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So this girl i kinda crazy about , not your typical woman.
She likes Anime,Gaming,fantasy certified nerd lady!
Was kinda refreshing talking about issues i actually interested in with a woman .
We met at the forbidden realms of WoW , moved to long late night calls, and some good dates (though if i would be frank mostly day timed) .
Its amazing how your mind refuse to recognize something when your heart don't want to believe it.
So last week, she cant find time to meet , there is lots of work studies raiding.
Then she offer Saturday morning after work , I cancel my planes and we meet at my place . watch silly TV shows cuddled together on the couch .
*enter thunder and lightning and dramatic music here*
And then she move to my computer and start playing DA2 ,
8 hours later i drive her home and get friendly kiss on my lips (after two more of those during her stay at my place)
It's not that she totally ignores me but even thick skull me can understand the romantic interest
is not there .
Sunday morning she sms asking me If i am okay , and we talk about the usual stuff.
Am i okay ?
No not really , I totally hate being the nice guy and being the non romantic friend.
I don't hate her , and i still think she is a cool person to be around with .
But i just don't want to ... I really don't want to hang up with someone who see me as a friend
while i have more then that toward her .
I can handle talking and chatting but hanging out I think is just painful , even after i accept the truth.
Guess i would loose a friend , I still don't want to admit it i would hate it , but thats life for you.
Okay time to put some time and make it to platinum league .
Rest i will handle after.
Thanks for reading,
Haflo
 
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The problem here is : not enough SC.
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Say something! If you want to be more, you gotta roll the dice and go for it.
also, agree with DwmC. More Starcraft is needed.
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On August 04 2011 18:43 krndandaman wrote:
She realized you weren't playing enough starcraft. A woman wants a man who has his priorities sorted out. Starcraft > Woman, not Woman > Starcraft
hehe
Bros before drones?
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Last I checked "just frends" don't kiss.
Be straightforward.
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On August 04 2011 18:52 Hassybaby wrote:Show nested quote +On August 04 2011 18:43 krndandaman wrote:
She realized you weren't playing enough starcraft. A woman wants a man who has his priorities sorted out. Starcraft > Woman, not Woman > Starcraft
hehe Bros before drones?
Bros before Pros before Hoes
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On August 04 2011 19:07 Roe wrote:Show nested quote +On August 04 2011 18:52 Hassybaby wrote:On August 04 2011 18:43 krndandaman wrote:
She realized you weren't playing enough starcraft. A woman wants a man who has his priorities sorted out. Starcraft > Woman, not Woman > Starcraft
hehe Bros before drones? Bros before Pros before Hoes
I want that on a shirt
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she kissed you on the lips, you had her alone at your place. I don't know where you're from, but here in America girls don't kiss people on the lips that they don't like. It is your duty as a man to escalate things, never hers.
in my opinion, if you haven't made a move yet, she probably thinks you're gay.
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she probably thinks you're a thick skull...
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I love the memes that are starting in this thread. 
But your two mistakes, from what you listed, were this:
1) don't cancel your own plans, she has to meet your schedule not the other way around.
2) she was subconsciously testing you, and you failed badly, by letting her play on your computer for 8 hours while you sat there like a chump.
Main thing is: don't let a girl control your schedule, especially if she's been cancelling/late all the time. And don't let her walk all over you. If she's there to *see* you, sitting at your computer is not *seeing* you.
And, more SC2.
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On August 04 2011 18:22 DwmC_Foefen wrote:
The problem here is : not enough SC.
On August 04 2011 18:43 krndandaman wrote:
She realized you weren't playing enough starcraft. A woman wants a man who has his priorities sorted out. Starcraft > Woman, not Woman > Starcraft
hehe
On August 04 2011 18:54 VonLego wrote:
Last I checked "just frends" don't kiss.
Be straightforward.
On August 04 2011 19:07 Roe wrote:
Bros before Pros before Hoes
On August 04 2011 19:31 nitdkim wrote:
she probably thinks you're a thick skull...
Is it just me or are the TL comments to girl blogs getting better and better?
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She kissed you on the lips, I think you're in mate.
Tell her how you feel, better to take the chance than to sit there not in platinum league.
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On August 04 2011 18:16 haflo wrote:
Okay time to put some time and make it to platinum league .
This is the problem. Platinum guys never know when they can push and make decent damage.
You need coaching. I suggest rainbow.
Just go for it, dude... She's not kissing you because you are a nice guy.
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Tell her your boxer's brother
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I don't know anyone who kisses friendly on the lips except for maybe very close family (father/mother > daughter/son). From what I can read she is definitely interested in you. Show some interest back and things should be ok!
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She's interested in you, so talk to her normally and keep doing your thing.
By no means try to over-compensate and become clingy now.
Now my question is:
Even if she likes you--why are you interested in a girl that can spend 8 hours straight playing a (is it computer?) game when she's at someone else's place?
Unless you were sitting next to her the entire time talking to her, this just seems that she's short of being a ludopath (in my humble opinion).
I'd say you can do better, but alas it's your call. You shouldn't have any issues dating her or whatever it is you want from that uhhh relationship of yours.
Edit:
I like: "probes/drones before hoes".
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she require additional pylons! I'm sure you will be ok!
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Ugh 8 hours together in the privacy and comfort of your place and you still haven't popped open your box of raincoats. Ok something is seriously wrong here. How is there no romantic interest? I find it hard to comprehend. Invite her over again, load up some romantic movies on your rig and just let your hormones guide you.
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