EPT[Girl blog] I like a girl who's taken! - Page 2
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Chill
Calgary26003 Posts
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sapht
Sweden141 Posts
But if you've never even had a partner, I suppose you don't even know what you're looking for. You could maybe use the practice and learn from your failures. You don't have many years left to learn. Just hope she doesn't know either. | ||
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Shika
Sweden1711 Posts
On March 21 2012 10:33 Chill wrote: hahaha this blog is awesome I agree, it's funny. I have enough self awareness that I can see why the way i'm presenting myself and my relationship issues is funny, I also understand why people feel the way they do towards me. I laugh with the rest of you over the comments about comparing myself to the girls BF like we're pokemons and my seemingly world diconnected view on certain matters. I would laugh at this blog if it was written by someone else and I do laugh even though it's written by me I would laugh at a guy writing the following lines and question if people like that exists in the real world: I consider myself very intelligent and aware in a lot of fields. I was very good at sports as a boy, popular among the other kids (I still have a good amount of friends that can stand me) and i'm a good listener. I have a sick memory and i'm really good at math. I'm thinking about writing a novel and i'm confident people would read and appriciate it if I went through with it. Like I said, i'm confident and there's nothing wrong with that. I'm also confident that I know where my weak points are. I'm a complete novice at relationships and i'm eager to learn. I take in what you people say, I really do. There you go! | ||
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mordk
Chile8385 Posts
On March 21 2012 10:11 Shika wrote: After some thought, I actually think i realised something. Waiting it out is actually the best, if not the only option. I'm in the friend zone, that's a fact. I will continue being her friend and if she is actually interested, she'll come to me. If she doesn't, she is not interesting to me anymore since apparantly she's not on my wave lenght. But while typing this, I came to another realization.. And this is probably more fodder to the you're-a-self-absorbed-deluded-douche parade. She might think that i'm out of her league. She could be afraid to risk our friendship by approaching me in that way. She could harbor feelings for ME but be afraid to take that step, just the same as I am. Rinny: Why, like the girl version of me of course! Was that your theory?  Or maybe my mother? No, she's an ordinary looking girl, not over the top beautiful- or ugly. Looks is not the main factor i'm after in a girl, believe it or not.You're actually pretty delusional, but that's beside the point. The important things here are: You're in the friendzone, just be her friend dude, being a girl's friend is a nice thing, and you can find someone else. And the second important thing is that she's in a relationship. You wouldn't want some cocky douchebag taking your girl, that's against the bro-code. In all seriousness, it's got "trouble" painted all over it, wait it out, and if you still want her, you can do it the traditional, nicer way. | ||
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Shika
Sweden1711 Posts
On March 21 2012 10:41 sapht wrote: Relationships are not trophies. You do not wager the "betterness" of a partner oher another based on the criteria you present. Her boyfriend is not a trophy, you are not a trophy, she is not a trophy. All of your descriptions are vain and shallow. Granted, many relationships are vain and shallow. Maybe you'll hook up, but I have a hard time seeing anything else than a couple devoid of love. But if you've never even had a partner, I suppose you don't even know what you're looking for. You could maybe use the practice and learn from your failures. You don't have many years left to learn. Just hope she doesn't know either. What you say about relationships is true, but you have completely misunderstood me. I don't view them as trophy's, if I did I wouldn't have been so reluctant to get into a relationship until now, would I? What i'm looking for is a girl to share my life with, someone to laugh and cry with. Someone I can talk about anything with and ultimately raise a family with. Someone to love. My english is not good enough to describe it further. I'm not certain this girl is it, but I feel like she could be and i'd like to know if that's the case. Maybe i'll never find a girl I really love or who one who loves me. That's a possibility too. Edit: I need to sleep now, thank you guys and gals for the help. I'll slow down and appriciate this girl as the great friend she is. It doesn't have to go further than that, if it doesn't it probably wasn't meant to be, and if it does, well then it does. And yeah, I probably am immature, I have a lot to learn still. | ||
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rezoacken
Canada2719 Posts
But let's move on, I'm in a good mood and I'll give you some advices that you should follow seriously: Basically i'm interested in (maybe love?) this girl I work with, only problem is, she's got a boyfriend! They are not married or engaged and have only been together for 6 months. I have known this girl for 4 months. It's unrealistic to speak about love before really being in a relationship, forget about Disney romance. You should wait for a relationship with someone to say you love her otherwise it's like saying you love Caviar because it looks yummy but never tasted it. Also, my guts tells me it's just you never having a relationship that is speaking here, craving for one. We don't only work together, we're also friends and hang out after work from time to time, watching movies, taking walks and doing friend stuff in general. Yep, friend zone. You are categorized as a friend, suddenly asking to be her lover is wrong wrong wrong. Guess what ? How do you not become a friend but a lover ? By acting as such. On top of that she has a boyfriend ? Please dude just move on and find a nice single girl. If you were Casanova I would gladly believe you could somewhat turn the situation over but now ? You gave yourself a good advice: Waiting it out is actually the best, if not the only option. I'm in the friend zone, that's a fact. I will continue being her friend and if she is actually interested, she'll come to me. If she doesn't, she is not interesting to me anymore since apparantly she's not on my wave lenght. And I can gamble 10$ right here that nothing will happen. Just move on to another girl, please... for your sake. Really this is my best advice ever: move on and find a nice single girl. As a general principle, don't hit on colleagues nor engaged girls. At best, just plant seeds with them and let it come eventually. Now some of you may think i'm full of shit, or that i'm overestimating myself grossly, but please imagine that the following is true.. I'm a good looking guy, i'm very intelligent, funny, a romantic and my "member" is atleast of avarage size and pretty good looking too, as far as members go.. I beat her current boyfriend in all of those areas, even though I cant be sure about his fellahs size, I know his shoe size is 39 (euro size), and he is a small dude in general. In my experience that tells something. I have more money aswell and lead a more interesting life (imo). And still he's dating while you don't. Please don't compare yourself to girls' boyfriends and then secretly tell us on TL, that's 100% pathetic. Go out, meet girls that are single. Or subscribe to a dating website. What you are doing here is saying: Oh I'm taller, smarter, bigger cock therefore I should be better in Basketball but I never tried it. This is so stupid I can't even... Dating and meeting women is a skill. It is not a right given by materialistic features and characteristics. | ||
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MayorITC
Korea (South)798 Posts
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babylon
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Candadar
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AnachronisticAnarchy
United States2957 Posts
Number two, you should not try to steal her. Wait for her to break up. Don't come swooping down like the prince charming you think you are and whisk her away from her crappy relationship. Number three, you come off as kind of an asshole by asking for help stealing a girl. | ||
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Jugan
United States1566 Posts
On March 21 2012 09:33 RedJustice wrote: Loooooooool. The first thing that struck me was the importance you placed on describing the qualities of your dick along with your other characteristics. The size of your dick IS NOT IMPORTANT. It does not make you a good lover by any means. In addition, your bashing of her current boyfriend and your cockiness was such a turn off. You sound like an self-absorbed boy. If she has a boyfriend she is interested in him and not you. This is not ALWAYS true, but it is better to assume it than make an ass of yourself. Just keep treating her as a friend and keep it that way until they break up. + Show Spoiler + I am a woman, if it matters to how you consider my opinion. ^This person is very insightful. Also not to sound like a dick, but don't let her see this blog, EVER. Because you come off sounding like an immature kid. Also you should probably ask yourself if the only reason why you get along with her so well is because you wanna get into her pants. If your answer is "yes", then you should probably move on. | ||
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run.at.me
Australia550 Posts
Start droppin jokes lad ,' my piston needs a good oilin' (look up piston if u don't know what it is' She sounds more than qualified for the job. Show some interest in her, be open about ur attraction to her small petite body that you want to ravage, if ur friends for too long your dusty dick will stay as it is | ||
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Scarecrow
Korea (South)9175 Posts
On March 21 2012 11:02 Shika wrote: i'm a good listener. I have a sick memory and i'm really good at math. I'm thinking about writing a novel and i'm confident people would read and appriciate it if I went through with it. Such a boss! Your penis size is completely irrelevant and I've never heard a guy say they thought their penis was comparatively good looking (I wouldn't know, the only penises I see are in porn and that's hardly the standard). You portray yourself as all but flawless outside of relationships and with good self-awareness (I call bullshit here). I'm surprised any of your friends can still stand you. On March 21 2012 09:23 Shika wrote: I beat her current boyfriend in all of those areas, even though I cant be sure about his fellahs size, I know his shoe size is 39 (euro size), and he is a small dude in general. In my experience that tells something. I have more money aswell and lead a more interesting life (imo). I'd be willing to put money on him being better relationship material and a nicer guy. You're just the cocky boy toy this girl likes to imagine a fling with. | ||
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Zidane
United States1692 Posts
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muffinsssss
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jrkirby
United States1510 Posts
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Jibba
United States22883 Posts
I have a sick memory and i'm really good at math. I'm thinking about writing a novel and i'm confident people would read and appriciate it if I went through with it. Oh, you didn't mention you were good at math in the OP. In that case, go for it. | ||
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guN-viCe
United States687 Posts
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Alejandrisha
United States6565 Posts
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Wortie
Netherlands212 Posts
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