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I'm sometimes a very happy person, but I'm constantly thinking. I want to help as many people as I can. Right now I'm talking with an open mind, taking both sides into consideration because this applies to more than one person, giving the respect you deserve. I want to bring you a side of me that you don't always end up seeing. A lot of you are still young, and so am I, and are just getting into dating. I want to talk about... break ups in general, and not just mine or yours. Hell, even as we get older we'll still run into things that are just shitty when it comes to relationships, meaning break ups. To both guys and girls, it's the worst feeling you will ever feel. It's just like your world just crumbles, and I know because I’ve been there plenty of times. It sucks, and completely changes your behavior, but you need to persevere. You need to be strong because this is gonna make and build your character. This is what's going to make you in the future, and you need to understand that sometimes you have no control when it comes to this.
Sometimes relationships are just not meant to be. Even though you feel that your whole heart is in it, sometimes it's just not meant to be. But that doesn't mean that you're not gonna have another chance with somebody else or the same person. Sometimes you need to grow up, experience things. Realize either your mistakes or you just need that person to have time to realize their mistakes. Don't make it all about you, like "Aww I'm so bad. I'm ugly" blah blah blah. No. you, my friend, are a beautiful individual. You are amazing, you are fucking gorgeous, and anybody would be lucky to have you.
Understand that there are so many people out there that would die to be with you but they don't know you exist at the moment because you haven't given them the chance. It's hard. It's really hard. But the end results are what matters. I can say, for people who recently have broken up and everything, that it will get better. It takes time, it hurts, but it will get better. And the one tip that I can give you is to figure yourself out. Ask yourself why this happened. If it was you that fucked up. As for guys, guys are stubborn as fuck. We will not realize our mistakes until it's too late. Just give us guys a chance because we're just hard headed fucks. If you can actually find out if this person actually matter to you that much, figure yourself out. You could be the cause of why the relationship died or just stopped. Realizing this would be the next step to either fixing a relationship or actually moving on.
This is the one fault I've been through in my own life. I'm really stubborn and I am doing my best to fix everything and all this other stuff. But that's the first step, figuring out whose fault it was. It's not all your fault. Remember that this is two people, a couple. The other person could be the reason for why the relationship didn't work. But when in a relationship, remember to put your heart in it. All of it. Put your whole heart into the relationship. Lower your defense. This person that you say you love needs to see that. You need to have trust in this person. And if it doesn't work, if this person either cheats on you or whatever, maybe this person isn't for you. This person is too inexperienced to know what real love is.
And it's weird because who really knows what love is? Realistically, who can say? But your body will tell you when you feel like shit. Obviously something isn't working. So it's when you realize these things, it takes time and a lot of experience to go through all this. But know that everything in the end gets better. There's plenty of people out there that could potentially be your other half, that will make you forever happy. Especially for younger people now experiencing this, don't stop. Don't stop for just one person. Just because one bad apple was in a tree, that doesn't mean it ruined the rest. There's a lot of people out there that would die to be in your presence, that would love to spend forever with you. Keep trucking, seriously. You will find that other person if you keep trying your hardest. But don't forget that it's a relationship. It's 50/50. Not 70/30 or 60/40. It has to be even.
The moment you realize it's not going like that is maybe the moment in the relationship that you want to reevaluate and talk about it. Because talking is the key factor in this. Talking and letting it all out. That person should know you inside and out if they really matter to you. And as for when you recently went through beak ups, you will find another person. If you feel that you fucked up, fix it. Fucking fix it because that person could be potentially the one. Try your hardest. Love is an amazing thing. When you're in love, happy with another person, everything else just fits so perfectly. Try your best. Don't half-ass this. You want the same love and same affection from the other person.
If you do this, don't expect to get it back. It's just that that's the bottom line. And, I guess, the only thing I can say is that... shit happens. y'know? Sometimes it's just not meant to be. Sometimes it was just for a period of time. Maybe that person was not meant to be with you forever. Maybe that person was just supposed to be there to teach you things so that maybe in the next relationship you can treat that person 10 times better. This is life's experience that we learn through the whole thing. Remember that we are just a blank book and our life is just the writing. It makes sense. We're all just learning. And with that, I guess this is my stand on relationships and break ups. Hopefully this helps you now and in the future, opening your eyes and maybe you'll take those take those stubborn guys and girls out there another chance. That's just how it is. Thank you for listening. I hope this helped. Remember to try your best. Take care. Peace
  
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I think you should work on "My tips for how to write in paragraphs" for your next blog.
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On August 31 2013 10:42 farvacola wrote:
I think you should work on "My tips for how to write in paragraphs" for your next blog.
LOL I was just thinking the same thing. WALL OF TEXT.
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+ Show Spoiler +On August 31 2013 10:32 Airking990 wrote:
I'm sometimes a very happy person, but I'm constantly thinking. I want to help as many people as I can. Right now I'm talking with an open mind, taking both sides into consideration because this applies to more than one person, giving the respect you deserve. I want to bring you a side of me that you don't always end up seeing. A lot of you are still young, and so am I, and are just getting into dating. I want to talk about... break ups in general, and not just mine or yours. Hell, even as we get older we'll still run into things that are just shitty when it comes to relationships, meaning break ups. To both guys and girls, it's the worst feeling you will ever feel. It's just like your world just crumbles, and I know because I’ve been there plenty of times. It sucks, and completely changes your behavior, but you need to persevere. You need to be strong because this is gonna make and build your character. This is what's going to make you in the future, and you need to understand that sometimes you have no control when it comes to this.
Sometimes relationships are just not meant to be. Even though you feel that your whole heart is in it, sometimes it's just not meant to be. But that doesn't mean that you're not gonna have another chance with somebody else or the same person. Sometimes you need to grow up, experience things. Realize either your mistakes or you just need that person to have time to realize their mistakes. Don't make it all about you, like "Aww I'm so bad. I'm ugly" blah blah blah. No. you, my friend, are a beautiful individual. You are amazing, you are fucking gorgeous, and anybody would be lucky to have you.
Understand that there are so many people out there that would die to be with you but they don't know you exist at the moment because you haven't given them the chance. It's hard. It's really hard. But the end results are what matters. I can say, for people who recently have broken up and everything, that it will get better. It takes time, it hurts, but it will get better. And the one tip that I can give you is to figure yourself out. Ask yourself why this happened. If it was you that fucked up. As for guys, guys are stubborn as fuck. We will not realize our mistakes until it's too late. Just give us guys a chance because we're just hard headed fucks. If you can actually find out if this person actually matter to you that much, figure yourself out. You could be the cause of why the relationship died or just stopped. Realizing this would be the next step to either fixing a relationship or actually moving on.
This is the one fault I've been through in my own life. I'm really stubborn and I am doing my best to fix everything and all this other stuff. But that's the first step, figuring out whose fault it was. It's not all your fault. Remember that this is two people, a couple. The other person could be the reason for why the relationship didn't work. But when in a relationship, remember to put your heart in it. All of it. Put your whole heart into the relationship. Lower your defense. This person that you say you love needs to see that. You need to have trust in this person. And if it doesn't work, if this person either cheats on you or whatever, maybe this person isn't for you. This person is too inexperienced to know what real love is.
And it's weird because who really knows what love is? Realistically, who can say? But your body will tell you when you feel like shit. Obviously something isn't working. So it's when you realize these things, it takes time and a lot of experience to go through all this. But know that everything in the end gets better. There's plenty of people out there that could potentially be your other half, that will make you forever happy. Especially for younger people now experiencing this, don't stop. Don't stop for just one person. Just because one bad apple was in a tree, that doesn't mean it ruined the rest. There's a lot of people out there that would die to be in your presence, that would love to spend forever with you. Keep trucking, seriously. You will find that other person if you keep trying your hardest. But don't forget that it's a relationship. It's 50/50. Not 70/30 or 60/40. It has to be even.
The moment you realize it's not going like that is maybe the moment in the relationship that you want to reevaluate and talk about it. Because talking is the key factor in this. Talking and letting it all out. That person should know you inside and out if they really matter to you. And as for when you recently went through beak ups, you will find another person. If you feel that you fucked up, fix it. Fucking fix it because that person could be potentially the one. Try your hardest. Love is an amazing thing. When you're in love, happy with another person, everything else just fits so perfectly. Try your best. Don't half-ass this. You want the same love and same affection from the other person.
If you do this, don't expect to get it back. It's just that that's the bottom line. And, I guess, the only thing I can say is that... shit happens. y'know? Sometimes it's just not meant to be. Sometimes it was just for a period of time. Maybe that person was not meant to be with you forever. Maybe that person was just supposed to be there to teach you things so that maybe in the next relationship you can treat that person 10 times better. This is life's experience that we learn through the whole thing. Remember that we are just a blank book and our life is just the writing. It makes sense. We're all just learning. And with that, I guess this is my stand on relationships and break ups. Hopefully this helps you now and in the future, opening your eyes and maybe you'll take those take those stubborn guys and girls out there another chance. That's just how it is. Thank you for listening. I hope this helped. Remember to try your best. Take care. Peace
Went ahead and separated breaks best I could. Op has some nice things to say and is very encouraging.
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On August 31 2013 10:42 farvacola wrote:
I think you should work on "My tips for how to write in paragraphs" for your next blog.
I was gonna say something about the enter button. But you, sir, have my 5/5 
Thanks Epishade.
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I wish I could 5/5 every post above me.
Nice points, a little long and needed breaking up into paragraph form (thank you Epishade!!!). I like how you give advice to others while relating to your own experience.
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I know I forgot to break it into paragraphs, and I have some other stuff written, and i'll be sure to break it up and i'll even give you the pleasure of indentation. but I just want your guys' opinions on what I wrote, not so much about my essay-writing skills xD
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On August 31 2013 11:09 Epishade wrote:Show nested quote +On August 31 2013 10:32 Airking990 wrote:
I'm sometimes a very happy person, but I'm constantly thinking. I want to help as many people as I can. Right now I'm talking with an open mind, taking both sides into consideration because this applies to more than one person, giving the respect you deserve. I want to bring you a side of me that you don't always end up seeing. A lot of you are still young, and so am I, and are just getting into dating. I want to talk about... break ups in general, and not just mine or yours. Hell, even as we get older we'll still run into things that are just shitty when it comes to relationships, meaning break ups. To both guys and girls, it's the worst feeling you will ever feel. It's just like your world just crumbles, and I know because I’ve been there plenty of times. It sucks, and completely changes your behavior, but you need to persevere. You need to be strong because this is gonna make and build your character. This is what's going to make you in the future, and you need to understand that sometimes you have no control when it comes to this.
Sometimes relationships are just not meant to be. Even though you feel that your whole heart is in it, sometimes it's just not meant to be. But that doesn't mean that you're not gonna have another chance with somebody else or the same person. Sometimes you need to grow up, experience things. Realize either your mistakes or you just need that person to have time to realize their mistakes. Don't make it all about you, like "Aww I'm so bad. I'm ugly" blah blah blah. No. you, my friend, are a beautiful individual. You are amazing, you are fucking gorgeous, and anybody would be lucky to have you.
Understand that there are so many people out there that would die to be with you but they don't know you exist at the moment because you haven't given them the chance. It's hard. It's really hard. But the end results are what matters. I can say, for people who recently have broken up and everything, that it will get better. It takes time, it hurts, but it will get better. And the one tip that I can give you is to figure yourself out. Ask yourself why this happened. If it was you that fucked up. As for guys, guys are stubborn as fuck. We will not realize our mistakes until it's too late. Just give us guys a chance because we're just hard headed fucks. If you can actually find out if this person actually matter to you that much, figure yourself out. You could be the cause of why the relationship died or just stopped. Realizing this would be the next step to either fixing a relationship or actually moving on.
This is the one fault I've been through in my own life. I'm really stubborn and I am doing my best to fix everything and all this other stuff. But that's the first step, figuring out whose fault it was. It's not all your fault. Remember that this is two people, a couple. The other person could be the reason for why the relationship didn't work. But when in a relationship, remember to put your heart in it. All of it. Put your whole heart into the relationship. Lower your defense. This person that you say you love needs to see that. You need to have trust in this person. And if it doesn't work, if this person either cheats on you or whatever, maybe this person isn't for you. This person is too inexperienced to know what real love is.
And it's weird because who really knows what love is? Realistically, who can say? But your body will tell you when you feel like shit. Obviously something isn't working. So it's when you realize these things, it takes time and a lot of experience to go through all this. But know that everything in the end gets better. There's plenty of people out there that could potentially be your other half, that will make you forever happy. Especially for younger people now experiencing this, don't stop. Don't stop for just one person. Just because one bad apple was in a tree, that doesn't mean it ruined the rest. There's a lot of people out there that would die to be in your presence, that would love to spend forever with you. Keep trucking, seriously. You will find that other person if you keep trying your hardest. But don't forget that it's a relationship. It's 50/50. Not 70/30 or 60/40. It has to be even.
The moment you realize it's not going like that is maybe the moment in the relationship that you want to reevaluate and talk about it. Because talking is the key factor in this. Talking and letting it all out. That person should know you inside and out if they really matter to you. And as for when you recently went through beak ups, you will find another person. If you feel that you fucked up, fix it. Fucking fix it because that person could be potentially the one. Try your hardest. Love is an amazing thing. When you're in love, happy with another person, everything else just fits so perfectly. Try your best. Don't half-ass this. You want the same love and same affection from the other person.
If you do this, don't expect to get it back. It's just that that's the bottom line. And, I guess, the only thing I can say is that... shit happens. y'know? Sometimes it's just not meant to be. Sometimes it was just for a period of time. Maybe that person was not meant to be with you forever. Maybe that person was just supposed to be there to teach you things so that maybe in the next relationship you can treat that person 10 times better. This is life's experience that we learn through the whole thing. Remember that we are just a blank book and our life is just the writing. It makes sense. We're all just learning. And with that, I guess this is my stand on relationships and break ups. Hopefully this helps you now and in the future, opening your eyes and maybe you'll take those take those stubborn guys and girls out there another chance. That's just how it is. Thank you for listening. I hope this helped. Remember to try your best. Take care. Peace Went ahead and separated breaks best I could. Op has some nice things to say and is very encouraging.
thank you, I used the same exact way you had broken up the massive wall of text, and I had written it and didn't give it any thought other that just posting it. didn't even think about breaking it up before posting
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On August 31 2013 13:30 Airking990 wrote:Show nested quote +On August 31 2013 11:09 Epishade wrote:On August 31 2013 10:32 Airking990 wrote:
I'm sometimes a very happy person, but I'm constantly thinking. I want to help as many people as I can. Right now I'm talking with an open mind, taking both sides into consideration because this applies to more than one person, giving the respect you deserve. I want to bring you a side of me that you don't always end up seeing. A lot of you are still young, and so am I, and are just getting into dating. I want to talk about... break ups in general, and not just mine or yours. Hell, even as we get older we'll still run into things that are just shitty when it comes to relationships, meaning break ups. To both guys and girls, it's the worst feeling you will ever feel. It's just like your world just crumbles, and I know because I’ve been there plenty of times. It sucks, and completely changes your behavior, but you need to persevere. You need to be strong because this is gonna make and build your character. This is what's going to make you in the future, and you need to understand that sometimes you have no control when it comes to this.
Sometimes relationships are just not meant to be. Even though you feel that your whole heart is in it, sometimes it's just not meant to be. But that doesn't mean that you're not gonna have another chance with somebody else or the same person. Sometimes you need to grow up, experience things. Realize either your mistakes or you just need that person to have time to realize their mistakes. Don't make it all about you, like "Aww I'm so bad. I'm ugly" blah blah blah. No. you, my friend, are a beautiful individual. You are amazing, you are fucking gorgeous, and anybody would be lucky to have you.
Understand that there are so many people out there that would die to be with you but they don't know you exist at the moment because you haven't given them the chance. It's hard. It's really hard. But the end results are what matters. I can say, for people who recently have broken up and everything, that it will get better. It takes time, it hurts, but it will get better. And the one tip that I can give you is to figure yourself out. Ask yourself why this happened. If it was you that fucked up. As for guys, guys are stubborn as fuck. We will not realize our mistakes until it's too late. Just give us guys a chance because we're just hard headed fucks. If you can actually find out if this person actually matter to you that much, figure yourself out. You could be the cause of why the relationship died or just stopped. Realizing this would be the next step to either fixing a relationship or actually moving on.
This is the one fault I've been through in my own life. I'm really stubborn and I am doing my best to fix everything and all this other stuff. But that's the first step, figuring out whose fault it was. It's not all your fault. Remember that this is two people, a couple. The other person could be the reason for why the relationship didn't work. But when in a relationship, remember to put your heart in it. All of it. Put your whole heart into the relationship. Lower your defense. This person that you say you love needs to see that. You need to have trust in this person. And if it doesn't work, if this person either cheats on you or whatever, maybe this person isn't for you. This person is too inexperienced to know what real love is.
And it's weird because who really knows what love is? Realistically, who can say? But your body will tell you when you feel like shit. Obviously something isn't working. So it's when you realize these things, it takes time and a lot of experience to go through all this. But know that everything in the end gets better. There's plenty of people out there that could potentially be your other half, that will make you forever happy. Especially for younger people now experiencing this, don't stop. Don't stop for just one person. Just because one bad apple was in a tree, that doesn't mean it ruined the rest. There's a lot of people out there that would die to be in your presence, that would love to spend forever with you. Keep trucking, seriously. You will find that other person if you keep trying your hardest. But don't forget that it's a relationship. It's 50/50. Not 70/30 or 60/40. It has to be even.
The moment you realize it's not going like that is maybe the moment in the relationship that you want to reevaluate and talk about it. Because talking is the key factor in this. Talking and letting it all out. That person should know you inside and out if they really matter to you. And as for when you recently went through beak ups, you will find another person. If you feel that you fucked up, fix it. Fucking fix it because that person could be potentially the one. Try your hardest. Love is an amazing thing. When you're in love, happy with another person, everything else just fits so perfectly. Try your best. Don't half-ass this. You want the same love and same affection from the other person.
If you do this, don't expect to get it back. It's just that that's the bottom line. And, I guess, the only thing I can say is that... shit happens. y'know? Sometimes it's just not meant to be. Sometimes it was just for a period of time. Maybe that person was not meant to be with you forever. Maybe that person was just supposed to be there to teach you things so that maybe in the next relationship you can treat that person 10 times better. This is life's experience that we learn through the whole thing. Remember that we are just a blank book and our life is just the writing. It makes sense. We're all just learning. And with that, I guess this is my stand on relationships and break ups. Hopefully this helps you now and in the future, opening your eyes and maybe you'll take those take those stubborn guys and girls out there another chance. That's just how it is. Thank you for listening. I hope this helped. Remember to try your best. Take care. Peace Went ahead and separated breaks best I could. Op has some nice things to say and is very encouraging. thank you, I used the same exact way you had broken up the massive wall of text, and I had written it and didn't give it any thought other that just posting it. didn't even think about breaking it up before posting
You're welcome. Thanks for posting something to brighten everyone's day.
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On August 31 2013 13:30 Airking990 wrote:+ Show Spoiler +On August 31 2013 11:09 Epishade wrote:Show nested quote +On August 31 2013 10:32 Airking990 wrote:
I'm sometimes a very happy person, but I'm constantly thinking. I want to help as many people as I can. Right now I'm talking with an open mind, taking both sides into consideration because this applies to more than one person, giving the respect you deserve. I want to bring you a side of me that you don't always end up seeing. A lot of you are still young, and so am I, and are just getting into dating. I want to talk about... break ups in general, and not just mine or yours. Hell, even as we get older we'll still run into things that are just shitty when it comes to relationships, meaning break ups. To both guys and girls, it's the worst feeling you will ever feel. It's just like your world just crumbles, and I know because I’ve been there plenty of times. It sucks, and completely changes your behavior, but you need to persevere. You need to be strong because this is gonna make and build your character. This is what's going to make you in the future, and you need to understand that sometimes you have no control when it comes to this.
Sometimes relationships are just not meant to be. Even though you feel that your whole heart is in it, sometimes it's just not meant to be. But that doesn't mean that you're not gonna have another chance with somebody else or the same person. Sometimes you need to grow up, experience things. Realize either your mistakes or you just need that person to have time to realize their mistakes. Don't make it all about you, like "Aww I'm so bad. I'm ugly" blah blah blah. No. you, my friend, are a beautiful individual. You are amazing, you are fucking gorgeous, and anybody would be lucky to have you.
Understand that there are so many people out there that would die to be with you but they don't know you exist at the moment because you haven't given them the chance. It's hard. It's really hard. But the end results are what matters. I can say, for people who recently have broken up and everything, that it will get better. It takes time, it hurts, but it will get better. And the one tip that I can give you is to figure yourself out. Ask yourself why this happened. If it was you that fucked up. As for guys, guys are stubborn as fuck. We will not realize our mistakes until it's too late. Just give us guys a chance because we're just hard headed fucks. If you can actually find out if this person actually matter to you that much, figure yourself out. You could be the cause of why the relationship died or just stopped. Realizing this would be the next step to either fixing a relationship or actually moving on.
This is the one fault I've been through in my own life. I'm really stubborn and I am doing my best to fix everything and all this other stuff. But that's the first step, figuring out whose fault it was. It's not all your fault. Remember that this is two people, a couple. The other person could be the reason for why the relationship didn't work. But when in a relationship, remember to put your heart in it. All of it. Put your whole heart into the relationship. Lower your defense. This person that you say you love needs to see that. You need to have trust in this person. And if it doesn't work, if this person either cheats on you or whatever, maybe this person isn't for you. This person is too inexperienced to know what real love is.
And it's weird because who really knows what love is? Realistically, who can say? But your body will tell you when you feel like shit. Obviously something isn't working. So it's when you realize these things, it takes time and a lot of experience to go through all this. But know that everything in the end gets better. There's plenty of people out there that could potentially be your other half, that will make you forever happy. Especially for younger people now experiencing this, don't stop. Don't stop for just one person. Just because one bad apple was in a tree, that doesn't mean it ruined the rest. There's a lot of people out there that would die to be in your presence, that would love to spend forever with you. Keep trucking, seriously. You will find that other person if you keep trying your hardest. But don't forget that it's a relationship. It's 50/50. Not 70/30 or 60/40. It has to be even.
The moment you realize it's not going like that is maybe the moment in the relationship that you want to reevaluate and talk about it. Because talking is the key factor in this. Talking and letting it all out. That person should know you inside and out if they really matter to you. And as for when you recently went through beak ups, you will find another person. If you feel that you fucked up, fix it. Fucking fix it because that person could be potentially the one. Try your hardest. Love is an amazing thing. When you're in love, happy with another person, everything else just fits so perfectly. Try your best. Don't half-ass this. You want the same love and same affection from the other person.
If you do this, don't expect to get it back. It's just that that's the bottom line. And, I guess, the only thing I can say is that... shit happens. y'know? Sometimes it's just not meant to be. Sometimes it was just for a period of time. Maybe that person was not meant to be with you forever. Maybe that person was just supposed to be there to teach you things so that maybe in the next relationship you can treat that person 10 times better. This is life's experience that we learn through the whole thing. Remember that we are just a blank book and our life is just the writing. It makes sense. We're all just learning. And with that, I guess this is my stand on relationships and break ups. Hopefully this helps you now and in the future, opening your eyes and maybe you'll take those take those stubborn guys and girls out there another chance. That's just how it is. Thank you for listening. I hope this helped. Remember to try your best. Take care. Peace Went ahead and separated breaks best I could. Op has some nice things to say and is very encouraging. thank you, I used the same exact way you had broken up the massive wall of text, and I had written it and didn't give it any thought other that just posting it. didn't even think about breaking it up before posting
A good rule of posting is to always re-read anything you write before you post it online(preferably in Preview). Especially if you just spent well over 10 minutes writing it. Thanks for saving our poor eyes Epi!
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I want to first start off by saying thank you, I am going through a very bad break up with my highschool love. I've known her since I was a Freshman in highschool till now (I am 19) and we dated for 3 years, was each others first etc. and I have to admit it has been the hardest thing I have ever went through in my entire life. I am suffering from pretty bad depression, and I spend most of my days thinking why did I fuck up? and what could I have done to fix it? but I agree with a lot of what you say. Maybe it just wasn't meant to be, it is insane how fast life can change. Too bad there isn't such thing as a time machine. Happy people like you give me hope that I will be happy again one day. The possibilities are endless on what I can achieve with my life. Thanks again for writing this blog, couldn't have seen it at a better time.
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im glad to know you guys liked what I wrote, and I hope this helped some of you!
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great tips.
Also guys:
Don't dwell onto the past. They are sweetened by memories and regrets. Remember the relationship as how it was for you both, not just you.
Might sound simple but once you do, you might realise some of the tiny things that tells you why the relationship wouldn't have lasted
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