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KaasZerg
Netherlands927 Posts
On January 09 2009 22:05 itzme_petey wrote: you dont have a job yet, can still get a girl?! beggars cant be choosers! It's not wheter she's the right girl or not. He likes her a lot. She just came along at the wrong time. Just tell her straight up that she is wonderfull but don't feel like having a relationship right now. edit:if you haven't done so already. with some luck they will stay friends. | ||
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Elvin_vn
Vietnam2038 Posts
Coffee is great, we talk about my company, what happened, we talk about piano, we talk about parents. Great convo, but in retrospect, I probably should've taken her question "are you going to be in town now that your job is gone" as a warning sign, but by the time I was drinking coffee I was just horny as fuck, being single for a while, and didn't want to think too hard about anything. These topics of the are kinda turn-down for girl. There is nothing into it. Yet she invites you to her place and (everything beyond this point was already decided) hook-up with you on the first date? and then be pretty "distraught" about a guy who she hook-up for only 1 day? Ok I won't give any direct judgment about her but you don't have to feel guilty about this. You told her the truth instead of fucking around with her, that's enough and let's just move on. | ||
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frankbg
Canada335 Posts
On January 09 2009 23:44 Elvin_vn wrote: These topics of the are kinda turn-down for girl. There is nothing into it. Yet she invites you to her place and (everything beyond this point was already decided) hook-up with you on the first date? and then be pretty "distraught" about a guy who she hook-up for only 1 day? Turn-down? Why? Makes me wonder what type of girl you interact with. If you can only talk about the latest pop music album, you've probably got yourself a dumb skank imo. | ||
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TheHelloGram
Singapore16 Posts
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Night[Mare
Mexico4793 Posts
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ish0wstopper
Korea (South)342 Posts
if u dont want to date her then u gotta say it before its too late | ||
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KaasZerg
Netherlands927 Posts
Is OP a whore two. Or is there a double standard. I really don't get the seemingly ridgit American culture regarding sexuality. Maybe I'm dumb Eurotrash and see things to black/white, dunno. | ||
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BottleAbuser
Korea (South)1888 Posts
First, it's obviously got positive connotations, such as being the antonym to "guilty," as well as the association with babies and angels, which are common terms that people use to describe their girlfriends. Second, it's very easy to justify, because the listener has no idea if you're talking about innocence in terms of crimes, experience, personality, etc, so no one's going to be calling BS on you. | ||
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Snet
United States3573 Posts
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t_co
United States702 Posts
She just broke up with her boyfriend, parents going through rough patch in marriage, so I guess I'm supposed to be the rebound. I can't say I mind because I don't have anything invested here, just hooking up sounds great, and since we were friends before I don't care about spending time with her. So...we decided to go skiing this weekend, just the two of us. But no commitment. At least not yet. As for a job, I'm looking to stay in this city so that won't be a problem. | ||
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Cpt.Cocaine
Canada299 Posts
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t_co
United States702 Posts
On January 09 2009 20:34 WhatisProtoss wrote: You two are both on the wrong page. It's not about giving the girl a chance. Apparently, from what he's said about her, she's a great girl too. She's pretty, talented, etc. But, he's not looking for commitment. He wanted to have some fun, but now he has a clingy girl on his hands. ----------------- Be straight with her. Tell her that she's a great girl, but that you're not looking for commitment. Don't feel sorry for her to the point where you'll try to be friends with her. You don't have that kind of obligation to fulfill. This happened to me once before. I met this new girl, had sex on the first date. Then, I kept getting e-mail and texts. I stopped responding, and the texts became like, "Hey, where are you? I see how it is, jerk!" I didn't tell her that I wasn't into commitment. So, the only way that I got rid of her was by ignoring her. She'll probably be upset if I try to contact her again. [Edit] Wait, she's a good friend?! Shit. That makes it hard. She is probably gunning for a serious relationship. I guess you'll just have to be honest. Most likely, you'll lose her as a friend..... for now... She wants me to be her rebound, I took her in, we're ok for now I guess, hopefully we can dial it down or up without too much blood spilled between us. | ||
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Luddite
United States2315 Posts
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Elvin_vn
Vietnam2038 Posts
but still good luck | ||
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HeavOnEarth
United States7087 Posts
on another note. Elvin_vn Vietnam. January 10 2009 08:42. Posts 1656 PM Profile Blog Quote do not agrue with idiots, they will pull you down to their level and beat you with their experiences haha so true~ | ||
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t_co
United States702 Posts
It's so cute when girls try hard to make you like them. She just woke me up with the smell of hot chocolate and pancakes... | ||
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Tekin
2711 Posts
On January 11 2009 02:19 t_co wrote: Update: It's so cute when girls try hard to make you like them. She just woke me up with the smell of hot chocolate and pancakes... ahh cute. I wish my roommate(Girl) did the same ToT | ||
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Cambium
United States16368 Posts
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t_co
United States702 Posts
On January 11 2009 03:26 Cambium wrote: How is this a problem? Well, I want to keep my options open but I don't want to make her unhappy either (because she's younger... I guess I feel kind of brotherly to her) | ||
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HeavOnEarth
United States7087 Posts
On January 11 2009 02:19 t_co wrote: Update: It's so cute when girls try hard to make you like them. She just woke me up with the smell of hot chocolate and pancakes... are u serious D: | ||
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