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hp.Shell
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States2527 Posts
December 05 2013 00:04 GMT
#61
The slut mentality is incorrect imo. Women are sexual beings as much as men are. Just because she's having more sex than you doesn't make her a slut. Do you think that if a girl had a chance to have sex with someone like, idk, Justin Timberlake, that she would care how many women he's slept with? Probably not.

Stop labeling people, things, thoughts, actions. Stop analyzing them. Some meditators understand that some suffering will come if you judge something. So when you have a thought for example, don't judge it. This is a very difficult thing to stop doing. Even when you're aware that your mind automatically judges things and places things into categories, it's difficult to stop or maintain awareness that it is indeed happening.

Let's say you go to the store and there's 10 people in line ahead of you. What's your first thought, a judgement?

Many people have this problem but it is one of the fundamental things you should try to stop doing in order to feel better about things.

I can't believe a girl has never made you laugh; that can't be true. Loosen up a little.
Please PM me with any songs you like that you think I haven't heard before!
EngrishTeacher
Profile Blog Joined March 2012
Canada1109 Posts
December 05 2013 02:02 GMT
#62
What does Shauni do?

I read the word counter; is it a KFC one or a JP Morgan one?
lichter
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
1001 YEARS KESPAJAIL22272 Posts
December 05 2013 03:12 GMT
#63
Works in some kind of store (maybe convenience store) if I recall correctly from previous blogs
AdministratorYOU MUST HEED MY INSTRUCTIONS TAKE OFF YOUR THIIIINGS
Serejai
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
6007 Posts
December 05 2013 15:26 GMT
#64
he's a daycare teacher
I HAVE 5 TOAST POINTS
Elem
Profile Joined April 2011
Sweden4717 Posts
December 05 2013 16:32 GMT
#65
On December 05 2013 12:12 lichter wrote:
Works in some kind of store (maybe convenience store) if I recall correctly from previous blogs

he works at a local supermarket
#freeshauni
Shauni
Profile Blog Joined July 2004
4077 Posts
December 05 2013 20:05 GMT
#66
On December 05 2013 09:04 hp.Shell wrote:
The slut mentality is incorrect imo. Women are sexual beings as much as men are. Just because she's having more sex than you doesn't make her a slut. Do you think that if a girl had a chance to have sex with someone like, idk, Justin Timberlake, that she would care how many women he's slept with? Probably not.

Stop labeling people, things, thoughts, actions. Stop analyzing them. Some meditators understand that some suffering will come if you judge something. So when you have a thought for example, don't judge it. This is a very difficult thing to stop doing. Even when you're aware that your mind automatically judges things and places things into categories, it's difficult to stop or maintain awareness that it is indeed happening.

Let's say you go to the store and there's 10 people in line ahead of you. What's your first thought, a judgement?

Many people have this problem but it is one of the fundamental things you should try to stop doing in order to feel better about things.

I can't believe a girl has never made you laugh; that can't be true. Loosen up a little.

You are the one who should loosen up, getting all preachy over the usage of one word. I didn't even call her a slut. Also I don't judge pepole. I observe and draw conclusions. I don't think less of female sluts than other people.
I'm taking whatever coverage I can get, because frankly, I'm busy working on this million dollar deal at my job. Early retirement is a good thing brotha man. - MessengerASL
hp.Shell
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States2527 Posts
Last Edited: 2013-12-05 20:12:12
December 05 2013 20:08 GMT
#67
On December 06 2013 05:05 Shauni wrote:
Show nested quote +
On December 05 2013 09:04 hp.Shell wrote:
The slut mentality is incorrect imo. Women are sexual beings as much as men are. Just because she's having more sex than you doesn't make her a slut. Do you think that if a girl had a chance to have sex with someone like, idk, Justin Timberlake, that she would care how many women he's slept with? Probably not.

Stop labeling people, things, thoughts, actions. Stop analyzing them. Some meditators understand that some suffering will come if you judge something. So when you have a thought for example, don't judge it. This is a very difficult thing to stop doing. Even when you're aware that your mind automatically judges things and places things into categories, it's difficult to stop or maintain awareness that it is indeed happening.

Let's say you go to the store and there's 10 people in line ahead of you. What's your first thought, a judgement?

Many people have this problem but it is one of the fundamental things you should try to stop doing in order to feel better about things.

I can't believe a girl has never made you laugh; that can't be true. Loosen up a little.

You are the one who should loosen up, getting all preachy over the usage of one word. I didn't even call her a slut. Also I don't judge pepole. I observe and draw conclusions. I don't think less of female sluts than other people.

I'm saying sluts don't really exist, unless they're homeless cokeheads.

I'm also trying to make you aware of this idea that the mind is always judging things automatically. It's a bit difficult to explain the concept. I'm not sure you understood that's what I was trying to get across to you; if you did, then good.
Please PM me with any songs you like that you think I haven't heard before!
maggle
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
Australia70 Posts
December 06 2013 00:57 GMT
#68
On December 06 2013 05:05 Shauni wrote:
Show nested quote +
On December 05 2013 09:04 hp.Shell wrote:
The slut mentality is incorrect imo. Women are sexual beings as much as men are. Just because she's having more sex than you doesn't make her a slut. Do you think that if a girl had a chance to have sex with someone like, idk, Justin Timberlake, that she would care how many women he's slept with? Probably not.

Stop labeling people, things, thoughts, actions. Stop analyzing them. Some meditators understand that some suffering will come if you judge something. So when you have a thought for example, don't judge it. This is a very difficult thing to stop doing. Even when you're aware that your mind automatically judges things and places things into categories, it's difficult to stop or maintain awareness that it is indeed happening.

Let's say you go to the store and there's 10 people in line ahead of you. What's your first thought, a judgement?

Many people have this problem but it is one of the fundamental things you should try to stop doing in order to feel better about things.

I can't believe a girl has never made you laugh; that can't be true. Loosen up a little.

You are the one who should loosen up, getting all preachy over the usage of one word. I didn't even call her a slut. Also I don't judge pepole. I observe and draw conclusions. I don't think less of female sluts than other people.

Pretty sure that's what judging is - observing and forming a conclusion. Can't tell if this guy is a master troll or not - next level shit.
cheese me once, shame on you; cheese me twice, shame on me.
biology]major
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States2253 Posts
December 06 2013 01:36 GMT
#69
you sir are an outcast, and you will need to find an outcast girl.
Question.?
Masamune
Profile Joined January 2007
Canada3401 Posts
December 06 2013 01:56 GMT
#70
Not that I care enough to oppose the gender roles, but it's ironic how many females want a humorous guy when they are as engaging as stones themselves.

LOL

Whether you're trolling or not, I think my main piece of advice for you would be that you probably need to have more social engagements with women, in general. Not just brief encounters with acquaintances, but ones where you actually get to know a bit about them (maybe join a board game club and play good two-player games like twilight-struggle [love this game!] where other males won't fully take the spotlight?); I think once you start getting to meet more women that could be potential mates, your infatuation with this particular one will decrease considerably. And if there's one thing that women love/hate, it's a guy with a girlfriend, so I'm guessing that might even make your chances with your co-worker go from minimal to somewhat-likely!
FractalsOnFire
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
Australia1756 Posts
December 06 2013 03:36 GMT
#71
So reading through the thread, people are confusing me. Is Shauni a troll or is he seriously like this?
Bereft
Profile Blog Joined February 2010
United States1007 Posts
December 06 2013 04:38 GMT
#72
i'm inclined to think he's sincere, which makes it kind of suck that he's the subject of so much ridicule
BigFan
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
TLADT24920 Posts
Last Edited: 2013-12-06 06:58:47
December 06 2013 06:57 GMT
#73
Very well written blog Shauni. You should honestly consider writing a novel or something. I can only think of two pieces of advice lol. First, I think you should take it easy. You've confessed to her and based on what you wrote, she rejected you. It's not a big deal. Just keep working along side her as you are atm and stay as friends. You already put out your feelings for her so she knows them. If in the future, she changes her mind, that's great but if she wants to stay friends, that's great as well. Eventually, you'll work through your feelings as time passes and start seeing her as a friend as well. Just going to take sometime. Other piece of advice that comes to mind is that someone mentioned that you like anime or something in this thread. Maybe join an anime club or other clubs around where you live. You'll meet more people and you might find someone who you like and they like you as well.

On December 06 2013 12:36 FractalsOnFire wrote:
So reading through the thread, people are confusing me. Is Shauni a troll or is he seriously like this?

I feel that the blog is sincere and he wants advice but the way he writes so eloquently makes it seem like a troll. At least, that's my feeling lol.

Former BW EiC"Watch Bakemonogatari or I will kill you." -Toad, April 18th, 2017
obesechicken13
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
United States10467 Posts
December 06 2013 07:11 GMT
#74
I actually thought he was a troll entering this thread. I don't know why I made the association. His previous threads aren't really trolly. They seem serious. It must have been group mentality where someone calls him a troll, then a few more do, and then I just associate "Shauni = troll"
I think in our modern age technology has evolved to become more addictive. The things that don't give us pleasure aren't used as much. Work was never meant to be fun, but doing it makes us happier in the long run.
ninazerg
Profile Blog Joined October 2009
United States7291 Posts
December 06 2013 09:37 GMT
#75
Nobody yet has theorized about a possible troll/truth hybrid. I call this phenomenon "Trullth".
"If two pregnant women get into a fist fight, it's like a mecha-battle between two unborn babies." - Fyodor Dostoevsky
Shauni
Profile Blog Joined July 2004
4077 Posts
December 06 2013 10:00 GMT
#76
On December 06 2013 18:37 ninazerg wrote:
Nobody yet has theorized about a possible troll/truth hybrid. I call this phenomenon "Trullth".

Why are you so adorably energetic nina?
I'm taking whatever coverage I can get, because frankly, I'm busy working on this million dollar deal at my job. Early retirement is a good thing brotha man. - MessengerASL
Monsen
Profile Joined December 2002
Germany2548 Posts
December 06 2013 13:28 GMT
#77
On December 06 2013 00:26 Serejai wrote:
he's a daycare teacher


thanks man, now I need a fresh pair of pants ><
11 years and counting- TL #680
QuanticHawk
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
United States32075 Posts
December 06 2013 15:32 GMT
#78
On December 06 2013 19:00 Shauni wrote:
Show nested quote +
On December 06 2013 18:37 ninazerg wrote:
Nobody yet has theorized about a possible troll/truth hybrid. I call this phenomenon "Trullth".

Why are you so adorably energetic nina?

neg her you fuckin beta
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mrmin123 *
Profile Blog Joined January 2004
Korea (South)2971 Posts
December 09 2013 05:08 GMT
#79
Shauni I love you xoxo
Translator태양은 묘지위에 붉게 떠오르고 / 한낮에 찌는 더위는 나의 시련 일찌라!
Bswhunter
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
Australia954 Posts
December 09 2013 06:10 GMT
#80
holy fucking shit this is hillarious

pls go back to 4chan
Stop browsing and do whatever it is you're supposed to do. TL will still be here when you get back
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