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MysteryMeat1
Profile Blog Joined June 2011
United States3292 Posts
August 13 2016 08:26 GMT
#1


Hello everyone, it’s been a while since I’ve posted a blog. Life’s been busy and a lot of stuff has happened in the past year. But all that is a story for a different time. I know some of you clicked on this blog because you saw my name, but most of you clicked on this blog because you saw that it was an infamous girl blog.

Unlike all the other girl blogs I’ve posted on this account, or various other alt accounts. This one will be taking on a more serious tone and is mostly just therapeutic.
June of last year we added each other on snapchat while I was on a family vacation to Mexico. On the third day she sent me a snapchat of her boobs. I responded with the vomit emoji. Over the next few weeks on the drive back to Seattle, our texting intensified and we actually became friends who talked. Over the next few months she became my best friend and ended up becoming my gf.

Sometime in December she found got accepted to an all-expense paid master’s Degree for teaching in Europe, with the condition that she would be stuck in another state for till 2021. Over the course of the year we grew closer and closer, and I ended up learning a lot as this was my first real relationship. She proofread all the emails I sent for the start-up I ran, and laughed as I “Scammed” a company out of 1.5k in free food vouchers. Through both of our lowest lows and highest highs, we communicated and sought to compromise.
She went back home over the summer, and we ended up having a talk about breaking up for good in September, which to date has been the second hardest conversation I’ve ever had, the first being disowned by my parents.

Over the summer, I started my internship and she was nannying full time. Our opposite schedules drastically decreased the time we had to talk. After setting an end date, we started fighting a lot more. Every time the other person was busy, it was time taken away. After a week, we had a video call and talked it out. A few weeks later I flew down to visit her one last time before she leaves. What I thought was going to a great weekend ended up being kind of a trainwreck. Her parents absolutely loved me, and I ended up spending some time fixing their computers. However, hanging out with her, If it was a first date I probably would have left. I could go into details, of the bad and good things that happened as plenty of both happened.

However, at the end of the day, I’ve realized. You don’t need a reason to leave. You need a reason to stay.

Instead of waiting for a month to break-up with her when she goes to Europe. I plan on breaking up with her tomorrow (part of the reason I can’t sleep), and have what will perhaps be the third hardest conversation of my life.

If anything this summer has taught me, is that Life is an amazing ride. And at the young age of 22 (17 when I officially made my first account and 16 when I started lurking), part of me has realized how big the world really is. That what I thought love meant at the beginning of my relationship, was completely different than what I think it is now. That who I am even one year ago is very different than who I am now. One day, I’ll have to blog about some of the crazier stories that happened last year, but for now it’s time to look forward and grab my future.


*****
"Cause ya know, Style before victory." -The greatest mafia player alive
Chairman Ray
Profile Blog Joined December 2009
United States11903 Posts
August 13 2016 09:52 GMT
#2
Time for a sig update
pebble444
Profile Blog Joined March 2011
Italy2497 Posts
August 13 2016 12:11 GMT
#3
You know, love exists beetwen two people, independently of them deciding to stick toghether and work it out or not; after one year and a half two years, is when the real shit starts to come out, it starts to get real, and you make a choice as to wheter go for it or not; if this was your first relationship, you have no basis upon which to compare what it can be like, other than seeying other people who have been in a relationship that long or longer, and that will be byest; make sure you smooth out what you honestly feel for her, and how she honestly feels for you, and considering all the elements make your choice then;
Your a smart dude, you' ll figure it out.
"Awaken my Child, and embrace the Glory that is your Birthright"
hoot00
Profile Blog Joined October 2010
United States77 Posts
August 13 2016 22:56 GMT
#4
Tough break. You're not alone, just a few months ago I was in a similar situation. I hope you don't think it was a waste of time though. I personally grew so much through my "dead-end" relationship.

And you're right, I've been lurking long enough to know to click on a MysteryMeat1 blog!

I've gotta know, what were you going for with the vomit emoji? That's a bold play lol
LEGENDS NEVER GG
zf
Profile Joined April 2011
231 Posts
August 14 2016 13:29 GMT
#5
How did you manage to get $1,500 in food vouchers? The world needs to know.
mantequilla
Profile Blog Joined June 2012
Turkey779 Posts
August 14 2016 17:47 GMT
#6
Whatever does not kill you, makes you weirder
Age of Mythology forever!
CosmicSpiral
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
United States15275 Posts
August 14 2016 19:41 GMT
#7
On August 15 2016 02:47 mantequilla wrote:
Whatever does not kill you, makes you weirder


STRANGER

STRANGER
WriterWovon man nicht sprechen kann, darüber muß man schweigen.
MysteryMeat1
Profile Blog Joined June 2011
United States3292 Posts
Last Edited: 2016-08-14 23:29:25
August 14 2016 23:28 GMT
#8
On August 14 2016 07:56 hoot00 wrote:
Tough break. You're not alone, just a few months ago I was in a similar situation. I hope you don't think it was a waste of time though. I personally grew so much through my "dead-end" relationship.

And you're right, I've been lurking long enough to know to click on a MysteryMeat1 blog!

I've gotta know, what were you going for with the vomit emoji? That's a bold play lol


I've never once thought that this was a waste of time, and I know the experiences I had helped me grow immensely.

As for the vomit emoji, I think at this point in my life, I didn't want to just hook up with people like I had been doing before hand. I think I had told her in my mind, that getting nudes from someone 3 days after talking to them was flattering, but if that's all it took then it didn't mean anything. The vomit emoji has been my go to response when I get unwanted nudes lol.

I also feel flattered that you clicked on my blog cause of my name Thanks!



On August 14 2016 22:29 zf wrote:
How did you manage to get $1,500 in food vouchers? The world needs to know.


To make a long story short, the company was doing a referral program, so with a couple of friends we replicated their email, and replaced the hyperlink with our referral code. One of us had a list of every student and their email for our college and we just sent it out to them. Over the course of a week, people started signing up.
"Cause ya know, Style before victory." -The greatest mafia player alive
Pandemona *
Profile Blog Joined March 2011
Charlie Sheens House51490 Posts
August 15 2016 09:05 GMT
#9
Mystery Meat blog haha :D
Fun times, love is a cruel mistress but the one thing it always is, it's a harsh lesson in life!
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mantequilla
Profile Blog Joined June 2012
Turkey779 Posts
August 15 2016 11:45 GMT
#10
On August 15 2016 04:41 CosmicSpiral wrote:
Show nested quote +
On August 15 2016 02:47 mantequilla wrote:
Whatever does not kill you, makes you weirder


STRANGER

STRANGER



FUCK ME DAMN
Age of Mythology forever!
brian
Profile Blog Joined August 2004
United States9620 Posts
August 15 2016 13:04 GMT
#11
hey buddy, long time. miss you. good luck! buy some beers and a new vidya game for some good coping.
docvoc
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States5491 Posts
August 16 2016 16:41 GMT
#12
On August 13 2016 18:52 Chairman Ray wrote:
Time for a sig update

This is what I got out of this blog, beautiful.
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