Was there a scenario where you shorten distances? If yes, then ending a relationship for the sake of distance is a poor excuse imho.Sorry, I don't have experience with breakups, so I can't help much but I guess you should avoid doing things that remind you of him for now.

packrat386

United States5077 Posts

October 20 2013 03:38 GMT

Breakups aren't fun, but if you're as good friends as you seem to be, I'm sure you'll still be able to talk with him again. It might be difficult immediately afterward, but after a little while you should try talking to him again.

hp.Shell

United States2527 Posts

October 20 2013 03:41 GMT

I can't say I've ever been in love. The only time I had a shot was with a crazy bitch who was just using me to get closer to another guy. Of course, we were officially together, and I felt happy when I thought of her, but she hardly showed me any affection. I was young and held onto the rope for way too long. I hope one day I will be able to experience the kind of love you shared together.

It is better to have loved and lost. It's probably true. Just to know that someone did love you at some point would mean the world.

Clazziquai10

Singapore1949 Posts

October 20 2013 04:13 GMT

Cheer up, life has to go on

mizU

United States12125 Posts

October 20 2013 04:15 GMT

I think relationships are beneficial whether they end or not as long as you learn something about yourself as an individual and as a gf or bf

futility

Japan134 Posts

October 20 2013 04:28 GMT

Long distance is really hard, and as much as you want to make it work some relationships are just not meant to be. I know you don't want to think about this now but trust that there's other guys out there that you will get along with as well or better than you did with him. You'll find one eventually but in the meantime just remember the good times you had and be thankful for the opportunity to have had someone you felt so strongly about. With time you'll be able to move on.

obesechicken13

United States10467 Posts

October 20 2013 04:36 GMT

Aww. Those pics of zerGirl <3 tossBoy were cute. Still remember the original blog.

I guess you have to live and learn.

TelecoM

United States10700 Posts

October 20 2013 05:41 GMT

You'll get better no worries, besides hes the one who is missing out on you for sure, what guy would want to give it up with a girl who loves StarCraft ? What? :-) ! Keep ya head up !

Shebuha

Canada1335 Posts

October 20 2013 06:22 GMT

#10

If I could cry right now I would. That's really pretty.

goody153

44240 Posts

October 20 2013 08:02 GMT

#11

my reaction when i saw this

"oh a girl blog .. lemme read it .. "

then i realized

"wait why is the poster using him/he as pronoun"

thats when i realized that the poster is a girl .. lol
zergs and protoss never got together even in campaign ! ok putting the pun aside ..
my advice is
move on with life buddy .. and dont be depressed struggles will happen in life and remember to have fun .. if you could have fun before you met him then you are fine .. and im sorry i suck at giving advice if this didnt help

TOCHMY

Sweden1692 Posts

October 20 2013 08:28 GMT

#12

Man breakups sucks...

I used to get blue for long periods after breakups, but I've started thinking like this:

She(he) is never yours, it's only your turn.

vlaric

United States412 Posts

October 20 2013 08:56 GMT

#13

i want to say something funny but i'll get warned/banned

so instead i'll just stay time heals all wounds

ETisME

12698 Posts

October 20 2013 09:14 GMT

#14

I believe that a great girl will always attract and be with a great guy.
Fighting!
You will find someone who suits more for you!

aike

United States1629 Posts

October 20 2013 09:30 GMT

#15

God damn, I usually read blogs to be inspired or have a good laugh or something like that. Now I'm just sad. Losing your first love sucks. Other fish in the sea and such... but we do always hold that first in such high regard that it's sometimes hard to see others as meeting or surpassing the bar which was set by the first. Fuck it, let's all get drunk and play some starcraft :D

ninazerg

United States7291 Posts

October 20 2013 10:09 GMT

#16

On October 20 2013 17:56 vlaric wrote:
i want to say something funny but i'll get warned/banned

so instead i'll just stay time heals all wounds

I'll say it for you.

To ZG: You gotta man up bro. Can't be cryin' cuz some bitch left you. You're better than that dude. You just gotta power through the sadness and you'll bounce back, cuz bitches come and go.

BisuEver

United States247 Posts

October 20 2013 10:20 GMT

#17

Can you like try harder? Thanks.

Apom

France656 Posts

October 20 2013 10:37 GMT

#18

On October 20 2013 19:09 ninazerg wrote:

Show nested quote +

That was not very fun at all.

Provocateur

Sweden1665 Posts

October 20 2013 12:28 GMT

#19

Everything sucks right now but it will get better eventually, I know it's hard to believe those words right now but just let yourself be sad and take the time you need. Long distance really sucks, you want it to work out so badly while the distance and the problems that arise from it slowly chip away at the relationship. A relationship i valued and cherished ended earlier this year because of distance as well, even though in hindsight I've realized she probably wasn't the girl for me. I know the pain you're going through, just stay strong and do whatever you need to continue towards a happy life again. Let it hurt. All the best to you

HeeroFX

United States2704 Posts

October 20 2013 15:13 GMT

#20

Sounds awful. Falling in love, with a best friend is the hardest thing in the world. They were someone you could trust and confide in. And breaking up kills that. Try to be good to yourself. It's all you can really do.

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