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Lately my girlfriend and I have been very promiscuous, and I've discovered a bit of a problem: I can't keep a boner for a very very long period of time. This is probably typical with guys as it's not normal to be able to hold one for 4+ hours as a woman can sometimes expect you to do.
It really turns out to be a huge pain in the ass. Like today she came over around 2 and left around midnight and got pretty pissed when I wasn't up for getting head right before she left. I was simply completely drained. Couldn't get it up. That's basically what happens after ten hours of messing around.
In a nutshell, she didn't understand. And I don't like it. So, any other guys here at TL have that problem? If so, how do you fix it? Any recommendations?
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from wikipedia:
Promiscuity is the practice of making relatively casual and indiscriminate choices. The term is most commonly applied to sexual behavior, where it refers to a person who does not limit their sex life to the cultural norm, typically one partner, or to the framework of a long term monogamous ...
IM NOT ENTIRELY SURE ABOUT YOUR USAGE THARRRRR
UNLESS Y'ALL ARE SWINGERS
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Well after I "release" I need a 30 minute break you got it better than me ;p
Women just seem to last 50x longer than men
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
tell her to get in the kitchen and cook you some fucking pie until you recharge
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Wait, when did girls like giving head?
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they call them freaks
yes they do exist
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On December 28 2007 14:05 Rekrul wrote: tell her to get in the kitchen and cook you some fucking pie until you recharge
LOLOL
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On December 28 2007 14:05 Rekrul wrote: tell her to get in the kitchen and cook you some fucking pie until you recharge
I actually tried that on my last girlfriend. She left a huge ass red handprint on my face on her way out. True story =(
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
any girl that does not obey you when you tell her to get in the kitchen and make some pie is not a real girlfriend
and u let her slap u? atleast grab her arm as she goes to hit u and smile and go 'one last chance to make that pie' and if she doesnt comply ban her from ur life
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Well, people are touchy about sexual things. The fact is, the best way to handle situations like this is through direct conversation. Tell her how it is and make her understand that your body does not work the way she seems to expect it to. Also help her understand how your body DOES work, so she will know what to expect.
Because sex can be such a sensitive topic, be sure you are caring and non-threatening and non-critical in how you approach the topic.
It is pretty normal to not have as firm an erection after you cum one, two, three, or more times. It is also normal that you would lose your erection more quickly. Personally, I've never had more than 3 orgasms with a girl in a single day, although I would frequently reach 3 (spending some serious time in the bedroom Some guys, especially with age, cannot cum more than once a day. This all varies person to person.
If you are having problems with your erection before you have had any orgasm at all (doesn't seem to be what is going on, but just in case...), I would suggest that it could be a few things: 1) Condom issues (condoms have a slight numbing effect). 2) Confidence issues 3)Pregnancy worries 4) Masturbating to orgasm in the same day you have sex (depleting yourself before you even get started with sex).
Last of all, my suggestion (and you may already be practicing this) is that you don't confine all sex to situations where your erection and orgasm are necessary. In other words, if you aren't ready to get hard and cum yet, go down on her or finger her. Sex should not have to end when the man is satisfied.
Congrats on getting it on frequently! But do not make babies!!!!!
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I definitely agree with you on the last suggestion you offered. And that was actually what I was doing and she felt like she needed to repay me for that. And try as I might, I just couldn't get it going again. Ha. Kinda embarassing.
I have no confidence issues or worries about pregnancy, I really just think it's from being hard for so very long.
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I remember this one time I couldn't get it up, probably from masturbating earlier. She was trying to be sexy but said something like, "Come on can't you get harder for me baby?" And I was like WTF don't ever EVAR say that. Biiiitch. I made sure to remind her of the time her vagina had yeast. My genitals don't take criticism lightly.
ANyways, sounds like you need to give your penis some down time. Some going down time, if you know what I mean. eh EH
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On December 28 2007 15:03 HeadBangaa wrote: I remember this one time I couldn't get it up, probably from masturbating earlier. She was trying to be sexy but said something like, "Come on can't you get harder for me baby?" And I was like WTF don't ever EVAR say that. Biiiitch. I made sure to remind her of the time her vagina had yeast. My genitals don't take criticism lightly.
ANyways, sounds like you need to give your penis some down time. Some going down time, if you know what I mean. eh EH
Lmfao. Yeast? That's dirty shit. Yeah, I hate it when girls complain about things like that. Ever had a girl sit on your nuts then complain when you go limp from agony?
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She was mad she couldnj't give you head?
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Yeah. She was kind of put off that I told her no.
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On December 28 2007 15:09 Dknight wrote: She was mad she couldnj't give you head? It makes sense, actually. She probably thought that she was being super sexy by offering to suck you off, and you refusing her was a sign that you didn't think she was sexy. Women are weird like that.
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On December 28 2007 14:44 Rekrul wrote: ban her from ur life Wow, lol, that was so funny when i read it (so rekrul you even ban girlfriends??).
Anyway just make her so sore that she can't take more than 1 hour.
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Track, it sounds like you know what the "problem" is. You got off to many times and can't keep getting hard. This is inevitable and is not a problem at all.
Just talk with her, but don't be rough about it. Just be straight forward and kind. It has nothing to do with how sexy she is, it has to do with the limitations of the male body.
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Fuck, now I want some god damn pie.
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