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iamahydralisk
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
United States813 Posts
April 22 2012 20:36 GMT
#1
I'm sorry for posting this here, TL... but I don't know where else to post it. I just got broken up with. Via text. I found out my girlfriend cheated on me multiple times. I'm taken aback right now. Don't even know what to say... I should've listened to everyone who told me "once a cheater, always a cheater."

Ugh... fucking girls man. why are some of them so terrible. I don't want to let this turn me into an asshole, but jesus christ, it's gonna be hard being real with someone new anytime soon.

**
"well if youre looking for long term, go safe, if you expect it to end either way, go risky. wow. just like sc2" - friend of mine when I asked him which girl to pick
14fighter
Profile Blog Joined January 2012
United States226 Posts
April 22 2012 20:39 GMT
#2
Well atleast your not stuck with her anymore .
blabber
Profile Blog Joined June 2007
United States4448 Posts
April 22 2012 20:43 GMT
#3
that's messed up
blabberrrrr
IMHope
Profile Joined February 2011
Korea (South)1241 Posts
April 22 2012 20:55 GMT
#4
You don't want to be with a cheater so you should be happy in a way that you don't have to deal with her anymore. Sorry to hear that tho and gl in the future.
Jessica Jung, Kim Taeyeon, Kwon Yuri <333
iamahydralisk
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
United States813 Posts
April 22 2012 20:56 GMT
#5
at least I still have dreamhack.
"well if youre looking for long term, go safe, if you expect it to end either way, go risky. wow. just like sc2" - friend of mine when I asked him which girl to pick
Apom
Profile Blog Joined August 2011
France656 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-04-22 21:00:06
April 22 2012 20:59 GMT
#6
On April 23 2012 05:36 iamahydralisk wrote:
I should've listened to everyone who told me "once a cheater, always a cheater."
Yes you should have. Now that that's out of the way, is there anything to discuss ?
Shinobi1982
Profile Joined January 2011
1605 Posts
April 22 2012 21:10 GMT
#7
Every school has to be payed, just remember all the homework you did.
Train like an animal, eat like a horse, sleep like a baby, grow like a weed.
Tufas
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
Austria2259 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-04-22 21:15:09
April 22 2012 21:13 GMT
#8
Light a cigaret, get a beer and listen to here comes the sun or whatever does the trick in a music genre closer to your taste.
Works for me.

For extra points, wrap a scarf around your head and dance. Sounds silly, looks silly, helps incredibly much.
Where is my ACE flair
Turo
Profile Blog Joined October 2010
Canada333 Posts
April 22 2012 21:15 GMT
#9
Every girl you lose is a learning experience. One day you will find a girl that has none of the traits you hate, and you will know she's the one.
Jinsho
Profile Joined March 2011
United Kingdom3101 Posts
April 22 2012 21:17 GMT
#10
On April 23 2012 05:36 iamahydralisk wrote:
I should've listened to everyone who told me "once a cheater, always a cheater."



That's a loose guideline. People do change with time. But yes, I'd say that someone who cheats with you, will cheat on you.
DuckS
Profile Joined September 2010
United States845 Posts
April 22 2012 21:24 GMT
#11
2 1/2 years for mine. She left me for someone once after a year and a half, I took her back after it didn't work out between the two of them. Then a year later, she left me for someone again.. literally a day after we broke up, so, basically, it was planned.

I can completely feel for you, and, relate to you. And, I can relate to you well enough, to know that you're not looking for the discretion and condolences of a bunch of people on an internet forum. Or, advice. Because, no matter how logical sounding, no matter how right me or the other responses can be, it doesn't matter. You're still in pain, and still will be in pain. Now, depending on the length of the relation/depth (mine, personally, had a lot of depth) of the relation, is for how long you'll be facing this.

Time is the only answer. Fuck, it's been like 7 months since she broke it off and left me.. i'm still in pain. It's a terrible situation to be in. I mean, I can laugh and have a good time. But in those subtle moments of time when I have nothing to do but reflect, it's what surfaces. All the rights, wrongs, mistakes, and picturing her with him. It sucks.

You can talk to me about it if you want. Feel free to pm me - rant, rage, cry, I don't care.
"You foiled us this time Americans, but your liberty will not protect your Marilyn Monroe forever - our Queen must FEED!" - Deleuze
Knap4life
Profile Blog Joined March 2010
Slovenia333 Posts
April 22 2012 21:34 GMT
#12
Bros before hoes. Trust your friends over girlfriends.
zimp
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
Hungary954 Posts
April 22 2012 22:14 GMT
#13
time to grow up
agentzimp
TL+ Member
deus.machinarum
Profile Joined September 2011
Austria658 Posts
April 22 2012 22:14 GMT
#14
Maaaannn.....I feel your pain,same thing happened to me albeit that was a long, long time ago. Still hurts thinking about it sometimes.
One thing I would really like to recommend to you: Try to get it out of your system ASAP; rage, cry, do whatever you feel like but make sure once you're done it doesn't haunt you anymore. (in case you're wondering: yeah that's what I managed to do wrong back when this happened to me *sadsad*)
Nothing worth having comes easy.
ReketSomething
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
United States6012 Posts
April 22 2012 22:16 GMT
#15
On April 23 2012 05:56 iamahydralisk wrote:
at least I still have dreamhack.


and it was fucking awesome ^^
Jaedong :3
dAPhREAk
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
Nauru12397 Posts
April 22 2012 22:25 GMT
#16
this the same girlfriend you had when you were scoping out other girls?

On April 09 2012 15:20 iamahydralisk wrote:
and don't get her phone number. Had a super cute girl come into my workplace today. She was younger than me and it showed, but I still thought she was cute as fuck. Anyway, I didn't get her number because I got tied up with something else and she left... It was almost like slow-mo when she walked out the door. She looked back, right at me, and smiled, and I smiled back at her. About 3 seconds later, I wanted to run out the door and get her number, but I'd get written up if I ran out of the store without manager permission.

tl;dr, I wanted to hulk smash myself in the face
Incognoto
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
France10239 Posts
April 22 2012 22:32 GMT
#17
I'm sorry about your breaking up, but you should have ended the relationship yourself immediately after having found out that she cheated. That's all..

Don't think everyone is like that though, go see other girls.
maru lover forever
iamahydralisk
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
United States813 Posts
April 22 2012 22:40 GMT
#18
On April 23 2012 07:25 dAPhREAk wrote:
this the same girlfriend you had when you were scoping out other girls?

Show nested quote +
On April 09 2012 15:20 iamahydralisk wrote:
and don't get her phone number. Had a super cute girl come into my workplace today. She was younger than me and it showed, but I still thought she was cute as fuck. Anyway, I didn't get her number because I got tied up with something else and she left... It was almost like slow-mo when she walked out the door. She looked back, right at me, and smiled, and I smiled back at her. About 3 seconds later, I wanted to run out the door and get her number, but I'd get written up if I ran out of the store without manager permission.

tl;dr, I wanted to hulk smash myself in the face

it is, but I don't see why that matters. the reason I didn't get that girl's number is because I valued my relationship far more. obviously my ex doesn't feel the same way, or else she wouldn't have banged two other dudes.
"well if youre looking for long term, go safe, if you expect it to end either way, go risky. wow. just like sc2" - friend of mine when I asked him which girl to pick
dAPhREAk
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
Nauru12397 Posts
April 22 2012 22:43 GMT
#19
On April 23 2012 07:40 iamahydralisk wrote:
Show nested quote +
On April 23 2012 07:25 dAPhREAk wrote:
this the same girlfriend you had when you were scoping out other girls?

On April 09 2012 15:20 iamahydralisk wrote:
and don't get her phone number. Had a super cute girl come into my workplace today. She was younger than me and it showed, but I still thought she was cute as fuck. Anyway, I didn't get her number because I got tied up with something else and she left... It was almost like slow-mo when she walked out the door. She looked back, right at me, and smiled, and I smiled back at her. About 3 seconds later, I wanted to run out the door and get her number, but I'd get written up if I ran out of the store without manager permission.

tl;dr, I wanted to hulk smash myself in the face

it is, but I don't see why that matters. the reason I didn't get that girl's number is because I valued my relationship far more. obviously my ex doesn't feel the same way, or else she wouldn't have banged two other dudes.

thats not what you said in your blog:

I wanted to run out the door and get her number, but I'd get written up if I ran out of the store without manager permission.
iamahydralisk
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
United States813 Posts
April 22 2012 22:44 GMT
#20
On April 23 2012 07:43 dAPhREAk wrote:
Show nested quote +
On April 23 2012 07:40 iamahydralisk wrote:
On April 23 2012 07:25 dAPhREAk wrote:
this the same girlfriend you had when you were scoping out other girls?

On April 09 2012 15:20 iamahydralisk wrote:
and don't get her phone number. Had a super cute girl come into my workplace today. She was younger than me and it showed, but I still thought she was cute as fuck. Anyway, I didn't get her number because I got tied up with something else and she left... It was almost like slow-mo when she walked out the door. She looked back, right at me, and smiled, and I smiled back at her. About 3 seconds later, I wanted to run out the door and get her number, but I'd get written up if I ran out of the store without manager permission.

tl;dr, I wanted to hulk smash myself in the face

it is, but I don't see why that matters. the reason I didn't get that girl's number is because I valued my relationship far more. obviously my ex doesn't feel the same way, or else she wouldn't have banged two other dudes.

thats not what you said in your blog:

Show nested quote +
I wanted to run out the door and get her number, but I'd get written up if I ran out of the store without manager permission.

of course I wanted the girl's number, but the reason I didn't get it is because I cared more about what I already had. like I said.
"well if youre looking for long term, go safe, if you expect it to end either way, go risky. wow. just like sc2" - friend of mine when I asked him which girl to pick
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