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Kentor
United States5784 Posts
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Smix
United States4549 Posts
On February 16 2009 11:51 Kennigit wrote: I would show you the picture of a girl i love but chances are a friend would show it to her and id be fuxed. + Show Spoiler + that and i haven't asked her out yet LOL Hahahahaha, nice. Ask her out! I hope things work out between you two. Love at 18 is rare but not implausible... best wishes! | ||
boesthius
United States11637 Posts
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IntoTheWow
is awesome32269 Posts
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1a2a3aGG
United States225 Posts
On February 16 2009 23:13 IntoTheWow wrote: It could be just gas.... lmfao! True that... I wish if only... lol | ||
lungo
Denmark276 Posts
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TechniQ.UK
United Kingdom391 Posts
It isn't so much a sin to go out with a non-believer but it's very greatly not-recommended. It was a hard decision for me not to get involved with a girl recently who was a non-believer. Basically heres some of the challenges and advice: 1) If shes in love with you and knows her religion she knows that your on your way to hell and shes not which will mean her desperatly at some point trying to drag you into conversion because no one wants the person they love to go to hell at any cost. So your gonna need bear with some emotional times where she is trying to get you in to christianity at some point, of course I would encourage you to look unto Jesus but if your not going to just don't respond angry or in a really serious manner just say like your not ready or your not sure or something and be tender towards her. 2) pre-marital sex...yeah your gonna need to restrain yourself big time till marriage I know a few people who went out with non-believers, had sex and the christian split up the relationship out of guilt because christians cannot live in sin if they are regenerate which every believer is. It's not simply a choice that we make to switch off our morality and turn it back on in Sunday's. One mistake may cost you the relationship. (unless shes not regenerate, is a daughter of Christians but perhaps doesn't know Jesus despite going to church, this is a the position of a lot of so called "Christians" who go to church and live like the devil the rest of the week and still think there saved or go to a church which is apostate.) I can think of some other advice but thats kinda later down the line. Just be really respectful and smart in deed, thought and action around her. Even if you don't believe in God, I do and I see him at work each day. If you take one of his daughters and incite her to sin perhaps by getting drunk, swearing, sexual contact before marriage around her or encourage her to I'm almost sure that relationship will end in some way and God will seperate her from you because God takes christians out of situations that are damaging to his relationship with them almost without fail. Like me when I truely got converted even though my church was a bible believing one I got seperated out of it and later found out a few doctrines that were bad after studying much bible. Anyway. Take care. | ||
PH
United States6173 Posts
I swear, girls around where I live are insane. | ||
Deleted User 31060
3788 Posts
On February 17 2009 08:11 TechniQ.UK wrote: + Show Spoiler [Show quote] + I would say that going out with a believer is going to be very difficult long term. It isn't so much a sin to go out with a non-believer but it's very greatly not-recommended. It was a hard decision for me not to get involved with a girl recently who was a non-believer. Basically heres some of the challenges and advice: 1) If shes in love with you and knows her religion she knows that your on your way to hell and shes not which will mean her desperatly at some point trying to drag you into conversion because no one wants the person they love to go to hell at any cost. So your gonna need bear with some emotional times where she is trying to get you in to christianity at some point, of course I would encourage you to look unto Jesus but if your not going to just don't respond angry or in a really serious manner just say like your not ready or your not sure or something and be tender towards her. 2) pre-marital sex...yeah your gonna need to restrain yourself big time till marriage I know a few people who went out with non-believers, had sex and the christian split up the relationship out of guilt because christians cannot live in sin if they are regenerate which every believer is. It's not simply a choice that we make to switch off our morality and turn it back on in Sunday's. One mistake may cost you the relationship. (unless shes not regenerate, is a daughter of Christians but perhaps doesn't know Jesus despite going to church, this is a the position of a lot of so called "Christians" who go to church and live like the devil the rest of the week and still think there saved or go to a church which is apostate.) I can think of some other advice but thats kinda later down the line. Just be really respectful and smart in deed, thought and action around her. Even if you don't believe in God, I do and I see him at work each day. If you take one of his daughters and incite her to sin perhaps by getting drunk, swearing, sexual contact before marriage around her or encourage her to I'm almost sure that relationship will end in some way and God will seperate her from you because God takes christians out of situations that are damaging to his relationship with them almost without fail. Like me when I truely got converted even though my church was a bible believing one I got seperated out of it and later found out a few doctrines that were bad after studying much bible. Anyway. Take care. uhhh she's not quite that religious. Somehow she thinks that being a good person > being a believer so I'll go to heaven too, even if I don't believe in it... yeah. And no comment on the premaritial sex part. On February 17 2009 08:26 PH wrote: You're lucky. I've gone through dumb and ridiculous drama over/with women over the last three years or so. It got to the point where I just totally STOPPED. I swear, girls around where I live are insane. most girls are like that, I guess I just got lucky, or somehow my personality repels those types? | ||
EsX_Raptor
United States2801 Posts
Our chicks here don't know what love is anymore, you check the dictionary and it says: Main Entry: lo·ve Pronunciation: \ˈló-vē'\ Function: noun/verb Inflected Form(s): plural lo·ves also lo·lovese Listen to the pronunciation of loves \ˈló-(ˌ)vēX'\ Etymology: Latin, love, heart; akin to amor Date: 1668 : a male erectile organ of copulation by which urine and semen are discharged from the body and that develops from the same embryonic mass of tissue as the clitoris | ||
ahswtini
Northern Ireland22203 Posts
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PH
United States6173 Posts
On February 17 2009 10:40 Sunyveil wrote: most girls are like that, I guess I just got lucky, or somehow my personality repels those types? I dunno. I haven't put much thought to chicks in that sense for like the last six months...just been chilling with friends having a good time without worrying about getting into a relationship or a hookup. To be completely honest, I've never felt freer, it feels like a huge amount of stress has just disappeared, and nor have I been this bored. -____-;; If there's one thing "love" does, is it preoccupies the mind. There's a lot less to think about when you're not concerning yourself with it...lol. | ||
Fontong
United States6454 Posts
She looks exactly like your previous girlfriend. | ||
Luddite
United States2315 Posts
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TechniQ.UK
United Kingdom391 Posts
lolllllll if she thinks that consitutes salvation she goes to an apostate church and probably isn't saved. "He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God." john 3:18 | ||
Mindcrime
United States6899 Posts
On February 17 2009 13:38 TechniQ.UK wrote: Somehow she thinks that being a good person > being a believer so I'll go to heaven too lolllllll if she thinks that consitutes salvation she goes to an apostate church and probably isn't saved. "He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God." john 3:18 You're approaching Fred Phelps' level of douchiness. | ||
SpiritoftheTunA
United States20903 Posts
On February 17 2009 13:38 TechniQ.UK wrote: Somehow she thinks that being a good person > being a believer so I'll go to heaven too lolllllll if she thinks that consitutes salvation she goes to an apostate church and probably isn't saved. "He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God." john 3:18 dude it's like playing whack a mole you pop up in every thread that mentions christianity and you preach in a condescending tone and i have to remind you that you never truly resolved all of the inconsistences idra, mindcrime, and i brought up in your own damn thread. | ||
IdrA
United States11541 Posts
On February 17 2009 13:38 TechniQ.UK wrote: Somehow she thinks that being a good person > being a believer so I'll go to heaven too lolllllll if she thinks that consitutes salvation she goes to an apostate church and probably isn't saved. "He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God." john 3:18 'hahaha she thinks being a good person matters what an idiot" fuck off dumbass | ||
CDRdude
United States5625 Posts
On February 16 2009 12:13 T.O.P. wrote: That looks like Lake Tahoe. That was my first thought too. Is it? at TechniQ.UK: Why do you do this? | ||
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