she randomly showed up at my house today, didn't knock walked right in, my girlfriend and I were watching fight club cuddled up on the futon. I couldn't believe it...
After she walked in she started yelling at me and my girlfriend, wtf was going on? She had thought I was going to give her a chance and trust her...
My girlfriend knew about everything that was going on, saw all the texts and was just as blown away as me that this stupid girl was being 100% serious...
After the What the fuck is going on attitude slipped away I pushed her out of my house and locked the door... It hasn't been unlocked yet. I am seriously considering getting a restraining order from this girl... I mean she never called again after I left and I really dont want to go through all the hassle of that... But this is fuckin harassment this is ridiclous...I am thinking if she calls/texts/shows up one more time than a restraining order is necessary BUT if she drops it I dont think I have to... I'm just not sure, I really hope she gets the point... fuckin insane bitch...
What do you guys think? I promise you guys this is 100% legit... No exageration, no making anything up, all 100% wtf is going on....
Should I restraining order?
Should I just leave it alone and maybe she'll stop?
Should I change my number?--- this is probably going to happen anyway... I dont want her to have my # at all...
What do you guys think... this is fuckin ridiculous is it not?
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