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Arrian
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
United States889 Posts
December 17 2010 19:45 GMT
#1
I'm a hypocrite because I used to bitch, admittedly half heartedly, at people doing more or less what I'm about to do

I'm an idiot because I've been studying abroad in the UK for the last 88 days and I've seriously had the best time of my life, but I made a huge mistake this morning. I started liking this girl but I wasn't going to do anything about it because I was leaving, and it turns out that she feels similarly to me, and I was an idiot because I told her how I felt this morning and we made out and cuddled for 4 hours.

Why does that make me an idiot?

My flight leaves in 37 hours.

fml

hi TL. it's been a while.

*****
Writersator arepo tenet opera rotas
Heyoka
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
Katowice25012 Posts
December 17 2010 19:49 GMT
#2
hi Arrian. Hows life, aside from the girl thing?
@RealHeyoka | ESL / DreamHack StarCraft Lead
MrShank
Profile Joined May 2010
Canada144 Posts
December 17 2010 19:49 GMT
#3
you shoulda banged her
Relax - its just a game
MeShiet
Profile Joined June 2010
Canada290 Posts
December 17 2010 19:49 GMT
#4
Don't be upset by this, you only did what you wanted to do and what you felt was right at the time. Who says you two can't stay in contact and really develop something?

On a not so serious note, your story needs its own movie, I'd watch it.

If you die this way, you won't live to tell anyone how you died
Xxio
Profile Blog Joined July 2009
Canada5565 Posts
December 17 2010 19:51 GMT
#5
Can you go back for another 88 days or more in the future?
KTY
Arrian
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
United States889 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-12-17 19:53:55
December 17 2010 19:52 GMT
#6
On December 18 2010 04:49 heyoka wrote:
hi Arrian. Hows life, aside from the girl thing?


Pretty swell, as a matter of fact. Yourself?

On December 18 2010 04:51 Xxio wrote:
Can you go back for another 88 days or more in the future?


Not for a significant period of time. I was only studying abroad for a semester, so the time dried up accordingly, and the money to come back isn't there and won't be in the foreseeable future.
Writersator arepo tenet opera rotas
intrigue
Profile Blog Joined November 2005
Washington, D.C9933 Posts
December 17 2010 19:52 GMT
#7
you're fine. relax.
Moderatorhttps://soundcloud.com/castlesmusic/sets/oak
MisterD
Profile Blog Joined June 2010
Germany1338 Posts
December 17 2010 19:53 GMT
#8
so what is it you're about to do? "miss" the flight? or did you mean just posting this story?
Gold isn't everything in life... you need wood, too!
Comeh
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
United States18918 Posts
December 17 2010 19:54 GMT
#9
Call her a bitch and say you were using her for your own satisfaction -> she starts hating you -> doesn't matter if you like her or not.
Problem solved.
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BoldMan
Profile Joined September 2010
United States168 Posts
December 17 2010 19:56 GMT
#10
webchat with her or something

also everybody bitches

also you're my favorite writer on TL, pretty sure you're not an idiot
[b] Bold men make bold statements [/b]
ccdnl
Profile Joined April 2010
United States611 Posts
December 17 2010 19:57 GMT
#11
keep in touch with her and work your way up from there brother.
at least you realize you have been a hypocrite. move on from there, and best of lucks; cheers from me.
civil cervixes || Kang Min Fan || I like TLO, TLO= German, I like Germans..?
Mr. Wiggles
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
Canada5894 Posts
December 17 2010 19:58 GMT
#12
Don't worry, I forgive you.

You can always keep in contact with her and see if you can ever return if you like her that much, or if she will ever come visit you. It's expensive to go to the UK, but isn't it relatively cheaper the other way around?
you gotta dance
fabulously
Profile Joined November 2010
Norway724 Posts
December 17 2010 19:59 GMT
#13
It sucks that you have to leave so soon, but wouldnt it have been even worse if you didnt tell her, and with that would have missed out on those 4 hours of heaven?

Never regret. You went for it, and got to experience something nice you wouldnt have experienced if you didnt tell her. In my opinion at least.
Welcome back ROOT-gaming - you were never forgotten <3
enzym
Profile Joined January 2010
Germany1034 Posts
December 17 2010 20:02 GMT
#14
Hey Arrian. It takes enormous amounts of awareness and self-control to keep these things that are at the core of human nature from dictating your decisions. Evolution 1, individual 0. :/
On December 18 2010 04:49 MeShiet wrote:
Don't be upset by this, you only did what you wanted to do and what you felt was right at the time. Who says you two can't stay in contact and really develop something?

On a not so serious note, your story needs its own movie, I'd watch it.

He did natures bidding, not his own.
On December 18 2010 04:54 Comeh wrote:
Call her a bitch and say you were using her for your own satisfaction -> she starts hating you -> doesn't matter if you like her or not.
Problem solved.
That's more like it and she probably (unknowingly) did the same thing with him, but might hurt her feelings. Hard to decide whether it's better to let other people live the lie or not.

Animals with high levels of abstract thought have it hard, do they not? :/
"I fart a lot, often on my gf in bed, then we roll around laughing for 5 mins choking in gas." — exog // "…be'master, the art of reflection. If you are not a thinking man, to what purpose are you a man at all?" — S. T. Coleridge
MiniRoman
Profile Blog Joined September 2003
Canada3953 Posts
December 17 2010 20:07 GMT
#15
On December 18 2010 04:49 MrShank wrote:
you shoulda banged her


^--- this, this is why you're an idiot. Bang her if she likes you. Be realistic, this isn't the girl you're gonna marry but you like eachother so both enjoy it while it lasts. Girls like no-string sex too.
Nak Allstar.
Comeh
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
United States18918 Posts
December 17 2010 20:21 GMT
#16
On December 18 2010 05:07 MiniRoman wrote:
Show nested quote +
On December 18 2010 04:49 MrShank wrote:
you shoulda banged her


^--- this, this is why you're an idiot. Bang her if she likes you. Be realistic, this isn't the girl you're gonna marry but you like eachother so both enjoy it while it lasts. Girls like no-string sex too.

If she actually has feeling for him though, she'd end up all upset and she...
wait.
Nevermind.
Free sex? Sounds good.
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NYXinc
Profile Joined May 2010
Germany74 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-12-17 20:26:06
December 17 2010 20:24 GMT
#17
I am not sure what the right reply would be since I have no knowledge about your live situation and origin but it always is a good way to go with you guts feeling. If you want you can make it work, if you let it go you will eventually be over her. You could have found The ONE or just someone who enlightend you life on your way through it.
I know very sentimental stuff but my opinion.
Remember living
Lexpar
Profile Blog Joined March 2009
1813 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-12-17 20:25:24
December 17 2010 20:24 GMT
#18
Ask her if she wants to take a ride on your red double decker bang bus.
MoreFaSho
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
United States1427 Posts
December 17 2010 20:25 GMT
#19
I like your thread title, sound like you're trolling yourself, lol.
I always try to shield slam face, just to make sure it doesnt work
CTStalker
Profile Blog Joined November 2004
Canada9720 Posts
December 17 2010 20:26 GMT
#20
tis better to have fondled and lost than never fondled at all and all that. glad to see you back
By the way, my name is Funk. I am not of your world
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