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Inzek
Chile802 Posts
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Santa Cruz
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On July 10 2012 12:24 Elegance wrote: Yes every girl wants to get fucked. r.Evo is aware I'm sure. But first of all, it IS a "friends make a dumb introduction" either way. Secondly, you forget to factor in the most important factor (and the only one that keeps this world from having open sex on the streets) - society's expectations. Girls have what is called bitch shields which are basically required for them for the society to view them as "normal" (ie. not a slut). I'm with you on saying girls want sex just as much as men (if not more). But it's not socially "acceptable" for them and they do as much as they can to preserve that im sure you know what i mean here. So they put up the "protection" shit. If OP has what it takes to lower those shields or whatever, Im sure good things could come of it but as it stands (judging by OP's thought process in the blog), he doesn't. I agree with this post. | ||
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Brett
Australia3822 Posts
On July 09 2012 14:08 blabber wrote: i don't understand why you should be wanting to ask this girl out when you haven't even met her This. This. This. This. Calm the hell down, you don't even know if this girl is worth a modicum of your time or energy, let alone worth worrying about. This is probably too fucking Dr Phil, but your problems are probably more about your perception of your own worth, rather than being scared of girls, given what you've posted in this thread. Have some respect for yourself, man!!!!  | ||
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Elegance
Canada917 Posts
On July 10 2012 12:34 Brett wrote: This. This. This. This. Calm the hell down, you don't even know if this girl is worth a modicum of your time or energy, let alone worth worrying about. This is probably too fucking Dr Phil, but your problems are probably more about your perception of your own worth, rather than being scared of girls, given what you've posted in this thread. Have some respect for yourself, man!!!! I'd imagine he's seen her through facebook or whatever haha. If not, id advise OP to check her out first | ||
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r.Evo
Germany14081 Posts
-Both involved parties are most likely like "Uhh... durr.. this is dumb... but maybe it's kind of cool" -If this is any similar to those situations I'm used to when they happen in my social circle half the evening is built around "AWWW AREN'T YOU TWO CUTE" and similar dumb stuff. There is zero, nada, no information in the OP that lets us suggest that the girl he's going to meet is a male devouring beast which was just waiting for her friends to get introduced to a not-so-good-with-women dude they think is fitting for her. Whatever the case, that situation is not the time and place for "ima just grab between her legs and lead her hand to my dick"-move. It's called social calibration and screening. On July 10 2012 12:22 Salv wrote: You don't know shit pal. You don't know this girl at all, and if you tried this shit with someone like my fiancee you would have been shut down so fucking fast. Douchebag men get douchebag women. To be completely honest I have seen much, much worse stuff work on "shy, innocent and honest good girls". Very strong sexual / dominant / egomaniac frames are simply a different kind of ballgame. I completely agree with this type of stuff not being solid advice for the OP and rather hard to pull off even with more experience but, yeah - there are some rather repulsive behaviours out there which still will lead to success with a strong enough frame. | ||
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Salv
Canada3083 Posts
On July 10 2012 12:36 r.Evo wrote: -Mutual friends invite them both to a party because they think those two "would fit together" -Both involved parties are most likely like "Uhh... durr.. this is dumb... but maybe it's kind of cool" -If this is any similar to those situations I'm used to when they happen in my social circle half the evening is built around "AWWW AREN'T YOU TWO CUTE" and similar dumb stuff. There is zero, nada, no information in the OP that lets us suggest that the girl he's going to meet is a male devouring beast which was just waiting for her friends to get introduced to a not-so-good-with-women dude they think is fitting for her. Whatever the case, that situation is not the time and place for "ima just grab between her legs and lead her hand to my dick"-move. It's called social calibration and screening. To be completely honest I have seen much, much worse stuff work on "shy, innocent and honest good girls". Very strong sexual / dominant / egomaniac frames are simply a different kind of ballgame. I completely agree with this type of stuff not being solid advice for the OP and rather hard to pull off even with more experience but, yeah - there are some rather repulsive behaviours out there which still will lead to success with a strong enough frame. Even if we agree on nothing else, we can both agree that no, "Be a confident man and get pussy!" advice is going to work with the OP. I'm aware that all types of men can get all types of women, I'm not disputing that, what I would dispute is that an douchebag alpha male approach is the best approach. | ||
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Mstring
Australia510 Posts
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r.Evo
Germany14081 Posts
On July 10 2012 12:40 Salv wrote: Even if we agree on nothing else, we can both agree that no, "Be a confident man and get pussy!" advice is going to work with the OP. I'm aware that all types of men can get all types of women, I'm not disputing that, what I would dispute is that an douchebag alpha male approach is the best approach. In this case, yeah. You just can't walk up to a guy who never dealt with this stuff before and be like LOL WELL JUST WALK UP TO HER AND WELL JUST BE A MAN AND WELL JUST GO AND HAVE SEX WITH HER. =D The only situation where I'd recommend this type of "Just get yourself horny"-thing to a new guy is when things are going well but out of fear/nervousness you're too scared to escalate physically. When some type of "omg I should be more offensive now but omgomg I can't I'm sweating and I'm scared shitless omg what should I do"-thinking settles in getting horny isn't exactly a bad idea. | ||
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SometimesIworkout
Cambodia75 Posts
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Brett
Australia3822 Posts
On July 10 2012 13:43 SometimesIworkout wrote: dude it's introduction, not an arranged marriage. Don't get worked up on the sex positions you want to try, just be yourself, and if she's into you I would recommend reverse cowgirl, based on your height Bolded for wtf? | ||
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ScruffyJanitor
Australia108 Posts
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Brett
Australia3822 Posts
Well, obviously a 69 wouldn't work (unless someone has a foot fetish). I actually think upside down reverse missionary would work better - where the girl is leaning on her back on the carpet with her legs up on the couch, and the OP can do her from above (opposite the sofa) so she gets a clear view up his ass as he is ramming his dick into her pussy or ass. ROFL. You kids watch too much fucking porn. | ||
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sluggaslamoo
Australia4494 Posts
On July 10 2012 16:00 Brett wrote: Someone sent me a PM in response to my post above and I just had to share it (because it stunned me even more than the post I quoted)... ROFL. You kids watch too much fucking porn. HAHAHAHAHAHAHA Trying so hard to think of a response without getting myself banned | ||
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Arcanefrost
Belgium1257 Posts
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SarR
476 Posts
On July 10 2012 12:22 Salv wrote: if you tried this shit with someone like my fiancee you would have been shut down so fucking fast. Douchebag men get douchebag women. LOL so naive | ||
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SometimesIworkout
Cambodia75 Posts
On July 10 2012 16:00 Brett wrote: Someone sent me a PM in response to my post above and I just had to share it (because it stunned me even more than the post I quoted)... ROFL. You kids watch too much fucking porn. Who pm'ed you with that gem hahaha | ||
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bloopie
United States123 Posts
Truth... mostly because they are so inexperienced. Its much harder to get away with things with an experienced and/or attractive woman. | ||
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SarR
476 Posts
On July 13 2012 17:48 bloopie wrote: Truth... mostly because they are so inexperienced. Its much harder to get away with things with an experienced and/or attractive woman. Ya I was thinking something similiar. The popular term on the web these days is "beta". Only a "beta" man would so eagerly imply his mate to be so virtuous with possesion of a special brand of rare purity of spirit. His lack of experience means a lack of understanding that she is a woman. A living breathing human being with wild passions of her own, the depravity of which can match and even surpass even the most undersexed, blue balled basement dwelling porn addict. Sorry to say but he is a cuckold in the making. I don't mean to be insulting nor am I attacking the character of his fiance but unless he learns to acknowledge the true natures of women(often misunderstood by even women themselves), cuckoldy is what the future holds or even worse, a nasty divorce alongside it. | ||
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Elegance
Canada917 Posts
On July 13 2012 20:29 SarR wrote: Ya I was thinking something similiar. The popular term on the web these days is "beta". Only a "beta" man would so eagerly imply his mate to be so virtuous with possesion of a special brand of rare purity of spirit. His lack of experience means a lack of understanding that she is a woman. A living breathing human being with wild passions of her own, the depravity of which can match and even surpass even the most undersexed, blue balled basement dwelling porn addict. Sorry to say but he is a cuckold in the making. I don't mean to be insulting nor am I attacking the character of his fiance but unless he learns to acknowledge the true natures of women(often misunderstood by even women themselves), cuckoldy is what the future holds or even worse, a nasty divorce alongside it. As "mean" as it is, this is pretty much the truth | ||
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SarR
476 Posts
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