EPTMy girlfriend is a serial cheater. Help - Page 3
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Zim23
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beachbeachy
United States509 Posts
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Aerisky
United States12128 Posts
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FractalsOnFire
Australia1756 Posts
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red_
United States8474 Posts
On April 23 2013 15:45 beachbeachy wrote: EDIT: I broke up with her. Turns out facebook said she was online 3 hours after she said she was falling asleep. Didn't respond to any of my important texts. I skype her and she immediately logs off. Then I call her and she eventually calls back and says she was sleeping. She hangs up and says that she can't talk because her roommate is asleep. Are you fucking kidding? IF YOU GAVE A SINGLE FUCK. ONE SOLITARY FUCK. You would have walked outside to talk to me. Zero sacrifice and effort. You guys were right. I put her commitment to the test and she didn't show up. On a side note, now that you've dumped her, work on being less of a doormat in future relationships. Between your OP and this post you sound like the prototypical guy who thinks acquiescing to every female request and bending over backwards accommodating them is being 'nice' and not just being a walking bag of insecurity with 'I have no confidence' plastered all over. Get your own shit together, know that you are worth being with(and if you fail to do that, change whatever you need to in order to believe it), and act accordingly. | ||
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beachbeachy
United States509 Posts
On April 23 2013 16:30 red_ wrote: On a side note, now that you've dumped her, work on being less of a doormat in future relationships. Between your OP and this post you sound like the prototypical guy who thinks acquiescing to every female request and bending over backwards accommodating them is being 'nice' and not just being a walking bag of insecurity with 'I have no confidence' plastered all over. Get your own shit together, know that you are worth being with(and if you fail to do that, change whatever you need to in order to believe it), and act accordingly. I feel like this is unfair. I never accommodated to her every whim. I stood my ground where I needed to. | ||
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BeiHuoJingHua
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If cheating is a problem to you (and I think it should) Dump her. edit: Good job | ||
BigFan
TLADT24920 Posts
On April 23 2013 17:00 beachbeachy wrote: I feel like this is unfair. I never accommodated to her every whim. I stood my ground where I needed to. maybe he's being a bit unfair but the fact that you had a problem with making such an obvious decision(in most people's eyes) especially considering her past history doesn't bode well for you. His advice is pretty sound about the niceness part imo. At least, you caught the situation now before it got worse and you got attached to her then letting go is harder. | ||
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CecilSunkure
United States2829 Posts
ROFL "10 or 15 times she cheated so yeah I gave her the benefit of the doubt" holy god oh man. I know what happened here; you were slayn by the boobs. That's right. You thought she was hot so you thought she was worth a chance. | ||
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y0su
Finland7871 Posts
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gaymon
Germany1023 Posts
+ Show Spoiler + On April 23 2013 13:23 hp.Shell wrote: Didn't read. Dump her. Edit: Read. Dump her. | ||
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Integra
Sweden5626 Posts
On April 23 2013 17:00 beachbeachy wrote: I feel like this is unfair. I never accommodated to her every whim. I stood my ground where I needed to. She said that she had been with 12 boyfriends, she is 19, let's say she is matured early and started dating at the age of 12, which means she had 12 relationships that lasted half a year for each, and that she had cheated on all of them during the half year that each relationship existed. If you would had stood your ground you should had said "nice knowing you, let's play poker sometime" the moment she told you this. | ||
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Burrfoot
United States1176 Posts
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Heartscry
United Kingdom291 Posts
On April 23 2013 19:55 Burrfoot wrote: Propose anal, do it anyways, then dump her. This chap has exactly the right idea. | ||
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Dandel Ion
Austria17960 Posts
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Meadowlark
United States349 Posts
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Monsen
Germany2548 Posts
On April 23 2013 20:38 Dandel Ion wrote: Not sure what you're looking to get out of her except maybe threesomes with another dude. Fixed. | ||
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ZenithM
France15952 Posts
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tofucake
Hyrule18982 Posts
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HardlyNever
United States1258 Posts
She wasn't even worth writing this blog about, man. | ||
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