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MarlieChurphy
United States2063 Posts
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-ZergGirl
United States54 Posts
On October 21 2013 00:30 MarlieChurphy wrote: Hold old are you? And what's wrong with you to idealize a long distance relationship fantasy? Find someone real near you and date them. You're a chick into video games, shouldn't be hard at all. Have you seen how easy it is to get a guy to go out with you from the PoF trolls? We're young, we have so much more to live for, said everyone to me. What's wrong with two people in a relationship who love and care for each other to talk about the future as well as have fun in the present? It was not a fantasy, it was something quite real that we had promised that we were going to go through together. I know my dating pool is generous, I've been with other gamers and non-gamers. But there was never anyone quite like this and it pains me quite terribly to see him go. I really wanted to support him in everything that he did, while I was pulling my own weight as well, ensuring that we would have a stable future. I thought we would be perfect for each other. He wanted to go full time pro, I understood the tribulations and I said would try my best to be the best girlfriend I could be. I played the game too, I understood it, we could talk about it, he could tell me about his games. I loved to watch him play my favorite race. I loved to watch him play at all. But he said he didn't want to string me along and make it more difficult for us down the road, he didn't want a relationship while he was focusing on his passion. He said it wouldn't be fair to me, that I didn't deserve it. I wouldn't not be allowed to live in the gaming houses or it would be just too much trouble to accompany him to Korea. I thought we could still make it work out despite the hardship, but he made up his mind. We were great together, but what was happening in our lives seemed like it would not entwine near the end. Right guy, wrong time. | ||
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Chairman Ray
United States11903 Posts
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NeuroticPsychosis
United States322 Posts
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MarlieChurphy
United States2063 Posts
On October 21 2013 01:34 -ZergGirl wrote: We're young, we have so much more to live for, said everyone to me. What's wrong with two people in a relationship who love and care for each other to talk about the future as well as have fun in the present? It was not a fantasy, it was something quite real that we had promised that we were going to go through together. I know my dating pool is generous, I've been with other gamers and non-gamers. But there was never anyone quite like this and it pains me quite terribly to see him go. I really wanted to support him in everything that he did, while I was pulling my own weight as well, ensuring that we would have a stable future. I thought we would be perfect for each other. He wanted to go full time pro, I understood the tribulations and I said would try my best to be the best girlfriend I could be. I played the game too, I understood it, we could talk about it, he could tell me about his games. I loved to watch him play my favorite race. I loved to watch him play at all. But he said he didn't want to string me along and make it more difficult for us down the road, he didn't want a relationship while he was focusing on his passion. He said it wouldn't be fair to me, that I didn't deserve it. I wouldn't not be allowed to live in the gaming houses or it would be just too much trouble to accompany him to Korea. I thought we could still make it work out despite the hardship, but he made up his mind. We were great together, but what was happening in our lives seemed like it would not entwine near the end. Right guy, wrong time. "We're young", How old are you? This is an important question to your situation. All I hear is 'blah blah justification', for someone who can't handle intimacy with someone in real life. What is your relationship with your biological father like? | ||
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packrat386
United States5077 Posts
On October 22 2013 09:36 MarlieChurphy wrote: "We're young", How old are you? This is an important question to your situation. All I hear is 'blah blah justification', for someone who can't handle intimacy with someone in real life. What is your relationship with your biological father like? Why do you shit up every thread you walk into by being an aggressive asshole on a topic that is largely irrelevant. "So today I broke up with my-" "HOW OLD ARE YOU AND WHY DO YOU HAVE DADDY ISSUES" | ||
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MarlieChurphy
United States2063 Posts
On October 22 2013 11:08 packrat386 wrote: Why do you shit up every thread you walk into by being an aggressive asshole on a topic that is largely irrelevant. "So today I broke up with my-" "HOW OLD ARE YOU AND WHY DO YOU HAVE DADDY ISSUES" I'm just trying to help her. If someone is lying to themselves, the way to handle it isn't to coddle them. Lot of people on the site here, especially the ones with relationship blogs need a reality check and everyone could use some therapy. OP arguably posted this for insight and advice, naturally some of it will be something people don't like or want to hear. Everyone always wants the easy pill. To be honest, it's your life you can do whatever the fuck you want. I don't care. I'm just sharing what I know to be true. Anyway, this is offtopic and I'm sorry if I offended you, good sir. | ||
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Jaaaaasper
United States10225 Posts
Put down the psych 101 text book and realize you aren't an expert on any of the shit you try to give advice on chaz. Its time to grow up, at least on team liquid. | ||
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Chemist391
United States362 Posts
On October 22 2013 09:36 MarlieChurphy wrote: "We're young", How old are you? This is an important question to your situation. All I hear is 'blah blah justification', for someone who can't handle intimacy with someone in real life. What is your relationship with your biological father like? Knowing both of the parties involved, this shit is not appropriate and you should kindly fuck off. You're out of your element. | ||
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