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If you care about getting laid, then why do you care about whether she'll date you? Go get a different girls number.
Practice being confident, that's the most important thing in relationships, if you think that your cool, girls will think so too.
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EnE
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If you care about getting laid, then why do you care about whether she'll date you? Go get a different girls number. Practice being confident, that's the most important thing in relationships, if you think that your cool, girls will think so too. | ||
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Cambium
United States16368 Posts
Try 'do you want to get a cup of coffee with me this weekend' next time. Don't build up the whole thing with, 'i have something important to tell you tomorrow', and don't ask her to give you a time, just tell her 'great, let's say 3 PM at Cafe ABC' if she says yes. | ||
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Probe1
United States17920 Posts
Btw personal note: I was 17 when I started dating my first girlfriend (which lead to the obvious). I didn't come onto her like it was a .. as someone else put it, a target. We were friends. We liked each other enough. We went with her softball teammate to her beachhouse for the weekend. We ended up kissing after hanging out most of the day. We ended up dating after kissing for the rest of the day. Et cetera. Notice where I went with that? 'We'. We recipocated each other. I'm not saying you have to be a pushover and aquiesce to anything this girl says. Nobody finds that attractive. But I wasn't going after her. If she's your friend and she likes you then talk to her. Don't be pushy and don't be timid. This all sounds fucking complicated and weird to a 17 year old but tl;dr all it means is be yourself. Don't get nervous and try to build things up. Just be yourself, hanging out with your friend that you like. | ||
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Probe1
United States17920 Posts
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Cambium
United States16368 Posts
On September 30 2012 20:00 Probe1 wrote: Hold on to that feeling though bro. Last night I wanted sex so I opened my phone, called a friend and had sex. I very much miss being 17. Btw personal note: I was 17 when I started dating my first girlfriend (which lead to the obvious). I didn't come onto her like it was a .. as someone else put it, a target. We were friends. We liked each other enough. We went with her softball teammate to her beachhouse for the weekend. We ended up kissing after hanging out most of the day. We ended up dating after kissing for the rest of the day. Et cetera. Notice where I went with that? 'We'. We recipocated each other. I'm not saying you have to be a pushover and aquiesce to anything this girl says. Nobody finds that attractive. But I wasn't going after her. If she's your friend and she likes you then talk to her. Don't be pushy and don't be timid. This all sounds fucking complicated and weird to a 17 year old but tl;dr all it means is be yourself. Don't get nervous and try to build things up. Just be yourself, hanging out with your friend that you like. +1000 growing up sucks  | ||
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docvoc
United States5491 Posts
On September 30 2012 13:42 MountainDewJunkie wrote: Yeah, his scenario doesn't sound too promising. In college, all my studying was for studying... In high school, most girls did NOT tiptoe and act cute. They're blunt if they want your junk. If they want your undying affection, they might study with you, but if they want the penis, they will not leave much to the imagination. Although the girl I used to study math with is now my fiance... Mountaindewjunkie you are a boss. Also my gf asked to study debate work with her in order to spend extra time with me, but she was also kind of blunt about it, so I dont know what to think haha. TO the OP, + Show Spoiler + ![[image loading]](http://weknowmemes.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/oh-you-dog.jpg) .SERIOUSLY THOUGH, dont force anything, if she bites, she bites, if not then dont force it. | ||
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ymir233
United States8275 Posts
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Dfgj
Singapore5922 Posts
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Jathin
United States3505 Posts
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acgFork
Canada397 Posts
And to Illusion: Just because youre pro, you cant just go around being a douchebag to everyone in this community. | ||
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Silentness
United States2821 Posts
On October 01 2012 02:09 Dfgj wrote: I'm beginning to suspect all girl blogs are actually posted by StateOfReverie. LOL I was thinking the exact same thing. You guys need to stop putting the pussy on a pedestal. *shakes head* | ||
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Spicy_Curry
United States10573 Posts
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meteorskunk
Canada546 Posts
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acgFork
Canada397 Posts
On October 01 2012 07:13 meteorskunk wrote: You don't actually like this girl. if you liked her then why did you abandon her when she dated the foot ball guy?? you just think she is smokin hot and groovey cool. theres plenty of those out there. the only thing that indicates that you're on the path to getting laid is you learned how to deal with rejection responsibly. This is coming from a guy who got laid one night on the full moon. To be honest, I still liked her, that's why I hated her for dating that guy. I srsly dont like her just because of her looks. | ||
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meteorskunk
Canada546 Posts
On October 01 2012 08:08 acgFork wrote: To be honest, I still liked her, that's why I hated her for dating that guy. I srsly dont like her just because of her looks. I believe you but i also believe that a person is capableof liking many people. He just has to get over the person he currently likes to begin liking the next person. if you like her enough to stick with her when she obviously is not into you (via comment saying "i don't want to date atm) then you should probably be sure you like her even when she stinks of rotten milk in the morning and when she wears no make up. sincerely, meteorskunk, the girl expert who has no girls. | ||
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avilo
United States4100 Posts
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acgFork
Canada397 Posts
On October 01 2012 10:27 avilo wrote: You friendzoned yourself...*facepalms* I think it would have been worse if I wasn't honest to her about my feelings. I like hanging out with her, so we'll just see how it goes. | ||
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Azera
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ROOTIllusion
United States1060 Posts
On October 01 2012 06:45 acgFork wrote: Thanks for all the support and advice, everyone. Next blog post, I'll prob go into detail about the history I have with this chick, or other endeavours I'm curently working on. And to Illusion: Just because youre pro, you cant just go around being a douchebag to everyone in this community. Learn to take a little poke and fun here and there, also I swear stateofreverie was the op | ||
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EnE
417 Posts
On October 01 2012 16:43 QuanticIllusion wrote: Learn to take a little poke and fun here and there, also I swear stateofreverie was the op Coach me plz | ||
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