Losing a friend/realising that I never had one... - Page 2

On September 17 2013 11:53 Jerubaal wrote:


I'm confused. You make a blog about losing a friend and someone- I presume it was the person the blog was written about- asks you to take it down and you comply?

On September 17 2013 03:37 FFGenerations wrote:
classic case of a girl (who probably has enough attention from other people) losing interest in a "nice guy"

if you wanted to keep her interest then you needed to appear independent, attractive, cool and manly.

not "nice and caring". this is a girl you're talking about. welcome to the real world.

On September 17 2013 13:35 Nesserev wrote:
There are definitely some reactions here that help me deal with this... which is kinda what I needed, especially since I travelled to Seoul on my own, there aren't many people to talk to here (which is probably also the reason why this struck so much harder than it was supposed to). I never felt angry about it, just, sad and dissapointed for a while... there's nobody to blame in this but me.

The longer time goes on, and the longer I think about it, some of the things that you guys have been saying really start to make sense;.. maybe she wasn't as lonely as she said, she probably was doing just fine... urgh, if only I had thought this way earlier... she was probably using facebook as a vent for some of the daily frustrations of life.

It was just really hard for me to be rational in this case... and I made some big mistakes...
Thanks to those who were supportive... I think that, the better that I understand this whole mess, the faster I'll be able to get over it.

On September 18 2013 00:15 Jan1997 wrote:


But if girls don't like guys that are "nice and caring" then how are they supposed to ever get a good relationship with someone if they don't care about them.

And don't tell me it's attractive to be a douche, you may manage to get a girl by being arrogant but you can't hold on to her.
Atleast i belive that's the case most of the time.