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joban
Profile Joined September 2010
179 Posts
December 12 2010 01:35 GMT
#21
Thanks for sharing. I wish you the best and hope things work out for you.. really
n.DieJokes
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
United States3443 Posts
December 12 2010 01:37 GMT
#22
On December 12 2010 08:50 DivinO wrote:
....wow.

All I can really say is best of luck...


MyLove + Your Love= Supa Love
RogerX
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
New Zealand3180 Posts
December 12 2010 02:00 GMT
#23
On December 12 2010 10:37 n.DieJokes wrote:
Show nested quote +
On December 12 2010 08:50 DivinO wrote:
....wow.

All I can really say is best of luck...



I Third this.

Will pray for ya buddy, Hope the best from now on.

Stick it up. take it up. step aside and see the world
AcrossFiveJulys
Profile Blog Joined September 2005
United States3612 Posts
December 12 2010 02:08 GMT
#24
On December 12 2010 09:17 Siffer wrote:
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On December 12 2010 09:01 AcrossFiveJulys wrote:I can offer some advice here. I had the same thing happen and ended up getting UPS to pay the full cost I insured the computer for ($1200)!! It took many, many phone calls, but in the end they asked me to have it looked at professionally and to get a repair estimate. I did so, and actually ended up convincing the repair shop manager to say it was totally fucked even though it was only a busted graphics card. He was willing to exaggerate because he hated UPS too since they broke a couple monitors he had recently tried to ship.

Anyway, I'm not saying you should try to find someone who will exaggerate the damage, but at least that tells you that if they receive a repair order for X amount of $, they'll send you a check for X amount of $. So don't give up on it.



Yeah, I have been on the phone with UPS more i the past couple months than anyone else.

I sent in the invoice for all the parts used to build my computer back in 2008. They called me last week and said that a check should be mailed within 10 business days. Yesterday I received a phone call stating that since the invoice is more than a year old, they need an updated estimate for repair. I told them that most, if not all, of the parts in the computer are no longer on the market.

They told me to compile a list of comparable parts or get a repair estimate from a professional. I pieced together a computer worth about the same amount of money; however, I am not sure how they will handle it.

I hope I don't have to go to a professional for an estimate. That will probably cost money that I don't have.


they'll reimburse you for the cost of getting the repair estimate when they send the check. hopefully you can get enough cash together to have that done.
Roe
Profile Blog Joined June 2010
Canada6002 Posts
December 12 2010 02:29 GMT
#25
I don't see why you had such a "i dont give a fuck" attitude towards school, seeing as it was one of the few ways you could get out of the mess you're in right now. I guess you never know what you lose in the future, and 'hindsight is perfect'
AppleTart
Profile Blog Joined March 2010
United States1261 Posts
December 12 2010 02:32 GMT
#26
On December 12 2010 11:29 Roe wrote:
I don't see why you had such a "i dont give a fuck" attitude towards school, seeing as it was one of the few ways you could get out of the mess you're in right now. I guess you never know what you lose in the future, and 'hindsight is perfect'


I don't see how you don't see how he could have the don't give a fuck attitude after his parent's divorce and his mom passed away.
always tired -_-
sikyon
Profile Joined June 2010
Canada1045 Posts
December 12 2010 02:56 GMT
#27
Make sure that you help out around the house alot and stuff if you're staying at your sister's place! The best way to not wear out your welcome is to not be a burden.

You can also try to find some freelance coding jobs online. One of the best ways to overcome a lack of a degree in programming is to send in samples of your work - unlike in many other fields, it's actually possible to create something at home that's worthwhile as a programmer. This is probably your way out now - you want to be working other jobs not to get ahead (you won't get ahead like that) but to survive and enable yourself to leverage your skills (I assume you're not a spectacular driver or cook).
Neo7
Profile Blog Joined November 2007
United States922 Posts
December 12 2010 03:17 GMT
#28
You're not really moving all that fast, but you are moving in the right direction and that's all that matters. Eventually things will work themselves out even if they don't seem like they will.
It takes an idiot to do cool things.
Roe
Profile Blog Joined June 2010
Canada6002 Posts
December 12 2010 03:22 GMT
#29
On December 12 2010 11:32 AppleTart wrote:
Show nested quote +
On December 12 2010 11:29 Roe wrote:
I don't see why you had such a "i dont give a fuck" attitude towards school, seeing as it was one of the few ways you could get out of the mess you're in right now. I guess you never know what you lose in the future, and 'hindsight is perfect'


I don't see how you don't see how he could have the don't give a fuck attitude after his parent's divorce and his mom passed away.

because plenty of people have had that happen and had a better work ethic.
also he's a guy on the internet so empathy tends to be reduced
omfghi2u2
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
United States831 Posts
December 12 2010 03:33 GMT
#30
On December 12 2010 12:22 Roe wrote:
Show nested quote +
On December 12 2010 11:32 AppleTart wrote:
On December 12 2010 11:29 Roe wrote:
I don't see why you had such a "i dont give a fuck" attitude towards school, seeing as it was one of the few ways you could get out of the mess you're in right now. I guess you never know what you lose in the future, and 'hindsight is perfect'


I don't see how you don't see how he could have the don't give a fuck attitude after his parent's divorce and his mom passed away.

because plenty of people have had that happen and had a better work ethic.
also he's a guy on the internet so empathy tends to be reduced


Way to be a dick.

Thanks for sharing OP. As someone said, you aren't moving fast but moving in the right directions. Definitely try to get some college courses in, but priority wise, start trying to find a job. The market is hard right now but you know your strengths so capitalize on that.

I wish you the best of luck OP.
Advocado
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
Denmark994 Posts
December 12 2010 03:38 GMT
#31
Maybe you could try finding a job as a cab driver? Considering you driven a lot and the earlier incident with the cops doesn't exclude you. You probably already thought of it though.
http://www.twitch.tv/advocadosc2
Gatsbi
Profile Joined April 2010
United States1134 Posts
December 12 2010 04:09 GMT
#32
wow man i just read this whole thing, and i have to say best of luck to you. With your skills in programming you should really look into doing web design or random programming jobs on craigslist.
"IF WHAT YOU DO NOT KNOW IS MORE THAN WHAT YOU HAVE KNOWN. THEN YOU HAVE NOT KNOWN ANYTHINIG YET." - Rev Kojo Smith
SpoR
Profile Blog Joined November 2010
United States1542 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-12-12 04:44:12
December 12 2010 04:39 GMT
#33
I gotta say, your life sounds as shitty as mine. I am currently 26, no job, no car, no license, about to have no home (gotta be out by the 15th), no place to even put my stuff, and no support from family or anyone, owe about 1500$ for some bullshit registration thing (which is why my license is suspended), I had a job lined up 100% but my mom fucked up a ticket payment (that I told her not to do) and ended up failing me on my background check for this job, Unemployment runs out next week, I have lost about 30 lbs in the past 6 months because I don't eat (155, 6'2").
Oh and my gf left me.

I wish I had some advice for you, but I don't. Life sucks and then you die.
A man is what he thinks about all day long.
AppleTart
Profile Blog Joined March 2010
United States1261 Posts
December 12 2010 04:43 GMT
#34
On December 12 2010 12:22 Roe wrote:
Show nested quote +
On December 12 2010 11:32 AppleTart wrote:
On December 12 2010 11:29 Roe wrote:
I don't see why you had such a "i dont give a fuck" attitude towards school, seeing as it was one of the few ways you could get out of the mess you're in right now. I guess you never know what you lose in the future, and 'hindsight is perfect'


I don't see how you don't see how he could have the don't give a fuck attitude after his parent's divorce and his mom passed away.

because plenty of people have had that happen and had a better work ethic.
also he's a guy on the internet so empathy tends to be reduced


Yeah, why don't you try it out and see what happens to you. It's easy to say these things sitting from our side of the screen, so don't say them because what you said doesn't really help him. All I know is it sounds like hes gone through a lot of tough things and is at a point in life where he is about to give up.
always tired -_-
kwkwookw
Profile Joined August 2010
218 Posts
December 12 2010 07:32 GMT
#35
Your post makes me realize how unfair life is and how fortunate I am to have grown up in more fortunate circumstances. I can't do much to help you right now as I'm just a broke student but if I could give you some advice, don't risk too much until you've established some sort of stability in your life. What I mean is that I know you may have thought the job at NYC was attractive, but did you think about what would have happened if you didn't get the job? What made you trust your "friend" so much that you forsook everything you had to go to NYC? Sure you current (prior) job as a cook paid $15/hr but given that you have so little to hold onto right now, the consequences of your risks (going to NYC) ending up as failure were far too great and in comparison to your current situation, I bet you wish you were working at that restaurant for medium pay now again.

In the future, if you happen to land upon that kind of job again, I suggest you stick to it, no matter if some "friend" says he/she will trying hooking you up, and keep at it until you are able to sustain yourself and build some asset. Then I would suggest you take night classes at some CC while you work during the day in programming since you seem to have the talent for it (don't quit everything for CC). Sorry if I sound critical, but honestly I just wish the very best for you. You're lucky to have such talent for programming (b/c I sure as heck don't) and I think you should try your best to put yourself in a situation where you can capitalize on your strengths. But it will take time to put yourself in such a situation...whether it takes couple to several years working at some low-medium paying job. We all want good things to happen to us fast but you've got to start somewhere and that somewhere will be low. But if you keep working at it patiently, someday, I'm sure you will be given an opportunity. And when that opportunity arises, you must take it because they don't come again. If this opportunity happens to be the situation where you have established enough stability to attend CC while living independently, well now you will know to not **** up your classes by not showing up to class. When that time comes, work hard, you definitely have the talent to do well. Also, cut the alcohol and drugs. Stay away from "friends" who are into that ****. Also, choose your friends well. It's better to have no friends than friends that stab your back.

Good luck to you and if possible, please update us in the future. I will definitely remember you and hope you make the best of your situation. HWAITING~!!!!!!!
kOre
Profile Blog Joined April 2009
Canada3642 Posts
December 12 2010 07:44 GMT
#36
On December 12 2010 10:12 CTStalker wrote:
I'm going to selfishly say that that was a good read, because, well, it was. Your circumstances are definitely unfortunate, but here's my advice: you have a talent for programming, and you're a hard worker. That is the recipe for success as a web entrepreneur. Learn how developers make modern sites, read news sites like http://news.ycombinator.com , and work hard, you'll be successful. Good luck, man.

Also agree with CT, you'll be able to find something in the programming sector hopefully and things will begin to work out. Best of luck man ^^
http://www.starcraftmecca.net - Founder
Emon_
Profile Blog Joined November 2009
3925 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-12-12 11:04:29
December 12 2010 09:09 GMT
#37
The thing that strikes me the most about your story is how normal your reaction is to it. After such an upbringing and the whole situation with your mother I doubt anyone could focus on school. Although taking drugs is condemnable, it's still easy to understand when you consider your past. You seem like a fine enough guy. When you decide to take a good hard look at everything in your life, I'm sure you'll come out better on the other side and start living a more healthy life. How long that takes - I really don't know. This post shows that at least you have perspective in your life. And the overwhelmingly positive comments suggest that your situation is understandable. There are plenty of deadbeats of all ages around, and once you get a good look at your life I'm sure you'll stand tall above them. Don't rush it and try to get a job as fast as you can. Hit the street and start going into shops asking to speak to the manager about a job. Come back and tell us how it went. Being homeless and hunting cats and rats for dinner isn't going to help anything.
"I know that human beings and fish can coexist peacefully" -GWB ||
Wfat
Profile Blog Joined November 2009
Australia108 Posts
December 12 2010 09:42 GMT
#38
Wow man, what a full on life. To me it sounds as though you would like to work in the IT industry and that you would also be very good at it. My only advice is to follow that line of work even if it means getting a temporary job somewhere else. Best of luck mate, hope things turn out better for you.
FractalsOnFire
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
Australia1756 Posts
December 12 2010 14:52 GMT
#39
Man i don't know what to say after reading that, but coming from a family that will support each other through thick and thin i know that you aren't taking advantage of your sister as long as you keep trying to find work and don't completely abuse her hospitality.

And like other people replied, try find work in programming or IT you certainly seem to have a knack for it and should be able to succeed once you have your foot in the door.
Siffer
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
United States467 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-12-12 18:11:30
December 12 2010 18:10 GMT
#40
Thank you all for your kind words of encouragement.

I would just like to state that my overall goal is to get back into school. It has been for the past year and a half or so. I am entirely not too sure what exactly I want to focus on in school, however the computer science field has been ranking pretty high as of late. I am not exactly a programming prodigy as maybe my OP might have painted; however, I do have a good mind for it. Ever since I was in 6th grade I was always fascinated with different types of computer software and wanted to figure out how they worked. Over the years, I would spend countless hours downloading source code and picking it apart and trying to figure out what every line accomplished. Eventually I got to the point where I was making simple software like mp3 players, banking assistance software (such as balancing your accounts), etc.

I definitely don't have the knowledge to go out and create a multi-million dollar idea; however, seeing all the programming related responses has lit a fire under my ass to get back into it. Maybe my re-learning project will just be a SC2 related as a way to say thank you to those who have given me words of encouragement and motivation. :>

As for right now, I am just continuing to find a job anywhere I can. I am in no mood to be picky, and have been looking at jobs in both my currently location and my home state. I am hopeful that eventually something will come up and I will be able to get the ball rolling. Craigslist and indeed have been my best friends for the past few months.
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