|
So. I'm in high school, eighteen years old and there is this really attractive little girl into me. She is all happy around me and generally tries to make contact. Nobody waits around for hours altough they are free to go because the other person has something to do. Anyway, the problem is that she is 2/3 years younger than me. Her hormones are going crazy and I would feel like a total douche to take advantage of this. I have a little sister and I don't think I would be very happy if she was dating someone that's 18 when she is 15/16. How do I tell her nicely that it wouldn't be the most wisest of decisions for her to date me? The advice of my friends is to just "do" her because in 1 or 2 years she'll be the most beautiful woman I could ever get :') What is up with all these 15/16 year old girls who seem to just stare at me in the hallways. I'm not attractive damnit and I'm usually incredible grumpy because I have to force myself through all these little motherfuckers in the narrowest of hallways to go to some pointless class with an incompetent teacher. Months ago I just gave up asking my Biology teacher questions because he just can´t explain antyhing. The greatest thing was when he started making up excuses; "Well it's been 30 years..." I can't wait to study! During the holidays I'm planning on tackling this: http://www.trillia.com/zakon1.html, work out a lot, go to portugal with my friends, walk up the Kilimanjaro with my dad and create my first program. Can't wait
   
|
On March 11 2013 12:15 gabsonuro wrote: put the penor in
|
On March 13 2013 03:19 solidbebe wrote:
|
On March 13 2013 03:19 solidbebe wrote:
this has now been added to tl memes. alongside "do you even lift"
pur srsly bro: put the penor in.
|
How well do you know her? If you know relatively little about her other than her interest in you and her age, then why not at least find out?
|
Tell your friends they're idiots and have a conversation with her.
On March 13 2013 03:28 MysteryMeat1 wrote:Show nested quote +On March 13 2013 03:19 solidbebe wrote:On March 11 2013 12:15 gabsonuro wrote: put the penor in this has now been added to tl memes. alongside "do you even lift" pur srsly bro: put the penor in. thanks for doing your part in degrading the quality of TL
|
On March 13 2013 03:28 MysteryMeat1 wrote:Show nested quote +On March 13 2013 03:19 solidbebe wrote:On March 11 2013 12:15 gabsonuro wrote: put the penor in this has now been added to tl memes. alongside "do you even lift" pur srsly bro: put the penor in. do you even lift
if so
put the penor in
and if she cray
u gotta sk8
unless you're
[puts on sunglasses]
romanian
|
^At least half of those aren't from TL.......................
Edit: Yep Solidbebe, I can confirm. I was a Miscer before I came to TL
|
Pretty sure do you even lift came from body building forums
|
you're in high school, she's in high school, it's completely legit. roll with it, give her a chance
|
On March 13 2013 03:39 GGQ wrote: you're in high school, she's in high school, it's completely legit. roll with it, give her a chance just watch out for age of consent laws
|
On March 13 2013 03:40 Shady Sands wrote:Show nested quote +On March 13 2013 03:39 GGQ wrote: you're in high school, she's in high school, it's completely legit. roll with it, give her a chance just watch out for age of consent laws The netherlands is a lot more relaxed with that kind of stuff than america
|
On March 13 2013 03:40 Shady Sands wrote:Show nested quote +On March 13 2013 03:39 GGQ wrote: you're in high school, she's in high school, it's completely legit. roll with it, give her a chance just watch out for age of consent laws
Since when are there age of consent laws in high school 0.o.
I did have a friend where it was kind of the opposite situation. He really liked this girl who was a freshmen when he was a senior. He never asked her out cause he though he would seem like a pedaphile having a girlfriend who was 4 years younger than him.
|
On March 13 2013 03:40 Shady Sands wrote:Show nested quote +On March 13 2013 03:39 GGQ wrote: you're in high school, she's in high school, it's completely legit. roll with it, give her a chance just watch out for age of consent laws
On March 13 2013 03:39 GGQ wrote: you're in high school, she's in high school, it's completely legit. roll with it, give her a chance
Both of these. You're going to look back at this in a couple years, and regret it. Even if you don't feel anything for her right now, you should still go for it. You're young and dumb (sorry dude, but it's kind of true... you're denying yourself a girl that has a thing for you. How stupid do you have to be?) so just go with it. If it's a mistake, you'll learn from it. If it's a good idea, you won't regret it.
Either way, just find out what happens man. The age thing might be a little freaky, but you'll get over it pretty quickly.
|
If she wants the D give her the D. Always use BC and condoms.18/16 is completley normal stuff in high school.
If your ever in doubt just divide by 2 and add 7. That is the acceptable age.
|
On March 13 2013 03:43 hoby2000 wrote:Show nested quote +On March 13 2013 03:40 Shady Sands wrote:On March 13 2013 03:39 GGQ wrote: you're in high school, she's in high school, it's completely legit. roll with it, give her a chance just watch out for age of consent laws Show nested quote +On March 13 2013 03:39 GGQ wrote: you're in high school, she's in high school, it's completely legit. roll with it, give her a chance Both of these. You're going to look back at this in a couple years, and regret it. Even if you don't feel anything for her right now, you should still go for it. You're young and dumb (sorry dude, but it's kind of true... you're denying yourself a girl that has a thing for you. How stupid do you have to be?) so just go with it. If it's a mistake, you'll learn from it. If it's a good idea, you won't regret it. Either way, just find out what happens man. The age thing might be a little freaky, but you'll get over it pretty quickly.
You are right... Damnit. It just "feels" wrong.
|
2-3 years is not really that unusual, so just go for it. It's not like she's 12.
|
On March 13 2013 03:53 Recognizable wrote:Show nested quote +On March 13 2013 03:43 hoby2000 wrote:On March 13 2013 03:40 Shady Sands wrote:On March 13 2013 03:39 GGQ wrote: you're in high school, she's in high school, it's completely legit. roll with it, give her a chance just watch out for age of consent laws On March 13 2013 03:39 GGQ wrote: you're in high school, she's in high school, it's completely legit. roll with it, give her a chance Both of these. You're going to look back at this in a couple years, and regret it. Even if you don't feel anything for her right now, you should still go for it. You're young and dumb (sorry dude, but it's kind of true... you're denying yourself a girl that has a thing for you. How stupid do you have to be?) so just go with it. If it's a mistake, you'll learn from it. If it's a good idea, you won't regret it. Either way, just find out what happens man. The age thing might be a little freaky, but you'll get over it pretty quickly. You are right... Damnit. It just "feels" wrong.
I know. And it's going to feel wrong when the same thing happens to your sister, but you just have to accept it. It will always feel wrong at first but it really does go away pretty quickly. The age thing really means nothing at your age too. It's kind of funny how people think they're so much more mature than those 2 years younger than them at 18. Or even 1 year. But you're all almost all the same maturity, haha. Fuck, even people at 20 years old still act like high schoolers. I still do every once in awhile (hard habits to break) and I'm 24!
|
United Kingdom14103 Posts
On March 13 2013 03:40 Shady Sands wrote:Show nested quote +On March 13 2013 03:39 GGQ wrote: you're in high school, she's in high school, it's completely legit. roll with it, give her a chance just watch out for age of consent laws
As far as I know it's not as tight in the Netherlands as it is in America.
On March 13 2013 03:53 Recognizable wrote:Show nested quote +On March 13 2013 03:43 hoby2000 wrote:On March 13 2013 03:40 Shady Sands wrote:On March 13 2013 03:39 GGQ wrote: you're in high school, she's in high school, it's completely legit. roll with it, give her a chance just watch out for age of consent laws On March 13 2013 03:39 GGQ wrote: you're in high school, she's in high school, it's completely legit. roll with it, give her a chance Both of these. You're going to look back at this in a couple years, and regret it. Even if you don't feel anything for her right now, you should still go for it. You're young and dumb (sorry dude, but it's kind of true... you're denying yourself a girl that has a thing for you. How stupid do you have to be?) so just go with it. If it's a mistake, you'll learn from it. If it's a good idea, you won't regret it. Either way, just find out what happens man. The age thing might be a little freaky, but you'll get over it pretty quickly. You are right... Damnit. It just "feels" wrong.
I'm 18 and the year above me before they left my school were known for going out with 15 year old girls, don't worry about it, you're at school and as long as she's ok with it go for it.
|
On March 13 2013 03:32 Grumbels wrote:Tell your friends they're idiots and have a conversation with her. Show nested quote +On March 13 2013 03:28 MysteryMeat1 wrote:On March 13 2013 03:19 solidbebe wrote:On March 11 2013 12:15 gabsonuro wrote: put the penor in this has now been added to tl memes. alongside "do you even lift" pur srsly bro: put the penor in. thanks for doing your part in degrading the quality of TL Talking to people is a good skill toi have.
To contribute, I'm too much of a whore to not at least try dating a girl only 2-3 years younger. At least talk to her. Maybe you'll actually like her. Although I do see where you're coming from.
2 to 3 years... I feel weird about having a crush on a girl 1 year younger. Not girls a few years older though for a strange reason.
|
|
|
|