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On October 09 2010 18:14 Gummy wrote:Show nested quote +On October 09 2010 17:36 RebirthOfLeGenD wrote: You are crazy, I am good at every single one of those things. I don't believe you, good sir. Please judge my character to prove this, or I will assume you only think you are good at these things. Now you are judging my character about my ability to judge your character.
I will not give in to this.
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Ya there's a lot of things that people are overconfident about. Yesterday I was chatting with a guy about this topic and one of the things that we felt people think they are good at is teaching and/or talking about how education should be. It makes sense: everyone spends a good chunk of their life in the classroom... so obviously they are qualified to talk about it... but unfortunately they usually are just ignorant.
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I think you should have put "fighting", at least for males.
People on TL who practice martials arts, share my pain.
Most people tend to underestimate the efficiency of martials arts. It would be like admitting "that guy is a lot stronger than I". I am short and quite skinny but heavily practiced chinese martials arts for many years. I encountered countless retards who can't admit that a guy who's 5 inches shorter and 40 pounds lighter would be the shit out of them. I assume it's a matter of pride, but fighting is like any sport or art, physical difference can't make up years of training.
It's exactly like a guy who never played Brood War (or maybe played the campaign, since we all have at least a casual experience of fighting) saying to someone who played iccup for years "I have a 180 IQ and very fast hands, I must beat you so easily at Brood war".
The worst part is that when you try to argue, the guy takes a Bruce Lee pose, and starts shrieking, and everyone in the group laugh at you...You can't even start getting angry or anything cuz he would just keep going with the bad jokes like "hey grandmaster, where's your legendary self control?". T_T
Too bad you can't send any moron to hospital just because he believes 5 inches height > years of training. Or at least he pretends to believe it.
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This post is so meta on so many levels.
For one, aside from driving (and possibly sex?) all the other components are subjective to the people who think they are good at them, so being "good" at those particular things isn't really defined. But then you writing about what you think people think they are good at is also sort of like another thing you think you are good at and...
Oh my gosh I'm gonna stop. I agree with you though. I think a "good taste in music" is the worst offense. It's called musical "taste" for a reason, and honestly having a "good taste in music" is one of the most laziest accomplishments you can try to affirm.
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On October 09 2010 18:36 endy wrote: I think you should have put "fighting", at least for males.
People on TL who practice martials arts, share my pain.
Most people tend to underestimate the efficiency of martials arts. It would be like admitting "that guy is a lot stronger than I". I am short and quite skinny but heavily practiced chinese martials arts for many years. I encountered countless retards who can't admit that a guy who's 5 inches shorter and 40 pounds lighter would be the shit out of them. I assume it's a matter of pride, but fighting is like any sport or art, physical difference can't make up years of training.
It's exactly like a guy who never played Brood War (or maybe played the campaign, since we all have at least a casual experience of fighting) saying to someone who played iccup for years "I have a 180 IQ and very fast hands, I must beat you so easily at Brood war".
The worst part is that when you try to argue, the guy takes a Bruce Lee pose, and starts shrieking, and everyone in the group laugh at you...You can't even start getting angry or anything cuz he would just keep going with the bad jokes like "hey grandmaster, where's your legendary self control?". T_T
Too bad you can't send any moron to hospital just because he believes 5 inches height > years of training. Or at least he pretends to believe it. Your bw example is a great way to demonstrate how frustrating this really is. In the case of martial arts... I'd think your experience would allow you to simply keep a quiet/reserved sense of superiority.
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I think #3 is completely opinion based, no matter what people say about music, it's all about what you like and not what others define what's good taste in music / which type of music you should like. I feel like when people say "this guy has good taste in music" it's more "oh hey this guy likes the same shit I like.
I honestly think I'm good at #2 because I've always made people laugh and I laugh about a lot of things. I also explain why I think certain things are funny too. In the end I think you'd have to meet me and tell me what you feel about my sense of humor. (This has similarities to #2 but it's different to me at the same time. I can't really explain it right now.
#1 is... I don't feel like touching that subject since I'm still pretty young and have some naive thoughts at times more than a person who is older and has more life experience than I do with people. I'm can be very anti-social then there are times when I feel completely comfortable with anyone.
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where is poker? EVERYBODY thinks they are good at poker.
LOL the jay kay comment. that's the immediate person that came to my mind after reading the OP and seeing fuzzy hat guy. JK is all five of those observations rolled into one person.
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On October 09 2010 18:57 micronesia wrote:Show nested quote +On October 09 2010 18:36 endy wrote: I think you should have put "fighting", at least for males.
People on TL who practice martials arts, share my pain.
Most people tend to underestimate the efficiency of martials arts. It would be like admitting "that guy is a lot stronger than I". I am short and quite skinny but heavily practiced chinese martials arts for many years. I encountered countless retards who can't admit that a guy who's 5 inches shorter and 40 pounds lighter would be the shit out of them. I assume it's a matter of pride, but fighting is like any sport or art, physical difference can't make up years of training.
It's exactly like a guy who never played Brood War (or maybe played the campaign, since we all have at least a casual experience of fighting) saying to someone who played iccup for years "I have a 180 IQ and very fast hands, I must beat you so easily at Brood war".
The worst part is that when you try to argue, the guy takes a Bruce Lee pose, and starts shrieking, and everyone in the group laugh at you...You can't even start getting angry or anything cuz he would just keep going with the bad jokes like "hey grandmaster, where's your legendary self control?". T_T
Too bad you can't send any moron to hospital just because he believes 5 inches height > years of training. Or at least he pretends to believe it. Your bw example is a great way to demonstrate how frustrating this really is. In the case of martial arts... I'd think your experience would allow you to simply keep a quiet/reserved sense of superiority.
Yeah, it's just that I would like to be able to do a "friendly" 1v1 grudge like in BW :D But after I got frustrated so many time, I try to not even start the debate as I already know how it will end up.
I think my post was relevant because people think they are good at fighting for the same reason they think they are good at sex or at driving.
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Most males think they are good at fighting too. It boggles my mind that someone who doesn't regularly train thinks they could hang with a professional fighter in a 'street fight'. It's like thinking you'd beat an NBA player at 'street basketball' because you're better than your 4 friends and things are different 'on the streets'.
edit heh didn't see endy's post. But yeah.
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On October 09 2010 17:10 Comeh wrote: This thread is heavily missing "Talking about Economics". Trust me. People think they are experts on this. Edit: fail at grammar. Oh Lord, this. I've had people tell me that the Fed needs to allow massive deflation because then everyone's dollars would be worth more because Ron Paul.
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well where i come from teh current meta game on sex is to hit them hard and hit them again.
then do what you want .
however its also why alot of arrest are happening these days here.
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My #1: Games. If they win you're a noob, if they lose you're a hacker.
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people think they are better than they are in almost everything, you just picked 5 topics that everyone does
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For years, the number 1 answer on this family feud category was super smash bros melee
now its super smash bros brawl.
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Yeah, everyone thinks they are good at ssbm and ssbb. Except brawl sucks so I don't care if someone thinks they are good at brawl.
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On October 09 2010 21:30 Sentenal wrote: Yeah, everyone thinks they are good at ssbm and ssbb. Except brawl sucks so I don't care if someone thinks they are good at brawl.
it's easy to shutdown someone who thinks they're good at ssbm though. just ask them if they're able to pillar consistently with falco or shffl consistently with marth.
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On October 09 2010 17:25 Skyze wrote:shoulda used Jay Kay for the weird hat motif.. hes much cooler than whoever that guy is.
I have no idea who Jay Kay is, but his hat is pretty awesome.
On October 09 2010 18:34 micronesia wrote: Ya there's a lot of things that people are overconfident about. Yesterday I was chatting with a guy about this topic and one of the things that we felt people think they are good at is teaching and/or talking about how education should be. It makes sense: everyone spends a good chunk of their life in the classroom... so obviously they are qualified to talk about it... but unfortunately they usually are just ignorant.
I can't agree more with this one. As someone who has spend time in front of the classroom, it is a very easy job to do poorly and very difficult job to do well.
On October 09 2010 21:09 251 wrote: For years, the number 1 answer on this family feud category was super smash bros melee
now its super smash bros brawl. I'm actually going to go ahead and say I am good at smash bros melee. I have heard so many people who claim to be great at it who don't even know how to wavedash. That's why it was always fun for me to challenge all those people who told me they were good at it.
Edit: Quotation mistakes.
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I don't think most people think they're good, but average (even though they suck). I remember in high school every kid that was dumb thought they were average. The Asians were the smart ones and everyone else was "average" even if they were <50th percentile in school rank... Same with attractiveness, everyone who doesn't think he's god's gift to women is of "average" attractiveness. When someone is bad at something, they somehow rationalize it into they're actually ok/decent/normal at it.
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The top 3 picks are quite good.
For 2,3 its not so much the "inaccuracy" of their choice that's bothersome (because it's subjective anyway) but how convinced they are that they're 'right'. I dont necessarily believe that all choice in a subjective field are equal and viable, but it surprises me how hard it is for some people to understand subjectivity, and that their arbitrary preferences(and/or what 'everyone' likes) might not be the universally accepted Truth.
#1 is sometimes a necessary evil. It's generally a quieter bias though, so a little less annoying... unless a boss/cop/job interviewer is fucking you over based on their shitty profiling skills.
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