On March 31 2008 02:24 HamerD wrote:
it was a little too hollywood speech for me tbh, but I sympathize with the sentiment...the next step is to outgrow the pangs and pains. Longing for a partner back is just like wishing you still had a toy. Humans are the most developed toys we have in the world, and part of what makes them so interesting and amusing is that they don't have to give us their attention. If you can view humans as toys, you tend to realise, almost comically, that you are actually whining like a baby who wants his rattle back; and I find it tends to become easier to deal with heartache that way- you can get over not having a toy, right?!
Agree with this completely. Especially the first part. o.o