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So the thread title is witty(by my standards anyway) but in truth this is a serious blog. A dead serious blog. About girls. I just didn't want to...why am I justifying this?
Disclaimer: I'm not actually seeking advice, but it's welcome if you wanna share it. I'm using this as more of a personal blog post, and it's not going to be an epic girl tale. No, I'm not an epic guy, I like epic things, but I myself, am not under that category.
This girl, wow, like I don't even know. I love asians, there was a Japanese foreign exchange student I about freaked out over and went to prom with that turned into a disastrous event because I don't think she really was into that, and I got selfish and desperate with her that I pretty much ruined the friendship we had. I mean, out of everyone she liked me the most of her friends in the US. I was so proud of that, and glad that the girl I was head over heels over really cared about me. But I probably fooled myself into thinking she could fall for me. I mean, I'm not assuming she only wants guys that look like Versailles (R.I.P. Jasmine Yu), but she loved her some Visual Kei and androgynous boys. Wow.
But this isn't about her. This is about a girl that is having an emotional effect 10x this. I mean, damn, maybe it's just because it's almost 2:00AM EST that I'm writing this, and I do go into crazy prison with my brain at this hour, but this girl is ridiculous. I mean, damn. Perhaps not to you, but I'm being so subjective right now I'm about to spell ridiculos wrong.
So, on to the whole deal. I just spent (literally, JUST man, dead serious) like 2 hours talking to her on Facebook chat (don't lol at me, I managed to mass add my buddies in SC2 because of this feature) and like, I swear I just wanted to bust out and say "Hey, despite my really bad jokes on stereotypes and the fact I just told you your only job is to be in the kitchen, you are an amazing girl with the most astonishing blue eyes this side of the atmosphere and I just want to say my heart is willing to be in your lap for the rest of my life."
Man...
Like, I just broke up with my recent girlfriend (actually good advice from TL on that one). Little story there, I got bored of her and just realized I didn't like her enough to be with her. Yeah, making out was good, but it was shallow for me. But we broke up on good terms and she still talks to me the way I think it should be, as friends. So maybe I'm like, thinking this girl is the best oppurtunity ever. Maybe she is.
Some details. Cute as hell (no pics, I respect her privacy and I'm sure I could end up getting screwed one day if I did), beautiful eyes, black hair, a perfect figure for me, and she's so kind that bunnies and Peeps™ just flow out of her pores when she's nearby. And she's extremely mature, but not srs bsns, so she's pretty lax about all my ridiculous jokes. That and she motivates me with her extreme dedication to her major. Freaking pre-med, 19 hours with 4 labs. That's ridiculous to me. And she also does a journalism job on the side for our school. I dunno why she does that to herself, but I respect her for it. And she still keeps her good composure, although she has broken down with me a couple times.
So, on Facebook for the last couple hours, I basically did what I think most girls like, made her laugh for like, 15 straight minutes. Well, she claims I did. Maybe she's so nice she's a freakin' liar witch of hell, but I doubt that. I did weird stuff, like ask her to give me an idea for a program. She just said "ummm" and I made a class in Java that just has the main method print out "ummm," saved a screenshot and sent it to her. I know R1CH is probably laughing on his pedestal of supernatural coding at me, but I don't do random shit like that often. Even if it's so basic. Only the best of girls make me do that. I was about to get out NetBeans and make a shitty GUI to extend it. Why? She was entertained though. I think that's good. I feel like I'm making some headway.
Of course, she has to be the girl next door, impossible to get with kind of girl. Like, if you don't have some steel ones packing in those khakis, good luck. She says no a lot. And I mean a lot. She's hot and is in an engineering/science school full of dudes. Yeah, everyone has asked her. No one succeeds. One dude even ran up the stairs and elegantly landed on his knee like he was about to propose to her and give her his Porsche as a gift or something. She said no.
EDIT: There is a reason for this, she was really hurt by someone in the past. Don't know the details, I don't want to bring up the demons with her unless she's willing to fight them herself.
What chance do I have? Sure my motivation for work and bettering myself is going up lately, but I'm nothing compared to her. I don't have a nice car, house, much availability to go anywhere because I can't even drive (god I need to get my license). And I can't lie or exaggerate to her, it's against my nature (inb4 nature vs nurture). And I'm not doing so hot in school either, which I'm planning to fix this next semester, which means SC2 will have to bitch at me in bed at night to play, damn games are all alike, nagging me.
Even better is she's into gaming. Not hardcore at all, but she plays WoW and even MW2, but given her schedule of insane work, she never gets time to play.
So this girl is pretty, kind, I'm in good standing with her, and she inspires me. She has an interest in something I do and is okay with it. I make her laugh, she asks me for advice in her life, and she seems to enjoy talking to me. Yet, she is also really intimidating to ask out and I will have to work hard to get the confidence to consider myself on her level.
But damn, I will.
Yeah, had to vent this.
/personal blog
Because I feel like I need more, how many times has a girl just had a WTF effect on your natural urge to reproduce? Is it common for guys to go crazy like this, or am I just crazy?
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Wait, some guy was going to just GIVE her his Porsche? Damn.
When you say she says no a lot, have you yourself actually asked her out or were you just referring to the other guys?
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On August 03 2010 15:22 streetclam wrote:
Wait, some guy was going to just GIVE her his Porsche? Damn.
When you say she says no a lot, have you yourself actually asked her out or were you just referring to the other guys?
Referring to the other guys. And the Porsche thing wasn't true, but the guy running up the stairs like Rocky and going onto one knee at the top to ask her out is completely true.
It's just that a ton of guys asked her out at our school. She was relaying stories to my roommate about it daily. I think they gave up though.
I haven't asked her. I want to, so bad, but I feel intimidated to even do it. Many other guys have already shared their discouragement with me on asking her out. She's like an enigma here. But that's granted given the testosterone-heavy populous that resides on campus.
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Damn man, I hope you are successful but I also hope you know what you are getting yourself into. I know my current girlfriend rejected a lot of guys in a row before I started dating her simply because she had come off of two damaging relationships back in high school. It was one hell of a ride trying to get her to actually trust me after what happened with her other boyfriends.
glhf
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here is wat u do, u go up to her and say:
"if u don't want to not not not not not not go out with me don't not say yes. u have 5 seconds."
then watever she says (yes or no) take it as a yes. bullet proof.
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On August 03 2010 15:32 baller wrote:
here is wat u do, u go up to her and say:
"if u don't want to not not not not not not go out with me don't not say yes. u have 5 seconds."
then watever she says (yes or no) take it as a yes. bullet proof.
There needs to be an achievement for having baller post in my blog.
Like, I expect a popup to say "baller blogger 100,000G" and a little noise to just come out of nowhere.
Then I will probably be arrested for drug abuse, but that's fine.
I do like your method though. Sounds workable.
On August 03 2010 15:31 Fontong wrote:
Damn man, I hope you are successful but I also hope you know what you are getting yourself into. I know my current girlfriend rejected a lot of guys in a row before I started dating her simply because she had come off of two damaging relationships back in high school. It was one hell of a ride trying to get her to actually trust me after what happened with her other boyfriends.
glhf
Yeah, that's one of the reasons I'm being cautious too, because I know she's had trouble and if, by some stretch of luck I get a yes, I feel like I'd need to be prepared mentally to be able to handle any sort of aversions she may have when it comes to men and being in a relationship with them.
Although she seems like the type to be very honest about what she feels and very kind about expressing herself. But then again, you never know a person quite as well as you think until you've dated them. Going off one girlfriend, I know my stuff.
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Thanks god you didn't open Netbeans.
About your last line, yes. It is very common. I feel it at least once a week, and I'm married with a hot asian girl.
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what if in the future you look back on yourself and you realized that you let such an amazing person out of your life? what if in the future you're again with someone that you're not fully satisfied with? could you live with yourself knowing that you let the one pass you by? seriously dude what do you have to lose? a friendship that means nothing to you? you don't want a friendship you want a relationship, don't kid yourself otherwise you and i both know that it'd be a waste.
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ah the old post the topic title sarcastically at what you'd think someone else might say to maybe stop them from doing so
there's really only one solid way to find out something like this and believe me TL doesnt know
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On August 03 2010 15:48 Malgrif wrote:
what if in the future you look back on yourself and you realized that you let such an amazing person out of your life? what if in the future you're again with someone that you're not fully satisfied with? could you live with yourself knowing that you let the one pass you by? seriously dude what do you have to lose? a friendship that means nothing to you? you don't want a friendship you want a relationship, don't kid yourself otherwise you and i both know that it'd be a waste.
Well, I do enjoy friendship with girls. I get kind of tired of the male wankfest that is my friend pool (bros ftw) and the change in pace is nice, plus I just tend to get along with girls pretty well. But I know that the friendship with her will get real weird real fast if it's a no. So it's like, gotta do it right. Or rather, get it as right as I can get it.
Although I guess if I was just friends with her it would tear me up inside knowing what could be but isn't.
On August 03 2010 15:50 Divinek wrote:
ah the old post the topic title sarcastically at what you'd think someone else might say to maybe stop them from doing so
there's really only one solid way to find out something like this and believe me TL doesnt know
I know, I know. I'm giving it time. I will ask her, no doubt. I hope. I hope I don't get cold feet.
But I think TL knows one thing, and that's that it doesn't know and that they know I need to find out myself.
Oh and yeah, caught me on the title.
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Awesome people like that make life good and bad simultaneously.
Good luck dude 
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Did you just give a catch-all, general description of the ideal Asian girl?  Extremely smart, beautiful, kind, and.....unattainable :<
I wish you luck, but if you really want to get with her, I have no experience in that regard =3=;
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this matter is like pvz to me. no matter what i do, instant loss and rage about imba
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On August 03 2010 18:44 Tourist wrote:
this matter is like pvz to me. no matter what i do, instant loss and rage about imba
I chuckled ^^
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On August 03 2010 15:57 RageOverdose wrote:Show nested quote +On August 03 2010 15:48 Malgrif wrote:
what if in the future you look back on yourself and you realized that you let such an amazing person out of your life? what if in the future you're again with someone that you're not fully satisfied with? could you live with yourself knowing that you let the one pass you by? seriously dude what do you have to lose? a friendship that means nothing to you? you don't want a friendship you want a relationship, don't kid yourself otherwise you and i both know that it'd be a waste. Well, I do enjoy friendship with girls. I get kind of tired of the male wankfest that is my friend pool (bros ftw) and the change in pace is nice, plus I just tend to get along with girls pretty well. But I know that the friendship with her will get real weird real fast if it's a no. So it's like, gotta do it right. Or rather, get it as right as I can get it. Although I guess if I was just friends with her it would tear me up inside knowing what could be but isn't.
Eventually it's gonne tear you up inside even if you knew that she would say no. Just don't take too much time and get BBFed.
Don't let your friends convince you not to ask her a)they might just say that because of the reputation she has now while you seem to be different to her than the guys she blew off and b) even if they are right: getting rejected is the easiest way to get over someone. If you're just gonna be secretly admiring and falling in love with her while she sees you as her awesome non-sexual bff youre gonna ruin your life.
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Don't get friendzoned! Don't do it! Seriously!
I mean, if she says no then yeah it's ok to be friendzoned. But if she's chill it won't ruin your relationship to ask her out.
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On August 03 2010 15:32 baller wrote:
here is wat u do, u go up to her and say:
"if u don't want to not not not not not not go out with me don't not say yes. u have 5 seconds."
then watever she says (yes or no) take it as a yes. bullet proof.
Baller
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