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Katowice25012 Posts
hi Arrian. Hows life, aside from the girl thing?
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Don't be upset by this, you only did what you wanted to do and what you felt was right at the time. Who says you two can't stay in contact and really develop something?
On a not so serious note, your story needs its own movie, I'd watch it.
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Canada5565 Posts
Can you go back for another 88 days or more in the future?
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United States889 Posts
On December 18 2010 04:49 heyoka wrote:
hi Arrian. Hows life, aside from the girl thing?
Pretty swell, as a matter of fact. Yourself?
On December 18 2010 04:51 Xxio wrote:
Can you go back for another 88 days or more in the future?
Not for a significant period of time. I was only studying abroad for a semester, so the time dried up accordingly, and the money to come back isn't there and won't be in the foreseeable future.
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so what is it you're about to do? "miss" the flight? or did you mean just posting this story?
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Call her a bitch and say you were using her for your own satisfaction -> she starts hating you -> doesn't matter if you like her or not.
Problem solved.
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webchat with her or something
also everybody bitches
also you're my favorite writer on TL, pretty sure you're not an idiot
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keep in touch with her and work your way up from there brother.
at least you realize you have been a hypocrite. move on from there, and best of lucks; cheers from me.
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Don't worry, I forgive you.
You can always keep in contact with her and see if you can ever return if you like her that much, or if she will ever come visit you. It's expensive to go to the UK, but isn't it relatively cheaper the other way around?
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It sucks that you have to leave so soon, but wouldnt it have been even worse if you didnt tell her, and with that would have missed out on those 4 hours of heaven?
Never regret. You went for it, and got to experience something nice you wouldnt have experienced if you didnt tell her. In my opinion at least.
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Hey Arrian. It takes enormous amounts of awareness and self-control to keep these things that are at the core of human nature from dictating your decisions. Evolution 1, individual 0. :/On December 18 2010 04:49 MeShiet wrote:
Don't be upset by this, you only did what you wanted to do and what you felt was right at the time. Who says you two can't stay in contact and really develop something?
On a not so serious note, your story needs its own movie, I'd watch it.
He did natures bidding, not his own.On December 18 2010 04:54 Comeh wrote:
Call her a bitch and say you were using her for your own satisfaction -> she starts hating you -> doesn't matter if you like her or not.
Problem solved. That's more like it and she probably (unknowingly) did the same thing with him, but might hurt her feelings. Hard to decide whether it's better to let other people live the lie or not.
Animals with high levels of abstract thought have it hard, do they not? :/
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On December 18 2010 04:49 MrShank wrote:
you shoulda banged her
^--- this, this is why you're an idiot. Bang her if she likes you. Be realistic, this isn't the girl you're gonna marry but you like eachother so both enjoy it while it lasts. Girls like no-string sex too.
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On December 18 2010 05:07 MiniRoman wrote:^--- this, this is why you're an idiot. Bang her if she likes you. Be realistic, this isn't the girl you're gonna marry but you like eachother so both enjoy it while it lasts. Girls like no-string sex too.
If she actually has feeling for him though, she'd end up all upset and she...
wait.
Nevermind.
Free sex? Sounds good.
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I am not sure what the right reply would be since I have no knowledge about your live situation and origin but it always is a good way to go with you guts feeling. If you want you can make it work, if you let it go you will eventually be over her. You could have found The ONE or just someone who enlightend you life on your way through it.
I know very sentimental stuff but my opinion.
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Ask her if she wants to take a ride on your red double decker bang bus.
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I like your thread title, sound like you're trolling yourself, lol.
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Canada9720 Posts
tis better to have fondled and lost than never fondled at all and all that. glad to see you back 
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You have to let her go man! I've been in your spot (actually, am now but in reverse... she's the one leaving) and all you can do is just appreciate the time you had together and let it be a good memory instead of a constant "what if?" in your life. It's going to be hard, especially if you really really like her but you're going to have to start working on damage control now!
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If you insist on that emotion thing, "Never regret what made you happy" might be a helpful philosophy.
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On December 18 2010 05:26 CTStalker wrote:tis better to have fondled and lost than never fondled at all and all that. glad to see you back
i empathize with your plight, arrian.
if you don't have sex with this girl, you will regret it. don't spend the rest of your time wallowing in self pity. make it a good day. remember her well and have her remember you well. it sounds like nothing will come of it in the long term - make the most you can from the short term.
reading this back, this may come off as trashy or immature. nonetheless, i stand by what i said. make your remaining time good.
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Statistically, chances are it wouldn't have worked. CHEER UP :D
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I'm not following the logic here... hours of petting, loads of sexual tension and a day and a half window to have the no strings attached, do all the nasty shit in porn that you never thought you'd be able to do, sex that every single male dreams of???
go watch any generic 90s high school movie for what you should do next broski
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Enjoy the time that you still have together but be honest with her. Don't make her have hope that things will be like the movies "and they lived happilly ever after "bs. After those 37 hours each of you will part ways but at least you'll have a good memory of each other.
Life goes on.
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You never know what's going to happen tomorrow so get the most out of today that you can!
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Katowice25012 Posts
On December 18 2010 04:52 Arrian wrote:Show nested quote +On December 18 2010 04:49 heyoka wrote:
hi Arrian. Hows life, aside from the girl thing? Pretty swell, as a matter of fact. Yourself?
Good! I just broke up with my last girlfriend about a week ago actually.
Time for you to write more imo!
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thinly veiled brag blog imo
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That's sad to hear. Pretty bad timing to just finally do something about it.
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