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AngryFarmer
United States560 Posts
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te3l
Canada126 Posts
It's over. Accept the fact. It may take awhile but one day you'll accept it and move on. | ||
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POiNTx
Belgium309 Posts
What I am going to do is to just wait until the feelings are gone. Don't talk to her or do things that might make me think of her. I realized I fucked up really badly. After that I will just see what I do from that point on. Maybe get in contact with her again to try to start a friendly relationship, I will see I don't know yet. Also as some of you were wondering, she told me that she wanted to see me again, and she doesn't mind that I have feelings for her. She wants to have a relationship with me like it was 2 years ago. But for me it is really hard to have a normal friendly relationship with her because I keep thinking to myself she knows I like her. It's just too awkward in my eyes. Hanging out with this girl while I know she doesn't want me and while she knows I want her... It is just to absurd. On June 30 2011 09:48 OmniEulogy wrote: I have one question though... why did you tell her not to sleep? o.O Just a drunk moment? Yeah I was thinking she was already home and fell asleep because she didn't respond my text. Kind of dumb to think that way but I was drunk. After this she told me she just didn't know what to say. At first she even thought someone took my cellphone as a joke. | ||
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Rosvall
Sweden122 Posts
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POiNTx
Belgium309 Posts
On June 30 2011 19:45 Rosvall wrote: Are you that guy I saw in the TL channel in HoN talking about a blog about a girst? C: No, I don't play HoN. | ||
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dakalro
Romania525 Posts
On June 30 2011 08:18 Kamais_Ookin wrote: "I ordered a third beer to drink for some courage, finished it, and went to her. I kissed her on the cheek and we started talking." That made me lol, does anyone else do that? Unless she starts a conversation I need to be at least 3 beers in to be able to talk. 2 just make me sleepy. | ||
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drooL
United Kingdom2108 Posts
but try to stop being in love, as stupid as that sounds. if you're friends while one of you has a crush on the other, it's just bad for the loving one. (as in: you get friendzoned. you don't want that.) if you think you have to continue trying to get together with her then go for it, but only if you think you can succeed, which i think you don't (from reading your op). that would mean you should probably just let go and forget her. good luck! | ||
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sTsCompleted
United States380 Posts
On June 30 2011 08:09 ch33psh33p wrote: She made her feelings pretty clear to you. You've made an important friend, don't lose that trying to get more than whats there. Nothing will come of it, you just need to treasure the friendship and move on. Yeah, i made the same fucking mistake this year and it was horrible. My advice is just to leave it. I know it's hard but in about a year (god, had it already been this long?) you won't look back | ||
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TheGiz
Canada708 Posts
Means nothing, moving right along... Also I have a friend whom I had a crush on throughout high school. In Grade 10 I told her I liked her but she politely denied me and I simply moved on, accepting the rejection. Now many years later we're still very good friend and we hang out a lot. She's dating my cousin and they're mostly very happy. Sure, I'd bang the crap out of her given the chance, and we could probably manage a relationship if my cousin didn't exist, but guess what? I don't lose sleep over it. I like her like a sister, and could love her so much too, but it doesn't matter to me because we're friends and she treats me well and I'm happy with just that. | ||
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Servius_Fulvius
United States947 Posts
On June 30 2011 19:31 POiNTx wrote: Also as some of you were wondering, she told me that she wanted to see me again, and she doesn't mind that I have feelings for her. She wants to have a relationship with me like it was 2 years ago. But for me it is really hard to have a normal friendly relationship with her because I keep thinking to myself she knows I like her. It's just too awkward in my eyes. Hanging out with this girl while I know she doesn't want me and while she knows I want her... It is just to absurd. I don't like it when this happens. "Sorry, I don't have feelings for you. But we can still be besties, right?" And yes, some people are able to get over their feelings and be good friends. I'm not one of those people and I personally don't know any. From what you're saying, you don't think you can be "just friends" right now. That's fine. Give yourself the time you need. | ||
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POiNTx
Belgium309 Posts
This blog really helped me. You guys are just to awesome. :D :D <3 TL | ||
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drooL
United Kingdom2108 Posts
On July 01 2011 02:48 POiNTx wrote: Going to wait a week before I answer. Just going to try to forget her. If interesting things happen, i'll update the blog. This blog really helped me. You guys are just to awesome. :D :D <3 TL TL loves you too. | ||
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Dance.
United States389 Posts
I give you props though, I wouldnt have the courage to confess my love through a text measage... | ||
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POiNTx
Belgium309 Posts
On July 01 2011 03:19 Dance. wrote: Haha what do you need help with? Sounds like you destroyed any chance with her by becoming a wierd creeper in her eyes. I give you props though, I wouldnt have the courage to confess my love through a text measage... Lol what? I needed advice what to do next. She said she wanted to see me again, and I wondered if it would be a good idea. I came to the conclusion it probably isn't the best idea. She understood why I hid my love for her. She knows my personality and isn't as shallow to just put a mark on other peoples head. I was drunk. Otherwise I wouldn't have done it. :p | ||
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Zlasher
United States9129 Posts
Keep seeing her, keep talking to her, invite her to more concerts and stuff. Be best friends with her, and it'll be the best decision you ever made. Choose to ignore her and not see her again and you will live your life with regret. | ||
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sky_slasher
United States328 Posts
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Clbull
United Kingdom1439 Posts
On June 30 2011 08:02 POiNTx wrote: I was drunk. I had never been so drunk in my life before. At the time I was thinking to myself, this is great. I don’t feel shy. I can talk to everyone. So I decided in my head that it was time to tell her that I loved her. The feelings were back stronger than ever. At that time I was sitting down looking around searching for her. I think I sat there for about half an hour looking for her from my seat. I was too dizzy to stand up. I couldn’t find Ann so I decided to sent her a text message. It said: “I am sitting in the corner. I am way to drunk. Can you come?” or something like that. My cellphone didn’t save the message. She responded: “I am in a place to eat with my friends. I had to go with them because they will bring me home.” I sent back: “Don’t worry  . I love you  ”. I wrote a because I knew she didn’t love me.She didn’t sent a message back so I sent “Sorry” to her. She didn’t respond at that either. I sent another one: ”please don’t sleep” I think. Why oh why oh why oh why oh why did you tell her you loved her? It's not like you were in a relationship with her either. Because what you were feeling for her was probably not love, or at least too early to actually be considered love. Saying "I love you" is a pretty bloody big deal, it's the kind of thing you say to your significant other when you are sure you mean it and that the feeling is actually love and not just strong attraction. On June 30 2011 08:02 POiNTx wrote: I went home and slept for 9 hours. I woke up expecting a text message from her, but there was none. So I went on Facebook the whole day hoping she would come online. Ann’s friend was online so I told her I wanted to speak with Ann. She told me she would come online for sure so I waited. About 3 hours ago she went online. I explained Ann everything. She understood because she is amazing. I told her that it really hurt that I couldn’t be with her. She said she really liked me, but didn’t have feelings for me. The conversation lasted 90 minutes. I said her I didn’t want to see her again because it would be very awkward. Also it really hurts knowing she doesn’t love you while you love her with all your heart. She made her feelings clear. Just back away from it. If you wish to still remain friends with her, then feel free to still see her as a friend. If you're still feeling too hurt, then tell her you need some time to get over it. | ||
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arb
Noobville17922 Posts
On June 30 2011 08:10 Kralic wrote: You are most likely done with her. I know she talked to you after, but that is how it goes and then they slowly drift away or just ignore you later on. Just try not to think about her, you are doing the right thing thinking it would be awkward to meet, it seriously is when that path has been chosen. Yes I did have something like this happen, I just left her to herself and she eventually texted me seeing if we can still be friends and tried to work it out. She eventually said it was hard for her to do and I have never spoken to her again since. The hurt does go away after a few months, or just go out and see who else is out there. If you meet more girls you can push the other one out of your thoughts pretty easily. Thinking you love them is something every guy does and it is usually just a false sense in your heart and mind that causes you to make odd decisions. You first mistake was sending 3 things each one being some OMG I NEED YOU SO MUCH I LOVE YOU HNNNG Don't do that. Ever. Also stop talking to her since she seems manipulative, thats not good for you man. | ||
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FFGenerations
7088 Posts
do you make her feel sexy and turned on? or do you make her feel like ur a sappy little dumbdumb who got drunk and sent her a lovely duvey text because you suddenly have this heartache that she in no way shares or relates to do you make her feel horny? if the answer to this question is NO then you need to find out how to make her feel horny if you wanna be in a relationship with her. how to make her horny? read that guys long 16-step post or you could write her a letter lolo | ||
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Jonoman92
United States9107 Posts
Hopefully you learn from this experience though, generally I think telling a girl you love her out of no where is not gonna work too well. | ||
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