EPTedit: oh my advice would be to just tell her you like her and ask if she wants to hang out. then go grab dinner and see a movie. yay
What does it mean to ask someone out on a date? - Page 2
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Kvz
United States463 Posts
edit: oh my advice would be to just tell her you like her and ask if she wants to hang out. then go grab dinner and see a movie. yay | ||
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Chocolate
United States2350 Posts
Do not chicken out, I have the same problem you have but I am improving. Most important thing is to not be afraid of failyre or rejection. You will never become socially normal if you don't try and make mistakes. | ||
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meguca
United States78 Posts
then i said we could get dinner sometime, and she said alright, i'll talk to you later that was easier than i thought but also not as successful as i'd hoped WELL - back to piano practice for today, hopefully i can get the first 2.5 pages of fantaisie impromptu solidly under my belt with a couple more hours your thoughts, TL? | ||
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Narcind
Sweden2489 Posts
And after reading that last post, you probably should've set an actual time for it, but since you didn't, just make sure you don't wait too long to follow up on it. | ||
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meguca
United States78 Posts
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sam!zdat
United States5559 Posts
On June 11 2012 07:17 meguca wrote: oh my god why am i so bad at talking to girls because you are boy | ||
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meguca
United States78 Posts
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NagAfightinG
United Kingdom270 Posts
On June 11 2012 05:56 s.Q.uelched wrote: Here you go: or perhaps this one: Baller dating tips from the 1950's. | ||
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Disregard
China10252 Posts
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meguca
United States78 Posts
On June 11 2012 08:51 Disregard wrote: Its going to be awkward if you don't do a casual approach, I mean since you knew this person for a period it shouldn't be difficult right? i have 0 social skills irl | ||
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mastergriggy
United States1312 Posts
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rotinegg
United States1719 Posts
social skills are learned through experience. you will crash and burn many times over and say things that will make you cringe even five years later every time you think about it, but that's the only way to learn. get on it, you have a long journey ahead. | ||
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Cowpieguy
United States97 Posts
1. She already seems at least somewhat interested in you. That means you don't have to do anything or be anybody that you aren't already. If you are afraid that you aren't confident or funny or have no social skills or whatever, it doesn't matter. She's already interested in you because of who you are, so you don't have to change anything about yourself. Just relax. In high school I always made the mistake of thinking I wasn't good enough when a girl showed interest in me. But the fact is that if she is interested in you, then you are already good enough. Just being relaxed and not putting pressure on yourself is the most important thing you can do. 2. If the thought of a date freaks you out, just think of it as doing something fun with a friend. Don't over think it. Just try to have fun. If you are having fun, then she will have fun too. 3. Physical contact. Physical contact is the best way to create a romantic relationship. Hugs are good and probably the easiest. Give her a hug when you meet her to hang out or say goodbye after hanging out. Also, small, playful touches are good. A light touch on the arm is good. Eventually, once you both are comfortable with physical contact, it can progress to holding hands and eventually kissing, which I'm assuming you would enjoy. No pressure, gl hf | ||
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felisconcolori
United States6168 Posts
On June 11 2012 06:24 Kvz wrote: more and more it seems like the teamliquid blog section has become the 'help a nerdy high school kid get with girls' section lol edit: oh my advice would be to just tell her you like her and ask if she wants to hang out. then go grab dinner and see a movie. yay Hey, I could always post a blog looking for advice, then it could be 30something divorcees asking for how to get with girls. =p Actual advice - actually, I got nothing. (see above) Call, talk to her, if there is some kind of function or activity related to your common experience (a dance, a party, concert, something along those lines) ask her if she would want to go? I think that's how it works. (Yes, I managed to get engaged twice and married once without ever knowing how to actually go about asking someone out. Beyond that point, I do better.) | ||
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vanskater
United States146 Posts
On June 11 2012 06:21 meguca wrote: what the hell am i supposed to actually say though? i have no idea how to approach this. call her, or go up to her in person. "hey (so and so), i would like to take you out to (dinner, lunch, bowling, some activity) on (such ans such date) at or around (time of activity). would you like to go?" also dont use the term "hang out" hanging out is something friends do and i assume you dont want to be "just friends" with this girl. it is always best to be direct with your intentions when it comes to dating. be sure to report back what she says. | ||
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Raven068
United States90 Posts
The most important thing though is that you have the balls to do it and to back down if she says no. You'll be that much more badass either way. If you're still feeling nervous try asking your parents (especially your dad, if you're a guy). They probably have been down this road already and know you a heck of alot better than we do. They might have good advice. And in any case, good luck! | ||
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ecstatica
United States542 Posts
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ecstatica
United States542 Posts
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YoureFired
United States822 Posts
"Oh by the way, you want to go get coffee/lunch/(anything casual and enjoyable) sometime?" Either she'll say yes or no. If she says yes, just figure out a time and place and good job! If she says no or does some weird way of dodging it, well you tried. But it already sounds like she is at least open to you so just ask her | ||
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States44976 Posts
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