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Hey everyone, i need to share what happened to me 10 minutes ago.
First, a little background : i live with my room-mate for 3 years now, we've been together (read have sex) times to times, but i always refused to get engaged. However we still shared life in the same house for 3 years and i do appreciate her a lot.
Lately, she found a nice boyfriend (read a fucker), well he looks ok, and she is no longer sleeping here anymore, and this whole stuff annoys me.
Anyway, back to the story.
This morning i had a dream about her, which never happens, and i believe never happened. She was in the toilet of our house, and i could hear the sound of her unscratching some ventral belt... obvioulsy a pregnant kind of belt, to maintain belly or whatever. Worried, but unwilling to let her know, i just send a "So, when is it for?", because i know she is not very calculated and she will give herself up on this kind of question. Then i wake up, pissed at the sole idea of her being pregnant with this fuck.
Awaken, i proceed to check my mails - i am waiting for some job opportunities. What do i see there, a mail from her? She never wrote me a mail, i mean why would she, we are one door away. I didnt even know she had my adress.
What is the mail about... a database of pictures of babies.
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I'm a very rationnale person, i don't believe in anything god or evasive ghosts or w/e. But given the context (first dream about her, first e-mail she sent, both about same topic), this is one fucking big of a coincidence.
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the internet is in your head, man
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motbob
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You can say, that's a coincidence.
You can say, that means you have a mystical connection with her somehow.
You can also say, maybe there's a mutual friend or something of the sort who knew she was pregnant, who then said something that triggered a subconscious thought in your brain that she was pregnant, which led to you having the dream.
...probably just a coincidence.
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Same stuff has happened to me.
I dream something then some time after it happens just as in the dream. Don't know how or why. And I have no idea it's gonna happen, it just does.
As for the girl - you seem in love with her though you might deny it. And you fucked up all your chances of being with her.
Good luck in the future!
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On December 12 2008 22:29 hymn wrote:
Same stuff has happened to me.
I dream something then some time after it happens just as in the dream. Don't know how or why. And I have no idea it's gonna happen, it just does.
As for the girl - you seem in love with her though you might deny it. And you fucked up all your chances of being with her.
Good luck in the future!
You don't hold back, I like that
you are my new friend
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Sometimes you presume that something is likely to happen and then you dream about it. So if this was so likely to happen, then it happened and you are a bit shocked right now.
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this is not clear for me : "What is the mail about... a database of pictures of babies." is she actually pregnant?
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On December 12 2008 22:29 hymn wrote:
Same stuff has happened to me.
I dream something then some time after it happens just as in the dream. Don't know how or why. And I have no idea it's gonna happen, it just does.
As for the girl - you seem in love with her though you might deny it. And you fucked up all your chances of being with her.
Good luck in the future!
I don't know what to be in love means.
I don't think everything is fucked, though a baby would indeed mean everything is fucked.
On December 12 2008 23:44 malongo wrote:
this is not clear for me : "What is the mail about... a database of pictures of babies." is she actually pregnant?
As far as i know, she's not...
The mail was about finding some pictures of yourself while you were a baby. Supposedly a database of everyone's baby pictures... you enter your name / date of birth, and they find your picts.
Turned out to be pictures of monkeys with baby clothes, by the way.
But man... first time i dream about her ever, first time she sends me an e-mail ever, and this is all baby related wtf
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It seems to me that you became accustomed to treating her like your property, taking what you want and not really giving anything back in return, other than simple friendship.
Maybe I am wrong, but I do not think you're in love with her, rather, you just think that something that was rightfully yours has been taken away. This is a wrongful state of mind, I have been there myself, and I think the best thing you could do is let her go and do whatever she desires, forcing yourself not to get involved with her actions.
On the other hand, if you do have romantic feelings for her, and you TRUTHFULLY think you WANT (not could, WANT) to live with her as lovers (you have to think really deep about the implications of this), then you should try doing something (talking to her about your feelings?) as soon as possible, even though it may be too late.
Good luck.
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Oh and forget the pregnancy shit
I think that was just a dream summarizing your fears of what would happen in case somebody took "full property" of her (as in, getting engaged/married/having a baby with her or w/e)
coincidence with a hidden sense
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Usually people dream of fish when someone gets pregnant. I know fish, weird.
But it seems you have feelings for her some way or another, dreams are foretelling about that kind of stuff.
Good luck!
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Well there is a great deal of symbolism involved here but let me save us both some time: you want to fuck her.
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On December 13 2008 03:32 HeadBangaa wrote:
Well there is a great deal of symbolism involved here but let me save us both some time: you want to fuck her.
FTW
You can't get a pregnant chick more pregnant than she already is...
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Pre-emptive strike: punch her in the stomach
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I imagine this was quite the scare ;p
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On December 13 2008 04:04 Hawk wrote:
Pre-emptive strike: punch her in the stomach
Hahahaha. Would brass knuckles be a bit over the top?
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On December 13 2008 03:39 dNo_O wrote:Show nested quote +On December 13 2008 03:32 HeadBangaa wrote:
Well there is a great deal of symbolism involved here but let me save us both some time: you want to fuck her. FTW You can't get a pregnant chick more pregnant than she already is...
hahaha i guess thats true
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