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Emon_
Profile Blog Joined November 2009
3925 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-07-11 21:58:16
July 11 2012 21:57 GMT
#1
This has happened to me far too often to be a coincidence. Say you're writing to a girl and it's going good. Maybe it's the third or fourth time you talk. You suggest a meet-up and BAM! She stops responding and goes quiet. Once you send the second email / message / text, wondering what's up, she replies with "oh sure, would love to meet-up!". Someone more experienced - please shed some light

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DragoonPK
Profile Blog Joined July 2007
3259 Posts
July 11 2012 22:04 GMT
#2
What? Maybe she doesn't want to look desperate?
Brindled
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States508 Posts
July 11 2012 22:06 GMT
#3
Girls on the internet?
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Bibbit
Profile Blog Joined December 2009
Canada5377 Posts
July 11 2012 22:18 GMT
#4
On July 12 2012 07:06 Brindled wrote:
Girls on the internet?

Yeah sorry man, if you havent met up before, your girl's probably a dude.
FiWiFaKi
Profile Blog Joined February 2009
Canada9859 Posts
July 11 2012 22:22 GMT
#5
On July 12 2012 07:18 Bibbit wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 12 2012 07:06 Brindled wrote:
Girls on the internet?

Yeah sorry man, if you havent met up before, your girl's probably a dude.


Pretty much this... it's really pathetic, but 99% this is the case.
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PH
Profile Blog Joined June 2008
United States6173 Posts
July 11 2012 22:25 GMT
#6
In what context did you start talking to this girl? The internet is big and varied place...
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Chocolate
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
United States2350 Posts
July 11 2012 22:31 GMT
#7
On July 12 2012 07:25 PH wrote:
In what context did you start talking to this girl? The internet is big and varied place...

Exactly. If she added you on facebook and has mutual friends with you (you know her through the grapevine) then that's a whole lot different from just talking to some gam3r gurl from WoW.
Euronyme
Profile Joined August 2010
Sweden3804 Posts
July 11 2012 22:46 GMT
#8
Yeah I can only repeat. There are no girls on the internet. Regardless if you've spoked on skype and she sounds like a girl, still assume it's a dude. It's safer that way.
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Gogleion
Profile Blog Joined June 2009
United States534 Posts
July 11 2012 22:47 GMT
#9
I've met a few people from Omegle, and they were kinda like that but they were cool with it, just hesitant because it's always kinda weird. I think that you're fine though, they're just being cautious
EffOrt. That is all.
sc4k
Profile Blog Joined January 2010
United Kingdom5454 Posts
July 11 2012 22:55 GMT
#10
Is this a dating website or just something random??
ZombieGrub
Profile Blog Joined May 2011
United States722 Posts
July 11 2012 23:07 GMT
#11
Er. How often has this happened to you, and have they actually met up with you afterwards?

If they keep avoiding a real meet-up, it's probably because they never wanted to and feel pressured. Or they're being really cautious. Most girls won't meet up with guys on the internet (especially after only a few talks), and if they do, they feel pretty hesitant and would like to meet somewhere public. At least, that's my case.

Or it's a guy. Girls on the internet don't exist after all.
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Djzapz
Profile Blog Joined August 2009
Canada10681 Posts
July 11 2012 23:10 GMT
#12
I wouldn't even meet a dude for a beer after 4 times talking on the Internet. Why do you think a girl would?
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Blazinghand *
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
United States25563 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-07-11 23:23:50
July 11 2012 23:23 GMT
#13
I like how the typical response to this is "there aren't girls on the internet" ;_;

Um, I'd say it's probably just getting spooked since she doesn't know you. If you want to meet up with her, suggest something public (like meeting at a pickup basketball game, or a public event that you can both have fun at if you decide to part ways, and there's lots of people around) or something so you can get to know each other. If I were a girl I certainly wouldn't be comfortable meeting a dude who I've IMed with 4 times online.
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Elegance
Profile Blog Joined February 2009
Canada917 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-07-12 00:31:22
July 12 2012 00:30 GMT
#14
On July 12 2012 08:10 Djzapz wrote:
I wouldn't even meet a dude for a beer after 4 times talking on the Internet. Why do you think a girl would?

this. I only meet up with internet acquainted people if i know them really well (as well as any irl friend)

E: unless its a group meetup for TL for example
Power of Ze
Seeker *
Profile Blog Joined April 2005
Where dat snitch at?37120 Posts
July 12 2012 00:41 GMT
#15
A 3 and a half line girl blog?

..........

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ninazerg
Profile Blog Joined October 2009
United States7291 Posts
July 12 2012 06:14 GMT
#16
THERE ARE NO GIRLS ON THE INTERNET! IT'S A TRAP. You need to run. Run your ass off. He already has your IP address. You may have to skip town for several months. Maybe years. Oh my God, why were you so foolish to fall into this? YOU'RE SCREWED.
"If two pregnant women get into a fist fight, it's like a mecha-battle between two unborn babies." - Fyodor Dostoevsky
Juliette
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
United States6003 Posts
July 12 2012 06:45 GMT
#17
i dont post on girl blogs but i feel like i should for this

what if shes not a girl

i got some advice once: "theres plenty of good looking girls around you, you just gotta look"

OKAY FROM THAT PERSPECTIVE I SEE WHAT YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT
Sayle
Profile Joined October 2010
United Kingdom3685 Posts
July 12 2012 06:49 GMT
#18
Aside from the obvious girl/not girl issues here, I don't see why people freak out if their messages are not instantaneously returned. I routinely read important PMs/e-mails then get distracted by something else and forget to reply until several days later. This even happens to me in 'live' conversations in Skype. I'll just stop talking all of a sudden because the stream I was watching on the other monitor suddenly got interesting. Meh.
LaSt)ChAnCe
Profile Blog Joined June 2005
United States2179 Posts
July 12 2012 07:36 GMT
#19
On July 12 2012 07:22 FiWiFaKi wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 12 2012 07:18 Bibbit wrote:
On July 12 2012 07:06 Brindled wrote:
Girls on the internet?

Yeah sorry man, if you havent met up before, your girl's probably a dude.


Pretty much this... it's really pathetic, but 99% this is the case.

you'd be very surprised just how many girls there are playing games online, especially games like WoW
Arcanefrost
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
Belgium1257 Posts
July 12 2012 08:58 GMT
#20
Wait, so you haven't met these people irl before?
Valor is a poor substitute for numbers.
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