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Just wanted to post about my new gf

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Profile Blog Joined June 2012
United States4883 Posts
Last Edited: 2020-07-16 07:13:56
July 16 2020 07:11 GMT
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I know it's difficult to stay positive in the current atmosphere of the world, so I thought I'd share a little bit about my new gf that I met online who I LOVE SO MUCH, even though I've only known her a fairly short time. She's more than everything I've ever wanted, and I feel like I'm living in some sort of fairybook story where somehow everything happens perfectly and everything is wonderful. The cynic in me wants to strike down that notion and face the fact that bliss can't last forever without meeting some sort of grief, but truthfully, I believe it's more important than ever to feel and live every day to the fullest extent than to worry about things you have no control over.

She is incredibly tough. She works as a public defender and routinely deals with rapists, murderers, and child pornographers who have often done pretty horrific things and who are often guilty too; that fact alone blows me away because the emotional capacity to compartmentalize those things and do her job excellently nonetheless is staggering. Despite such a heavy job, she is incredibly adorable and an absolute joy to talk to, and we laugh almost constantly when we talk. Her sense of humor is awkward and ridiculous and incredible, and in fact, on our first date, she had no problem ranting about condoms on her front porch at 9pm LOL.

She's incredibly active and loves to run and hike and do outdoorsy stuff, but she's also content to just sit on the couch and eat queso and watch Hamilton with me or hang out on the porch with her dog and a beer. She's musically talented, she's incredibly well read, and shares almost all of the same beliefs with me (religion is iffy, #defundthepolic, communism ftw). She grills out literally every day.

Did I mention she was adorable? She's SUPER TINY at only 5'1", but that just makes me even more impressed that she can stand toe to toe with middle-aged attorneys, judges, cops, and clients without fear. She is so freaking cute and badass!!

She's not "perfect". She has several medical conditions including Type 1 Diabetes and a nuked thyroid, and she balances her emotional problems between three therapists and anti-axienty/antidepressant meds. Life doesn't come easily for her. But to me, that just makes her more incredible because despite all that she still shows up to work every day and is still an absolute joy to talk to. I admire her so much for that.

She sent me flowers this week, and I cried a lot. She's remarkably supportive and kind and understanding and caring whenever I bring up my own problems, and I just don't think I could have gotten any luckier to find her at this stage of my life at this particular time. It feels so surreal.

I love this girl so much. swoons

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Chairman Ray
Profile Blog Joined December 2009
United States11903 Posts
July 16 2020 10:18 GMT
#2
How do we know she's real and you didn't just jack those flowers from the cemetery? Do you have any photographic evidence?
Manifesto7
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Osaka27146 Posts
July 16 2020 11:19 GMT
#3
That is great to read and very sweet. I hope you both nurture your relationship and that it becomes more fulfilling as time goes on.
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TelecoM
Profile Blog Joined January 2010
United States10671 Posts
July 16 2020 14:32 GMT
#4
Congrats man. That is great you are so happy and head over heels for this one. Not to sound negative but all I have to say is be careful investing your entirety into one soul, I am really glad you found happiness in this one, but just be careful bro.

Awesome flowers, I think she really cares for ya bro
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EsportsJohn
Profile Blog Joined June 2012
United States4883 Posts
July 16 2020 18:55 GMT
#5
On July 16 2020 19:18 Chairman Ray wrote:
How do we know she's real and you didn't just jack those flowers from the cemetery? Do you have any photographic evidence?


Unfortunately because of COVID, no, and also, it would be very confusing for other reasons. But hopefully by the end of the year!


On July 16 2020 20:19 Manifesto7 wrote:
That is great to read and very sweet. I hope you both nurture your relationship and that it becomes more fulfilling as time goes on.


Thank you!


On July 16 2020 23:32 TelecoM wrote:
Congrats man. That is great you are so happy and head over heels for this one. Not to sound negative but all I have to say is be careful investing your entirety into one soul, I am really glad you found happiness in this one, but just be careful bro.

Awesome flowers, I think she really cares for ya bro


Don't worry about me, I'll be all right .
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