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There is this cashier who works at the dining hall in my college. She gave me an illegal "discount" on some things that I bought. At first I thought this was just a coincidence. However about a week later when I saw her again she gave me another discount.
So next time I see her, I have no more money and don't feel like going ot the atm machine. I end up using my debit card. When she sees this, she got all dissapointed and is like oh you you aren't using money anymore I can't give you a discount! Thats too bad! Well Ill cya friday
wtf. Why do I care when she is working next? I am trying to spend as much money as possible right now (it's complicated.) and she had been irritating me with those discounts. Anyways she likes me and gives me discounts. I don't want the discounts and I don't want her to be all weird and friendly and talkative (everyone else there is foreign and old) because when I am getting food, I don't want to stay and chat because I want to sit down and eat that food...I gotta keep on good terms though because she is someone that I have to go to for food for the next 4 years...
Anyways, I want to uh let her down gently. So far all I've got is that I'm going to get food during the day to try to avoid her and hopefully she will forget about me
  
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She wants your dick. Give her a small taste of you and put her down gently.
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oh well that's easy. You should just act like your regular socially awkward nerd. Try having the most difficult time keeping a conversation alive, when you get your food just leave (you can say goodbye), whenever she makes remarks about her shifts or try to give you hints so you ask her out answer with a classic "huh huh...", if she does ask you out just say "sorry I'm not too interested".
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On September 20 2012 13:13 swanized wrote:
oh well that's easy. You should just act like your regular socially awkward nerd. Try having the most difficult time keeping a conversation alive, when you get your food just leave (you can say goodbye), whenever she makes remarks about her shifts or try to give you hints so you ask her out answer with a classic "huh huh...", if she does ask you out just say "sorry I'm not too interested".
I just feel so bad doing that....
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On September 20 2012 13:15 StateofReverie wrote:Show nested quote +On September 20 2012 13:13 swanized wrote:
oh well that's easy. You should just act like your regular socially awkward nerd. Try having the most difficult time keeping a conversation alive, when you get your food just leave (you can say goodbye), whenever she makes remarks about her shifts or try to give you hints so you ask her out answer with a classic "huh huh...", if she does ask you out just say "sorry I'm not too interested". I just feel so bad doing that....
If a girl is interested in you there's really no halfway point. Either you also are interested or you turn her down in a more or less straightforward way. The one I gave you is probably the least straightforward one.
In the event her interest actually is romantic don`t leave her hanging, just tell her you're not interested. In a romantic situation there's really nothing worse than not knowing the other person's feelings and being left hanging. Being straightforward in these situations actually has more chances of salvaging your casual/friendly relationship.
Also if the girl turns out to be nice and just looking for a friend, stop applying my advice, it's not going to make you any friends.
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Jeeze man, she is just trying to reach out to you. Spend the money on something else, take the discount and say thanks. Maybe one day you will decide that you want to take her on a date...
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What is she ugly or something???
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dude what is wrong with you?
Try to be a decent, kind, caring person.
She is being friendly, you respond in kind. Simple. You spend all of five seconds exchanging pleasantries, then you go eat.
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"accidentally" drop your food all over her then run away because you need to be somewhere 
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Make it clear that you're not interested or whatever, but be nice to her... let her down easy but you could at least make a friend.
Care to share why you're trying to get rid of your money? I really can't think of one. I only know of people trying to spend money before they apply for scholarships because too much money in your account could prevent a need-based or something.
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This is practically the polar opposite of 99% of girl blogs on TL.
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On September 20 2012 13:51 krndandaman wrote:
now ive seen it all.
a guy who doesn't like it when a girl gives him discounts and likes him.
There is a total win post. +1
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Don't tell me you're going to fall for the ol' "illegal" discount play? Please, that's the oldest trick in the book.
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You really need to give us more detail on this girl or the guys here are just making blind guesses. You have a couple choices
1. you could bang her, tell her if she wants some again just call you up
2. let her down gently by being awkward and making her like you less (NOTE: since she already likes you, don't seem fallible, you just need to not be able to keep up a convo with her)
3. Take her out on a date and see if you actually like her or not
4. She is an employee and you are a student, don't break that line and neither will she, don't take the hint and she will move on.
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On September 20 2012 13:31 Ethic wrote:
What is she ugly or something???
I don't find her attractive
On September 20 2012 13:58 Elegy wrote:
dude what is wrong with you?
Try to be a decent, kind, caring person.
She is being friendly, you respond in kind. Simple. You spend all of five seconds exchanging pleasantries, then you go eat.
It really is hard to do it to every person you meet
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On September 20 2012 13:05 StateofReverie wrote:
There is this cash register who works at the dining hall in my college.
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