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Obviously, I'm going for the gangster look because I want to distance myself as much as possible from the scrawny, nerdy Asian stereotype (the kind that doesn't get girls).
As soon as I stepped in my school, I noticed a huge difference. Girls were actually looking at me (this never happened before), and some of them even smiled. I don't consider myself good looking in the face but for some reason, I just can't help liking hot girls. Therefore, I usually do a lot of the checking out while the opposite never happens, except with black/fat girls. By the way, not being racist here. I'd totally go crazy with a black girl if she were attractive enough, it's just that my parents would kill me if I ever brought one home.
I've never had a problem with approaching so I used that to my advantage and approached a chick that smiled at me (she had turned me down in the past). She's probably the worst kind of girl, the kind that thinks she's pretty but is actually not.
Pic for reference: ![[image loading]](http://i51.tinypic.com/30jrayc.jpg)
Conversation went great, everything went smoothly, lots of laughing, etc, but when I said, "You seem pretty cool, make sure I get your number before I go", she froze up, giving the same type of bullshit excuses I'm used to hearing (I'm not looking for a relationship right now). I'm usually not good at coming up with funny stuff on the spot, but this just came to me: "I think you should lower your expectations, and if you don't wanna do that, then lower your body weight." LOL.
I usually get really down on myself and my self confidence goes out the window after I get a rejection so I'd have to wait a while before I approach again. But shaving the Mustache and seeing all the attention I got gave me the biggest confidence boost ever, so I just shook the rejection off like it was nothing and approached again.
Success! Same line, "Make sure I get your number before I go." But I actually got it. And with a much cuter chick too.
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I know it probably means nothing to you guys since most of you can at least get a number, but you have to understand how meaningful this is for me. I've never gotten a number without using groupwork or homework as a crutch. This was pure, unadulterated interest. I could feel it. If I manage to get a date, then this'll be my first real date (My mom set me up with an ugly girl once 0_0)
Who would have thought that shaving my mustache would do so much for me? The best part is that I didn't even have to use my newly found rubik's cube skills. I just had to have confidence without the mustache.
 
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I.
Love.
These.
Blogs.
Seriously. 5/5 keep em coming.
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Girls dig the metro-sexual Asian much moreso than the nerd Asian. IMO, buy some nice fitting jeans, solid color undershirt with a button up over shirt, rock the black felt-like peacoat, watch out world, this guys coming through.
I'm all about the hipster look
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I took you seriously for a moment. Then I saw your username. Then I googled your username.
Then I clicked on the link.
Don't fight your inner nerd.
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good job bro ... we nerds at TL.net are proud :>
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Is the :> a dude with an oversized nose or a dude with a very sharp grin?
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On January 16 2011 17:31 Gummy wrote:
Is the :> a dude with an oversized nose or a dude with a very sharp grin?
The latter.
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I really loved how you said you didn't even have to use your newly found rubik's cube skills. That's a much more interesting blog topic. Teach us how to speed cube, bro! 5/5 in advance.
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Based on observation, looks don't matter when you hit your 20s. I find this the case especially at clubs.
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Self-confidence is everything.
If a slight change in your appearance is all you need to help boost your confidence, even better for you! How you feel inside reflects how you appear to others on the outside.
Some reading for you if you're interested, check out Carlos Xuma's "Secret of the Alpha Male" to get you into the mindset of being confident in yourself and being able to project that look to others.
Soon enough you'll be hanging out with 9s like there's no tomorrow.
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Damn. Keep it up. Your blog is hella interesting. Homie.
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My roommate was growing out his stache for laughs, he's a good looking guy that can pull it off. He was talking to a girl who at a party literally said "i probably would have got with you if you didnt have that mustache". So he went upstairs and shaved with some random dude's razor. She was impressed but more so creeped out that he shaved so fast. Moral of the story, stay away form the mustache unless you can really rock it.
Congrats and gl hf with that # :D
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HEY YOU'RE THE GUY who posted a blog a week or so ago and everyone told you to shave your stache. gl gl!
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5/5, it was definitely the moustaches fault, good riddance
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LOL, what did we tell you? That mustache had some bad voodoo. I think out of all the conflicting advice, that was the only thing people agreed on. Good on you!
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Gogogo! Good stuff man! gl!
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now all you have to do is stop wearing that retarded hat and get a nice watch
gj!
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Gangsta is actually the OTHER AZN look; so yeah, I agree with Rekrul and lose the hat.
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This update thread title made me lawl irl.
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but for some reason, I just can't help liking hot girls.
Haha that's normal.
I'm a pretty nerdy Asian, but I got a girlfriend after becoming more outgoing, working out more, and dressing more nicely. So yeah, I became less nerdy.
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