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funkie
Profile Blog Joined November 2005
Venezuela9376 Posts
April 07 2008 04:30 GMT
#21
so j00 is liek weak fo puzzy?

nice lol.

On a more serious note, the more you hang with her, the harder it will get, I'm not saying cut every bond with her, because It's stupid and childish to do so, but try not to get so close to her again, it might happen what you're saying, and then the hurt one is going to be your former friend.

This is like karma, or that song by Justin Timberlake, What goes around comes around.

Or My name is Earl too. ?
CJ Entusman #6! · Strength is the basis of athletic ability. -Rippetoe /* http://j.mp/TL-App <- TL iPhone App 2.0! */
funkie
Profile Blog Joined November 2005
Venezuela9376 Posts
April 07 2008 04:33 GMT
#22
On April 07 2008 12:02 RtS)Night[Mare wrote:
note: this happened after six months of no speaking/talking/IM/text/see her >.<



I take back what I said in last post.

You are a fucking whining puppy dog, and you should grow some balls, and do what rpf said.

Man, 6 months?..Jesus Christ.
CJ Entusman #6! · Strength is the basis of athletic ability. -Rippetoe /* http://j.mp/TL-App <- TL iPhone App 2.0! */
Night[Mare
Profile Blog Joined December 2004
Mexico4793 Posts
April 07 2008 04:35 GMT
#23
On April 07 2008 12:45 mikeymoo wrote:
Former friend because he went out with her?
Or were you not friends when she went out with her?


former because he lied to me and stabbed me in the back saying he wanted her and me to be ok, but one time she come to my college to hand me a letter i left and he got angry because he was sick about hearing complaints of her, saying that she missed me and shit. The bastard dated her even when he knew i still had a crush on her, while saying they were only friends
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ahrara_
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
Afghanistan1715 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-04-07 05:13:19
April 07 2008 05:13 GMT
#24
On April 07 2008 13:33 funKie wrote:
Show nested quote +
On April 07 2008 12:02 RtS)Night[Mare wrote:
note: this happened after six months of no speaking/talking/IM/text/see her >.<



I take back what I said in last post.

You are a fucking whining puppy dog, and you should grow some balls, and do what rpf said.

Man, 6 months?..Jesus Christ.

Everybody deals with relationships differently. Who the fuck are you to judge?
in Afghanistan we have 20% literacy rate
aeronexus
Profile Joined June 2007
United States392 Posts
April 07 2008 05:31 GMT
#25
On April 07 2008 13:13 rpf wrote:
L winz ze thred.

I think you spoke too soon...

On April 07 2008 13:20 gEzUS wrote:
imagine her taking a huge shit, 2 girls 1 cup style

10 points!
~OpZ~
Profile Blog Joined May 2005
United States3652 Posts
April 07 2008 06:21 GMT
#26
....I know how you feel...Same way with me ex...(girl in my profile pic...)
Maybe I could teach Osama that using a plane as a wraith or dropship would be 10x better than using it as a scourge..... ^^; -Flex
yubee
Profile Blog Joined May 2006
United States3826 Posts
April 07 2008 06:46 GMT
#27
On April 07 2008 15:21 ~OpZ~ wrote:
....I know how you feel...Same way with me ex...(girl in my profile pic...)
take her out of your profile pic dummy
Mada_Jiang
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
Australia236 Posts
April 07 2008 07:11 GMT
#28
--- Nuked ---
bustaBust
Profile Blog Joined December 2006
Canada469 Posts
April 07 2008 07:27 GMT
#29
If you get her back it's because she wants something she can't have. You must seem like something she can't have, doing all her favorite shit after shes fucking around with your friend doesn't really have the same effect. I tried the "show you all the awesomeness I have to offer" way of getting back my ex, epic fail. Take my advice, make her want you first :D.

Let the mind games begin! (*fires the starter gun*)
bustaBust
Profile Blog Joined December 2006
Canada469 Posts
April 07 2008 07:29 GMT
#30
On April 07 2008 13:35 RtS)Night[Mare wrote:
Show nested quote +
On April 07 2008 12:45 mikeymoo wrote:
Former friend because he went out with her?
Or were you not friends when she went out with her?


former because he lied to me and stabbed me in the back saying he wanted her and me to be ok, but one time she come to my college to hand me a letter i left and he got angry because he was sick about hearing complaints of her, saying that she missed me and shit. The bastard dated her even when he knew i still had a crush on her, while saying they were only friends

I had a friend like that that I knew 10+ years. I haven't talked to him since he lied to me about them. You need friends like that like you need a bullet in the head.
HeadBangaa
Profile Blog Joined July 2004
United States6512 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-04-07 07:52:03
April 07 2008 07:47 GMT
#31
People get confused in these situations because half of your mind turns on you. It's like a drug addiction. If you quit smoking pot, would you keep a bong around for "memories"? Cold turkey is the only way. Cut her off, stop looking at her myspace page, get rid of the trinkets that remind you of her, anything she bought for you, throw it away. No communication.

It took me 2 years to get over my first post-high school sweetheart (the only girl I considered marrying, briefly). It's been about 4 years since the breakup, we've both been through other major relationships and such, and I was really curious how my heart would react to speaking with her. We hung out last month for a few hours, and I am happy to say I felt absolutely nothing except disgust for the bitch (she asked me out again; denied).
Once you're completely healed (it takes a really long time sometimes, that's OK) you'll realize that your mind was playing an expert game of rationalization against your common sense. You know what I'm saying is true, I can tell by your statements of her "not being good enough".

Don't forget to start seeing other women when you feel ready, or else your skills will rust.
People who fail to distinguish Socratic Method from malicious trolling are sadly stupid and not worth a response.
Beyonder
Profile Blog Joined September 2002
Netherlands15103 Posts
April 07 2008 10:04 GMT
#32
Understandable, somewhat. But let's face it, as many here already said: you have to quit seeing her.

As for the people calling him a pussy, telling him to just see other girls: not everyone is the same. I'm like this too. If my current relationship breaks, I know I will be affected for a long, long time.

And indeed, if you want her back, man-up and stop seeing her. Be very clear and tell her that you two cannot see each other till ....... Don't accept such things and certainly do not reward such behaviour.

I said goodbye to my current girlfriend 'permanently' before we officially got together, because she had to dump her stupid ex-boyfriend first and make some important choices. She repeatedly could not totally break it off with him for several reasons. I refused to play along and waited till she fixed everything, breaking off all contact; then she came to me, because she realized what she missed.

Good luck, son.
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Jibba
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States22883 Posts
April 07 2008 12:30 GMT
#33
On April 07 2008 19:04 Beyonder wrote:

telling him to just see other girls: not everyone is the same. I'm like this too. If my current relationship breaks, I know I will be affected for a long, long time.

If you wait for yourself to be completely over someone before you start seeing other people, you'll be alone for a really, really, really long time.
ModeratorNow I'm distant, dark in this anthrobeat
Boonbag
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
France3318 Posts
April 07 2008 12:46 GMT
#34
On April 07 2008 13:20 gEzUS wrote:
imagine her taking a huge shit, 2 girls 1 cup style


Flawless victory.
minus_human
Profile Blog Joined November 2006
4784 Posts
April 07 2008 13:13 GMT
#35
I find you so weak, the only person like that who I know is... me. Darn

Well, the least you can do is have patience.
good luck
rpf
Profile Blog Joined January 2007
United States2705 Posts
April 07 2008 13:53 GMT
#36
On April 07 2008 13:33 funKie wrote:
Show nested quote +
On April 07 2008 12:02 RtS)Night[Mare wrote:
note: this happened after six months of no speaking/talking/IM/text/see her >.<



I take back what I said in last post.

You are a fucking whining puppy dog, and you should grow some balls, and do what rpf said.

Man, 6 months?..Jesus Christ.

I hate to agree with this, but it's true.You're letting emotions run your life and determine your behavior. I'm not saying emotions are bad, but they do often result in illogical patterns of behavior.

You're hanging onto something you no longer have in your life. Just let go already. :|
"A fear of weapons is a sign of retarded sexual and emotional maturity." - Sigmund Freud
omgbnetsux
Profile Blog Joined April 2004
United States3749 Posts
April 07 2008 15:55 GMT
#37
On April 07 2008 12:47 L wrote:
The best way to end relationships is permanently. Do not talk to her, do not invite her over. She isn't your friend. In a year or whenever you're done being sad, you can be friends, but not until then.

Agreed 100%. This is how I dealt with my three year relationship (suspect of cheating too).

Keep yourself distracted, play some SC, hang out with friends, and move on.
nA.Inky
Profile Blog Joined October 2004
United States794 Posts
April 07 2008 18:06 GMT
#38
I wouldn't assume you have a chance with her. Explore the possibility if you want to, but don't get your hopes up.

I can relate to the difficulty of getting over a past girlfriend. It's been 6 or 7 months since I broke up with mine, and while most of the time I am fine, there are difficult moments. Lately, the way I deal with it is when I find myself starting to remember her, I tell myself to stop thinking about her; move on to some other thought entirely. I might not do this if there were any possibility of friendship between me and her, but there is not, so it makes little sense for me to dwell on her, particularly when it leads to me missing her. So, in short, it may help to practice self discipline and keep her out of your mind. She will keep sneaking back into your thoughts, so you have to keep pushing her back out again.

Do stay positive; there are many wonderful women out there that you can fall in love with.
Email (use instead of PM): InkMeister at aol dot com AIM: InkMeister
~OpZ~
Profile Blog Joined May 2005
United States3652 Posts
April 07 2008 19:57 GMT
#39
On April 07 2008 15:46 yubee wrote:
Show nested quote +
On April 07 2008 15:21 ~OpZ~ wrote:
....I know how you feel...Same way with me ex...(girl in my profile pic...)
take her out of your profile pic dummy


bleh...I know I should remove it...and I do have a new gf...I just...don't feel the same feeling for her as I felt for the other girl...
Maybe I could teach Osama that using a plane as a wraith or dropship would be 10x better than using it as a scourge..... ^^; -Flex
pzeta
Profile Blog Joined September 2006
Spain106 Posts
April 07 2008 20:49 GMT
#40
I know what you mean, i had a 6 years relationship.
You have to cut all the relation with her, and accept you have lost her.
She is not going to come back with you, because she doesn't fit with you and she probably doesn't see future with you, so you have to accept it, and start a new life without her.
Advices:
-> Delete her from msn.
-> Remove all photographs or at least
-> keep all loves letters , but not read them until again you forget her and you are emotionally good.
-> You are going to find someone better, but until you don't feel good , it will be more difficult.
-> This experience is quite positive for you, and you will understand it with time.
-> When you have been more relationship you start to select better the next girl, in most case, the next , the better.
-> learn how to attract new girls, at the beginning it will not be easy, but with time, you will see that is a skill, with practice, patience and courage you will get good eventually.

But the most important thing is knowing what you really want.
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