Every action results in a reaction
Nowadays people are far to fast with their decisions. They talk and judge before even thinking about what they could trigger with what they do, but this isn't something new, is it?
Unfortunately I noticed that even friends and family seems to change more and more in that direction.
To take a single example I'd to point out that the phrase "I hate you" is used far to often. Whenever a friend argued with his mother about things that aren't even worth talking about he's telling me "I hate my mother.. god damn b****".
Holy hell what? It is your mother and you love her and don't hate her. Even if you argued its no reason to say something like that.
Same goes for "I love you". I have lots of good friends (females) and I'm getting along with them quite good, we are so close. They tell me everything, they have no problem to change clothes when I'm next to them and things like that. But I'd never say "I love you" and ask her if she wants to start a relationship with me if I'm not really sure about my feelings.
A lot of teenagers are starting relationships with the hope that the inner lust to satisfy your desire will change into a relationship which turns out to make your heart going crazy every time you hold the hand of your boyfriend or girlfriend.
You probably just wanted to have fun and your partner wanted something serious and thought you think the same way. Worst case scenario would be a broken heart and end of the friendship.
Judging too fast
I'm unique. I'm not like the mass of the guys. I'm not looking forward to just f*** a girl and toss her away like trash. I'm interested in a serious relationship or in serious friendship. I won't say I'm perfect or I never kissed just for fun or had sex for fun, but both wanted nothing more than that. I'm not faking interest just to get a f***!
Persons (in most cases men) who act just like this actually piss me off.
The topic sex leads to one point of people judging too fast. Women who sleep with lots of men are bitches, because.. yes, thats the point. Because of what they are bitches?
No one cries about men sleeping with a lot women / girls.
Another point is that you judge about persons, about their sexual interest, their character and anything far too easy.
Taking me as example this time, I really enjoy listening to Nick Pitera (Male Amateur Singer which can actually sing like women can.. if you ask me even better)
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Who ever thinks he's lip syncing just proves my point of judging too fast, next one is live
Alot of people called me gay or a freak, because I actually recognize what a talent this guy has, even if you don't like it. I think there's nothing wrong with singing like that if you can.
Well, thats all I have to say right now. I'm actually really mad and tired.. good night everyone. Maybe you think about what you read here.
Please don't take part in the discussion or comment this if you are not interested in what I wrote or think it is total bullsh*t. I really don't want to argue with anyone of you, because this is just my point of view. If you have another point of view I'm looking forward to read it!