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Track
Profile Blog Joined May 2006
United States217 Posts
December 28 2007 04:46 GMT
#1
Lately my girlfriend and I have been very promiscuous, and I've discovered a bit of a problem: I can't keep a boner for a very very long period of time. This is probably typical with guys as it's not normal to be able to hold one for 4+ hours as a woman can sometimes expect you to do.

It really turns out to be a huge pain in the ass. Like today she came over around 2 and left around midnight and got pretty pissed when I wasn't up for getting head right before she left. I was simply completely drained. Couldn't get it up. That's basically what happens after ten hours of messing around.

In a nutshell, she didn't understand. And I don't like it. So, any other guys here at TL have that problem? If so, how do you fix it? Any recommendations?

Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.
SpiritoftheTunA
Profile Blog Joined August 2006
United States20903 Posts
December 28 2007 04:51 GMT
#2
from wikipedia:

Promiscuity is the practice of making relatively casual and indiscriminate choices. The term is most commonly applied to sexual behavior, where it refers to a person who does not limit their sex life to the cultural norm, typically one partner, or to the framework of a long term monogamous ...

IM NOT ENTIRELY SURE ABOUT YOUR USAGE THARRRRR

UNLESS Y'ALL ARE SWINGERS
posting on liquid sites in current year
Aurious
Profile Blog Joined April 2006
Canada1772 Posts
December 28 2007 04:53 GMT
#3
Well after I "release" I need a 30 minute break you got it better than me ;p

Women just seem to last 50x longer than men
Rekrul
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Korea (South)17174 Posts
December 28 2007 05:05 GMT
#4
tell her to get in the kitchen and cook you some fucking pie until you recharge
why so 진지해?
MoRe_mInErAls
Profile Blog Joined November 2007
Canada1210 Posts
Last Edited: 2007-12-28 05:13:42
December 28 2007 05:13 GMT
#5
Tynuji
Profile Blog Joined June 2007
127 Posts
December 28 2007 05:13 GMT
#6
Wait, when did girls like giving head?
AmorVincitOmnia
Profile Joined March 2005
Kenya3846 Posts
December 28 2007 05:16 GMT
#7
they call them freaks

yes they do exist
r.i.p. Bud Shank May 27, 1926 - April 2, 2009
ATeddyBear
Profile Blog Joined December 2005
Canada2843 Posts
December 28 2007 05:16 GMT
#8
On December 28 2007 14:05 Rekrul wrote:
tell her to get in the kitchen and cook you some fucking pie until you recharge


LOLOL
Professional twice over - an analyst and a therapist. The world’s first analrapist.
Track
Profile Blog Joined May 2006
United States217 Posts
December 28 2007 05:20 GMT
#9
On December 28 2007 14:05 Rekrul wrote:
tell her to get in the kitchen and cook you some fucking pie until you recharge


I actually tried that on my last girlfriend. She left a huge ass red handprint on my face on her way out. True story =(
Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.
Rekrul
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Korea (South)17174 Posts
December 28 2007 05:44 GMT
#10
any girl that does not obey you when you tell her to get in the kitchen and make some pie is not a real girlfriend

and u let her slap u? atleast grab her arm as she goes to hit u and smile and go 'one last chance to make that pie' and if she doesnt comply ban her from ur life
why so 진지해?
nA.Inky
Profile Blog Joined October 2004
United States794 Posts
December 28 2007 05:54 GMT
#11
Well, people are touchy about sexual things. The fact is, the best way to handle situations like this is through direct conversation. Tell her how it is and make her understand that your body does not work the way she seems to expect it to. Also help her understand how your body DOES work, so she will know what to expect.

Because sex can be such a sensitive topic, be sure you are caring and non-threatening and non-critical in how you approach the topic.

It is pretty normal to not have as firm an erection after you cum one, two, three, or more times. It is also normal that you would lose your erection more quickly. Personally, I've never had more than 3 orgasms with a girl in a single day, although I would frequently reach 3 (spending some serious time in the bedroom Some guys, especially with age, cannot cum more than once a day. This all varies person to person.

If you are having problems with your erection before you have had any orgasm at all (doesn't seem to be what is going on, but just in case...), I would suggest that it could be a few things: 1) Condom issues (condoms have a slight numbing effect). 2) Confidence issues 3)Pregnancy worries 4) Masturbating to orgasm in the same day you have sex (depleting yourself before you even get started with sex).

Last of all, my suggestion (and you may already be practicing this) is that you don't confine all sex to situations where your erection and orgasm are necessary. In other words, if you aren't ready to get hard and cum yet, go down on her or finger her. Sex should not have to end when the man is satisfied.

Congrats on getting it on frequently! But do not make babies!!!!!
Email (use instead of PM): InkMeister at aol dot com AIM: InkMeister
Track
Profile Blog Joined May 2006
United States217 Posts
December 28 2007 06:03 GMT
#12
I definitely agree with you on the last suggestion you offered. And that was actually what I was doing and she felt like she needed to repay me for that. And try as I might, I just couldn't get it going again. Ha. Kinda embarassing.

I have no confidence issues or worries about pregnancy, I really just think it's from being hard for so very long.
Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.
HeadBangaa
Profile Blog Joined July 2004
United States6512 Posts
Last Edited: 2007-12-28 06:05:29
December 28 2007 06:03 GMT
#13
I remember this one time I couldn't get it up, probably from masturbating earlier. She was trying to be sexy but said something like, "Come on can't you get harder for me baby?"
And I was like WTF don't ever EVAR say that. Biiiitch.
I made sure to remind her of the time her vagina had yeast. My genitals don't take criticism lightly.

ANyways, sounds like you need to give your penis some down time. Some going down time, if you know what I mean. eh EH
People who fail to distinguish Socratic Method from malicious trolling are sadly stupid and not worth a response.
Track
Profile Blog Joined May 2006
United States217 Posts
December 28 2007 06:08 GMT
#14
On December 28 2007 15:03 HeadBangaa wrote:
I remember this one time I couldn't get it up, probably from masturbating earlier. She was trying to be sexy but said something like, "Come on can't you get harder for me baby?"
And I was like WTF don't ever EVAR say that. Biiiitch.
I made sure to remind her of the time her vagina had yeast. My genitals don't take criticism lightly.

ANyways, sounds like you need to give your penis some down time. Some going down time, if you know what I mean. eh EH


Lmfao. Yeast? That's dirty shit.
Yeah, I hate it when girls complain about things like that. Ever had a girl sit on your nuts then complain when you go limp from agony?
Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.
Dknight
Profile Blog Joined April 2005
United States5224 Posts
December 28 2007 06:09 GMT
#15
She was mad she couldnj't give you head?
WGT<3. Former CL/NW head admin.
Track
Profile Blog Joined May 2006
United States217 Posts
December 28 2007 06:11 GMT
#16
Yeah. She was kind of put off that I told her no.
Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.
Luddite
Profile Blog Joined April 2007
United States2315 Posts
December 28 2007 06:13 GMT
#17
On December 28 2007 15:09 Dknight wrote:
She was mad she couldnj't give you head?

It makes sense, actually. She probably thought that she was being super sexy by offering to suck you off, and you refusing her was a sign that you didn't think she was sexy. Women are weird like that.
Can't believe I'm still here playing this same game
fight_or_flight
Profile Blog Joined June 2007
United States3988 Posts
December 28 2007 06:20 GMT
#18
On December 28 2007 14:44 Rekrul wrote:
ban her from ur life

Wow, lol, that was so funny when i read it (so rekrul you even ban girlfriends??).

Anyway just make her so sore that she can't take more than 1 hour.
Do you really want chat rooms?
nA.Inky
Profile Blog Joined October 2004
United States794 Posts
December 28 2007 06:43 GMT
#19
Track, it sounds like you know what the "problem" is. You got off to many times and can't keep getting hard. This is inevitable and is not a problem at all.

Just talk with her, but don't be rough about it. Just be straight forward and kind. It has nothing to do with how sexy she is, it has to do with the limitations of the male body.
Email (use instead of PM): InkMeister at aol dot com AIM: InkMeister
BalloonFight
Profile Blog Joined May 2006
United States2007 Posts
December 28 2007 06:43 GMT
#20
Fuck, now I want some god damn pie.
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